{"id":9167,"date":"2020-03-25T08:50:29","date_gmt":"2020-03-25T08:50:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9167"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:05:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:05:20","slug":"10-trucos-psicologicos-conseguiran-cometer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-trucos-psicologicos-conseguiran-cometer\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo conseguir que se comprometa y te quiera s\u00f3lo a ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Given that you’re here, I suppose you’re in a situation where you\u2019ve met a great guy but he doesn\u2019t want to be in a relationship even though he\u2019s regularly been taking you on fun dates and he really seems interested, right?<\/p>\n

He’s been sending you mixed signals for what seems like a decade now and you have no idea what is really going on.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico en lo que puedes pensar es en esa famosa pregunta que inquieta a muchas mujeres de todo el mundo: \u00bfC\u00f3mo conseguir que se comprometa?<\/b><\/p>\n

You can really see a future together with him but every time you bring up the idea of you two taking it to the next level (officially being boyfriend and girlfriend), he ends up hiding in his \u2018man cave\u2019 and he doesn\u2019t want to hear anything about it.<\/p>\n

No para de repetir que le gusta como est\u00e1 y que he doesn\u2019t want to commit<\/a> to something serious because he\u2019s not ready yet or because he doesn’t even know whether he’s ready or not and he wants to play safe and preserve your current \u2018pending status\u2019.<\/p>\n

Entiendo lo agotador que es para ti lidiar con tanta tonter\u00eda y la cantidad t\u00f3xica de indecisi\u00f3n que hay en el ambiente cuando lo \u00fanico que quieres es que abra los ojos y vea lo mucho que te importa y que ten\u00e9is algo genial juntos.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que quieres es una relaci\u00f3n de verdad, es decir, una relaci\u00f3n exclusiva en la que \u00e9l se esfuerce por responder a todas tus llamadas y hacer todas esas cosas bonitas y peque\u00f1as que las parejas hacen el uno por el otro, porque esto tiene un gran valor para ti, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

\u00a1Y puedes qued\u00e1rtelo! <\/b>S\u00ed, puedes convertir a tu chico con fobia al compromiso en un hombre nuevo rebosante de confianza en s\u00ed mismo y sin ning\u00fan tipo de problemas de compromiso.<\/p>\n

Trust me, there is a way you can escape from the gray zone you\u2019ve been stuck in for too long.<\/p>\n

Sigue estos consejos y trucos y conseguir\u00e1s que se comprometa contigo en un abrir y cerrar de ojos.<\/p>\n

Dejar de hablar de compromiso<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Ante todo, si quieres que un hombre se comprometa a una relaci\u00f3n seria, tienes que dejar de hablar de ello.<\/p>\n

Why? Because you\u2019re putting pressure on him and no man wants to be pressured or forced to do something, let alone enter a long-term relationship.<\/p>\n

Para ser exactos, a nadie le gusta la presi\u00f3n porque la presi\u00f3n conduce al estr\u00e9s y \u00bfqui\u00e9n quiere estar con una persona que le estresa?<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que hablar de compromiso es un gran no-no si quieres aprender c\u00f3mo hacer que se comprometa sin presiones y en un tiempo r\u00e9cord.<\/p>\n

You see, once you stop talking about it, he will think that you got over the whole idea of commitment, so he\u2019ll ask himself eventually why that is so and he\u2019ll be thinking about commitment even more. And that’s exactly what we need, right?<\/p>\n

Sus necesidades son lo primero<\/h2>\n

\"sonriendo<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t invest too much of yourself in him. Instead of waiting for him to change and finally decide to commit, make plans by yourself and stay a whole day in your room reading or watching movies or having fun with your girls.<\/p>\n

Haz lo que te haga feliz y tu autoestima, autovaloraci\u00f3n y pasi\u00f3n alcanzar\u00e1n su cl\u00edmax.<\/p>\n

What I’m about to tell you is the greatest relationship advice I’ve ever received: When you stop making him your number one priority, he\u2019ll crave your presence!<\/b><\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1 lo entregada que est\u00e1s a ti misma y querr\u00e1 formar parte tambi\u00e9n de ese mundo.<\/p>\n

Chica, una vez que dejes de desvivirte por \u00e9l, no s\u00f3lo querr\u00e1 tener una gran relaci\u00f3n contigo, \u00a1querr\u00e1 casarse contigo!<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 4 se\u00f1ales de alarma de que tendr\u00e1 problemas de compromiso<\/a><\/p>\n

Menciona a tu ex (sutilmente)<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do this a huge amount because you don’t want to be the type of woman who primarily uses jealousy in order to improve her love life and make a guy commit.<\/p>\n

Pero si lo haces de forma sutil y decente, tu hombre empezar\u00e1 a preguntarse por tu ex y le motivar\u00e1s a querer ser mejor que \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

You can casually say that your ex has been texting you but that it’s nothing important and that he shouldn’t worry about it.<\/p>\n

Even if you have blocked your ex on all social media, it doesn\u2019t hurt to play a mind game because it\u2019ll make your man wants to be better than your ex!<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll invest more energy into your relationship and he\u2019ll want to be your boyfriend before you get back with your ex, just to show you how much of a better catch he is.<\/p>\n

Mantenga las distancias<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Relationship experts claim that when we like someone, it\u2019s really easy to get carried away and constantly be in their presence.<\/p>\n

And that’s exactly what you shouldn’t do if you want to learn how to get him to commit!<\/p>\n

En lugar de pasar todo tu tiempo libre con \u00e9l o so\u00f1ar con pasar todo tu tiempo con \u00e9l, necesitas mantener una sana distancia con \u00e9l y dejar que te eche de menos como el demonio.<\/p>\n

Que se pregunte d\u00f3nde est\u00e1s y con qui\u00e9n. Haz que se comprometa alej\u00e1ndose.<\/p>\n

Let him think that you’re dating other men or your ex even though you’re lying in your bed watching your favorite TV shows or having the time of your life with your girls.<\/p>\n

Let him walk on eggshells and you’ll get an answer on how to get him to commit to dating you exclusively.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll realize how much he misses you and that he doesn\u2019t want another guy to slip into your life.<\/p>\n

Trust me, he wouldn\u2019t want to miss his chance to win you and make you his official girlfriend!<\/p>\n

Be \u2018the woman\u2019 in his life<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Si esto se hace de forma incorrecta, puede ahuyentarlo de usted, as\u00ed que escuche atentamente.<\/p>\n

By being ‘the woman’ in his life, I don\u2019t mean you being constantly in his face and replacing his mother\u2014NO!<\/p>\n

The best way to be ‘the woman’ in his life is by sending him textos de buenos d\u00edas<\/a> y textos de buenas noches<\/a>Tal vez incluso a la misma hora cada d\u00eda y cada noche para que lo recuerde como una rutina.<\/p>\n

And the next step is ‘aborting the mission’ and stopping doing any of it.<\/p>\n

Stop for a couple of days and see what happens. He\u2019s the one sending the messages every day now, right? It\u2019ll be a part of his routine he doesn\u2019t want to miss.<\/p>\n

Qu\u00e9 mejor manera de hacerlo consistente que estar en una relaci\u00f3n contigo, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

Recomp\u00e9nselo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

A los hombres les gusta que sus mujeres recompensen sus esfuerzos porque eso les hace sentirse hombres de verdad, capaces de cuidar de sus mujeres y hacerlas felices.<\/p>\n

A los hombres les gusta hacerse notar y ser apreciados por sus buenas acciones y gestos.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, si hace algo dulce por ti, algo que te haya hecho sentir especial, recuerda recompensarle siempre y demostrarle lo mucho que significa para ti.<\/p>\n

Remember to acknowledge that his efforts are appreciated and he’ll keep trying hard for you.<\/p>\n

The more you reward him, the more he’ll be invested in making you feel special and loved!<\/p>\n

And don’t you worry. These rewards don\u2019t need to be some expensive gifts; a simple \u2018thank you\u2019 and a kiss on the cheek can do the job.<\/p>\n

You can hug him or make him pancakes, it\u2019s really up to you. Just be invested and consistent!<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 amable con sus amigos<\/h2>\n

\"jovenes<\/p>\n

Uno de los mayores atajos para que tu hombre se comprometa contigo por completo es llevarse bien con sus amigos \u00edntimos.<\/p>\n

I’m sure you already know that men put a lot of effort into their friendships and if you don\u2019t get along with his friends, your chances of becoming his girlfriend are not that good or non-existent.<\/p>\n

If his best friends like you, they\u2019ll put in a good word about you and he\u2019ll see how much they want you two to be together.<\/p>\n

He’ll see that they are really fond of you, which will automatically trigger him to consider you becoming his official girlfriend and making you a part of their crew!<\/p>\n

Ser misterioso<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

El misterio es lo que m\u00e1s excita y motiva a cualquier chico y, de hecho, ser misteriosa es una de las mejores cosas que puedes hacer para conseguir que se comprometa contigo.<\/p>\n

But remember to keep this only to a certain extent as well because if you become overly mysterious, he might just think that you’re hiding something serious from him, which will make him walk away from you (especially if you ignore him for a serious amount of time).<\/p>\n

So, sometimes when he\u2019s looking at you, take out your phone and smile for no reason, just to make him ask himself what is going on and why you aren\u2019t running around to win him over and make him yours.<\/p>\n

Esa es la mejor receta para una saludable dosis de misterio que le har\u00e1 pensar en ti m\u00e1s que nunca.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 12 se\u00f1ales sexys del lenguaje corporal que te hacen irresistible para los hombres<\/a><\/p>\n

Hazlo divertido<\/h2>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

If you want to learn how to get him to commit to you in no time, then don\u2019t make him think that commitment is something overly serious and that once he enters into a relationship, his life and time spent with his friends will come to an end. Don’t do it.<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, hazlo ligero y despreocupado, y \u00e9l se enamorar\u00e1, no s\u00f3lo de ti, sino de toda la idea del compromiso.<\/p>\n

Bowling games and little road trips with a lot of laughter will make it all look easy-going and he won\u2019t have a problem with being in a committed relationship with you.<\/p>\n

As a matter of fact, HE WILL DESIRE to be in a committed relationship with you, not because he needs to but because it’s so much fun and he really, really wants to.<\/p>\n

Sigan trabajando<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Lastly, if he asks you to be his girlfriend and you start a wonderful relationship together, don\u2019t start nagging him or pushing him just days after you\u2019ve achieved your goal.<\/p>\n

Why? Because you\u2019ll make him regret his decision if you start controlling him and if you demand to be constantly around him.<\/p>\n

You need to continue having your own life instead of being too attached to his because otherwise, it\u2019ll just scare him even more than it did before.<\/p>\n

Tienes que seguir d\u00e1ndole espacio para \u00e9l, para sus noches de chicos con toneladas de cerveza y otras actividades que significan mucho para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Por muchas ganas que tengas de hacer algunas cosas, ten siempre cuidado de no abrumarle con tus emociones porque, si lo haces, podr\u00eda retroceder a su etapa inicial de fobia al compromiso, que es exactamente lo que quieres evitar que ocurra.<\/p>\n

Reflexiones finales<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Getting him to commit to you is not an easy task. It is a process that demands lots of patience, dedication and understanding, even after he’s finally yours.<\/p>\n

Pero una vez que le cojas el truco, te convertir\u00e1s en una maestra del compromiso y har\u00e1s que te quiera y te desee a ti y s\u00f3lo a ti.<\/p>\n

Just remember to continue subtly reminding him that it was his decision to commit to you and that it was the best decision he’s ever made in his life!<\/p>\n

And don’t forget to enjoy every second of your new journey\u2014called a happy, committed relationship!<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 5 impactantes razones por las que nunca debes obligar a un hombre a comprometerse<\/a><\/p>\n

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