{"id":96259,"date":"2020-09-17T12:20:29","date_gmt":"2020-09-17T12:20:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=96259"},"modified":"2022-01-18T01:43:01","modified_gmt":"2022-01-18T01:43:01","slug":"resultaste-ser-exactamente-quien-pensaba-que-eras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/resultaste-ser-exactamente-quien-pensaba-que-eras\/","title":{"rendered":"Deber\u00eda haber hecho caso a mi instinto, porque resultaste ser exactamente quien cre\u00eda que eras."},"content":{"rendered":"

Antes de empezar a salir contigo, cre\u00eda que lo ten\u00eda todo claro.<\/p>\n

Parec\u00edas el tipo de chico que nunca prestaba demasiada atenci\u00f3n a las relaciones en su vida. Parec\u00edas un tipo que s\u00f3lo buscaba diversi\u00f3n y emoci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Siempre pens\u00e9 que \u00e9ramos demasiado diferentes para ser amigos. <\/p>\n

Aun as\u00ed, hab\u00eda algo en ti que me atra\u00eda tanto. \u00bfEra tu sonrisa traviesa? \u00bfTu esp\u00edritu aventurero? \u00bfLa forma en que ibas por la vida como si no fuera gran cosa?<\/p>\n

Supongo que fui una de las chicas que se enamor\u00f3 de el chico malo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Sol\u00eda pensar que era demasiado listo para que me pasara algo as\u00ed. Nunca imagin\u00e9 que esa clase de tipos fingieran ser tan encantadores y amables cuando quer\u00edan conquistar a una chica.<\/b><\/p>\n

Me dijiste que pod\u00edamos divertirnos juntos, y eso era lo \u00fanico que importaba. <\/p>\n

Me dijiste que yo era especial y que todo lo que deber\u00eda importarnos en la vida son las experiencias con otras personas, por breves que sean (supongo que eso deber\u00eda haber sido mi se\u00f1al de alarma), son bendiciones que hay que disfrutar y apreciar mientras duren.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

A\u00fan as\u00ed <\/b>me trat\u00f3 como a una reina<\/b><\/a> durante ese corto periodo de tiempo que te propusiste hacerme tuya. <\/b><\/p>\n

I now know you were only intrigued by a girl who wasn\u2019t willing to fall into your arms immediately because that\u2019s what you\u2019d been used to.<\/p>\n

I started thinking I really was special to you. I secretly thought I could change you. I was so sure that you were like that just because you hadn\u2019t found the one so far.<\/b><\/p>\n

Y vaya si cre\u00ed que era la elegida.<\/p>\n

When I told you we had no similarities at all, you told me that opposites attract and we\u2019d make it all work.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que compart\u00eda mis dudas sobre tener ese tipo de relaci\u00f3n, cambiabas de tema y me distra\u00edas con tu encanto.<\/p>\n

And yes, I fell for it. I fell for it because I wanted to believe that I could have my cake and eat it too; that\u2019s just how special you made me think I was.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Durante un tiempo, olvid\u00e9 que hab\u00eda dudado de que nuestra relaci\u00f3n funcionara. Parec\u00eda tan natural y acogedor, estar contigo.<\/p>\n

Life\u2019s biggest misfortunes don\u2019t come when you expect them though.<\/p>\n

Justo cuando empezaba a perderme en ti, confiando en que ten\u00edamos un futuro encantador ante nosotros, rompiste mi peque\u00f1a burbuja.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019d had enough. You\u2019d won me over, you\u2019d had your fun and now you\u2019d had enough.<\/p>\n

You were ready to move on to the next girl and for me… well, it felt like a bus had hit me when I was peacefully walking next to a lake.<\/p>\n

At that point, I didn\u2019t expect it at all. That\u2019s why it hurt so bad.<\/p>\n

Sab\u00eda qui\u00e9n eras desde el principio y dej\u00e9 que me manipularas haci\u00e9ndome creer que ten\u00edamos lo necesario para ser una pareja de verdad.<\/p>\n

Justo cuando baj\u00e9 la guardia, me atacaste con todo lo que ten\u00edas.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfDesear\u00eda haber confiado en mis instintos? Claro que s\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Cuando te fuiste, me sent\u00ed la mayor tonta del universo. Seguro que nos divertimos, pero la forma en que me hiciste da\u00f1o no fue nada divertida.<\/p>\n

I knew from the beginning that you were the type of guy who\u2019d leave the minute he thought there was something more interesting out there and I was right.<\/p>\n

A\u00fan as\u00ed, eleg\u00ed ignorar todo lo que sab\u00eda que era correcto y eleg\u00ed estar contigo. Ese fue mi error.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve learned to trust myself more and trust people when they show me who they are, instead of losing my mind in sweet fantasies that will never be reality.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que para muchas chicas a las que les rompen el coraz\u00f3n el problema es que the guy wasn\u2019t who she thought he was<\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cuando se trata de mi desamor, el problema es que eres exactamente quien pensaba que eras.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Deber\u00eda<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Before I started dating you, I thought I had you all figured out. You seemed like the type of guy who never paid too much attention to the relationships in his life. You seemed like a guy who was only looking for fun and excitement. I always thought we were way too different to even…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":96265,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-96259","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/I-Should\u2019ve-Listened-To-My-Gut-As-You-Turned-Out-To-Be-Exactly-Who-I-Thought-You-Were.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96259","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=96259"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96259\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96265"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=96259"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=96259"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=96259"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}