{"id":90018,"date":"2020-08-14T07:21:01","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T07:21:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=90018"},"modified":"2022-04-24T23:30:57","modified_gmt":"2022-04-24T23:30:57","slug":"vive-para-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/vive-para-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"10 brillantes consejos para vivir por ti mismo y dejar de complacer a los dem\u00e1s"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vivir para uno mismo es poner <\/span>bienestar<\/span> y <\/span>amor propio<\/span> primero mientras lideraba el <\/span>tipo de vida<\/span> you’re thoroughly proud of.<\/span><\/p>\n

Can you say with absolute certainty that you’re <\/span>vivir para uno mismo<\/span>? \u00bfO una parte de ti siempre se pregunta qu\u00e9 pensar\u00e1n los dem\u00e1s?<\/span><\/p>\n

Si la respuesta es esta \u00faltima, \u00bfqu\u00e9 tal si empiezas a hacer algunos cambios? Que hoy sea el d\u00eda en que <\/span>empezar a vivir<\/span> tu vida libre de <\/span>opiniones de los dem\u00e1s<\/span>!<\/span><\/p>\n

Lavar el <\/span>pensamientos negativos<\/span> que abruman tu mente y empieza a practicar <\/span>autocuidado<\/span>. Don’t be afraid to be your <\/span>verdadero yo<\/span>. That’s the only way to <\/span>vivir la vida<\/span> aut\u00e9nticamente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aqu\u00ed tienes 10 h\u00e1bitos saludables para poner en pr\u00e1ctica en tu <\/span>vida cotidiana<\/span>. With each day, you’ll start noticing significant changes toward <\/span>desarrollo personal<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se necesita tan poco para ser verdaderamente feliz. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 no empezar hoy mismo?<\/b><\/p>\n

Deja de pensar demasiado<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Overthinking is a deadly sin (not really, but you know what I mean). Give it a rest. It’s a surefire way to make any issue ten times bigger than it really is.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hace que una situaci\u00f3n algo compleja parezca un obst\u00e1culo insalvable. Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 te haces eso a ti mismo?<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t let overthinking hold you back from achieving whatever your heart is set on. Spend <\/span>menos tiempo<\/span> en tu cabeza, \u00a1y m\u00e1s tiempo tomando decisiones conscientes para ser feliz!<\/span><\/p>\n

Toma el control de tu <\/span>propia vida<\/span> y siempre que te frustres demasiado con algo, pasa a <\/span>otra cosa<\/span>. Si le das vueltas a las cosas, te haces da\u00f1o a ti mismo. <\/span>autoestima<\/span> y arruinarte mentalmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Things won’t change no matter how long you overthink them. <\/b>Whether it’s an <\/span>importante proyecto<\/span> o su favorito <\/span>Programa de televisi\u00f3n<\/span>aprende a tom\u00e1rtelo todo con humor.<\/span><\/p>\n

That way, it’s highly unlikely you’ll get disappointed, and when you don’t, the feeling will be much more satisfying.<\/span><\/p>\n

Asume la responsabilidad de tu felicidad, ya que <\/span>nadie m\u00e1s<\/span> will. Life is way too short to spend it twisting things in your mind. It’ll all be okay eventually.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it isn’t, it just means it’s not the end.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>\u00bfTe sientes poco querido? Estas son las posibles razones y c\u00f3mo cambiarlas<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Al\u00e9jate de las personas que te hunden<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No importa lo que hagas, siempre habr\u00e1 <\/span>seres humanos<\/span> who think they’re better than you. Individuos t\u00f3xicos<\/a> are everywhere, so it’s hard to bypass them.<\/span><\/p>\n

But after having been surrounded by some really bad people, I’ve managed to find a way to step away without causing myself any pain.<\/span><\/p>\n

With time, you’ll probably realize this yourself, but no matter how hard you try, some people just can’t be changed. <\/span><\/p>\n

Puedes ser la persona m\u00e1s amable y hacer cien <\/span>buenas acciones<\/span> for them, they’ll still use you and make a fool out of you if it serves their purpose.<\/span><\/p>\n

So my advice is to try to move away from it in your mind. Understand that it has nothing to do with you. It’s an internal issue that they keep projecting onto you.<\/span><\/p>\n

But you don’t have to keep taking it. <\/span>Vive para ti y para tu propia felicidad. Eso significa distanciarse respetuosamente de quienes te hunden a prop\u00f3sito.<\/b><\/p>\n

No apologizing and no feeling bad. You create your own happiness. And if you’re not happy around certain people, why should you stay?<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuidado con <\/span>negocio propio<\/span>, don’t do <\/span>cosas malas<\/span> a los dem\u00e1s, e ir donde tu coraz\u00f3n te lleve. Tu vida, tu viaje.<\/span><\/p>\n

Empezar a vivir el presente<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Tu pasado te ha ense\u00f1ado un mont\u00f3n de <\/span>lecciones de vida<\/span> y Dios sabe lo que depara el futuro. Todo lo que tienes es ahora mismo. Aprov\u00e9chalo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando sigues d\u00e1ndole vueltas a tu pasado, significa revivir errores pasados. \u00bfY de qu\u00e9 sirve eso? Lo mismo ocurre con el futuro. Te pone ansioso y preocupado y te impide estar en el momento.<\/span><\/p>\n

Take a deep breath and focus on what’s around you right now. Stop and smell the roses. Read a good book. Call an viejo amigo.<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n

But don’t dwell on things that are in the past and don’t overthink your future. Instead, work on creating a suitable present that will be a solid foundation for a happy life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Do you know what happens when you’re too focused on everything except the present moment? <\/span>Yo lo hago<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Te pierdes cosas, personas y sentimientos incre\u00edbles. Tu peque\u00f1a parte del mundo importa. Cu\u00eddala y s\u00e9 amable contigo mismo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hay muchas cosas buenas en el horizonte. Pero para poder experimentarlas de verdad, primero tienes que aprender a vivir en el ahora.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll feel significantly lighter, calmer, and more grounded. When you appreciate every single moment for its unique brevity, you allow yourself to truly be present.<\/span><\/p>\n

Celebrar las peque\u00f1as victorias<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

We all often set the bar for our own happiness way too high. And in turn, we’re not nearly as proud of ourselves as we should be.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t need to achieve huge success to be happy and proud of yourself. You don’t have to discover something <\/span>nadie m\u00e1s<\/span> ha descubierto hasta ahora para ser bueno en lo que hace.<\/span><\/p>\n

Small everyday victories are what it’s all about.<\/b> A veces la vida es tan agotadora que el mero hecho de levantarse de la cama es motivo de celebraci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cleaning your house after having postponed it a million times is something to be happy about. Walking your dog when you’re feeling really down takes a lot of strength.<\/span><\/p>\n

Recognize those tiny victories and applaud yourself. You’re doing great. Heck, you’re doing better than great!<\/span><\/p>\n

You’re a freaking badass and every single thing that you do, despite every obstacle that comes your way, is further proof of that. <\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que s\u00ed. <\/span>Celebrate the little things and it’ll propel you to keep dreaming big.<\/b> Cultiva una relaci\u00f3n de amabilidad y comprensi\u00f3n hacia ti mismo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t forget to implement <\/span>amor propio<\/span> into everything you do. We are all just doing our best and trying hard to go where we’ve always dreamed of.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y el viaje es tan importante como el destino final.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin comparaciones<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Compararse con los dem\u00e1s s\u00f3lo provocar\u00e1 sentimientos de indignidad. \u00bfAdivina qu\u00e9? Nadie lo tiene todo planeado.<\/span><\/p>\n

No matter how hard people try to convince you they’re all that or how eventful their <\/span>redes sociales<\/span> perfiles son, nadie lo tiene todo. As\u00ed que d\u00e9jate de comparaciones y vive por ti mismo.<\/span><\/p>\n

The only person you’re allowed to compare yourself to is the old version of you.<\/b> This means evaluating your self-growth and how far you’ve come.<\/span><\/p>\n

Haz un seguimiento de tus progresos y sigue esforz\u00e1ndote. Pero en cuanto empieces a pensar que la hierba es m\u00e1s verde, c\u00f3rtala de ra\u00edz.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tu vecino tiene sus propios problemas y tu mejor amiga es m\u00e1s insegura de lo que parece. Tu hermano est\u00e1 luchando con su imagen corporal y tu compa\u00f1ero de trabajo tiene problemas matrimoniales.<\/span><\/p>\n

But you’ll never see it. Why? <\/span>Because people don’t broadcast their issues. We only show what we want people to see.<\/b><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que tenlo en cuenta siempre que te invada la inseguridad y conf\u00eda en tu capacidad para hacerlo bien. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll get there, one way or another. The longer it takes, the more you’ll appreciate it when it happens.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: A<\/span>acepte a las personas por lo que son en lugar de intentar cambiarlas<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Deja de apresurarte<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It’s okay that you’re driven and ambitious. It’s actually pretty awesome. But don’t go against yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

The moment you sense your body is giving out, give yourself some much-needed rest. Rushing anywhere won’t give you what you want.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whether it’s toward your goals and dreams, or literally rushing through life, stop it. You’ll drain yourself and it’ll become so difficult to see things clearly.<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, slow down on all fronts. Don’t rush through the streets, but walk slowly. Don’t rush to get an <\/span>importante proyecto<\/span> terminado, m\u00e1s bien date tiempo para ser minucioso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t think that by getting there faster it’ll be better. Quite the contrary. <\/span>Haz las cosas sin prisa pero sin pausa, y el resultado final ser\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s de tu agrado.<\/b><\/p>\n

Siempre ten\u00eda mucha prisa. Caminaba r\u00e1pido, hablaba r\u00e1pido y ten\u00eda que llegar a todas partes antes que nadie.<\/span><\/p>\n

But ever since I learned to enjoy the process every bit as much as the end result, I’ve been much more at peace with myself.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s like being overcome with serenity. What’s meant for you will always find its way back to you. If it doesn’t, good riddance.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estar en contacto con sus emociones<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Vivir para ti mismo es ser aut\u00e9ntico y siempre leal a tu <\/span>verdadero yo<\/span>. No matter how hard it is sometimes, it’s better to be genuine than to fake it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t push away negative emotions about something. It’s okay to feel that way. Embrace it and accept it. <\/span><\/p>\n

We’re only human, and negativity is a part of life.<\/b> Mi consejo es que intentes ponerlo por escrito. Puede que te ayude a lidiar con tus pensamientos m\u00e1s f\u00e1cilmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Escribe c\u00f3mo te sientes e intenta llegar al fondo de la cuesti\u00f3n. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 hay algo que te molesta tanto? \u00bfTu mente est\u00e1 intentando decirte algo? \u00bfEst\u00e1s a punto de hacer un gran avance?<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo t\u00fa lo sabes. Analiza c\u00f3mo te sientes y, si lo necesitas, habla con alguien de confianza. No te averg\u00fcences de expresar tus emociones a alguien en quien conf\u00edes.<\/span><\/p>\n

We all have hidden thoughts. It’s all about having the right people around who’ll understand them.<\/b> Those who make you feel bad for how you feel aren’t good people to have around.<\/span><\/p>\n

Rod\u00e9ate de amabilidad, amplitud de miras y honestidad brutal. Sin edulcorantes ni palabras dulces. <\/span><\/p>\n

Personally, I love having people around who’ll tell me how it really is. No matter how messed up I think my feelings might be, they’ll always stay around.<\/span><\/p>\n

Me mantienen con los pies en la tierra. Y estas personas son las \u00fanicas que tienen tu mejor inter\u00e9s en el coraz\u00f3n. Los que pueden dec\u00edrtelo a la cara en vez de a tus espaldas.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>Todo lo que debe saber sobre una relaci\u00f3n transaccional<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Stop dedicating your time to things that don’t make you happy<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Este es el paso crucial para aprender a <\/span>vivir la vida<\/span> seg\u00fan tus propios sue\u00f1os, deseos y pasiones.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deja de hacer lo que otros creen que deber\u00eda hacerte feliz, y haz lo que <\/span>en realidad<\/span><\/i> makes you happy. Rid yourself of your everyday habits if they don’t bring you joy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Just because you’re so accustomed to doing something, doesn’t mean you should keep doing it.<\/b> Vive la <\/span>tipo de vida<\/span> you’ll be proud to tell your grandkids about one day.<\/span><\/p>\n

Persigue lo que te haga saltar el coraz\u00f3n. Baila, aprende a esquiar, adopta un perro o canta con todas tus fuerzas.<\/span><\/p>\n

What’s the point of life if you’re so dedicated to doing things you can live without? Instead, find your passion and make it real!<\/span><\/p>\n

Trust me. It took me so long to figure this out. But ultimately, it’s priceless. Who cares what others think? It’s not their life, but yours.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deja de prestar atenci\u00f3n a quienes ahogan tu crecimiento y empieza a crear tu propio camino hacia una vida feliz.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s really simple. Ask yourself what the most important things in your life are. After pinpointing that, focus your attention on doing things that are linked to those things.<\/span><\/p>\n

Let go of boring habits, people you don’t really like, and hobbies you stopped enjoying a long time ago. <\/span>Por una vez, s\u00e9 feliz.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 feliz en tu propia piel<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esta es la clave para una vida feliz, sana y plena. Aprender que tu felicidad est\u00e1 en tus propias manos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Otro <\/span>ser humano<\/span> can add to it, but if you’re not content on your own, something’s not right. I used to be plagued with insecurities and obsessed over my shortcomings.<\/span><\/p>\n

Odiaba mi pelo, mi piel, mi voz alta y mi personalidad extrovertida. Odiaba estar soltera y s\u00f3lo me sent\u00eda realizada con un hombre. Pero cuando segu\u00ed sintiendo un vac\u00edo sin importar mi estado sentimental, me di cuenta de algo.<\/span><\/p>\n

How can I ever be happy with a man if I can’t stand being on my own? Am I that bad of a company?<\/b><\/p>\n

Of course, I wasn’t. I simply never allowed myself an opportunity to see how amazing I truly am. I was so adamant to be around a guy that I failed my own self.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ten\u00eda que aprender a vivir para m\u00ed misma. No para mi novio, ni para mis padres. Soy como soy. Ruidosa, charlatana, extrovertida y muy obstinada.<\/span><\/p>\n

I don’t sugar-coat things and I’ll always initiate a conversation even when I shouldn’t. I’ll sing my heart out in full restaurants when my song comes along and I won’t apologize for it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Why should I? I love myself and I’ll never deny myself an opportunity to feel happy.<\/span> La gente se centra demasiado en censurar sus peque\u00f1as man\u00edas y opiniones impopulares, pero \u00bfpor qu\u00e9?<\/b><\/p>\n

Celebrate them! It’s what makes you unique. There is <\/span>nadie m\u00e1s<\/span> que puedan hacer lo que t\u00fa haces. <\/span><\/p>\n

So what if your friend doesn’t agree with your opinion? So what if people think it’s weird you can just burst into song randomly?<\/span><\/p>\n

Para m\u00ed, \u00a1esas son las mejores personas! Leales sin remordimientos a sus <\/span>verdadero yo<\/span>. Once you understand the importance of authenticity, I promise, you’ll never go back.<\/span><\/p>\n

Perd\u00f3nate a ti mismo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Por todas las veces que te aferraste a las personas equivocadas. Por cada vez que fuiste contra ti mismo para complacer a otra persona.<\/span><\/p>\n

Perd\u00f3nese por no tener siempre su <\/span>bienestar<\/span> en mente, y por arremeter contra tus amigos en un momento oscuro. <\/span>Your mistakes don’t define you. It’s how you deal with them that matters most.<\/b><\/p>\n

And it’s extremely important to learn the art of forgiveness. Sometimes, we find it easier to forgive others, than to forgive ourselves.<\/span><\/p>\n

By dwelling on past mistakes you’re focused on the problem, instead of the solution. You’ve learned your lesson and you’re allowed to move on.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vivir para uno mismo<\/span> is important so that you don’t realize one day that you’ve lived a life full of regrets. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que puedes hacer es aprender del pasado y esforzarte por hacerlo mejor en el futuro. Y mientras tanto, s\u00e9 amable, gentil y t\u00f3matelo con calma.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’re probably doing much better than you think you are. And every mistake has helped shape who you are today; smarter, wiser, and more cautious than ever before.<\/span><\/p>\n

El poder del pensamiento positivo hace maravillas por tu mente, cuerpo y alma. As\u00ed que te animo a que digas una cosa positiva sobre ti mismo cada d\u00eda.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esto le mantendr\u00e1 motivado, orientado hacia sus objetivos y concienciado.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, this life is all you’ve got. You might as well make the most of it!<\/b><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>Potentes formas de aumentar <\/span>Amor propio<\/span> Y deje de sentirse indeseado<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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To live for yourself is to put your well-being and self-love first while leading the kind of life you’re thoroughly proud of. Can you say with absolute certainty that you’re living for yourself? Or does a part of you always wonder what someone else might think? If the answer is the latter, how about you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":90020,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-90018","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/10-Brilliant-Tips-To-Live-For-Yourself-Stop-Pleasing-Others.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/90018","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=90018"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/90018\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/90020"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=90018"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=90018"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=90018"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}