{"id":93607,"date":"2020-09-29T12:50:44","date_gmt":"2020-09-29T12:50:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=93607"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:05:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:05:53","slug":"tienes-el-corazon-roto-pero-centrate-en-la-leccion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tienes-el-corazon-roto-pero-centrate-en-la-leccion\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u00e9 que tienes el coraz\u00f3n roto, pero c\u00e9ntrate en la lecci\u00f3n, no en la decepci\u00f3n."},"content":{"rendered":"

Apostar\u00eda a que no hay persona en este mundo que no haya cometido errores en su vida.<\/p>\n

There isn\u2019t a human being alive who hasn\u2019t made some wrong choices they regret now.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you let some wrong people in, if you made a lousy judgment regarding your career, or if you would now change some decisions you made in the past.<\/p>\n

La conclusi\u00f3n es que, de alg\u00fan modo, acabaste con el coraz\u00f3n roto.<\/p>\n

Tal vez jugaron contigo. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 alguien en quien confiabas plenamente te apu\u00f1al\u00f3 por la espalda o te abandon\u00f3 cuando m\u00e1s lo necesitabas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe you feel like you\u2019ve wasted your entire life until now. Maybe you ended up with your heart broken and shattered into pieces.<\/p>\n

Sea lo que sea, hay una simple verdad: todo eso forma parte de la vida.<\/p>\n

Whether you like it or not, pain, resentment, and regret are all things you\u2019ll experience on your journey.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Odio tener que dec\u00edrtelo, pero no hay nada que puedas hacer para evitar que la vida ocurra.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La gente seguir\u00e1 decepcion\u00e1ndote y haci\u00e9ndote da\u00f1o y tu coraz\u00f3n seguir\u00e1 rompi\u00e9ndose, por mucho que intentes evitarlo.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, tambi\u00e9n hay buenas noticias. You\u2019re the only one who can control how you react to the things going on around you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have any control whatsoever over other people\u2019s actions. However, you do have full control over your thoughts and feelings.<\/p>\n

B\u00e1sicamente, what I\u2019m trying to say is that it\u2019s up to you to decide what to focus on: the disappointment or la lecci\u00f3n<\/a> tu angustia te ense\u00f1\u00f3.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you keep on focusing on the pain, you\u2019ll just produce more pain.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll produce more anger, resentment, grudges, and the desire for revenge.<\/p>\n

Ninguna de estas emociones negativas har\u00e1 da\u00f1o a los que te han hecho da\u00f1o. No les afectar\u00e1n ni les har\u00e1n arrepentirse.<\/p>\n

So, at the end of the day, when you focus on the bad things, you only do bad to yourself. It\u2019s as simple as that.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, if you choose to focus on the lessons you\u2019ve learned thanks to all of these negative experiences, you\u2019ll do yourself a favor. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll continue to grow until you finally become the person you were meant to be.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll always find obstacles along your path. There will always be unexpected challenges and hardships.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, la forma en que reaccionas ante todos ellos es lo que determina el curso de tu vida.<\/p>\n

Es lo que determina tu salud mental y emocional.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s try a little experiment.<\/p>\n

Si alguien apareciera con una varita m\u00e1gica y te diera la oportunidad de borrar todos tus errores y decisiones equivocadas, \u00bfqu\u00e9 har\u00edas?<\/p>\n

What would you do if you had the chance to erase each one of the tears you\u2019ve cried, all of your angustias<\/a>, and all the traumas you\u2019ve had to endure?<\/p>\n

Apuesto a que aceptar\u00edas inmediatamente la oferta, sin pensarlo mucho.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de todo, \u00bfqui\u00e9n perder\u00eda la oportunidad de anular todo lo malo que le ha pasado en la vida?<\/p>\n

However, I\u2019m asking you to stop right there and consider this: what kind of person would you be today if it weren\u2019t for this heartbreak?<\/strong><\/p>\n

What would happen to all the difficult but extremely valuable lessons you\u2019ve learned?<\/strong> They would also be erased, wouldn\u2019t they?<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, seguir\u00edas sin tener ni idea de la vida.<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t have the wisdom, discernment, perspicacity, and clairvoyance that you have today.<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t know half the things you know now.<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t be able to determine what\u2019s good for you or to read people, and your intuition wouldn\u2019t be as developed.<\/p>\n

Most importantly: if it weren\u2019t for this heartbreak, you wouldn\u2019t have the strength you possess today.<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t know how to appreciate all the good things happening to you.<\/p>\n

All the smiles you experience now would be worthless if you couldn\u2019t compare them with tears. <\/strong><\/p>\n

All the happiness wouldn\u2019t have the same meaning if you couldn\u2019t compare it to the sadness you went through.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t see the value of the love in your life if it weren\u2019t for all the hatred you previously experienced.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que supongo que todos los infierno que pasaste<\/a> vali\u00f3 la pena despu\u00e9s de todo.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I would bet that there isn\u2019t a person in this world who hasn\u2019t made mistakes in their life. There isn\u2019t a human being alive who hasn\u2019t made some wrong choices they regret now. It doesn\u2019t matter if you let some wrong people in, if you made a lousy judgment regarding your career, or if you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":100381,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-93607","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/I-Know-Youre-Heartbroken-But-Focus-On-The-Lesson-Not-On-The-Disappointment.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93607","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=93607"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93607\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/100381"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=93607"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=93607"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=93607"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}