{"id":90547,"date":"2020-09-14T06:29:03","date_gmt":"2020-09-14T06:29:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=90547"},"modified":"2022-07-15T09:49:17","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T09:49:17","slug":"los-hombres-que-nos-hirieron-tambien-nos-hicieron-mas-sabios","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/los-hombres-que-nos-hirieron-tambien-nos-hicieron-mas-sabios\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo todos los hombres que nos hicieron da\u00f1o tambi\u00e9n nos hicieron m\u00e1s sabias"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know that this may sound a bit ridiculous but I would like to thank all the men that have hurt me. No really, I’m not joking. All girls should do the same.<\/span><\/p>\n

All those men didn’t only betray and disappoint us, they did much more. They taught us so many helpful lessons for our future.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo que m\u00e1s debemos agradecerles es que nos hayan hecho m\u00e1s fuertes.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Nos rompieron el coraz\u00f3n y, sin embargo, seguimos aqu\u00ed. <\/span>We still believe in love and we still hope that one day it’ll find us, too.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Nuestros ex pueden ense\u00f1arnos muchas lecciones valiosas y nuestras relaciones pasadas realmente nos hacen m\u00e1s fuertes y sabios, y he aqu\u00ed c\u00f3mo.<\/span><\/p>\n

No importa cu\u00e1nto lo ames, siempre debes amarte m\u00e1s a ti misma.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

T\u00fa. T\u00fa debes ser siempre la prioridad n\u00famero uno en tu vida. Antes de enamorarte de otra persona, tienes que aprender a enamorarte de <\/span>amor contigo mismo.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Never allow anyone to become more important than you. Some people won’t appreciate you as you think they do. They’ll try to use you and your love.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s better to be alone than with someone who doesn’t respect you<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You knew that he didn’t treat you the way he should have, but you chose to stay anyway and believed that he’d change.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ni siquiera intent\u00f3 cambiar. Te hizo sufrir m\u00e1s y m\u00e1s cada d\u00eda.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eso te hizo decidir: <\/span>entre una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica unilateral y la felicidad pura de la libertad, elegiste volver a ser feliz y no mirar atr\u00e1s.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Don’t ever lose your identity in a relationship<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It’s okay to change some things about yourself, things that your partner isn’t okay with. However, you should never change yourself completely for someone else, no matter how strong your feelings for that person are.<\/span><\/p>\n

You should always be yourself and the right person will accept and love all of you. We all have some flaws and if someone doesn’t accept you the way you are, it’s their loss, not yours.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 consciente de tu autoestima y nunca te conformes con menos de lo que mereces<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esto se llama <\/i><\/b>autoestima.<\/i><\/b><\/a> Si desatiendes constantemente tus propias necesidades en una relaci\u00f3n, te est\u00e1s traicionando a ti mismo.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you have a good relationship with yourself, then no man can ever hurt you. You won’t allow him to do so because you know that you don’t deserve it.  <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo puedes confiar en ti mismo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It’s a common misconception that women aren’t strong and independent and they should depend on their partners.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo triste es que la mayor\u00eda de las mujeres se lo creen y conf\u00edan plenamente en sus parejas.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Nuestros ex nos ense\u00f1aron que esto es completamente err\u00f3neo. La \u00fanica persona con la que siempre puedes contar es contigo mismo porque sabes que, por muy dif\u00edciles que se pongan las cosas, nunca te ir\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hay algunas cosas en las que nunca se debe transigir<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Llegar a compromisos es un parte no negociable de toda relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a>. However, you should never forget your principles \u2013 that is something you should absolutely not compromise on.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s important to meet both yours and your partner’s needs but that doesn’t mean that you should compromise on some of your core values just to please them. That’s actually how women lose themselves in a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Intentar demostrar tu val\u00eda constantemente es una p\u00e9rdida de tiempo.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It’s normal to try to prove yourself and your feelings to your partner at the beginning of your relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, si sigues teniendo que hacerlo constantemente, incluso despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo, entonces la relaci\u00f3n no tiene futuro y ambos est\u00e1is perdiendo el tiempo.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he can’t see your value and that your feelings are sincere, then he is blind and you should stop trying to prove yourself. He doesn’t deserve it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Las relaciones unilaterales son las peores<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Toda relaci\u00f3n se compone de dos personas y cada una de ellas tiene que luchar por mantener esa relaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

If only one partner makes time and effort to maintain the relationship, then it’s a <\/span>relaci\u00f3n unilateral.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

We\u2019ve learned from our past relationships that it’s worse than being alone and we’ll never allow ourselves to be in a relationship like that again.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s not worth the fight if there is no love<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You can try as much as you like to maintain your relationship but if the love has gone, then you’ll understand in time that it’s not worth it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hay muchas razones por las que deber\u00edamos apreciar nuestras relaciones pasadas y estar agradecidos a nuestros ex. Todas ellas son valiosas lecciones que nos han hecho m\u00e1s sabios para nuestras relaciones futuras.<\/span><\/p>\n

We\u2019ve made some huge mistakes that cost us a broken heart. I think we\u2019ve all made a promise to ourselves that we will never repeat those mistakes again.<\/span><\/p>\n

Entendemos que somos la \u00fanica constante en nuestras vidas y nos hemos convertido en una prioridad.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"C\u00f3mo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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