{"id":9397,"date":"2017-12-01T12:28:25","date_gmt":"2017-12-01T12:28:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9397"},"modified":"2022-01-17T23:10:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T23:10:44","slug":"cada-chica-ama-chico-equivocado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cada-chica-ama-chico-equivocado\/","title":{"rendered":"A toda chica enamorada del chico equivocado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mereces levantarte por la ma\u00f1ana y no cuestionar el amor de la persona que yace a tu lado. Mereces hablar libremente, con locura y pasi\u00f3n, y no pensar ni por un segundo que las palabras que brotan de tus labios moh\u00ednos est\u00e1n aburriendo a la persona que pretende escucharte. Te mereces el tipo de amor<\/a>, the kind of wild passion that has only existed in \u201cNicholas Sparks\u201d novels and in your wildest daydreams.<\/p>\n

Ojal\u00e1 lo fuera para ti.<\/strong> I wish he didn\u2019t make you question who you are or who you\u2019re going to be. I wish he provided the net to catch you when you feel like breaking. I wish he wasn\u2019t the catalyst to your broken heart. I wish he wasn\u2019t the reason why you\u2019re crumbling. I wish he didn\u2019t make you cry, or leave you behind. I wish he didn\u2019t make you doubt love because love is actually quite a beautiful thing.<\/p>\n

And I know you\u2019ll find it one day.<\/strong> And that love, it\u2019ll be warm, and it\u2019ll be inviting. It\u2019ll leave you feeling glowing because real love is the kind of love you deserve to have and have deserved to have all along. You deserved real love while you sat in your room behind locked doors. You deserved real love while you told the same story to your best friend for hours on end. You deserved real love during the fights and when his words made you feel, if for only a minute, less than how you should ever feel about yourself.<\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>\n

\u00c9l no es lo que te define y ahora mismo, en este preciso momento, I know it\u2019s hard to let him go.<\/strong> La imagen de lo que podr\u00eda ser, de lo que prometi\u00f3 ser, permanece contigo; persiste<\/strong>. Yo era como t\u00fa. Me aferraba a la imagen del hombre que quer\u00eda que fuera: fuerte, protector, cari\u00f1oso... pero nunca fue nada de eso para m\u00ed. La mayor\u00eda de las noches s\u00f3lo fing\u00eda. Me cans\u00e9 de dormirme sola en un California King, viendo c\u00f3mo nuestro amor se desmoronaba y, durante un tiempo, luch\u00e9 contra ello. Intent\u00e9 convencerme de que permanecer juntos vali\u00f3 la pena<\/a>. Intent\u00e9 convencerme de que todas las relaciones tienen malas rachas.<\/p>\n

Pero esto no fue una mala racha. Mi amor, \u00e9l me golpe\u00f3. Me viol\u00f3. Me hizo cuestionarme. Me hizo odiarme. Me hizo jurar que la vida nunca mejorar\u00eda y, durante un tiempo, acept\u00e9 el tipo de amor que cre\u00eda merecer.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t waste as much time as I did being too afraid to pursue a chance at true happiness. Don\u2019t belittle yourself. Don\u2019t devalue yourself.<\/a> Don\u2019t convince yourself that you\u2019re okay with a subpar kind of love-or life.<\/p>\n

El amor de verdad requiere valor y esfuerzo. Requiere que elijas qu\u00e9 tipo de amor y qu\u00e9 tipo de vida te definir\u00e1n en \u00faltima instancia. Elige la felicidad. Elige al hombre<\/a> who is going to see sparks fly when you smile at him. Choose the man who dances with you to no music, who tells you he loves you because he means it, not because he thinks it\u2019s what you want to hear at that moment in time. Elige primero el amor.<\/strong> Decide that you have no choice but to show yourself the kind of love that you know you\u2019re deserving of someone who will inspire you, cherish you, and want the very best for you for as long as time stands still. Ese amor empieza contigo.<\/strong> And I promise you that real kind of love, those sparks…they\u2019ll find you. And when they do, you\u2019ll be ready.<\/p>\n

por Courtney Dercqu<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You deserve to wake up in the morning and not question the love of the person lying beside you. You deserve to speak freely, crazily and passionately, and not think for even the slightest second that the words spewing from your pouty lips are boring the person who pretends to listen. You deserve the kind…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":9400,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9397","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/oladimeji-odunsi-306172.jpg",800,631,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9397","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9397"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9397\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9400"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9397"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9397"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9397"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}