{"id":90826,"date":"2020-08-13T20:48:43","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T20:48:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=90826"},"modified":"2021-11-15T15:41:14","modified_gmt":"2021-11-15T15:41:14","slug":"no-dejaras-que-nadie-te-haga-estas-cosas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-dejaras-que-nadie-te-haga-estas-cosas\/","title":{"rendered":"Si te quieres de verdad, no dejar\u00e1s que nadie te haga estas 8 cosas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La mayor\u00eda de la gente dice que se quiere a s\u00ed misma. Desgraciadamente, <\/span><b><i>that isn&#8217;t true love with most of us<\/i><\/b><b>.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Damos demasiado de nosotros a algunas personas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We change ourselves completely for our loved ones. We lose ourselves when we&#8217;re in a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>That&#8217;s not how <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/aumentar-el-amor-propio-y-dejar-de-sentirse-indeseado\/\"><b><i>el amor propio es<\/i><\/b><\/a><b><i> supuestamente<\/i><\/b><b>.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Si realmente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/aprender-a-quererse-a-uno-mismo\/\">qui\u00e9rete a ti mismo<\/a>nunca permitir\u00edas que nadie te dijera c\u00f3mo debes cambiar por completo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>It&#8217;s not important who goes or stays in your life<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">; you&#8217;re all that&#8217;s important. You&#8217;re the only constant in your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s why you have to know your worth. You have to be aware of what you deserve and never settle for any less. In light of that, you should never let anyone do any of the following things to you:<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Hacerte dudar de ti mismo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90830 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-5.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con abrigo negro de pie al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Self-love comes from self-worth. You should never let anyone make you doubt yourself and tell you that you can&#8217;t do certain things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Puedes conseguir m\u00e1s de lo que crees. Puedes hacer lo que te propongas. <\/span><b><i>S\u00f3lo tienes que creer en ti mismo y no permitir que nadie apague tu luz.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">menospreciarte delante de los dem\u00e1s<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90831 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-sitting-on-bench.jpg\" alt=\"cuatro personas sentadas en un banco de hormig\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-sitting-on-bench.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-sitting-on-bench-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-sitting-on-bench-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I honestly swear that some people really enjoy doing this. And I&#8217;ll never be able to understand why. Do they think they are better than others or what?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Irrelevant. The important thing is that you shouldn&#8217;t allow this from anyone. If you allow one person to undermine you, then someone else will think that you&#8217;re okay with it and do the same to you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Util\u00edzate<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90832 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/women-holding-pen.jpg\" alt=\"dos mujeres con un bol\u00edgrafo en la mano sentadas a la mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/women-holding-pen.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/women-holding-pen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/women-holding-pen-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not all people have a pure and clean heart like you \u2013 you have to be aware of that always. You&#8217;ll meet some people that will only try to use you and your naivety.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s why it\u2019s important never to let your heart control your mind, otherwise you won&#8217;t be able to realize when someone&#8217;s only using you and your feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Maltratarte<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90833 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-2.jpg\" alt=\"mujer hablando con hombre sentada a la mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">De nuevo, tienes que ser consciente <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/carta-chica-perdida-autoestima\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">de tu autoestima<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Know your value and don&#8217;t settle for any less than you deserve, no matter how much you love someone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stand up for yourself. Don&#8217;t try to fool yourself. If someone mistreats you, that means they don&#8217;t respect you. And <\/span><b><i>donde no hay respeto, realmente no hay amor.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Burlarse de ti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90834 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-having-drinks.jpg\" alt=\"cuatro personas tomando copas de pie al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-having-drinks.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-having-drinks-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-having-drinks-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A little teasing among friends is normal. But if it&#8217;s only one-sided, then that is not just playful teasing. It&#8217;s bullying and that&#8217;s something you should never allow.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Show others that you&#8217;re confident. Put an end to that constant taunting and tell the culprits that you aren&#8217;t okay with it. Tell them that their teasing hurts your feelings and that you won\u2019t put up with it anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Controla tu vida<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90835 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-sea.jpg\" alt=\"mujer mirando al mar durante el d\u00eda\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-sea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-sea-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Very often, when people fall in love, they let their significant other control their life. And they don&#8217;t become aware of it until they realize that their relationship has become toxic and unhealthy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Por mucho que quieras a la otra persona, siempre debes quererte m\u00e1s a ti mismo. <\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La vida es impredecible y nunca se sabe lo que nos deparar\u00e1 el futuro.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can never be sure that you&#8217;ve met your soulmate or that you&#8217;ll stay with that person forever. If you let someone control your life other than yourself, you&#8217;ll feel lost if they ever had to break up with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Afectar a sus decisiones<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90836 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-in-the-field-4.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con top blanco de pie en el campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-in-the-field-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-in-the-field-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-in-the-field-4-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We have all different opinions about certain things and we also have all the right to voice them. It\u2019s good to hear out someone\u2019s advice, especially if it&#8217;s coming from those close to you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, you are the only person who is in charge of your life and you should be the one to make your own decisions and choices. Don&#8217;t let other people&#8217;s opinions affect your decisions.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Abusar de ti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90837 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-3.jpg\" alt=\"mujer enfadada hablando con hombre de pie al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No matter how much you love someone, never \u2013 I repeat \u2013 never let them abuse you in any kind of way.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical violence isn&#8217;t the only form of an abusive relationship. There are so many other types and that&#8217;s why sometimes we don\u2019t even realize that we&#8217;re being abused by our significant other.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ultim\u00e1tums constantes, comportamiento controlador, <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-senales-de-que-sus-celos-no-son-sanos\/\"><b><i>celos irracionales<\/i><\/b><\/a><b><i>, guilt trips, verbal abuse, constant criticism\u2026<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Todos estos son signos de una relaci\u00f3n malsana y abusiva, y de un comportamiento que nunca deber\u00edas consentir si realmente te quieres a ti mismo y te importa tu propio bienestar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90884 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Truly-Love-Yourself-You-Wont-Let-Anyone-Do-These-8-Things-To-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Si te quieres de verdad, no dejar\u00e1s que nadie te haga estas 8 cosas\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Truly-Love-Yourself-You-Wont-Let-Anyone-Do-These-8-Things-To-You-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Truly-Love-Yourself-You-Wont-Let-Anyone-Do-These-8-Things-To-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Truly-Love-Yourself-You-Wont-Let-Anyone-Do-These-8-Things-To-You-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Truly-Love-Yourself-You-Wont-Let-Anyone-Do-These-8-Things-To-You-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most people say that they love themselves. Unfortunately, that isn&#8217;t true love with most of us. We give too much of ourselves to some people. We change ourselves completely for our loved ones. We lose ourselves when we&#8217;re in a relationship. That&#8217;s not how self-love is supposed to be. If you truly love yourself, you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":90829,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-90826","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Truly-Love-Yourself-You-Wont-Let-Anyone-Do-These-8-Things-To-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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