{"id":91804,"date":"2020-09-16T22:01:28","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T22:01:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=91804"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:24:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:24:44","slug":"no-vas-a-gustar-a-todo-el-mundo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-vas-a-gustar-a-todo-el-mundo\/","title":{"rendered":"No vas a gustar a todo el mundo y por eso no pasa nada"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Not everyone is going to like you. Don&#8217;t let it phase you.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 Unknown<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before I say anything else, I feel like I should be honest with you (that doesn&#8217;t mean the rest of what I say will be a lie).&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I humbly and wholeheartedly admit that I&#8217;m one of those individuals who have spent (better said wasted) half of their lives worrying about what other people think and whether they&#8217;re going to like me or not.&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quer\u00eda ser adorada y gustar a los dem\u00e1s, tanto en la vida real como en la red. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">redes sociales<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As\u00ed que estaba literalmente dispuesta a hacer CUALQUIER COSA con tal de ganarme su aprobaci\u00f3n.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tard\u00e9 alg\u00fan tiempo en darme cuenta de que haciendo todo esto me estaba privando de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autoestima<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and I&#8217;d become a legit <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">complacer a la gente<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. I&#8217;d lost touch with my true self and become devoid of personality.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I used to dance to other people&#8217;s tunes, but now I&#8217;m creating my own.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hablando de uno de los <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lecciones de vida<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that no one teaches you at school. I no longer worry about being everyone&#8217;s <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">taza de t\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, being judged, or gossiped about and I&#8217;ve never been happier!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cada uno de nosotros puede elegir uno de estos dos principios fundamentales:&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>a)<\/b> <b><i>No preocuparse por lo que piensen los dem\u00e1s o por caer bien.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>b)<\/b><b><i> Preocuparse por lo que piensan los dem\u00e1s y buscar activamente su aprobaci\u00f3n.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En mi opini\u00f3n, el primer principio ha demostrado ser el m\u00e1s eficaz y libre de estr\u00e9s, mientras que el segundo es un atajo para acabar en un bucle, disminuyendo su <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autoestima<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">y no tener el control de tu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">propia vida<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La verdad es que no vas a gustar a todo el mundo y no es algo que deba preocuparte.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><b>C\u00f3mo superar el hecho de que no vas a gustar a todo el mundo&nbsp;<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Cuesti\u00f3nate por qu\u00e9 necesitas gustar a todo el mundo y que te aprueben<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91822 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-chin.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con gafas toc\u00e1ndose la barbilla\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-chin.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-chin-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-chin-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instagram, Facebook, Twitter y otros <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">redes sociales<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> apps todos tenemos una cosa en com\u00fan, y es: Queremos que nos vean, que nos sigan, que nos retuiteen, que nos feliciten, etc. Lo mismo ocurre en la vida real.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En otras palabras:<\/span><b> We want to be liked because it&#8217;s in our <\/b><b>naturaleza humana<\/b><b> (and that&#8217;s totally okay).&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But, sometimes this becomes an addiction and we&#8217;re no longer in control of it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfAlguna vez se ha preocupado por las siguientes cosas? <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why didn&#8217;t he\/she like my <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">entrada anterior<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? Why don&#8217;t they approve of my style \/ ideas \/ habits?&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si la respuesta es afirmativa, debe preguntarse por qu\u00e9 tiende a hacerlo. Esto suele estar relacionado con un bajo <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/pasos-hacia-el-amor-incondicional-a-uno-mismo\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autoestima<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y la falta de atenci\u00f3n de sus padres durante la infancia.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cuestion\u00e1ndolo, descubrir\u00e1s cu\u00e1l es la verdadera raz\u00f3n que se esconde tras tu necesidad de caer bien y ser aprobado por todo el mundo. Por supuesto, una vez que identifiques la raz\u00f3n, tienes que empezar a trabajar en ella.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Trabajar para desarrollar una mejor relaci\u00f3n con uno mismo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91823 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-mountain-4.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rubia mirando a la monta\u00f1a mientras se est\u00e1 sentado al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-mountain-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-mountain-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-mountain-4-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En lugar de intentar complacer a todos <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">una sola persona<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you come into contact with, you need to start working on winning your own approval. You&#8217;ll do that by <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/aumentar-el-amor-propio-y-dejar-de-sentirse-indeseado\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">desarrollar una mejor relaci\u00f3n con uno mismo<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This doesn&#8217;t mean that you should only focus on positive things about yourself, but you need to be realistic. You can make a list of things you like about yourself and things you would like to improve.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And that&#8217;s the real definition of who you REALLY are! When you accept yourself for who you are and do your best every day, you won&#8217;t bother with what other people are saying or thinking about you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Think about all those people YOU don&#8217;t like<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91824 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-mug-3.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con pintalabios rojo sosteniendo una taza blanca\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-mug-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-mug-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-mug-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I really love this one because we seldom think about it, but it rings true to the core! Pause for a moment and think about the people in your life that you don&#8217;t really like.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, think about why you don&#8217;t like them. Perhaps it\u2019s because they have a weird way of expressing themselves, they are rude, loud, or shy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El siguiente paso es preguntarse si es algo que puede cambiar o algo que realmente le molesta.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Creo que su respuesta es la siguiente: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No, this is not something I can influence and it&#8217;s none of my business. I just don&#8217;t like them and that&#8217;s all.&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You see, that&#8217;s the exact same thing someone who doesn&#8217;t like you would say as well.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The truth is, not everyone is going to like you and vice versa. It&#8217;s a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">simple hecho<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that you need to ACCEPT as it\u2019s the only way to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sup\u00e9ralo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Descifrar la diferencia entre las creencias y la verdad real<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91825 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-plant-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con el pelo rizado de pie cerca de la planta verde\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-plant-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-plant-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-plant-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Diferentes <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tipos de personas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> como la cajera del <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tienda de comestibles<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, su <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">instituto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> compa\u00f1eros, colegas y <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mejores amigos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> todos te ven bajo una luz diferente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Todos tienen creencias sobre las personas que les rodean y estas creencias no son necesariamente la verdad real.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recuerdo mi <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">escuela secundaria<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8220;adventures&#8221; when I wasn&#8217;t liked by some students, so they would spread lies about me. But, I didn&#8217;t really care about it because my <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">amigos \u00edntimos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y supe la verdadera verdad.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And that&#8217;s what you need to do as well! Always decipher the difference between their beliefs and the truth. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Las \u00fanicas personas que conocen la verdad real son usted y los que le conocen y <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">te quiero<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> por lo que realmente eres.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You shouldn&#8217;t bother with what some irrelevant person in your life thinks about you if you yourself know whether their assumptions are valid or just plain wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Comprobar la situaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91839 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-armchair-2.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con el pelo azul sentada en un sill\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-armchair-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-armchair-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-armchair-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Antes de ponerte de mal humor o frustrarte por algo, aseg\u00farate primero de evaluar la situaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&#8217;s say that you found a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuevo trabajo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and you&#8217;re trying hard to make a good impression, so you work extra hours and do your best every day.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo, notas que tu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">compa\u00f1ero de trabajo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> doesn&#8217;t like you and now you&#8217;re wondering about what you have done wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Antes de sacar conclusiones precipitadas, hay que comprobar toda la situaci\u00f3n desde otra perspectiva.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Chances are high that this colleague feels threatened by you because you&#8217;re diligent, organized, and determined and now you&#8217;re making them feel bad about themselves because they are the total opposite of you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tengo ganas de repetirlo otra vez: <\/span><b>Not everyone is going to like you and that&#8217;s totally okay!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/como-dejar-de-buscar-la-validacion-de-los-demas\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C\u00f3mo dejar de buscar la validaci\u00f3n de los dem\u00e1s para empezar a prosperar<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re not everyone&#8217;s cup of tea and this doesn&#8217;t mean there&#8217;s something wrong with you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91840 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-rooftop-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente sentada en un tejado mirando a lo lejos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-rooftop-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-rooftop-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-rooftop-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The biggest mistake that many people make is thinking that not being liked by someone means there&#8217;s something wrong with them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vivimos en el siglo XXI y evolucionamos cada d\u00eda, lo que se traduce en m\u00e1s diversidad, nuevas cosas, nuevas personalidades, etc\u00e9tera.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Neither you or I are everyone&#8217;s <\/b><b>taza de t\u00e9<\/b><b> y esto no es algo que deba preocuparnos.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;m an introvert who gets easily drained by social events and you might be an extrovert who likes partying and social gatherings and this doesn&#8217;t make either of us RIGHT or WRONG.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This doesn&#8217;t mean you should change yourself for the sake of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/citas-con-introvertidos-14-cosas-clave-que-debes-saber-antes-de-salir-con-ellos\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">citas con introvertidos<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o ser querido y aceptado por m\u00e1s gente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Simplemente tenemos preferencias diferentes y lo \u00fanico que podemos hacer al respecto es aceptarlo y seguir adelante.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t take it personally<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91852 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-graffiti-wall.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente con chaqueta vaquera cerca de un muro con graffiti\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-graffiti-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-graffiti-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-graffiti-wall-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If there&#8217;s one thing you should really MEMORIZE from this entire article, it is the following: <\/span><b>Don&#8217;t let someone <\/b><b>else&#8217;s<\/b><b> \u00a1opini\u00f3n te definen!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just because someone doesn&#8217;t approve of your style or choices, you shouldn&#8217;t get offended by it. You can respect their opinion, but never let it define you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t take things personally because you will waste your life thinking about what other people think instead of doing things you enjoy.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You have the right to express your opinion even if it is different from other people&#8217;s and if they don&#8217;t like it, you shouldn&#8217;t take it personally.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s the real beauty of being who you are and nourishing your true self. Respecting other people\u2019s opinions, but not letting them define you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re allowed to be who you are<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91856 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-9.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente con camisa blanca de pie al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-9.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-9-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-9-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00ed, t\u00fa eres t\u00fa y no hay otro T\u00da en todo el universo. Tienes todo el derecho a ser quien eres porque al hacerlo aportas diversidad y belleza al mundo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ahora imagina que todos y cada uno de nosotros fu\u00e9ramos iguales y tuvi\u00e9ramos miedo de ser diferentes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It would be really hard to differentiate ourselves or fall in love with someone when we&#8217;re all the same (and we would certainly die of boredom).&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be proud of who you are and don&#8217;t be afraid to express yourself in every aspect of your life. If you&#8217;re a girl and you want to wear tomboy clothes (even though they are considered unfeminine), then do it!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&#8217;re a guy and you&#8217;re afraid of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/horoscope\/life-horoscope\/zodiac-sign-expresses-emotions\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">expresar sus emociones<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> porque se considera femenino, \u00a1a\u00fan as\u00ed hazlo! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If this is who you are and if you&#8217;re comfortable with it, there&#8217;s absolutely no reason why you shouldn&#8217;t be YOU.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t overthink it<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91857 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-lying-on-car.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rubia con gafas de sol tumbada en un coche\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-lying-on-car.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-lying-on-car-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-lying-on-car-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t let other people&#8217;s potential opinion make you anxious about your own actions. Just remind yourself of the fact that there are also people you don&#8217;t like and it is not a big deal, right?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, why would you overthink if someone else doesn&#8217;t like you? When you put it that way, it sounds really funny. But, we human beings like to complicate things even when we&#8217;re offered an easy way out.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rel\u00e1jate, respira hondo y preg\u00fantate lo siguiente: <\/span><b><i>\u00bfSeguir\u00e9 preocup\u00e1ndome por estas mismas cosas dentro de cinco a\u00f1os?&nbsp;<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let me answer this one for you: You won&#8217;t! The truth is, you won&#8217;t remember any of it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Right now it might seem like a big deal if someone doesn&#8217;t like you, but after some time you will find yourself laughing at it and thinking about whether you could have used your time more wisely.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><b>8 Things That Happen When You&#8217;re (Finally) Okay With Not Being Liked By Everyone<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Te permite ser quien eres<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91869 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-hair-5.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente con vestido blanco toc\u00e1ndose el pelo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-hair-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-hair-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-hair-5-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I believe there&#8217;s nothing more powerful in the whole wide world than knowing who you are and being proud of yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you&#8217;re okay with not being liked by everyone, you&#8217;re basically okay with yourself!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You accept the fact that you&#8217;re an imperfect human being and you don&#8217;t worry about it. Instead, you embrace it. You make an effort to be your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">el mejor yo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> every day and that&#8217;s all that matters.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re not anxious about expressing yourself in front of other people because you know the only thing that matters is that you believe in what you&#8217;re talking about.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Respetas a los dem\u00e1s y defiendes tus principios.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sabes cu\u00e1ndo decir no<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91878 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sand-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con top azul sentada en la arena\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sand-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sand-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sand-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ya no eres un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">complacer a la gente<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You know when to say no because you&#8217;re being true to yourself. If someone asks you to do something you&#8217;re not okay with, you reject them politely and move on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After that, you don&#8217;t spend the rest of the day worrying about whether they still like you or not. Why? Because you don&#8217;t care.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You know that you did the right thing and they have a choice to respect that or to hold grudges. And whatever their choice is, you don&#8217;t take it personally.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En lugar de desvivirte por complacer a todos los que te rodean, te centras en lo que t\u00fa quieres y en lo que te parece bien. Es la dosis definitiva de amor y respeto por uno mismo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/8-senales-de-que-te-gusta-agradar-a-la-gente\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">8 Signs You&#8217;re A <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Complacer a la gente<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Y c\u00f3mo dejar de serlo<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Puedes expresarte libremente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91880 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-3.jpg\" alt=\"mujer hablando con mujer sentada a la mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you&#8217;re worried about being liked by everyone, you tend to overthink your words and actions. We all know the drill:&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hmm&#8230;if I wear this dress to a party, everyone will think that I overdid it. I probably shouldn&#8217;t wear it (because I don&#8217;t want them to think that I&#8217;m trying too hard. Instead, I want them to like me.)<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, when you&#8217;re FINALLY okay with not being liked by everyone, you don&#8217;t overthink such things. You think about how you feel in that dress and not about what other people might say.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your own comfort becomes your number one priority and not other people&#8217;s opinions. You&#8217;re not afraid to express yourself in different ways because you know that&#8217;s who you truly are and you&#8217;re not ashamed of it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Usted <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/como-dejarlo-todo\/\"><b>hazte GRATIS<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And if everyone else around you is partying, you&#8217;re not afraid to read a book instead and say that you&#8217;re not interested in going out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If the majority of people are wearing\/doing one thing, you&#8217;re not afraid to rock your own style and do what feels natural to you and not someone else.<\/span><b>&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Te ayuda a emplear tu tiempo sabiamente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91886 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-walking.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con top marron caminando cerca de los arboles\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-walking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-walking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-walking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aprend\u00ed por las malas que preocuparse por lo que piensan los dem\u00e1s y por caerles bien es una enorme p\u00e9rdida de tiempo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are so many inspiring, creative things we can do instead of blindly dancing to other people&#8217;s tunes and &#8220;begging&#8221; them to like us.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cuando nos damos cuenta de ello, elegimos emplear nuestro tiempo sabiamente. Nos mimamos con nutritivos <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/consejos-de-autocuidado\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autocuidado<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> rituales<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">salimos a pasear, vamos al cine solos.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We dance like there&#8217;s no tomorrow (not caring about what others think) and Taylor Swift agrees with us as well:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;&#8216;Cause the players gonna play, play, play, play, play<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Y los que odian van a odiar, odiar, odiar, odiar, odiar<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Baby, I&#8217;m just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Me lo sacudo, me lo sacudo<\/span><\/i><i><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Los rompecorazones van a romper, romper, romper, romper, romper<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Y los farsantes van a falsificar, falsificar, falsificar, falsificar<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Baby, I&#8217;m just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I shake it off, I shake it off.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (Shake It Off)<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Te conviertes en una inspiraci\u00f3n para los dem\u00e1s<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91889 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-wearing-black-jacket.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con pintalabios rojo y chaqueta negra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-wearing-black-jacket.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-wearing-black-jacket-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-wearing-black-jacket-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esta es una de mis favoritas. Piensa en tus \u00eddolos y modelos (si tienes uno o varios) y preg\u00fantate qu\u00e9 es lo que te gusta de ellos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Probablemente hacen las cosas de forma diferente a los dem\u00e1s, tienen un estilo, una opini\u00f3n, etc., diferente, \u00bfverdad?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And that&#8217;s the reason why you like them!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>You see, when you&#8217;re okay with not being liked by everyone, you become an inspiration to others because you&#8217;re not afraid to be who you are.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&#8217;s say that you wear a different, non-standard outfit to school or work one day. Some people will see you as a weirdo, while others will be inspired by your courage.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s exactly what happens with your role models as well. Some people like them and are inspired by them, while others don&#8217;t and that&#8217;s totally okay.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The truth is, not everyone is going to like you and by being who you are, you\u2019ve got nothing to lose because you become an inspiration to others.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Hazlo lo mejor que puedas (en lugar de preocuparte) se convierte en tu lema<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91891 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-using-laptop-5.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con top rojo usando port\u00e1til sentada a la mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-using-laptop-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-using-laptop-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-using-laptop-5-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Te esfuerzas por ser tu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">el mejor yo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> hoy y todos los d\u00edas porque hacerlo lo mejor posible se convierte en el lema de tu vida.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You no longer worry whether someone will judge your choices, habits or ideas because you know that you&#8217;re being the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lo mejor de ti<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> puede ser.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cuando lo sabes, te proteges de cualquier posible negatividad.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&#8217;t have a problem acknowledging your flaws and quirks, admitting when you&#8217;re wrong, correcting your mistakes, or apologizing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re open to constant growth and that&#8217;s the main thing you&#8217;re focused on. You see every mistake as a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/6-importantes-lecciones-de-vida-ruptura-dolorosa\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">valiosa lecci\u00f3n<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and you don&#8217;t blame yourself or others for it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ves las cosas como son e intentas mejorarlas y tambi\u00e9n aceptas las que no puedes cambiar.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ser diferente es la clave del \u00e9xito<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91892 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-eyeglasses.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con dos mo\u00f1os en el pelo sujetando unas gafas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-eyeglasses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-eyeglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-eyeglasses-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Courtney Love once said that: &#8220;All publicity is good publicity to a certain degree&#8221;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tu deseo es convertirte en influencer (que es una de las vocaciones modernas m\u00e1s populares hoy en d\u00eda), ser diferente te ayudar\u00e1 de innumerables maneras.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Both people who like you and those who don&#8217;t (good and bad publicity) will make you successful because the only thing that matters is that you&#8217;re a hot topic.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lo m\u00e1s importante es que compartan, comenten y les gusten tus cosas y esto impulsar\u00e1 tu perfil y, como resultado, te har\u00e1 triunfar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This rule can be applied to every aspect of our lives as well. When we&#8217;re not afraid to be different from others, we develop a different mindset and skills \u2013 like thinking outside the box, for example.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, yes, be different and don&#8217;t worry whether someone will like you or not because this is the key to success.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Te ayuda a atraer m\u00e1s cosas positivas a tu vida<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91895 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-forest-3.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente de pie en el bosque\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-forest-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-forest-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-forest-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you&#8217;re okay with not being liked by everyone, you spread positive <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vibraciones<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> a tu alrededor y, lo que es m\u00e1s importante, al Universo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Thinking positively attracts more positive things into your life and that&#8217;s <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/10-pasos-para-manifestar-el-amor-con-una-persona-especifica-utilizando-la-ley-de-la-atraccion\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">la Ley de la Atracci\u00f3n<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lo que piensas, lo atraes a tu vida.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, imagine that you constantly worry about not being liked by others and how it makes you feel miserable. This will only attract more negative things into your life (and you don&#8217;t want that).&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Reflexiones finales<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91905 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-field-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rubia de pie en un campo de trigo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-field-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-field-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-field-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead of worrying about other people&#8217;s approval, the only thing you should be worrying about is being the best version of yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whenever you&#8217;re feeling down about the fact that not everyone is going to like you, remember the following:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>&#8220;You can\u2019t change how people treat you or what they say about you. All you can do is change how you react to it.&#8221;<\/i><\/b><b> \u2013 Mahatma Gandhi<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/el-amor-verdadero-te-acepta-como-eres\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">True Love Accepts You As You Are, It Doesn&#8217;t Compare You To Others<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-93360 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Not-Everyone-Is-Going-To-Like-You-And-Heres-Why-Thats-Okay-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"No vas a gustar a todo el mundo y por eso no pasa nada\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Not-Everyone-Is-Going-To-Like-You-And-Heres-Why-Thats-Okay-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Not-Everyone-Is-Going-To-Like-You-And-Heres-Why-Thats-Okay-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Not-Everyone-Is-Going-To-Like-You-And-Heres-Why-Thats-Okay-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Not-Everyone-Is-Going-To-Like-You-And-Heres-Why-Thats-Okay-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Not everyone is going to like you. Don&#8217;t let it phase you.&#8221; \u2013 Unknown Before I say anything else, I feel like I should be honest with you (that doesn&#8217;t mean the rest of what I say will be a lie).&nbsp; I humbly and wholeheartedly admit that I&#8217;m one of those individuals who have spent&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":91820,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-91804","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Not-Everyone-Is-Going-To-Like-You-And-Heres-Why-Thats-Okay.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91804","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=91804"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91804\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/91820"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=91804"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=91804"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=91804"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}