{"id":9232,"date":"2018-11-29T08:32:49","date_gmt":"2018-11-29T08:32:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9232"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:25:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:25:31","slug":"la-chica-sigue-culpando","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-chica-sigue-culpando\/","title":{"rendered":"A la chica que a\u00fan se culpa"},"content":{"rendered":"

What can I say to make you see that you weren\u2019t the \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 se fue?<\/a><\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t because you nagged him or because you were bad in bed. It wasn\u2019t because you were mean, or rude, or filled with jealousy at the wrong moments.<\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t because you weren\u2019t attractive, or because you weren\u2019t as sexy or as playful or as innocent as other girls.<\/p>\n

He left because he wanted to, because he didn\u2019t deserve the person you are, because he couldn\u2019t handle what it was like to not date, or kiss, or love, someone who wasn\u2019t an asshole.<\/p>\n

He left because you\u2019re the kind of woman who made him work, who challenged him, who asked questions, who spoke up, who had a voice that he wasn\u2019t ready to hear.<\/p>\n

Su razonamiento sobre por qu\u00e9 se fue te dejar\u00e1 pregunt\u00e1ndote d\u00f3nde USTED<\/strong> weren\u2019t wrong but it\u2019s his fault, no tuyo<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Usted no controla sus inseguridades. Usted no est\u00e1 a cargo de arreglar su pasado t\u00f3xico<\/a> y no mereces lidiar con las repercusiones de su confusi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

You aren\u2019t to blame for how he deals with the toxicity of his childhood or past relationships where someone did him wrong. You aren\u2019t in charge of fixing his insecurities when he uses them as an excuse to mistreat you, to belittle you, to disgrace you.<\/p>\n

He will try and try and try to convince you that you need him, that you belong to him but you are nobody\u2019s property.<\/p>\n

Se reir\u00e1 cuando tengas ganas de llorar y tergiversar\u00e1 tus palabras hasta que tristemente empieces a cre\u00e9rtelas. Te cortar\u00e1 con palabras y con enga\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

Se burlar\u00e1 del amor que tienes en tu coraz\u00f3n, el mismo amor que te susurr\u00f3 que le dieras una oportunidad, el mismo amor que hizo la vista gorda, el mismo amor que te hizo sentir que a\u00fan ard\u00eda algo bueno dentro de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>\n

T\u00fa no eres la raz\u00f3n por la que decidi\u00f3 irse.<\/p>\n

Usted no es la raz\u00f3n por la que era infeliz<\/a> porque ser\u00e1 infeliz con la siguiente mujer, y con la siguiente, y con la siguiente despu\u00e9s de esa porque nunca encontrar\u00e1 la paz para ser lo suficientemente feliz consigo mismo.
T\u00fa no eres la raz\u00f3n por la que \u00e9l est\u00e1 roto.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 tu propio recurso para la felicidad. S\u00e9 tu propia raz\u00f3n para levantarte por la ma\u00f1ana, para afrontar el d\u00eda y patear traseros mientras lo haces. Te prometo que, con el tiempo, esas cicatrices y esas heridas de guerra desaparecer\u00e1n. Las m\u00edas acabaron desapareciendo.<\/p>\n

Eventually, he will fade into the background. He will become the warning story you save for rainy nights or during your daughter\u2019s first break-up when she fails to realize that the guy who just broke up with her reminds you of this person you used to love all those years ago.<\/p>\n

And down the line, you\u2019ll come to realize that nada ha cambiado realmente<\/a>. He will still be unhappy and unsure of how to handle the kind of love you tried to offer him. He doesn\u2019t think he\u2019s deserving of it because his entire life he fought the very definition of it.<\/p>\n

The memories of who he was and what he did and how he made you feel won\u2019t define you forever. I assure you of that.<\/p>\n

por Courtney Dercqu<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n

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