{"id":90005,"date":"2020-08-14T08:13:48","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T08:13:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=90005"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:38:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:38:30","slug":"me-convertiste-en-una-mujer-mejor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/me-convertiste-en-una-mujer-mejor\/","title":{"rendered":"Es Un Poco Gracioso Pero Me Hiciste Una Mujer Mejor Para Alguien M\u00e1s"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos cometemos errores. Pero t\u00fa fuiste un error como ning\u00fan otro. Quer\u00eda encontrar el bot\u00f3n de borrar y borrarte de mi vida como si nunca hubieras existido.<\/p>\n

I became frustrated because I wasn’t able to forget and delete all the things that reminded me of you. Memories of you made my life toxic.<\/p>\n

The problem was, I tried so hard to forget all about you and our relationship that I couldn\u2019t. I became obsessed with it until I finally realized that Tuve que verlo todo desde un \u00e1ngulo diferente.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Decid\u00ed que ten\u00eda que aceptar mi pasado como parte de mi vida, como una gran lecci\u00f3n dolorosa que ten\u00eda que aprender.<\/p>\n

Me di cuenta de que lo mejor que pod\u00eda hacer en esa situaci\u00f3n era aprender de mis propios errores.<\/strong><\/em> That’s the only way I could help myself to finally move on and continue with my life.<\/p>\n

I also realized that it wasn’t only your fault that we fought so much and eventually broke up. I made some mistakes, too, even though I wasn’t aware of them at the time.<\/p>\n

The biggest mistake was letting you treat me the way you did. You always acted like you were above me. You thought you were so much better than me and that\u2019s why you never knew how to appreciate me.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Always treating me like an option and showing yourself off in front of your buddies wasn’t the right way to prove your love. It just let me know that I wasn\u2019t worth your time.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00edas el hombre m\u00e1s asombroso un d\u00eda y lo m\u00e1s bajo de lo bajo al siguiente.<\/p>\n

You would try to make things better by saying you loved me but my emotional scars couldn\u2019t be erased with words. <\/strong>Love isn\u2019t in words it\u2019s in actions.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Love can\u2019t be found in unanswered texts, skipped dates, and a lack of effort. Love isn\u2019t in being selfish and cold.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, nunca hablamos<\/a> about the things that bothered us, and that\u2019s where we also went wrong. Poor communication never leads to a rich relationship.<\/p>\n

We kept everything to ourselves. We didn’t even try to deal with things in a healthy way \u2013 by talking about them.<\/p>\n

You said several times how I should give you some space but I never did. It\u2019s not that I didn\u2019t want to, it’s because I was so afraid that you might leave me.<\/p>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

I also needed some personal space but I was unaware of it at the time. I realize now that we all need it from time to time. A healthy amount of space never harms a relationship \u2013 it can only better it.<\/p>\n

There are so many other things that we should\u2019ve done differently. But I don\u2019t regret anything. I was who I was because I was so blindly in love with you.<\/p>\n

Honestly, I\u2019d never cared for anything or anyone else like I did for you and my actions weren\u2019t always under my control.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I see now that wasn\u2019t a good thing. Losing control, losing my ground, losing myself wasn\u2019t something positive.<\/p>\n

Significaba ponerte a ti primero mientras yo me pon\u00eda en \u00faltimo lugar. Significaba tolerar tu comportamiento por el zumbido que tendr\u00eda cuando estuvi\u00e9ramos juntos.<\/em><\/p>\n

Significaba perdonar lo imperdonable en nombre del amor. Amor que en su mayor parte ven\u00eda de mi parte.<\/em><\/p>\n

Las cosas nunca debieron ser as\u00ed. Pero yo estaba demasiado cerca y demasiado involucrado para ver nuestro desastre con claridad.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Por suerte se me aclar\u00f3 la vista de tantas l\u00e1grimas que me provocaste.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Me dejaste valiosas lecciones de lo que nunca debe ser el amor. Me obligaste a descubrir qui\u00e9n soy porque estaba perdida en ti. Me perd\u00ed en la historia de lo que pudimos ser pero nunca fuimos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Al dejarte marchar sent\u00ed como si me hubiera quitado un gran peso de encima. Me sent\u00ed m\u00e1s tranquilo que nunca.<\/strong> <\/em>Me promet\u00ed a m\u00ed misma que nunca permitir\u00eda que nadie volviera a tratarme as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

I set down some new rules for myself. I made a promise that I\u2019ll be kinder and better to myself. That I will be selective about who I date and that I will never be the last one on my own priority list.<\/p>\n

Crec\u00ed, evolucion\u00e9 y me hice mejor persona, gracias a ti, a tu falta de esfuerzo y a tu mal trato. Qui\u00e9n me iba a decir que el dolor que me causaste ser\u00eda el mejor detonante de un nuevo y mejorado yo.<\/p>\n

Gracias a ti, mi nueva relaci\u00f3n es mucho m\u00e1s de lo que jam\u00e1s hubiera so\u00f1ado tener contigo. Entr\u00e9 en ella con el coraz\u00f3n limpio, la mente abierta y un sentimiento de autoestima. Eso marc\u00f3 la diferencia.<\/p>\n

Lo curioso de todo esto es que, al mismo tiempo que... tu fuiste mi error<\/a> tambi\u00e9n fuiste mi mejor maestro.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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