{"id":89576,"date":"2020-08-14T08:11:09","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T08:11:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=89576"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:39:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:39:00","slug":"he-aprendido-que-ningun-hombre-vale-mi-cordura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/he-aprendido-que-ningun-hombre-vale-mi-cordura\/","title":{"rendered":"Despu\u00e9s de demasiadas malas relaciones, he aprendido que ning\u00fan hombre vale mi cordura"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sol\u00eda pensar que relaciones t\u00f3xicas<\/a> son s\u00f3lo relaciones apasionadas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Back then I didn\u2019t know what a toxic relationship was, but I assumed that obsession, worry, fights, and over-the-top expressions of love are what make a passionate relationship.<\/p>\n

Vaya si me equivoqu\u00e9. No s\u00f3lo me equivoqu\u00e9, sino que me cost\u00f3 mi tiempo, mi salud y todo lo que invert\u00ed en esas relaciones.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In some of them, I even questioned my sanity. After being blamed for things I didn\u2019t do, criticized for my choices, and lied to regularly, it\u2019s safe to say I started feeling like I was going crazy.<\/p>\n

Por suerte, decid\u00ed hacer un punto y aparte.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cuando me di cuenta de lo mal que me estaba tratando, decid\u00ed cambiar las cosas.<\/p>\n

Ning\u00fan hombre vale mi cordura.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Esto me hizo decidirme a escribir mi propia lista de cosas que pondr\u00e9 en pr\u00e1ctica en mi vida a partir de ahora:<\/p>\n

Disfrutar\u00e9 plenamente de la vida.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Life\u2019s too short for unnecessary drama. I want to enjoy the beautiful things in life.<\/p>\n

A bad relationship consumes your life. You don\u2019t see anything else besides your partner and your relationship. The rest of the world ceases to exist and that\u2019s just sad because life is beautiful.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly why I remind myself to focus on all the good things in my life.<\/p>\n

Me mantendr\u00e9 libre de dramas.<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Sometimes I just can\u2019t believe that some random guy clouded my vision so much. The whole drama I was involved in seems so stupid right now.<\/p>\n

I lost so much of my energy trying to fix what couldn\u2019t be fixed, I\u2019ve had enough.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t try to help people who don\u2019t want to be helped.<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

The truth is you can\u2019t change anyone who doesn\u2019t want the same. The only thing that will do is drive usted<\/em> loco.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stress over things you can\u2019t control. That includes other people.<\/p>\n

If someone genuinely wants to be with you, they won\u2019t play games. They\u2019ll be straight to the point.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t tolerate someone else\u2019s immaturity.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1s familiarizada con esa situaci\u00f3n en la que \u00e9l hace cosas a prop\u00f3sito para hacerte perder la calma o simplemente te falta al respeto descaradamente?<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t even recall how many times I was left hanging while he went around having fun and acting like nothing happened.<\/p>\n

Lo que me lleva a mi siguiente decisi\u00f3n:<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t let anyone make me feel crazy again.<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re still not aware of this, hear me out. It\u2019s not normal to constantly fight with someone. It\u2019s not passion \u2013 it\u2019s just stupid and hurtful. That\u2019s not a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not normal to tolerate things you wouldn\u2019t tolerate from your friends.<\/p>\n

Oh, and friends! They\u2019ve heard so much of my BS instead of just enjoying my company and having a good time, that\u2019s why I\u2019ve decided:<\/p>\n

Atesorar\u00e9 a mis amigos y disfrutar\u00e9 plenamente de nuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/h2>\n

\"cuatro<\/p>\n

Men come and go, but true friends are for life. Until you\u2019re sure that you\u2019ve met the one, make sure to care for your friends who\u2019ve been there for you through the tough times.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lose my energy on unimportant things.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Preocuparme y estresarme por la relaci\u00f3n me ha costado mucho. Caus\u00f3 estragos en mi salud mental<\/a> y tuve que recorrer un largo camino para curarme.<\/p>\n

I lost so much energy on unnecessary drama and feelings of anger and hurt when I could\u2019ve just removed myself from the whole situation.<\/p>\n

Las malas relaciones son las que me causaron tanto dolor, pero al final me hicieron apreciar m\u00e1s las cosas buenas de la vida.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s important is to always keep moving forward and not lose hope that better things are coming.<\/p>\n

Aprendemos cometiendo errores. Y aprendiendo, crecemos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Despu\u00e9s<\/p>\n

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