{"id":92414,"date":"2020-09-10T13:44:05","date_gmt":"2020-09-10T13:44:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=92414"},"modified":"2022-05-04T11:27:35","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T11:27:35","slug":"un-hombre-de-verdad-se-disculpara","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/un-hombre-de-verdad-se-disculpara\/","title":{"rendered":"Un hombre de verdad se disculpar\u00e1 porque te valora m\u00e1s que a su orgullo"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfNunca te has cansado de los hombres que fingen no saber lo que hicieron mal?<\/strong><\/p>\n

What\u2019s worse, they expect you to forget about it or ridicule your behavior and accuse you of being passive-aggressive.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done with that. I refuse to waste my time on men who aren\u2019t able to put their ego aside.<\/strong><\/p>\n

For how long do women just passively have to accept that men are \u2018\u2019like that\u2019\u2019 and keep living their life caged in someone\u2019s fake sense of self?<\/p>\n

A man who loves you will not want to make you feel like you\u2019re less than him. He will hate to see you hurt or in pain.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t put his pride or some silly fight above your love. When there\u2019s love, there\u2019s a way.<\/p>\n

When we\u2019re selfless, it\u2019s easy to abandonar el orgullo<\/a> y ver m\u00e1s all\u00e1 del problema superficial.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 la autorreflexi\u00f3n es tan dif\u00edcil para los hombres en general?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t require any work, just objective thinking about their behavior. How hard is it to say two little words?<\/p>\n

Why is it so hard to say I\u2019m sorry? Well, there are a few reasons.<\/p>\n

The first reason is they have a hard time admitting they\u2019re wrong.<\/strong> Les hace parecer menos competentes y eso lo odian.<\/p>\n

If they say they\u2019re sorry, it means you win \u2013 or that\u2019s how they see it.<\/p>\n

Needless to say \u2013 men don\u2019t like to lose; they don\u2019t like to feel weak.<\/p>\n

La segunda raz\u00f3n es responder con un s\u00ed pero a\u00f1adiendo el peque\u00f1o e irritante pero inmediatamente despu\u00e9s.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They play the blame game. I did this but you did that first. This doesn\u2019t get you anywhere.<\/p>\n

La tercera raz\u00f3n es el miedo a la vulnerabilidad.<\/strong> Admitting you\u2019re wrong is admitting you are a vulnerable being.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, many men are brainwashed into thinking they shouldn\u2019t show their feelings, and sometimes this is the cost \u2013 a pointless obstacle in communication that could be resolved so quickly.<\/p>\n

Ninguna de estas razones excusa la falta de disculpas, s\u00f3lo explican los posibles motivos.<\/p>\n

If a man can\u2019t apologize after doing something wrong \u2013 te est\u00e1 faltando al respeto<\/a>. It\u2019s clear as day, no doubt about that.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s very easy to see that he doesn\u2019t value your feelings. Why else would he prioritize his pride?<\/p>\n

Why is something banal more important than love and his significant other\u2019s feelings?<\/p>\n

The truth is \u2013 women don\u2019t really want that much. They just want a hombre maduro<\/a> who can admit that he\u2019s wrong when he\u2019s wrong.<\/strong><\/p>\n

With a mature man \u2013 you can resolve any problem with a conversation. There are no unnecessary fights and silly pride.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no jealousy and no mind games. He is responsible and careful with words. He doesn\u2019t let his ego loose<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Un hombre maduro te valorar\u00e1 incluso cuando no est\u00e9is de acuerdo porque sabe que los desacuerdos forman parte de la relaci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Te apoyar\u00e1 incondicionalmente en tus proyectos y te querr\u00e1 por lo que eres.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t be afraid of saying those two words \u2013 in fact, he will encourage communication and problem-solving.<\/p>\n

Un hombre de verdad siempre busca mejorar la situaci\u00f3n en lugar de mantenerla estancada.<\/strong> \u00bfQu\u00e9 mejor objetivo puede haber para una relaci\u00f3n seria?<\/p>\n

Para crecer, las cosas deben evolucionar y cambiar. Deben ser mejores y m\u00e1s sabias y no quedarse estancadas en un c\u00edrculo vicioso de problemas y miedos del pasado.<\/p>\n

Las relaciones son el arma definitiva contra el orgullo y todo tipo de comportamiento ego\u00edsta.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"charla<\/p>\n

In a relationship you just can\u2019t be selfish \u2013 otherwise, it\u2019s a very dysfunctional relationship.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why it\u2019s always better to learn from the things that trigger us and make us feel the things we\u2019d rather not feel.<\/p>\n

Debemos luchar contra las debilidades y eso incluye un ego fr\u00e1gil.<\/p>\n

The funny thing is \u2013 it\u2019s so easy to just admit something, let go, and learn from your mistake. But that would take a mature man.<\/p>\n

If your man is ready to admit his wrongs \u2013 he has his priorities listed correctly.<\/p>\n

If your man apologizes after being wrong \u2013 know that he\u2019s a keeper. <\/strong><\/p>\n

That means that to him \u2013 your love comes first, siempre<\/em>\u2026 and that\u2019s what true love is about.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Un<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Do you ever get sick of men pretending they don\u2019t know what they did wrong? What\u2019s worse, they expect you to forget about it or ridicule your behavior and accuse you of being passive-aggressive. I\u2019m done with that. I refuse to waste my time on men who aren\u2019t able to put their ego aside. For…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":92477,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-92414","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Real-Man-Will-Apologize-Because-He-Values-You-More-Than-His-Pride.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/92414","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=92414"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/92414\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92477"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=92414"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=92414"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=92414"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}