{"id":9085,"date":"2020-04-14T16:19:47","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T16:19:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9085"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:21:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:21:11","slug":"carta-tipo-no-dio-amor-merecen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-tipo-no-dio-amor-merecen\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta al hombre que no me dio el amor que merec\u00eda"},"content":{"rendered":"

Querido t\u00fa<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de todos estos a\u00f1os contigo, ahora por fin entiendo que te quer\u00eda m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Yo era la que siempre hac\u00eda un esfuerzo extra por nuestra relaci\u00f3n mientras que t\u00fa no hac\u00edas ning\u00fan esfuerzo para que las cosas funcionaran.<\/p>\n

I always wanted to know why you didn\u2019t love me and why you didn\u2019t think that I was worthy. And I did everything in my power to make you happy.<\/p>\n

And in all that mess I forgot the most important thing\u2014to love and respect myself.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

But it is all over now. I am a priority to myself and I don\u2019t regret all those nasty things that happened to me.<\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for them, I wouldn\u2019t be this strong. And for that, I want to thank you.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never have learned that loving someone doesn\u2019t mean that they will give their love back to me, or even half of that love.<\/p>\n

Gracias por mostrarme que las personas a las que una vez quisiste pueden convertirse en completos extra\u00f1os en alg\u00fan punto del camino.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Thank you for teaching me that love doesn\u2019t just mean spending time with someone and listening to their problems.<\/p>\n

Ahora, nunca dejar\u00e9 que ning\u00fan otro hombre me trate como una opci\u00f3n. Si alguna vez vuelvo a enamorarme, ser\u00e1 de un hombre que est\u00e9 muerto de miedo de perderme.<\/p>\n

Y esa ser\u00e1 la \u00fanica regla que respetar\u00e9 en cuanto al amor.<\/p>\n

Ya deber\u00edas saber que yo era el tipo de mujer que amaba con locura y que s\u00f3lo as\u00ed s\u00e9 funcionar.<\/p>\n

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Am\u00e9 y perd\u00ed, pero siempre fui yo, una chica con el coraz\u00f3n en la manga, mientras t\u00fa jugabas a otro tipo de juego.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Your mind games were anything but good. You were the man with the mask all the time. You made a big show for everyone around you but you couldn\u2019t deceive me.<\/p>\n

Conoc\u00eda tu verdadero rostro y aun as\u00ed decid\u00ed quedarme contigo.<\/p>\n

But you didn\u2019t have a clue about love. Love is all that you think it isn\u2019t. Love is waking up to the same person every day and choosing that person every single day.<\/p>\n

Love isn\u2019t passive, it is an action, something that lives inside of us and something that has to be nurtured.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

When I think about it, I realize that maybe, just maybe, you weren\u2019t ready for all that love that I had for you.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t know how to act when someone pampered you and showered you with love.<\/p>\n

Fuiste incapaz de darme el amor que necesitaba y por eso, nunca te perdonar\u00e9. Nunca recib\u00ed el amor que tanto ansiaba y eso nunca te import\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Era m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil darme la espalda que hacer el esfuerzo de crear una bella historia de amor.<\/p>\n

Now that it is all over, I don\u2019t regret anything because I am a much stronger person than I was when I was with you.<\/p>\n

Ahora, quiero un amor que roce con el sentido com\u00fan y nunca me conformar\u00e9 hasta conseguirlo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, en lugar de sentarme en casa y esperar a que me llames, me elijo a m\u00ed mismo cada d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

And when you realize how much of a loving and caring person I am one day and you wish to have a second chance with me, please know that I won\u2019t be there.<\/p>\n

I still believe in second chances but I don\u2019t think everyone deserves them-and that includes you!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Carta<\/p>\n

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