{"id":96950,"date":"2020-09-15T11:31:09","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T11:31:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=96950"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:11:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:11:47","slug":"excusas-que-debes-dejar-de-usar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/excusas-que-debes-dejar-de-usar\/","title":{"rendered":"5 excusas que deber\u00edas dejar de usar para seguir en una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica"},"content":{"rendered":"

Visto desde fuera, dejar una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica deber\u00eda ser pan comido. Despu\u00e9s de todo, todo parece estar bastante claro.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re unhappy being with your partner, it\u2019s apparent that your romance isn\u2019t going anywhere, and you are anything but compatible.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 le impide marcharse, cuando las cosas parecen tan obvias?<\/p>\n

Well, the point is that you\u2019re probably using all kinds of excuses to stay in this toxic relationship.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier for you to hold on to these thoughts than to step out of your comfort zone and actually make a difference.<\/p>\n

\u201cHe will become the man I need\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"rostro<\/p>\n

La raz\u00f3n n\u00famero uno por la que las mujeres permanecen en malas relaciones es una esperanza sin trasfondo l\u00f3gico.<\/p>\n

Even though there\u2019s absolutely no sign that your novio podr\u00eda cambiar<\/a>por alguna raz\u00f3n realmente crees que esto suceder\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Esperas que una ma\u00f1ana se despierte por arte de magia y se d\u00e9 cuenta de que debe dejar de hacerte da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

Piensas que tu amor acabar\u00e1 por hacerle cambiar de actitud y que vuestro romance cambiar\u00e1 a mejor.<\/p>\n

Well, I hate to burst your bubble but people don\u2019t change unless they have a desire to do it themselves.<\/p>\n

Basically, you\u2019re waiting for a miracle that is unlikely to happen.<\/p>\n

\u201cI will regret my decision\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

What if you start to miss this man after you\u2019ve found the courage to leave him? What if you regret your decision the moment you make it?<\/p>\n

\u00bfY si te das cuenta de que, despu\u00e9s de todo, deber\u00edas haberte quedado con \u00e9l?<\/p>\n

\u00bfY si resulta ser el amor de tu vida y nunca consigues superarlo?<\/p>\n

Estas y otras preguntas similares pasan por tu cabeza cada vez que piensas en romper.<\/p>\n

Let me tell you something \u2013 this is exactly what your toxic boyfriend wants you to think.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l es quien instal\u00f3 estas dudas en tu cerebro.<\/p>\n

The one who is deliberately playing with you and manipulating you into thinking that you can\u2019t make it without him.<\/p>\n

Trust me on this one: if you do leave him, it will be the best choice you\u2019ve ever made and you won\u2019t regret it for a second.<\/p>\n

\u201cHe is just emotionally broken\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight: your boyfriend doesn\u2019t treat you the way he does because he is emotionally unavailable and broken.<\/p>\n

He is not hurting you because he doesn\u2019t know any better.<\/p>\n

No te est\u00e1 rompiendo el coraz\u00f3n sin ser consciente de ello.<\/p>\n

No te da migajas de su amor y atenci\u00f3n porque es incapaz de amar.<\/p>\n

De hecho, est\u00e1 haciendo todo lo anterior simplemente porque puede. En pocas palabras, es un gilipollas<\/a>.<\/p>\n

With this in mind, I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll agree that he doesn\u2019t deserve your sympathy, so it\u2019s about time you stopped giving it to him.<\/p>\n

You keep finding excuses for his behavior and trying to dig deeper under his cold exterior. No, you won\u2019t find a vulnerable heart who loves you there.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll find nothing. There is no other part of his personality \u2013 he is just like that and this needs to stop being the reason why you stay with him.<\/p>\n

Conformarse con menos frente a morir solo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Para ti, s\u00f3lo hay dos opciones en la vida. Puedes dejar a este tipo y morir sola o seguir conform\u00e1ndote con menos de lo que mereces.<\/p>\n

So, you assume that it\u2019s better to be with someone than to face loneliness.<\/p>\n

This man has convinced you that you\u2019re not meant to be loved and without him, you\u2019ll be forever single.<\/p>\n

First and foremost, this couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n

In fact, I promise you that you\u2019ll find a man who deserves you if you pluck up the courage to leave this one behind.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, aunque acabes soltero, no hay absolutamente nada malo en ello.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a man to be happy and I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll rock your solitude.<\/p>\n

\u201cI will be his hero\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Otro de los errores comunes que tienen muchas mujeres a la hora de permanecer en una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica es creer que su hombre las necesita.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest: you would probably walk away from your boyfriend but you feel responsible for him.<\/p>\n

You think that you\u2019re the only one who can save him. The only one who can drag him out of his darkness and show him the light.<\/p>\n

Hear me out on this one: it\u2019s not your duty to arreglar hombres rotos<\/a>. It\u2019s not your responsibility to sort his life out, help him grow up, or fight his demons.<\/p>\n

Deja de anteponer su felicidad a la tuya. Y lo m\u00e1s importante: deja de anteponer esta relaci\u00f3n condenada al fracaso a tu paz.<\/p>\n

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Looking on from the outside, leaving a toxic relationship should be a piece of cake. After all, everything seems to be pretty clear. You\u2019re unhappy being with your partner, it\u2019s apparent that your romance isn\u2019t going anywhere, and you are anything but compatible. So, what is keeping you from leaving, when things seem to be…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":96960,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-96950","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Excuses-You-Should-Stop-Using-To-Stay-In-A-Toxic-Relationship.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96950","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=96950"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96950\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96960"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=96950"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=96950"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=96950"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}