{"id":9218,"date":"2020-06-28T13:26:18","date_gmt":"2020-06-28T13:26:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9218"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:15:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:15:16","slug":"estancia-planificada-apartada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estancia-planificada-apartada\/","title":{"rendered":"Ella planeaba quedarse, pero t\u00fa la alejaste"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nunca pens\u00f3 que era perfecta, pero intent\u00f3 serlo s\u00f3lo por ti.<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo ten\u00eda ojos para ti. Quer\u00eda ser digna de ti y deseaba con todas sus fuerzas ser digna de tu amor.<\/p>\n

Esperaba que si segu\u00eda siendo una versi\u00f3n mejor de s\u00ed misma, si se esforzaba lo suficiente por cumplir tus expectativas, le har\u00edas un hueco en tu vida.<\/p>\n

Intentaba ser perfecta, trabajaba en sus defectos y sonre\u00eda por muy dolorosas que fueran las cosas por las que pasaba, siempre con la esperanza de que llegaran d\u00edas mejores.<\/p>\n

No quer\u00eda nada m\u00e1s que estar ah\u00ed para ti.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

She wasn’t one of those girls who wanted to have you 24\/7 even though you were on her mind all the time.<\/p>\n

She didn’t have sky-high expectations nor did she ever wish to have something you couldn’t offer her. Actually, she was the one ready to give all of herself to you.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quer\u00eda estar ah\u00ed para ti. Quer\u00eda formar parte de tu vida.<\/a><\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda ser una persona en la que encontraras consuelo, quer\u00eda que supieras que la ten\u00edas, d\u00eda y noche.<\/p>\n

When it came to you, she was selfless with how much she gave herself to you. But at the end of the day, you didn’t grant her that wish either.<\/p>\n

Ella quer\u00eda amarte<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda que t\u00fa fueras la persona a la que dar\u00eda su amor. Te eligi\u00f3 por encima de todo y de todos.<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda besarte cuando estabas triste, quer\u00eda o\u00edr qu\u00e9 hab\u00eda ido mal cuando estabas enfadado, y cuando estabas frustrado quer\u00eda escucharte y ayudarte a mejorar.<\/p>\n

Ella era tu persona, pero nunca fuiste realmente suyo. Nunca le permitiste acercarse lo suficiente como para dejarte sentir lo que ella sent\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Conoc\u00eda todos tus defectos, pero a\u00fan as\u00ed los valoraba tanto como tus virtudes.<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

She never expected you to be extraordinary. She never wanted you to be something you weren’t. She accepted you just like that, just the way you were.<\/p>\n

She wasn’t blind, she was perfectly aware of your flaws, but she still valued them as much as your strengths.<\/p>\n

Sab\u00eda que no eras m\u00e1s que un ser humano y que, con todos tus defectos y errores, segu\u00edas siendo perfecto para ella.<\/p>\n

She should be next to you now, but she isn’t. <\/i><\/p>\n

She still can’t bring herself to hate you, even though you probably deserve it<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

If it was any other girl in her place, you’d be on her list of of people close to her heart to hate. But she can’t bring herself to do it.<\/p>\n

No importa lo que hayas hecho, no importa lo in\u00fatil que la hayas hecho sentir, c\u00f3mo la hayas hecho sentir que no eres lo suficientemente bueno y no importa lo indigno que seas de su amor, ella nunca ser\u00e1 capaz de odiarte.<\/p>\n

Aunque ella quer\u00eda quedarse, t\u00fa la apartaste.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Truth be told, even though she is a good girl and she utterly cares about you, she wasn’t able to stay. She wanted to, but you gave her no reason to stay.<\/p>\n

She couldn’t continue bringing herself down just so she could keep you up.<\/p>\n

Down the road of giving you everything and getting nothing in return, she realized that sometimes you have to take care of yourself and sometimes you have to give up on love even when it’s not what you really want to do.<\/p>\n

So she left. But she didn’t leave willingly, la alejaste.<\/a> <\/p>\n

La alejaste al no decirle lo mucho que la quer\u00edas, la alejaste al no apreciar sus esfuerzos, al no valorar todo lo que hizo por vosotros dos.<\/p>\n

La alejaste al elegir siempre a otros antes que a ella.<\/p>\n

No hay excusa para lo que le hiciste.<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

You can’t blame it on your past and you can’t blame it on anything else. You lost a good girl and this one is on you. You broke her.<\/p>\n

Nunca le diste lo que se merec\u00eda y lo \u00fanico que ella quer\u00eda era estar en tu vida. Solo necesitabas mudarte y hacerle un hueco, pero incluso eso era mucho pedir.<\/p>\n

Era \u00fanica y la dejaste escapar.<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

You should’ve loved her. You should’ve appreciated her. But you didn’t. And that’s why you don’t have her anymore.<\/p>\n

Cuando le demostraste que no ten\u00eda lugar en tu vida, cuando no le diste nada, se recompuso y tuvo la dignidad suficiente para alejarse.<\/p>\n

But don’t ever blame it on her. Because she didn’t just walk away.<\/p>\n

A girl like her doesn’t just walk away like that, you pushed her away. But don\u2019t stress about it. She couldn\u2019t stay yours forever.<\/p>\n

One day, you will no longer have a place in her heart because there will be someone out there who’ll notice her. Who’ll be able to see her for all she is.<\/p>\n

Someone who’ll value her and treat her the way she deserves. But you’ll never find anyone like her again. She was a once in a lifetime opportunity. And you missed it.<\/p>\n

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