{"id":9196,"date":"2020-09-28T11:27:59","date_gmt":"2020-09-28T11:27:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9196"},"modified":"2021-12-17T01:51:12","modified_gmt":"2021-12-17T01:51:12","slug":"la-chica-tiene-que-dejar-de-intentar-salvar-a-la-gente-toxica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-chica-tiene-que-dejar-de-intentar-salvar-a-la-gente-toxica\/","title":{"rendered":"A la chica que necesita dejar de intentar salvar a gente t\u00f3xica"},"content":{"rendered":"

It’s a hard thing to realize that you’re attracting toxic people<\/a>\u2014let alone realizing that you’re trying to save them, too. You’re someone who knows you were born to help others.<\/p>\n

Sabes que llevas en la sangre el hacer que la gente encuentre su camino y se convierta en la persona que siempre ha estado destinada a ser. Pero tambi\u00e9n sabes que hay una l\u00ednea que, por alguna raz\u00f3n, siempre se cruza.<\/p>\n

Eres el tipo de persona que pondr\u00eda su vida en peligro para salvar a cualquiera.<\/p>\n

And even though that’s an amazing trait, it leaves you open to being taken advantage of and hurt constantly\u2014which you’ve had to deal with plenty of times before.<\/p>\n

The thing is though, you don’t need to deal with it from toxic people.<\/p>\n

You don’t need to stop helping people, but you do need to stop trying to help gente t\u00f3xica<\/a>. You have to start deciding: who deserves you in their life and who doesn’t?<\/p>\n

\"<\/p>\n

Lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil de ser un ahorrador y una persona que har\u00eda cualquier cosa por ayudar a otra es que das demasiado de ti mismo.<\/p>\n

And you don’t ask for anything in return\u2014which leaves you hurting and empty after an encounter with a toxic person.<\/p>\n

En lo que tienes que centrarte es en ti mismo y en lo que necesitas, as\u00ed como en lo que necesitan los dem\u00e1s. Est\u00e1s tan inclinado a dar prioridad a los dem\u00e1s que olvidas lo importante que es cuidar de ti mismo y de lo que necesitas.<\/p>\n

Life is too short to not be enjoying it. And yes, saving people is just what you do, but you can’t save toxic people.<\/p>\n

Toxic people will drain, manipulate, and hurt you\u2014no matter how much they need help and someone in their corner. That person can not be you.<\/p>\n

You’re too kind, too giving, and you have a hard time standing up for yourself. Now this is in no way bad.<\/p>\n

Pero una vez que una persona t\u00f3xica se apodera de ti, puede cambiarte para peor.<\/p>\n

Empiezan a hacerte sentir enfadado y dolido por el don que tienes. Te hacen sentir que el mundo no tiene remedio y que lo \u00fanico que har\u00e1n es herirte y utilizarte.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You’ll go down a path that will kill you from the inside out. And it will be terribly hard to find the person you used to be\u2014the one who only ever wanted to help others.<\/p>\n

It’s going to be hard to say no. These people are going to make you want to cave in and want to help them, but you know all too well what will happen.<\/p>\n

So, please stay strong. Don’t let people who don’t care about your amazing outlook on the world and its people change you. S\u00f3lo te har\u00e1n sentir miserable.<\/a><\/p>\n

Toxic people will always be toxic. It’s something they have inside that won’t change unless they change it themselves.<\/p>\n

Y cuando se trata de gente como t\u00fa, gente que tiene un coraz\u00f3n de oro, se aprovechan de ti todo lo que pueden.<\/p>\n

Because deep down, they wish that your heart was theirs, and they wish that the world wasn’t so cruel to them and so good to you.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Little do they know, it’s not the world who’s been cruel, it is them.<\/p>\n

But they end up trying to make you a cruel person because they are jealous. It’s a cycle that isn’t fair, but you can stop it.<\/p>\n

Cuando conoces a una persona t\u00f3xica, no importa si la quieres o no, tienes que marcharte.<\/p>\n

You need to remind yourself that your gift of helping people needs to go to those who deserve it\u2014the people who always give something back.<\/p>\n

These are the people who will appreciate you and all you do for them and will never make you feel hurt or like you aren’t getting anything in return.<\/p>\n

Your life, and everyone’s for that matter, is hard enough as it is. So, stop trying to fix those who don’t want to be fixed.<\/p>\n

It will save you so much heartache and it will remind you that some people don’t deserve someone as good as you in their lives.<\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>\n

por Nicole Clements<\/strong><\/p>\n

Read more of Nicole\u2019s articles on her Facebook page<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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