{"id":9037,"date":"2020-07-24T14:16:09","date_gmt":"2020-07-24T14:16:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9037"},"modified":"2022-01-20T15:57:26","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T15:57:26","slug":"7-senales-buen-chico-en-realidad-manipulador-gilipollas-disfrazado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-senales-buen-chico-en-realidad-manipulador-gilipollas-disfrazado\/","title":{"rendered":"7 se\u00f1ales de que tu chico majo es en realidad un gilipollas manipulador disfrazado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Seamos realistas, chicas: es muy dif\u00edcil detectar a una persona manipuladora cuando a\u00fan se est\u00e1 al principio de la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

You probably think that everything is fine because you finally found the right one but you shouldn\u2019t be so relaxed about it.<\/p>\n

A veces esos tipos parecen simp\u00e1ticos pero en realidad lo son gilipollas manipuladores.<\/a><\/p>\n

Simplemente son muy buenos enga\u00f1ando a las chicas con las que salen y lo hacen solo para alcanzar sus enfermizos objetivos. Y no, amarte no es uno de ellos.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, si quieres ahorrarte l\u00e1grimas, aqu\u00ed tienes algunas se\u00f1ales a las que deber\u00edas prestar atenci\u00f3n, de que tu chico no es tan bueno como aparenta.<\/p>\n

1. Siempre es culpa tuya<\/h2>\n

\"Personas<\/p>\n

Este es un patr\u00f3n que todos los hombres manipuladores utilizan. Te culpar\u00e1 de todos los problemas de la relaci\u00f3n aunque t\u00fa no seas culpable en absoluto.<\/p>\n

If you tell him that you don\u2019t like some things that he did recently he will just call you crazy for mentioning it.<\/p>\n

La pega es que sabe hablar muy bien y su historia siempre tiene pruebas de que algo fue tal y como dijo.<\/p>\n

Al final, te sentir\u00e1s avergonzado por haberlo mencionado y \u00e9l estar\u00e1 sonriendo por dentro porque has vuelto a comprar su mierda.<\/p>\n

2. \u00c9l es quien hace los planes<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

Have you ever been in a situation where you made some plans with your friends and when you mentioned that to your boyfriend he started acting like a victim because you didn\u2019t invite him?<\/p>\n

Remember, a man like this will make you believe that you don\u2019t need friends and family.<\/p>\n

Te har\u00e1 creer que \u00e9l es la \u00fanica persona que necesitas para ser feliz. Es solo una estrategia manipuladora m\u00e1s para aislarte y poder controlarte mejor.<\/p>\n

3. Negar\u00e1 haber dicho algo en el pasado<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 crees que hace esto? Bueno, una respuesta ser\u00eda que quiere que creas que todo est\u00e1 en tu cabeza. Quiere que pienses que t\u00fa eres el loco<\/a> y que se te ocurren cosas que no son ciertas.<\/p>\n

When all the attention is on him, he won\u2019t feel so good because he knows that he is wrong.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he will defend himself by any means necessary and he will put the blame on you.<\/p>\n

Esto no es m\u00e1s que una t\u00e1ctica m\u00e1s para conseguir lo que quiere y en este caso, no es lo que t\u00fa quieres en absoluto.<\/p>\n

4. Act\u00faa como una v\u00edctima<\/h2>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

Cada vez que tienes problemas con \u00e9l y quieres resolverlos, es \u00e9l quien te dice que no es culpable y que todas esas cosas s\u00f3lo est\u00e1n en tu cabeza. Es un hombre que quiere que le creas m\u00e1s de lo que ven tus ojos.<\/p>\n

With the right woman, he can actually convince her that things she does for him will work for her as well, even if it doesn\u2019t make any sense.<\/p>\n

Y en cada situaci\u00f3n, act\u00faa como una v\u00edctima para que sientas pena por \u00e9l y sigas en esa relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica.<\/p>\n

5. He keeps telling you that you don\u2019t love him<\/h2>\n

\"Dos<\/p>\n

Lo malo de este tipo de relaci\u00f3n es que siempre ser\u00e1s t\u00fa quien satisfaga sus necesidades y \u00e9l un llor\u00f3n que siempre querr\u00e1 m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Manipulators do this just to get their victims close to them and to make them believe that they are the guilty ones when a relationship doesn\u2019t function.<\/p>\n

You will catch your man telling you that you don\u2019t love him and that he craves your love. He will make you believe that he needs you like the air in his lungs.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t buy his shit and stay far away from him. That is the best gift that you can give to yourself.<\/p>\n

6. Te quiere s\u00f3lo para \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"Chica<\/p>\n

Un chico manipulador probablemente querr\u00e1 que pases todo tu tiempo con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t understand that sometimes you will have to work overtime from home and he won\u2019t understand that you need your private time.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo piensa en sus necesidades y, de hecho, no le interesan tanto las tuyas.<\/p>\n

Con un hombre as\u00ed, nunca ser\u00e1s feliz porque \u00e9l nunca cambiar\u00e1. Piensa que tiene raz\u00f3n y que los dem\u00e1s tienen que cambiar, incluida t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

7. He doesn\u2019t want you to feel comfortable in the relationship<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Te dice que te quiere<\/a> y que quiere que te sientas segura pero hace todo lo contrario.<\/p>\n

Te hace dudar de lo que siente por ti y una relaci\u00f3n con \u00e9l es todo menos tranquila y buena.<\/p>\n

En cuanto vea que te gusta, se apartar\u00e1 lentamente, como si necesitara tiempo para pensar cu\u00e1l ser\u00e1 su pr\u00f3ximo paso.<\/p>\n

Y por cosas as\u00ed, nunca te sentir\u00e1s tan a gusto en tu relaci\u00f3n y siempre pensar\u00e1s que todo es culpa tuya.<\/p>\n

Por favor, don\u2019t ruin your life<\/a> and just leave him. You deserve more than a man who can\u2019t decide what he wants in his life.<\/p>\n

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