While you might not like to admit it, I know that you\u2019ve caught yourself in the following behavior patterns at least once in your life.<\/p>\n
Well, good news: You\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n
Comentarios sarc\u00e1sticos<\/h2>\n
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Sarcasm and irony are all fun and games when you find someone who\u2019s on the same wavelength as you.<\/p>\n
Sin embargo, eso es bastante raro y este tipo de comentarios son m\u00e1s bien una forma de comportamiento pasivo-agresivo.<\/p>\n
Ver\u00e1s, las bromas son una cosa. Al fin y al cabo, a todo el mundo le gustan las chicas con sentido del humor.<\/p>\n
Pero el sarcasmo es otra cosa, y utilizarlo para burlarte de tu pareja nunca es aceptable.<\/p>\n
Entiendo. Intentas enmascarar tus comentarios con humor.<\/p>\n
If you see that he got insulted, you can always tell that you didn\u2019t mean it and that you were joking.<\/p>\n
But it\u2019s time to stop doing it. Your partner needs to know when you\u2019re serious and when you\u2019re just messing around.<\/p>\n
El tratamiento silencioso<\/h2>\n
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Simply put, you\u2019re giving your boyfriend the silent treatment when you refuse to talk to him.<\/p>\n
However, you don\u2019t tell him that you\u2019ve stopped talking \u2013 you just start ignoring him.<\/p>\n
This is not ghosting; you don\u2019t disappear from his life. You\u2019re still there, you just pretend that he is not present next to you.<\/p>\n
Sometimes you do this because you don\u2019t know to express yourself verbally the right way.<\/p>\n
You\u2019re scared that you\u2019ll start insulting him or say something you don\u2019t really mean, so you choose to remain silent.<\/p>\n
At other times, you do it deliberately. You don\u2019t want to break up with your boyfriend, but you want to punish him by not talking to him.<\/p>\n
Either way, this isn\u2019t relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a> comportamiento.<\/p>\n You might expect your problems to magically go away if you don\u2019t talk them through.<\/p>\n In reality, you\u2019ll achieve precisely the opposite effect. Sometimes, you need to fight your issues out and solve them in that way.<\/p>\n \u00bfSabes que la mayor\u00eda de los hombres acusan a las mujeres de rega\u00f1onas todo el tiempo?<\/p>\n Pues bien, aunque puedas considerarlo un estereotipo, es un hecho probado que muchas chicas son culpables de esta forma de comportamiento pasivo-agresivo.<\/p>\n B\u00e1sicamente, te quejas habitualmente sin una raz\u00f3n obvia. Vas por casa, malhumorado, demostrando que nada te funciona.<\/p>\n El problema con este patr\u00f3n de comportamiento es que nunca aparece de la nada. Por el contrario, siempre tiene una historia de fondo m\u00e1s profunda.<\/p>\n For you, it\u2019s more than clear that you\u2019re not satisfied with something in your relationship.<\/p>\n Puede que no est\u00e9s contenta con algo que hizo tu novio anteriormente.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, d\u00e9jame decirte una cosa.<\/p>\n Your boyfriend doesn\u2019t have the ability to find a cause-effect relationship between these two things.<\/p>\n So, he concludes that you\u2019re just being grumpy for nothing.<\/p>\n What I\u2019m trying to tell you here is that you\u2019ll accomplish literally nothing with this behavior.<\/p>\n In fact, you\u2019ll just chase him away even more with your negative energy.<\/p>\n En su lugar, piense en su insatisfacci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Preg\u00fantate qu\u00e9 es lo que realmente te molesta y mant\u00e9n una conversaci\u00f3n madura al respecto con tu pareja.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re one of those people who constantly criticize their partner, I have a newsflash for you: He was like this when you met him. <\/p>\n Adem\u00e1s, aqu\u00ed tienes dos opciones: Puedes aceptar todos sus defectos o marcharse<\/a>.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t misunderstand me.<\/p>\n Nobody is attacking you for not being happy with your boyfriend\u2019s behavior, his progress in life, or the way he treats you.<\/p>\n However, you won\u2019t get anywhere if you point out his imperfections all the time. In fact, he\u2019ll just end up rebelling even more against you.<\/p>\nComportamiento gru\u00f1\u00f3n<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nCr\u00edtica constante<\/h2>\n
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