{"id":92852,"date":"2020-09-11T12:38:14","date_gmt":"2020-09-11T12:38:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=92852"},"modified":"2022-06-10T12:04:45","modified_gmt":"2022-06-10T12:04:45","slug":"mi-marido-quiere-el-divorcio-pero-yo-le-sigo-queriendo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mi-marido-quiere-el-divorcio-pero-yo-le-sigo-queriendo\/","title":{"rendered":"Mi marido quiere divorciarse pero yo a\u00fan le quiero - 16 cosas que debes y no debes hacer"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mi marido quiere el divorcio pero Todav\u00eda le quiero<\/a>. What we have is worth fighting for and I can’t let years of marriage to my best friend just wither\u2026 Is it too late to make my marriage work?<\/em><\/p>\n

It depends. There are countless factors and underlying issues that could be influencing your husband’s incredibly difficult decision.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que un d\u00eda se despert\u00f3 y te dio esta impactante noticia.<\/p>\n

Lo que cre\u00edas que era una ma\u00f1ana de martes m\u00e1s result\u00f3 ser lo \u00faltimo que esperabas: hablar de divorcio.<\/p>\n

However, before you’re served actual divorce papers, there’s plenty of time to get to the bottom of your broken marriage and find a glimmer of hope that could salvage it.<\/p>\n

Marriage problems aren’t unusual, but it takes a lot of work to save a marriage that your husband is so eager to end. So let’s get to it.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Una relaci\u00f3n disfuncional: Qu\u00e9 es y c\u00f3mo reconocer las se\u00f1ales<\/a><\/p>\n

Qu\u00e9 NO hacer cuando tu marido quiere divorciarse<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Before we delve into getting your husband back, first, let’s make sure you don’t manifest any of these behaviors.<\/p>\n

Esto disminuir\u00e1 significativamente sus posibilidades de reconciliaci\u00f3n y s\u00f3lo lo alejar\u00e1 a\u00fan m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Act\u00faa<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ante todo, mant\u00e9n la compostura. Tu comportamiento durante este extra\u00f1o momento es de vital importancia.<\/p>\n

Don’t go all crazy and start drinking and partying.<\/p>\n

Stay away from temptations that will only make your husband more sure of his decision. Don’t bash him on social media either.<\/p>\n

Lo que debe hacer es mantener la calma y la serenidad, y dedicar mucho tiempo a reflexionar sobre c\u00f3mo evitar el proceso de divorcio.<\/p>\n

Don’t immediately think that it’s too late.<\/p>\n

Every married couple has their challenges, it’s all about figuring it out together and looking for that spark if it’s still there.<\/p>\n

Ru\u00e9gale que te acepte de nuevo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

A healthy relationship doesn’t require begging, pleading, crying, or pressuring your spouse to stay with you, especially if you notice all those signs your husband isn’t in love with you.<\/a><\/p>\n

And I’m certain you don’t want his sense of obligation to keep him by your side.<\/p>\n

Think about your mental health. You’re having a hard time dealing with this as it is. Begging will only make you more desperate.<\/p>\n

Try to find out why he’s so hell-bent on divorcing you in the first place and consider all options before doing something you’ll regret.<\/p>\n

Los l\u00edmites sanos son importantes. Por dif\u00edcil que sea ahora, intenta ser respetuoso y mantener tu dignidad.<\/p>\n

Trata de comprar de nuevo su amor<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Especially if you feel like your actions may have prompted his decision, trying to buy his love won’t get you anything but more misery.<\/p>\n

Love isn’t for sale. And if you did something to jeopardize his trust in you, no money or lavish gifts could compensate \u2013 that is, unless you want him to become your ex-husband soon.<\/p>\n

If you’ve ever been to marriage counseling, you probably understand that buying your loved ones’ love is a surefire step in the wrong direction.<\/p>\n

C\u00e9ntrate en reconectar emocionalmente para evitar una inevitable monta\u00f1a rusa de emociones.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Mi Ex Ya Est\u00e1 Saliendo Con Otra Persona Y Me Duele - Esta Es La Raz\u00f3n<\/a><\/p>\n

Trata de manipularlo para que se quede<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It’s not okay to think Mi marido quiere el divorcio pero yo le sigo queriendo, as\u00ed que eso me da derecho a utilizar cualquier medio necesario para retenerle.<\/em><\/p>\n

I know you’re probably saying to yourself, Mi divorcio, mis reglas<\/em>pero intenta ponerte en su lugar.<\/p>\n

How would you feel if he manipulated you into staying where you didn’t feel right?<\/p>\n

Love isn’t about manipulation. Love is a natural, organic feeling that’s either there or it isn’t.<\/p>\n

Instead of resorting to manipulative tactics, turn to good friends and say what’s on your heart.<\/p>\n

I love my husband more than anything, but I’d never resort to lowly tactics to save my marriage, and you shouldn’t either.<\/p>\n

Recurre a sus seres queridos para que hagan tu voluntad<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Los procedimientos de divorcio son turbios, complicados y entre dos personas.<\/p>\n

Don’t involve your close friends or family unless absolutely necessary.<\/p>\n

Es el momento de hacer examen de conciencia y discutir asuntos como la manutenci\u00f3n de los hijos, la cuenta bancaria conjunta y otros tecnicismos que deben resolverse si el divorcio es una opci\u00f3n real.<\/p>\n

It’s between you two, and no one else. If there’s nothing you can do, the very least you can do is keep it civil.<\/p>\n

Cuanta m\u00e1s gente intentas meter en ella, m\u00e1s t\u00f3xica se vuelve.<\/p>\n

Ll\u00e1male y m\u00e1ndale mensajes sin cesar<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo ha hecho esta t\u00e1ctica que la otra persona quiera responderte antes? En todo caso, s\u00f3lo crea m\u00e1s frustraci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Take it easy with the phone calls. Especially if he’s currently sleeping on his best friend’s couch.<\/p>\n

Quieres demostrarle que puedes ser considerado con su espacio, no al rev\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

Tal vez s\u00f3lo necesita un respiro. El divorcio es un gran paso.<\/p>\n

If he’s rushing into it, this time alone will give him a good chance to consider what this entails.<\/p>\n

You’re more likely to get him back if you grant him the time he needs. After taking a step back, things become clearer.<\/p>\n

Intenta atraerle record\u00e1ndole los buenos tiempos que pasasteis.<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

He already knows. It’s not like his memories are suddenly erased and he doesn’t remember how happy you once were.<\/p>\n

No matter what’s keeping him away from you, past memories won’t do the trick.<\/p>\n

Reminiscing will only make it hurt more because it’ll remind him how different things are now.<\/p>\n

And I don’t mean in a good way. You don’t want to have to call him an ex-husband, right?<\/p>\n

So don’t rub it in his face because he’s aware of your happy days.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo necesita tiempo para averiguar si los dos pueden volver a ese lugar.<\/p>\n

Dale la oportunidad de ver lo hastiado que es un futuro sin ti.<\/p>\n

Esp\u00eda a tu marido<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Trust is the foundation of every marriage. If you can’t trust your life partner, then who puede<\/em> \u00bfte f\u00edas?<\/p>\n

A pesar de esta rocambolesca situaci\u00f3n, nunca caigas tan bajo como para seguirle, espiarle, leer sus mensajes y dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

It’s below you, and it’s a sign that su matrimonio est\u00e1 realmente m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de la salvaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you trusted him, you wouldn’t feel the need to breach his privacy. He’ll tell you what you want to know; just ask him.<\/p>\n

Besides, if you’re certain that he’s keeping secrets from you, how solid was your marriage anyway?<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Relaci\u00f3n Enmeshed: Definiciones, se\u00f1ales y consejos para superarla<\/a><\/p>\n

Here’s What You SHOULD Do When Dealing With Divorce Talk<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Now that we’ve tackled all the don’ts<\/em> de hacer frente a esta situaci\u00f3n, aqu\u00ed tienes una serie de medidas proactivas que puedes tomar para intentar hacerle cambiar de opini\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

If anything, it’ll keep your mental health in check.<\/p>\n

Mantente confiado y fuerte independientemente de su decisi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Por dif\u00edcil que sea tragar esto ahora mismo, la vida sigue adelante.<\/p>\n

Regardless of what’s going on in his head, your life has to move forward. Especially if there are kids involved.<\/p>\n

You have to remain strong for them too. They need both parents, not just one of you. You can’t take a break from being a mother.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que intenta pensar en ellos, si no en tu propio bienestar. Ser fuerte es tu \u00fanica opci\u00f3n en este momento.<\/p>\n

Vive tu vida, haz lo que haces normalmente y reza por lo mejor.<\/p>\n

Hard times make you stronger, one way or another, so keep your spirits high and your chin up. If there’s love, there’s hope.<\/p>\n

Let your husband speak what’s on his heart without judging<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Keep it clean, civil, and classy. There has to be a way in which you can discuss what’s happening without pointing fingers.<\/p>\n

It’s important that your husband knows that you’re eager to save your marriage.<\/p>\n

It’s vital that he knows that this is a safe environment where he can speak freely and honestly.<\/p>\n

Like I said before, without trust, you don’t have much. Trust him to share his feelings openly without lashing out.<\/p>\n

Tiene derecho a sentir lo que siente. Reconoce sus emociones, preocupaciones y frustraciones si quieres encontrar una soluci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti mismo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ahora es el momento de brillar de verdad. En lugar de pensar Mi marido quiere el divorcio pero yo le sigo queriendo<\/em>S\u00e9 lo mejor que puedas y c\u00e9ntrate en ti.<\/p>\n

Qui\u00e9rete. Cu\u00eddate. Conc\u00e9ntrate en tus necesidades.<\/p>\n

Por un segundo, deja de lado tus problemas matrimoniales y vuelve a centrarte en ti.<\/p>\n

You are deserving of love. Just because your husband wants a divorce, it doesn’t mean you stop taking care of yourself. This is not the time to fall apart.<\/p>\n

This is your chance to be your best self \u2013 not for him, but for you.<\/p>\n

Y cuando te vea de nuevo en tu antigua gloria, puede que le haga reconsiderar su decisi\u00f3n. Pero hagas lo que hagas, hazlo por ti.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Identificar, manejar y sobrevivir a una suegra narcisista<\/a><\/p>\n

Respect him, he’s still your husband<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Just because you’re dealing with something so messy, complex, and draining, it doesn’t give you the right to be disrespectful toward him.<\/p>\n

He’s still your husband. He’s still the father of your children. Treat him with the same respect you seek in return.<\/p>\n

Mantener la clase durante todo este calvario ayudar\u00e1 inevitablemente a mejorar la situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Puede que no consiga recuperar a su marido, pero le demostrar\u00e1 que, a pesar de esta tremenda tristeza, usted puede reunir fuerzas y seguir siendo respetuosa.<\/p>\n

Esto os ayudar\u00e1 a ser civilizados entre vosotros, algo que vuestros hijos agradecer\u00e1n m\u00e1s que nadie.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9jate de las discusiones t\u00f3xicas<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

If your husband tries to bait you into having meaningless, toxic fights, don’t indulge him.<\/p>\n

Hopefully, you’re dealing with it in a healthy way. But if you’re not, you can be the bigger person.<\/p>\n

Dependiendo de los temas que rodeen la charla sobre el divorcio (falta de tiempo de calidad, affair emocional, p\u00e9rdida de confianza, etc.) mant\u00e9n la compostura.<\/p>\n

Just because you’re steering clear of pointless arguments, doesn’t mean you have to smile and dance around him.<\/p>\n

Todo depende de los problemas que aquejen a su matrimonio.<\/p>\n

But my advice is to stay away from anything that doesn’t nurture your well-being.<\/p>\n

Prueba la terapia de pareja<\/h2>\n

\"consejero<\/p>\n

Si puede convencer a su marido de que se una a usted, puede que sea el paso en la direcci\u00f3n correcta para la salvaci\u00f3n de su matrimonio.<\/p>\n

It’s not easy admitting that you need help. It’s definitely even more difficult to relay all your personal issues and flaws to a third party.<\/p>\n

Pero cuando se piensa en todos los posibles beneficios, al menos hay que considerarlo.<\/p>\n

You could be dealing with something that a trained professional can help you find a way out of. Don’t be embarrassed to seek help.<\/p>\n

Only those who know when to ask for help ultimately end up finding what they’re looking for.<\/p>\n

Dale el espacio que necesita<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Most importantly, give him room to breathe. Give him time to consider if he really wants this or if it’s just a minor bump in the road.<\/p>\n

En lugar de estar tan obsesionado con Mi marido quiere el divorcio, pero yo le sigo queriendo,<\/em> centrarse en darle tiempo para reevaluar su<\/em> necesidades.<\/p>\n

He’s having a hard time too, you know?<\/p>\n

Just because he was the one asking for the divorce, does not mean he’s happy it has come to this.<\/p>\n

A\u00f1os de matrimonio tirados a la basura es lo \u00faltimo que quiere cualquiera.<\/p>\n

Space could be the only thing keeping you married at this point. Don’t crowd him and ruin your chances of reconciliation.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Reto de 30 d\u00edas de amor propio: convi\u00e9rtete en la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti mismo<\/a><\/p>\n

Mant\u00e9n tu d\u00eda a d\u00eda como antes<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

No s\u00f3lo debe mantener sus actividades cotidianas, sino que debe plantearse a\u00f1adir a\u00fan m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

For example, if you’ve been neglecting spending time with close friends, now’s the time to catch up.<\/p>\n

There is always something keeping you from just going out and unwinding. Now’s your chance to do what’s best for usted<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Por un momento, olv\u00eddate de tus problemas matrimoniales y reencu\u00e9ntrate contigo mismo.<\/p>\n

Recurre a la vida sana. Consigue un nuevo hobby y haz ejercicio.<\/p>\n

Esto le har\u00e1 sentirse inevitablemente m\u00e1s fuerte, mejor, rejuvenecido y capaz de superar cualquier obst\u00e1culo.<\/p>\n

La cuesti\u00f3n es que te recuerdes a ti mismo tu fuerza y perseverancia independientemente del estado de tu matrimonio. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Understand that you’re just as powerful without him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No importa lo que ocurra entre vosotros, sois suficientes.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You’ve done the best that you could and whatever happens next, you’ll be okay. Maybe not today or tomorrow, but someday.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cNo hay desaf\u00edo lo suficientemente fuerte como para destruir su matrimonio mientras ambos est\u00e9n dispuestos a dejar de luchar el uno contra el otro y empezar a luchar el uno por el otro.<\/em>\u201d \u2013 Dave Willis<\/p>\n

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