{"id":90945,"date":"2020-09-14T07:18:08","date_gmt":"2020-09-14T07:18:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=90945"},"modified":"2022-04-24T23:51:26","modified_gmt":"2022-04-24T23:51:26","slug":"razones-por-las-que-los-hombres-responden-al-silencio-y-la-distancia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/razones-por-las-que-los-hombres-responden-al-silencio-y-la-distancia\/","title":{"rendered":"7 razones innegables por las que los hombres responden al silencio y la distancia"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las mujeres son de Venus, los hombres de Marte. Las mujeres responden a la comunicaci\u00f3n y la honestidad, y los hombres al silencio y la distancia.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs esto cierto y, en caso afirmativo, por qu\u00e9?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Whether you’re starting a new relationship or have been in one for a while now, you might be having the struggle of communication vs. distance in your relationship.<\/p>\n

En esta situaci\u00f3n, t\u00fa eres la que quiere resolver cada asunto con palabras, mientras que tu hombre intenta evitar los problemas. Cuanto m\u00e1s le presionas, m\u00e1s se distancia.<\/p>\n

Have you ever thought of not talking? There’s a relationship rule out there that can work wonders if used correctly.<\/p>\n

Puede aplicarse a parejas en apuros o a relaciones que acaban de terminar y en las que uno de los dos quiere recuperar al otro. <\/p>\n

Esta maravilla se llama regla de no contacto .<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 es el <\/b>norma de no contacto<\/b> \u00bfDe todos modos?<\/b><\/p>\n

Dependiendo de su situaci\u00f3n, esta regla puede aplicarse de distintas maneras.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve just broken up, you’ll want to apply the good old classic no contact rule where you don’t contact your ex AT ALL for a month or even longer.<\/p>\n

You simply don’t send him text messages , call him on the phone, or respond to his social media posts. And when he contacts you, you don’t answer.<\/p>\n

If you haven’t broken up but want some issues resolved, you might want to apply the less intense version where you simply don’t contact him first but wait for him to make a true effort before you start responding to his messages.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3mo funciona y \u00bfqu\u00e9 est\u00e1 pensando durante el no contacto <\/a> period? Let’s find out.<\/p>\n

7 formas en que tu silencio le rompe<\/b><\/em> <\/span><\/p>\n

Le hace pensar que podr\u00eda perderte<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Antes de que usted decidiera darle una probada del tratamiento silencioso, \u00e9l nunca quiz\u00e1 incluso pensar en perderte<\/a>. It’s very possible that he took you for granted.<\/p>\n

Estaba completamente comprometido con \u00e9l y deseoso de resolver todos sus problemas, impulsando la conversaci\u00f3n como su herramienta definitiva.<\/p>\n

Esto a veces incluso le hac\u00eda sentirse asfixiado y como si usted se esforzara mucho m\u00e1s que \u00e9l, lo que le hac\u00eda creer que a usted le importaba m\u00e1s que a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Once you begin saving your words and showing him that the version of you that’s always passionate about comunicar <\/a> your problems is not something to feel bothered by, but something to hope for, he’ll start realizing he made a mistake.<\/p>\n

Not talking to him will make him think that there’s a chance of losing you \u2013 something he never even thought about before.<\/p>\n

Empieza a pensar en lo que pas\u00f3 en el pasado<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He will start examining everything that happened in your relationship. It suddenly won’t be too much effort for him to analyze the situations that were the cause of the problem for you two.<\/p>\n

He’ll be thinking about what kind of person he was and you were in your relationship.<\/p>\n

For the first time , he’ll start overthinking and burdening himself with actually trying to figure out what happened and what mistakes he made.<\/p>\n

He’ll make conclusions about what he could\u2019ve done differently, and how the course of your relationship would\u2019ve changed if he was smart enough to do the right thing.<\/p>\n

At this point, he’ll realize that he should\u2019ve appreciated your words and passion for solving issues immediately more, because your silence and distance bugs him.<\/p>\n

Desaf\u00eda su rutina<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Antes de que usted decidiera aplicar el tratamiento de silencio o la regla de no contacto, \u00e9l ten\u00eda un cierto patr\u00f3n de respuesta a los problemas de su relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

I’m not going to get into what those patterns were, but you are probably well accustomed to them by now.<\/p>\n

This time, when your reaction is completely different, he won’t know what to do. Suddenly, nothing he used to do before will make sense and he’ll be left speechless.<\/p>\n

He’ll struggle to find new ways to respond to this new regime you’ve decided to implement. <\/p>\n

P.S. If there’s absolutely no response on his side, he’s either completely uninterested in you or doesn’t even realize there’s something wrong.<\/p>\n

If either of these is the case, there’s a good chance he’s the wrong person for you.<\/p>\n

Tiene tiempo para echarte de menos<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

\u00bfEl silencio haz que un hombre te eche de menos <\/a> , you’re wondering? It absolutely does.<\/p>\n

Esta es una de las principales razones por las que los hombres responden al silencio y la distancia.<\/p>\n

Si estabas cerca todo el tiempo, nunca tuvo la oportunidad de echarte de menos. Por mucho que alguien te quiera, a veces es necesario un tiempo de separaci\u00f3n para reavivar la pasi\u00f3n en la relaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n

Think of all the ways you made him feel taken care of and secure\u2026 way too secure. Now that you’re not right by his side ready to be as involved in his life as he allows you to be, he misses you.<\/p>\n

He’ll be thinking about all the things you did together and every benefit that your presence brought into his life.<\/p>\n

He maybe won’t feel like this for the first couple of days, but as time passes, he’ll realize he needs you, and that’s why it’s important to go through the distance and tratamiento silencioso <\/a> lo suficiente.<\/p>\n

Le confunde<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He’ll be wondering what got into you. Wait a minute, weren’t you the type of girl who always talked so much, calling and texting him all the time?<\/p>\n

Where did all the ” I love you ” messages go? Where did all the “Good morning” calls disappear to?<\/p>\n

He’ll be completely confused with the new ways things are working. <\/p>\n

A lot of times he’ll start contacting you, but even then it’s important to remain cold. If you rush to answer his first call, you’re just showing him that’s all it takes to get you back.<\/p>\n

Long story short, he’ll be intrigued and shaken, and you should leave him feeling like that.<\/p>\n

Cuanto menos sabe, m\u00e1s se pregunta<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

After a couple of weeks , he won’t know what you’re up to, where you are and with whom, and that will drive him insane.<\/p>\n

He probably used to know everything about your whereabouts and plans, and now he’s left completely in the dark.<\/p>\n

He’ll constantly wonder what you’re doing, if you\u2019ve made any major changes in your life, and what’s happening with you.<\/p>\n

Are you sad? Are you lonely? Are you actually super happy without him? He’ll start secretly plotting ways to “accidentally” run into you just so he can satisfy his curiosity.<\/p>\n

Se enfada y se emociona<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

There’s a very good chance he’ll try to contact you, and once ignoras sus textos <\/a> or calls he\u2019ll get super upset. And no wonder \u2013 his ego is hurt and he’ll go looking for ways to prove that he can have you.<\/p>\n

Aunque no es la emoci\u00f3n con la que toda chica sue\u00f1a cuando quiere conquistar a un chico, funciona.<\/p>\n

In romantic relationships , especially early and immature ones, there’s often a power struggle. This time, you’re proving yourself more powerful and that drives him crazy.<\/p>\n

Also, it shows him that there is a side of you that he could appreciate, a girl who cares about herself more than anyone else and won\u2019t let a man play with her heart.<\/p>\n

These are the seven ways you’ll know your <\/b>tratamiento silencioso<\/b> is working on him, but\u2026 if you don’t hear from him, how will you know what he’s going through?<\/b><\/p>\n

Don’t worry, there are ways to know your plan is working by what happens to you during that period. <\/b><\/p>\n

4 cosas que te pasar\u00e1n<\/b> <\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

You’ll discover the benefits of independence<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you do this correctly, you’ll have all this newfound time and energy for yourself. You’ll be surprised how many things you can get done (and enjoy) if you pay less attention to him.<\/p>\n

You’ll rediscover who you were in the first place , before even meeting him, and this will be so refreshing to you.<\/p>\n

You’ll learn to let go of negativity<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

After so much overthinking, overanalyzing, trying to solve your issues, you’ll finally be carefree.<\/p>\n

When you choose the silent treatment as your way of dealing with things, you’ll suddenly feel like you can easily let go of negativity and welcome positivity into your life.<\/p>\n

You’ll feel stronger, smarter, better\u2026 Everything that was driving you insane for weeks\/months\/years will now be a part of your past and the only thing on your agenda will be to take care of yourself.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil perdonar y olvidar<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Once you distance yourself from a stressful situation, it\u2019s so much easier for you to think more clearly.<\/p>\n

You’ll feel that everything that happened between you and your partner somehow makes sense and that realization will make you feel relieved.<\/p>\n

You’ll start focusing on yourself<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You’ll need to get him out of your head and start doing things that make you happy.<\/p>\n

Maybe you’ll go back to an old hobby, start reading or exercising again, go out more with your girlfriends \u2013 whatever it is, it will make you feel like you’re finally usted <\/i> . <\/p>\n

Se acab\u00f3 pensar en lo que siente o piensa tu hombre, s\u00f3lo en qu\u00e9 hacer a continuaci\u00f3n para sentirte feliz y excitada. Definitivamente c\u00e9ntrate en ti mismo <\/a> ; that’s your way to success.<\/p>\n

No matter how hard you think you’re trying, there’s always a chance that what you’re doing won’t work.<\/p>\n

Hay algunos errores comunes que cometen la mayor\u00eda de las chicas, y cometer incluso uno de ellos disminuye seriamente tus posibilidades de \u00e9xito.<\/p>\n

5 errores que debe evitar durante <\/b>Sin contacto<\/b><\/em> <\/span><\/p>\n

Esperar resultados inmediatos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You might be too impatient to see the results and hope to see them the very same day you start the silent treatment . That’s impossible.<\/p>\n

Think of it as a diet, just because you ate super healthy and exercised for a couple of days, it doesn’t mean your body will immediately change. It takes time.<\/p>\n

In the same way, it\u2019ll take him time to go through all the phases of dealing with what you’re doing, so he can realize what’s happening and react.<\/p>\n

If you get too excited about seeing results too soon, you’ll end up making mistake number two as well.<\/p>\n

Me estoy desesperando<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you don’t see results you’re hoping for soon enough, you might get desperate thinking that the method doesn’t work and go back to your old bad habits.<\/p>\n

Again, it’s just like a diet.<\/p>\n

If you don’t see you’re losing weight, you either go back to eating unhealthy foods and no exercise, or you drown yourself in doubt and negativity, thinking you’ll never lose weight, which slows down your progress.<\/p>\n

En las relaciones, esto se traduce en que o bien vuelves a llamarle y enviarle mensajes de texto, o bien comentando sus mensajes<\/a> en las redes sociales o empiezas a pensar que no eres adorable y que nunca encontrar\u00e1s al hombre adecuado para ti.<\/p>\n

La desesperaci\u00f3n no lleva a ninguna parte. Recuerda ser positivo.<\/p>\n

Pensando constantemente en \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This definitely won’t work if you only cut out the communication part. For this whole period of time, you have to try to stop thinking about him altogether.<\/p>\n

If you’re obsessing over where he is and what’s he doing, there’s no chance you’ll get through this. The whole process will feel like wicked emotional abuse and way too forced to be successful.<\/p>\n

C\u00e9ntrate en ti mismo, en tus propias necesidades y en llenar el tiempo con actividades beneficiosas.<\/p>\n

Tratando de ponerlo celoso<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Pensando activamente en formas de hacerle da\u00f1o y dale celos <\/a> won’t work. That’s something that should be left for immature kids who don’t know how to behave in relationships.<\/p>\n

He’ll probably easily see through your act and the whole plan will backfire.<\/p>\n

Rememorar hechos pasados<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It isn’t your job to be thinking all over again about what happened \u2013 that you should leave to him.<\/p>\n

Si empiezas a darle demasiadas vueltas a tus asuntos del pasado, puedes llegar a conclusiones equivocadas porque le echas de menos y quieres que vuelva.<\/p>\n

Este es tu camino al fracaso, y lo sabes.<\/p>\n

Even if you do everything perfectly, there are always exceptions to the rule. Some men, depending on the circumstances, simply won’t respond to this kind of treatment.<\/b><\/p>\n

3 Kinds Of Men Who Won’t Respond To The <\/b>Tratamiento silencioso<\/b><\/em> <\/span><\/p>\n

A man who’s been hurt<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If you’re the one who broke his heart and hurt his feelings, you can’t expect the silent treatment to work. <\/p>\n

If you want to make things work with him, you have to show patience, because not contacting him will only prove that you’re not good for him, which isn’t your goal.<\/p>\n

Un hombre inseguro<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Because of his insecurities, he’ll be thinking he doesn’t deserve you. He’ll be afraid of rejection and won’t contact you so he doesn’t have to face the feeling.<\/p>\n

He’ll take your silence as proof that he should stop hoping to be with you, even if he’s the one who made mistakes that led you to use this method.<\/p>\n

A man who’s really, really stubborn<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He won’t contact you because he’s way too proud. And even if he does, he’ll act like the above-mentioned kind of guy who only contacts you to make a point that he can have you.<\/p>\n

Para \u00e9l, todo es una lucha por el poder y te castigar\u00e1 por ser fr\u00edo con \u00e9l siendo a\u00fan m\u00e1s fr\u00edo contigo.<\/p>\n

Tratamiento silencioso en el matrimonio<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Marriage is something that needs constant work on both sides. The no contact rule obviously can’t apply here, the same way it’s very hard to apply to long-distance relationships .<\/p>\n

If you’re having marital issues, the following advice is what I believe is best for you:<\/p>\n

You can’t stop communicating with your partner completely so the “don’ t talk to him” segment of the rule doesn’t apply to you.<\/p>\n

What you should try is to stop negative comments, nagging, asking him to do stuff for you, lecturing, yelling\u2026 and everything similar to that. You’d be surprised how beneficial this can be for your marriage.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re having problems that are truly worrying and big, I strongly advise contacting a marriage counselor and asking for their professional advice.<\/p>\n

To wrap up\u2026<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

In my point of view , there’s no way that one method can work for everyone. Think thoroughly about your situation and decide on what to do.<\/p>\n

While men respond to silence and distance, it’s important to find a way to use that which will be effective for you personally.<\/p>\n

En resumidas cuentas, tu objetivo es resolver los problemas, no hacerte da\u00f1o a ti ni a \u00e9l. Tenlo siempre presente.<\/p>\n

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