{"id":9272,"date":"2019-11-29T12:07:18","date_gmt":"2019-11-29T12:07:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9272"},"modified":"2022-01-11T00:15:32","modified_gmt":"2022-01-11T00:15:32","slug":"echara-de-menos-darse-cuenta-no-necesita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/echara-de-menos-darse-cuenta-no-necesita\/","title":{"rendered":"Me echar\u00e1s de menos cuando te des cuenta de que no te necesito"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Es curioso c\u00f3mo la gente da por sentados a sus seres queridos. Crees que si alguien te quiere, siempre estar\u00e1 ah\u00ed le hagas lo que le hagas.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Bueno, siento reventar tu burbuja, pero tengo otra opini\u00f3n sobre la vida.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>I don\u2019t want the love of my life to take me for granted, thinking that I will always be there for him.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I can\u2019t be there if someone doesn\u2019t want me to be. I can\u2019t help him if he doesn\u2019t want to be helped. And most of all, I can\u2019t have enough love for both of us.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I once heard that you don\u2019t know what you have until it is gone. I think that you do, but deep down, you think that you will never lose it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Y eso era lo que pensabas de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You had that strange idea that I will be there even when you don\u2019t want me. You thought that I don\u2019t have my life and my self-respect.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Pensaste que te necesitaba como necesito el aire en mis pulmones. Pero en todo ese l\u00edo, olvidaste que<a href=\"https:\/\/tinybuddha.com\/blog\/what-it-means-to-really-take-care-of-yourself\/\" rel=\"noopener\"> Puedo cuidar de m\u00ed mismo.&nbsp;<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ver\u00e1s, cari\u00f1o, cuando el amor muere, ya nada es importante. Fui testigo de c\u00f3mo nuestro amor mor\u00eda lentamente cuando no hiciste ning\u00fan esfuerzo por salvarlo.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Yo era siempre la que hac\u00eda un esfuerzo extra para salvar lo que ten\u00edamos. Yo era el que intentaba hablar contigo cuando discut\u00edamos.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Fui yo quien trajo la paz a nuestro hogar, pag\u00e1ndolo con mis l\u00e1grimas. Y fui yo quien se preocup\u00f3 m\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00bfY t\u00fa?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Pensaste que el amor durar\u00eda para siempre s\u00f3lo porque me pusiste un anillo de boda.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You didn\u2019t see that it takes a lot of time and effort to maintain the relationship we once had\u2014or you just thought that I will handle that.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Tal vez pensaste que yo ser\u00e9 quien nos salve cuando la vida se ponga dif\u00edcil. Bueno, pensaste mal.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I won\u2019t be the only one to fight for our love. I just asked you to fight for me and you couldn\u2019t even do that.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">As\u00ed que esta vez renuncio. Renuncio a ti y a la vida que he estado viviendo durante demasiado tiempo.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ya no soy una mujer alegre y feliz y t\u00fa eres el culpable de ello. He estado tratando de hacer mi propia suerte pero t\u00fa estropeas mis planes cada vez que te veo.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I don\u2019t know what happened to you but you are not the same person anymore.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>I don\u2019t recognize the man I sleep with every night.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I don\u2019t see the point in your actions and in your words. It hurts me so much when you don\u2019t trust me like you used to.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">It hurts me when you don\u2019t look at me with that passion in your eyes that I was able to see before. And frankly speaking, I don\u2019t want to live like this anymore.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Merezco mucho mejor que una relaci\u00f3n casi. Merezco mucho mejor que un hombre roto.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">As\u00ed que..,<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/miriam-miller\/2017\/03\/to-my-almost-lover-this-is-my-last-goodbye\/\" rel=\"noopener\"> este es mi \u00faltimo adi\u00f3s.<\/a> Hoy empiezo un nuevo cap\u00edtulo de mi vida y esta vez ser\u00e1 sin ti.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">After all this shit that you did to me, don\u2019t try to crawl back once you realize that I can survive without you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Now I see that you weren\u2019t in love with me, but you were in love with the feeling that I needed you to function normally. And you are broken now when you see that I can do things on my own.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Tu mundo se desmorona porque ves que puedo vivir normalmente sin ti.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>You didn\u2019t see this coming, right?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You didn\u2019t know how that small and na\u00efve girl you once met grew older and became this strong and independent woman. Well, I am here, stronger than ever and I don\u2019t want you in my life anymore.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I don\u2019t need you and that is what hurts you the most. So now, you can start living the life I have lived all these years with you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You can cry every night while waiting for my text I won\u2019t send. You can follow me in the street to see who I am meeting with. And most of all, you can see that our love is dead.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/te-dijo-que-la-echarias-de-menos-lastima-que-no-la-escucharas\/\">Una vez te dije que me echar\u00edas de menos<\/a> when you realize that I don\u2019t need you anymore.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>And that day has come\u2014the day when I felt much better because I stopped giving you second chances!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-60793\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/YOU-WILL-MISS-ME-WHEN-YOU-REALIZE-THAT-I-DON\u2019T-NEED-YOU.jpg\" alt=\"ME ECHAR\u00c1S DE MENOS CUANDO TE DES CUENTA DE QUE NO TE NECESITO\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/YOU-WILL-MISS-ME-WHEN-YOU-REALIZE-THAT-I-DON\u2019T-NEED-YOU.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/YOU-WILL-MISS-ME-WHEN-YOU-REALIZE-THAT-I-DON\u2019T-NEED-YOU-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/YOU-WILL-MISS-ME-WHEN-YOU-REALIZE-THAT-I-DON\u2019T-NEED-YOU-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/YOU-WILL-MISS-ME-WHEN-YOU-REALIZE-THAT-I-DON\u2019T-NEED-YOU-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It is funny how people take their loved ones for granted. You think that if someone loves you, they will always be there no matter what you do to them. Well, sorry to burst your bubble, but I have another opinion about life. I don\u2019t want the love of my life to take me for&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":29432,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9272","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/back-view-backlit-city-847483-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9272","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9272"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9272\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29432"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9272"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9272"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9272"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}