{"id":9657,"date":"2021-09-30T10:39:16","date_gmt":"2021-09-30T10:39:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9657"},"modified":"2024-10-25T10:52:24","modified_gmt":"2024-10-25T08:52:24","slug":"el-ano-que-viene-me-pondre-yo-primero","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-ano-que-viene-me-pondre-yo-primero\/","title":{"rendered":"En 2025, yo ser\u00e9 lo primero"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>En 2025, quiero sentir amor de verdad.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quiero sentir la paz interior. Y quiero que todas las cicatrices de mi alma se desvanezcan. Luchar\u00e9 contra cada pensamiento de no ser capaz de hacer algo.<\/p>\n<p>Porque ya he tenido suficientes pensamientos negativos y eso no es algo que quiera seguir haciendo en el pr\u00f3ximo a\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>So, 2025, here I come\u2014stronger than ever, more beautiful than ever and one year smarter.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>He cambiado, pero me parece muy bien. Por fin, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/4-reasons-need-learn-love\/\">Aprend\u00ed a quererme.<\/a> Aprend\u00ed a respetarme a m\u00ed misma y a preocuparme menos por lo que digan los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>I will not be the one who doesn\u2019t take chances because she thinks that she can\u2019t handle them. Instead, I will try.<\/p>\n<p>I will try to do things that I never did before and if I fail, I will surely learn a lesson from it. But one thing is for sure\u2014I will keep trying until I get where I want.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>En 2025, dejar\u00e9 mi pasado donde pertenece...<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-114107 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"una hermosa chica pelirroja con una camiseta amarilla se encuentra en la playa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to think about the mistakes I made nor about how they affected my life. Instead, I want to focus on what is in front of me. I don\u2019t want to be harsh on myself just because I failed to do something right.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to feel bad about it anymore. I just want to let it go.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Speaking of letting go, I want to let go of something else\u2014all the toxic people who made a living hell out of my life.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to have any contact with them because I love my life and I don\u2019t want them to ruin it. I don\u2019t want to listen to them gossip about others because they will surely do it about me as well.<\/p>\n<p>I just want to be far away from them because they don\u2019t have the positive energy I crave. I will let go of anyone who makes me think that I am not worthy.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>En 2025, quer\u00eda<\/i><\/b><b><i>t dejar de intentar ser alguien que no soy s\u00f3lo para encajar.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to be someone people will mold into the shape of their own taste. This time, I want to be the real me, even if it means that others will turn their backs on me.<\/p>\n<p>Hasta ahora he aprendido que es mejor estar solo que mal acompa\u00f1ado.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>En 2025, aprender\u00e9 a respetarme m\u00e1s a m\u00ed mismo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-114108 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa morena sonriente con camisa rosa y falda blanca de pie en la calle\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Har\u00e9 lo que sea para llegar a donde quiero y pensar\u00e9 en m\u00ed m\u00e1s que en los dem\u00e1s. Esta vez, me convertir\u00e9 en una prioridad y no en una opci\u00f3n. Creo que \u00e9se es el camino hacia la felicidad y tarde o temprano lo conseguir\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>En 2025, aprender\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/dr-ashlee-greer\/stop-letting-other-peoples-opinions-control-you_b_9587330.html\" rel=\"noopener\">not to bother my head with other people\u2019s opinions<\/a><\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n<p>I<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-te-defraudare\/\"> won\u2019t let anyone affect my life<\/a>. Al final, soy yo quien sufrir\u00e1 en esta piel, o ser\u00e1 feliz, seg\u00fan la situaci\u00f3n. Y esa es una buena raz\u00f3n para que los dem\u00e1s me dejen en paz.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t tolerate people coming into my life to make me feel sad. If they are to be a part of my life, they need to earn their place there. Otherwise, it doesn\u2019t make any sense.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>En 2025, aprender\u00e9 a quererme de nuevo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Me aceptar\u00e9 con todos mis pros y mis contras. Porque as\u00ed soy yo y todas las cosas que me han pasado y que me han convertido en la persona que soy hoy.<\/p>\n<p>Me demostrar\u00e9 a m\u00ed mismo que no hay persona m\u00e1s valiosa que yo. Y cuando me d\u00e9 cuenta, empezar\u00e9 a creer en ello tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>En 2025, me centrar\u00e9 en mi historia.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-114109 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks.jpg\" alt=\"una hermosa mujer pelirroja con vestido burdeos y abrigo gris camina\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to be a side character in someone else\u2019s story. This time, I want to be the protagonist. This year will be special because I will put myself first.<\/p>\n<p>Voy a elegirme a m\u00ed mismo. Voy a pensar s\u00f3lo en positivo. Voy a aceptarme tal como soy.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Y cuando vuelva la vista atr\u00e1s a finales de 2025, quiero decirme a m\u00ed misma que este a\u00f1o fue el a\u00f1o en que algo cambi\u00f3 de verdad.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quiero saber que en ese a\u00f1o me propuse nuevas metas que pude alcanzar. Quiero sentir que hice realidad algunos de mis deseos y que me puse en el buen camino para volver a ser feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Quiero sentir que ese a\u00f1o fue todo lo que hab\u00eda estado buscando y que por fin encontr\u00e9 la receta para una buena vida.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>En ese a\u00f1o, quiero saber que por fin me he puesto a m\u00ed primero.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"En 2025, yo ser\u00e9 lo primero \" class=\"wp-image-176444\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-8x12.jpg 8w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In 2025, I want to feel real love. I want to feel the peace within. And I want all the scars on my soul to fade away. I will fight every thought about not being able to do something. Because I have had enough negative thoughts and that is not something I want to keep&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":176445,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9657","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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