{"id":94264,"date":"2020-09-29T13:01:11","date_gmt":"2020-09-29T13:01:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=94264"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:04:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:04:55","slug":"su-atencion-no-significa-nada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/su-atencion-no-significa-nada\/","title":{"rendered":"Su atenci\u00f3n no significa nada si no tienes su respeto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eres una mujer atractiva y muy deseable, de eso no hay duda.<\/p>\n

Vayas donde vayas, habr\u00e1 muchos chicos mir\u00e1ndote fijamente, intentando comunicarse contigo e invitarte a salir.<\/p>\n

No es diferente al resto. A primera vista, parec\u00eda estar encaprichado contigo.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo ten\u00eda ojos para ti. Estaba encima de ti e hizo todo lo que pudo para conquistarte.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, naturalmente, pensaste que \u00e9l era el elegido. Te prest\u00f3 mucha atenci\u00f3n y actu\u00f3 como si fueras la mujer de sus sue\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

However, as soon as he got what he wanted, everything changed. No, I\u2019m not just talking about taking you to bed.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m referring to the fact that this guy started treating you differently as soon as you showed him that he had captured your heart.<\/p>\n

As soon as he became aware that you\u2019d fallen for him, he showed you his true colors.<\/p>\n

A partir de ese momento, se not\u00f3 que este tipo ten\u00eda absolutamente no te respeto<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Nunca tuvo en cuenta tus opiniones, sentimientos o deseos.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que.., empezaste a hacer cualquier cosa para captar su atenci\u00f3n<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

You just wanted the man from the beginning of your relationship back \u2013 at any cost.<\/p>\n

Estabas dispuesto a hacer lo que fuera necesario para ser m\u00e1s agradable para este tipo<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t even have to directly ask you to change \u2013 you did it by yourself.<\/p>\n

In the beginning, you started pretending to be someone you\u2019re not. However, you didn\u2019t do it with the intention of deceiving him.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quer\u00edas que te viera mejor, m\u00e1s lista, m\u00e1s atractiva y m\u00e1s interesante.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, con el tiempo, te perdiste a ti misma. La chica que sol\u00edas ser de repente no aparec\u00eda por ninguna parte.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you something: I know that you want this guy\u2019s undivided attention.<\/p>\n

I know that you\u2019re the happiest person in the world when he texts you or when he likes your social media posts.<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que tu coraz\u00f3n salta de alegr\u00eda cuando encuentra tiempo para verte.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, while you were busy chasing him and trying to get his attention, you missed something much more important: his respect \u2013 which you\u2019ve never got.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Believe me on this one: His attention means nothing if you don\u2019t have his respect.<\/p>\n

De hecho, este hombre no es diferente a cualquiera de los otros chicos que te miran en los clubes.<\/p>\n

For someone like him, you\u2019re nothing but a piece of meat. He sees you as a trophy \u2013 as a girl all of his friends would like to be with but can\u2019t.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care about your reputation or future. Most importantly: he doesn\u2019t care how you feel and whether you might suffer later on.<\/p>\n

Deep down, he knows you\u2019re a catch. <\/strong><\/p>\n

He knows that he is not enough for you, which is why he gives you breadcrumbs of his attention \u2013 so you will always come asking for more.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Utiliza toda esta situaci\u00f3n para mantener el control sobre ti. Juega juegos mentales para mantenerte enganchada porque no tiene nada m\u00e1s que ofrecerte.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

So please, don\u2019t do whatever he asks you to do. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t run into his arms every time he calls you, don\u2019t sleep with him if that\u2019s the only thing he wants, and don\u2019t send him nudes in the hope of getting a text back.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme: esto es cualquier cosa menos respeto.<\/p>\n

This guy doesn\u2019t really appreciate your presence in his life, nor does he cherish the deep love you feel for him.<\/p>\n

\u00bfA qu\u00e9 espera exactamente? \u00bfCree que he\u2019ll change<\/a>? That he\u2019ll grow to respect the real you with time?<\/p>\n

If that is so, you\u2019re just wasting your time. Things will remain like this forever and this guy will never start treating you right.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I\u2019m begging you not to give him any more of your energy. Instead, be patient enough to wait for a guy who deserves you.<\/p>\n

Instead of fighting for this immature boy\u2019s undivided attention, wait for a real man who will give you many more valuable things, such as respect, loyalty, and appreciation.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Porque en eso consiste el amor verdadero.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You\u2019re an attractive and highly desirable woman \u2013 there is no doubt about that. Wherever you go, there are plenty of guys staring at you, trying to communicate with you and ask you out. He is no different than the rest. At first glance, he seemed to be infatuated with you. He had eyes for…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":100499,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-94264","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/His-Attention-Means-Nothing-If-You-Dont-Have-His-Respect.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94264","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=94264"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94264\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/100499"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=94264"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=94264"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=94264"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}