{"id":95717,"date":"2020-09-15T10:47:59","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T10:47:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=95717"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:09:44","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:09:44","slug":"no-arruines-tu-regalo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-arruines-tu-regalo\/","title":{"rendered":"No arruines tu presente por alguien que nunca fue tu futuro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Has pasado por un infierno, de eso no hay duda.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been disappointed, heartbroken, and betrayed by someone you least expected it from.<\/p>\n

El hombre que amabas m\u00e1s que a ti misma se alej\u00f3 de ti cuando menos lo esperabas.<\/p>\n

Mientras t\u00fa planeabas tu futuro juntos, pensando que \u00e9l hac\u00eda lo mismo, te dej\u00f3<\/a>.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed, sin m\u00e1s, te abandon\u00f3 cuando m\u00e1s lo necesitabas.<\/p>\n

Aplast\u00f3 todos tus sue\u00f1os y rompi\u00f3 toda tu personalidad en mil pedazos.<\/p>\n

Dej\u00f3 heridas por todo tu coraz\u00f3n y tu alma. Dej\u00f3 huellas en todo tu ser que crees que nunca podr\u00e1n borrarse.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, despite all the pain he\u2019s caused you, deep down you still hope that he\u2019ll come back<\/strong>. Of course, you won\u2019t admit this to anyone.<\/p>\n

In fact, you can barely admit it to yourself. You know that it\u2019s completely pointless and in vain but you just can\u2019t help it.<\/p>\n

\"primer<\/p>\n

Even though common-sense keeps telling you that you\u2019re nothing but a fool, your heart can\u2019t stop waiting for a miracle \u2013 a miracle that will probably never happen.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que sigues viviendo en el pasado. Tu traumas<\/a> te persiguen y tu carga emocional te pesa.<\/p>\n

Sigues aferr\u00e1ndote al potencial. Piensas en todos los planes que ten\u00edas y te preguntas d\u00f3nde las cosas salieron mal<\/a>.<\/p>\n

As much as you try, you can\u2019t seem to move on. You can\u2019t force yourself to continue your life and finally get over this man.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like your heart refuses to heal. Like it can\u2019t recover and glue itself back together, no matter how hard you try.<\/p>\n

Even when you meet someone new, you compare them to your ex. You can\u2019t give anyone else a chance simply because they are not him.<\/p>\n

B\u00e1sicamente, tu vida pasa a tu lado. Pasan los meses y los a\u00f1os mientras t\u00fa, paciente y tranquilamente, est\u00e1s sentado sin hacer nada.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo m\u00e1s piensas perder?<\/p>\n

Do you think that you will live forever and that you can afford to spend more time on someone who probably doesn\u2019t even remember your name?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

I can promise you one thing: one of these days, you\u2019ll see what you\u2019ve done with your life.<\/p>\n

To be exact, you\u2019ll see that you\u2019ve done literally NOTHING.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll realize that you\u2019ve been nowhere while this man is long gone and doesn\u2019t give you a second thought.<\/p>\n

In fact, you\u2019re destroying your present because of a past that has no future.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Odio romper tu burbuja pero esto man isn\u2019t coming back<\/a>.<\/p>\n

After all, if he planned on getting back together with you, he wouldn\u2019t have left you in the first place.<\/p>\n

Your past is behind you and it won\u2019t repeat itself.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t change anything that has happened, so what\u2019s the point of replaying it over and over in your head?<\/p>\n

As much as you don\u2019t want to hear this, the harsh truth is that you won\u2019t get the closure you\u2019re waiting for.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This man won\u2019t repent his sins, nor will he give you the apology you want so badly.<\/p>\n

Puede que ahora no lo veas, pero tu dolor se ha convertido en tu zona de confort.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve gotten used to it and you dwell on all the what ifs and could have beens.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I\u2019m begging you to finally leave the past behind you\u2013where it belongs.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que hace falta mucho valor, pero por favor, ten el valor suficiente para dar un salto hacia tu futuro, a pesar de que sea desconocido. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I assure you\u2013you\u2019re strong enough to do it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

En lugar de esperar que tu ex vuelva a tu vida, transfiere tu energ\u00eda a la esperanza de que alguien nuevo se cruce en tu camino.<\/p>\n

Have faith that the love of your life is yet to come. That you\u2019ll find the right man and he\u2019ll erase every scar your ex left on you.<\/p>\n

Y lo m\u00e1s importante: ten fe en que tu futuro feliz ser\u00e1 mucho mejor que tu doloroso pasado.<\/p>\n

\"No<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve been through hell\u2013there is no doubt about that. You\u2019ve been disappointed, heartbroken, and betrayed by someone you least expected it from. The man you loved more than yourself walked away from you when you expected it the least. While you were planning your future together, thinking he was doing the same, he left you….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":95725,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-95717","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Don\u2019t-Ruin-Your-Present-For-Someone-Who-Was-Never-Your-Future.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95717","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=95717"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95717\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95725"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=95717"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=95717"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=95717"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}