{"id":97033,"date":"2020-09-15T11:45:30","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T11:45:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=97033"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:10:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:10:21","slug":"aceptar-las-cosas-como-son-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/aceptar-las-cosas-como-son-2\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo aceptar las cosas como son y 10 formas en que cambiar\u00e1 tu vida"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Que te digan que aceptes las cosas como son puede resultar confuso. Despu\u00e9s de todo, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 deber\u00eda hacerlo? Depende totalmente de ti c\u00f3mo reaccionas ante algo, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n<p><strong>But hear me out. As &#8220;unacceptable&#8221; as some things may appear to be, when you learn to practice acceptance in difficult situations, you are actually working toward your own well being.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfDe qu\u00e9 estoy hablando?<\/em> Well, it&#8217;s quite simple really.<\/p>\n<p>La vida tiende a funcionar de formas misteriosas, lo que puede hacer que a veces disfrutar del momento presente sea todo un reto.<\/p>\n<p>Un d\u00eda, eres la persona m\u00e1s feliz del mundo y, al siguiente, los pensamientos negativos te abruman y tu paz mental desaparece sin dejar rastro.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Precisamente por eso es crucial aprender a afrontar las situaciones negativas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The power of acceptance allows you to recognize a particular situation for what it is and helps you truly understand someone else&#8217;s point of view.<\/p>\n<p>Ocurrir\u00e1n cosas malas y su situaci\u00f3n actual puede verse comprometida en un abrir y cerrar de ojos.<\/p>\n<p>Entonces, \u00bfc\u00f3mo hacer frente a la situaci\u00f3n sin perder la cordura?<\/p>\n<p><em>Here&#8217;s your foolproof guide to preserving your inner peace in the face of the most negative situations.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/consejos-para-superar-una-relacion-enredada\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Relaci\u00f3n Enmeshed: Definici\u00f3n, se\u00f1ales y consejos para superarla<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>El poder de la aceptaci\u00f3n y 8 pasos para lograrlo<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"reset numbered-headline\">Acknowledge what you&#8217;re dealing with<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97120\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-casual-clothes.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con ropa informal tomando caf\u00e9 dentro de la oficina\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-casual-clothes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-casual-clothes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-casual-clothes-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-casual-clothes-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-casual-clothes-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>El primer paso hacia la paz interior es aprender a reconocer a qu\u00e9 te enfrentas y su gravedad real.<\/p>\n<p>Un gran n\u00famero de personas que conozco se escandalizan constantemente por las situaciones en las que se encuentran.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;ll be like: &#8220;Oh my God, how can this be happening?!&#8221; or &#8220;I don&#8217;t understand why this is happening to me!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Y eso es el resultado de no estar dispuestos a enfrentarse a lo que tienen delante.<\/p>\n<p>We all get so caught up in our heads that we foolishly believe something is manageable, when in fact, it&#8217;s the opposite.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Y entonces, cuando se presenta una situaci\u00f3n desafortunada, nos pilla por sorpresa, boqueando incr\u00e9dulos en lugar de estar preparados para los diferentes resultados posibles.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>People have a tendency to create a bubble of self-delusion and distance themselves from reality by believing that something &#8220;simply needs to work out&#8221;.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pero rara vez funciona as\u00ed. La vida tiene otros planes y esa burbuja estalla antes de que tengas la oportunidad de disfrutar de la ilusi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Aqu\u00ed es donde tienes que dar un paso adelante y ver las cosas como realmente son.<\/p>\n<p>You cannot allow yourself to be presented with facts and foolishly negate them because they don&#8217;t fit your preferred idea.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97126\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-pensive-woman-in-cozy.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven pensativa en ropa acogedora sosteniendo una taza cerca de ella sentada en el sof\u00e1 dentro de la sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-pensive-woman-in-cozy.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-pensive-woman-in-cozy-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-pensive-woman-in-cozy-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-pensive-woman-in-cozy-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-pensive-woman-in-cozy-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you are given a red purse and you keep claiming it&#8217;s blue, it&#8217;s not going to change color \u2013 no matter how deeply you want it to.<\/p>\n<p>De nada sirve que algo nos sorprenda y nos coja desprevenidos si nos negamos a reconocerlo tal y como es.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re in this situation whether you like it or not.<\/p>\n<p>You have two options. Recognize its importance and gravity or keep pretending it isn&#8217;t so.<\/p>\n<p>Puedes pasarte dos a\u00f1os y medio enga\u00f1\u00e1ndote a ti mismo o puedes enfrentarte a la m\u00fasica.<\/p>\n<p>Intenta canalizar tus emociones negativas para encontrar algo positivo al respecto.<\/p>\n<p>Como dijo Buda: <em><strong>\u201cThe mind is everything. What you think, you become.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>So dig deep within yourself and try to figure out why you&#8217;re having such a hard time with non-acceptance.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfSe aferra a una esperanza perdida y ha llegado el momento de aceptar la realidad y seguir adelante?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Empatiza contigo mismo durante todo el proceso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97135\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-short-haired-woman.jpg\" alt=\"pensativa mujer de pelo corto manos apoyando la cabeza en la fotograf\u00eda de enfoque\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-short-haired-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-short-haired-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-short-haired-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-short-haired-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-short-haired-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s perfectly okay if you don&#8217;t see the point in acceptance at first. It can be daunting and difficult to imagine.<\/p>\n<p>So don&#8217;t be too hard on yourself if you find it challenging.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not a crime to find it hard to make peace with something you&#8217;re not happy about.<\/p>\n<p>Y tienes todo el derecho a sentirte como te sientas en esta situaci\u00f3n concreta.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But by learning to accept things as they are, you are granting yourself the ability to open your mind to things you never believed you&#8217;d find okay.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You are going to go through an array of emotions and stages before you&#8217;re able to fully embrace them. But that&#8217;s okay.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not a marathon. It&#8217;s a journey that&#8217;s going to be challenging to say the least.<\/p>\n<p>Perm\u00edtete respirar y dar un paso atr\u00e1s de vez en cuando.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You are going to have an occasional freak-out (we all do) and you&#8217;re going to struggle at times, depending on the situation.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97136\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-woman-leaning.jpg\" alt=\"mujer adulta apoyada en la pared con top blanco sin mangas\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-woman-leaning.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-woman-leaning-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-woman-leaning-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-woman-leaning-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-woman-leaning-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t be too hard on yourself. Don&#8217;t beat yourself up and criticize yourself for not being okay with certain things.<\/p>\n<p>La vida se complica y todos nos quedamos atascados, pero eso nunca debe impedirte perseguir tus sue\u00f1os.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s what I do whenever I&#8217;m in a difficult situation that is preventing me from being as happy as I know I deserve to be.<\/p>\n<p>I visualize myself on a sunny, warm island. The sun is shining, birds are chirping, and I&#8217;m lounging on the beach, sipping my Martini.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a mild breeze and an overwhelming sense of calm.<\/p>\n<p>And nothing can go wrong here. I&#8217;m in paradise, completely at peace with myself and my surroundings.<\/p>\n<p>Y esto es lo que me ayuda a mantenerme centrado en la tarea que tengo entre manos en los momentos dif\u00edciles.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que un d\u00eda esta ser\u00e1 mi realidad. Quiz\u00e1 no hoy, ni siquiera el a\u00f1o que viene.<\/p>\n<p>Pero un d\u00eda voy a estar sorbiendo ese Martini, libre de todas las preocupaciones, sabiendo que todo est\u00e1 bien.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And do you know what? It will be. Whatever you&#8217;re going through, visualize your happy place, and concentrate on what awaits you. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I<em> promesa<\/em> it&#8217;ll help you cope.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t take things personally (you&#8217;re <em>no<\/em> a victim of life&#8217;s cruel circumstances)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97137\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-sitting-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pensativa sentada al aire libre caminos cementados\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-sitting-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-sitting-outdoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-sitting-outdoors-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-sitting-outdoors-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-sitting-outdoors-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s be honest here. We&#8217;ve all (at one point or another) had this annoying feeling like we&#8217;re constantly being targeted by life.<\/p>\n<p>Bad things keep piling on and it&#8217;s as if someone has it in for you. But I&#8217;m sorry to let you know you&#8217;re just dealing with some bad luck. That&#8217;s all.<\/p>\n<p>El a\u00f1o pasado fue probablemente uno de los peores de mi vida.<\/p>\n<p>Tuve un problema tras otro, desde la p\u00e9rdida de un ser querido hasta problemas laborales, pasando por tener que mudarme tres veces. Era un asco.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But I didn&#8217;t let it get to me. I knew that life had dealt me a lousy hand and I had no choice but to accept it and learn to cope.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Did I like it? Absolutely not. But did I think that the world had conspired against me? Again &#8211; no.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So whatever you&#8217;re going through and whoever is causing you disarray, just know that most of the time it truly isn&#8217;t personal.<\/p>\n<p>When people treat you poorly in any capacity, it&#8217;s merely a reflection of how they&#8217;re feeling inside.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97140\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-leaning-.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pensativa apoyada en la barandilla al aire libre en la ciudad\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-leaning-.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-leaning--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-leaning--768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-leaning--150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-leaning--720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Recu\u00e9rdalo. La vida real puede ser un asco a veces.<\/p>\n<p>Pero el \u00fanico camino hacia la superaci\u00f3n personal pasa por reconocer que <strong>tienes que aceptar las cosas como son<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Not because it&#8217;s good for you and not because you <em>tienen que<\/em> me gusta.<\/p>\n<p>But because if you don&#8217;t, you&#8217;ll constantly be looking over your shoulder. This too shall pass.<\/p>\n<p>Life doesn&#8217;t have it in for you and you haven\u2019t been put on this earth to suffer eternally.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re just experiencing a particularly lousy period that is preventing you from seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.<\/p>\n<p>But there is a light, scout&#8217;s honor! Just hold on a little while longer and start practicing the power of acceptance.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/ex-ya-esta-saliendo-con-otra-persona-y-me-duele\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Mi Ex Ya Est\u00e1 Saliendo Con Otra Persona Y Me Duele - Esta Es La Raz\u00f3n<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Just because you accept it doesn&#8217;t mean you have to like it<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97141\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sideview-of-a-pensive-female.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de una mujer pensativa sentada al aire libre \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sideview-of-a-pensive-female.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sideview-of-a-pensive-female-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sideview-of-a-pensive-female-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sideview-of-a-pensive-female-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sideview-of-a-pensive-female-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Okay, here&#8217;s what most people get wrong about this. Accepting things as they are doesn&#8217;t mean you have to like it in any way, shape, or form.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t let anyone delude you into thinking that just because you&#8217;re trying to be okay with something, you&#8217;re suddenly a fan of it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Acceptance doesn&#8217;t have anything to do with your preferences. You are merely accepting a situation exactly the way it is. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You&#8217;re not trying to change it because you know it&#8217;s futile.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s a sign of maturity and progression.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, in an ideal world, everything would be exactly to your liking and you wouldn&#8217;t have to struggle with accepting negative situations.<\/p>\n<p>But we don&#8217;t live in an ideal world. Things don&#8217;t always go to plan, and sometimes, you&#8217;ll have to compromise.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97142\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-sitting-pensively.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada pensativa en las peque\u00f1as rocas de la orilla del mar vestida con una carpa blanca\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-sitting-pensively.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-sitting-pensively-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-sitting-pensively-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-sitting-pensively-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-sitting-pensively-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Y la mejor manera de disfrutar del momento presente es hacer las paces con las cosas que no puedes cambiar.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces te has negado a ti mismo la felicidad por estar d\u00e1ndole vueltas a algo que desear\u00edas que fuera diferente?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfY de qu\u00e9 te ha servido?<\/p>\n<p>Creo que ya s\u00e9 la respuesta. As\u00ed que a partir de ahora, en lugar de obsesionarte, empieza a aceptar.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t have to like it in the least. But you do have to accept it for your own well being. The only way forward is through.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As\u00ed que ahorra a tu mente pensamientos innecesarios, acepta las cosas como son y vive la vida que amas. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Some things are simply beyond your control and that&#8217;s okay.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ver la aceptaci\u00f3n como una forma de autocontrol<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97144\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/arab-woman-with-eyes-closed.jpg\" alt=\"mujer \u00e1rabe con los ojos cerrados apoyada en la pared de los edificios en sideview\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/arab-woman-with-eyes-closed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/arab-woman-with-eyes-closed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/arab-woman-with-eyes-closed-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/arab-woman-with-eyes-closed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/arab-woman-with-eyes-closed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The way things currently are doesn&#8217;t have to be ideal. And I bet that it isn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>Does this mean that you shouldn&#8217;t accept it even though you cannot affect it? Quite the contrary.<\/p>\n<p>You see&#8230; we all should fight for what we want and believe in. After all, isn&#8217;t that what life is all about?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEncontrar aquello que enciende tu alma y perseverar hasta conseguirlo?<\/p>\n<p>But sometimes, you&#8217;ll hit a bump or two. Sometimes, it&#8217;ll be manageable, and other times, the obstacles will be insurmountable.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Y en esos momentos, t\u00fa decides c\u00f3mo se desarrollar\u00e1 todo. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00bfSeguir\u00e1 persiguiendo algo que le est\u00e1 resultando esquivo (por no decir otra cosa) o tirar\u00e1 la toalla?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In my experience, it&#8217;s always best to know when it&#8217;s time to cut your losses and move on. You can&#8217;t win them all.<\/p>\n<p>And when you learn to be truly at peace with that, you&#8217;re going to achieve a level of self-control that not many possess.<\/p>\n<p>Eso te ayudar\u00e1 a ir por la vida con m\u00e1s paz y tranquilidad.<\/p>\n<p>Situations won&#8217;t always be desirable, but when you cannot affect the outcome, it&#8217;s best to just accept things as they are and move on to something better.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97146\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-business-woman-.jpg\" alt=\"mujer de negocios adulta cerrando los ojos de pie en la azotea del edificio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-business-woman-.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-business-woman--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-business-woman--768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-business-woman--150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-business-woman--720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>And yes, it&#8217;s possible to find the peace within by acknowledging that some things just cannot be changed. <em>As\u00ed se hace:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 By distancing yourself from the situation once you realize it&#8217;s out of your hands. A healthy separation will help you heal.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 Understanding that you shouldn&#8217;t punish yourself for something you had zero control over.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 By allowing things to unfold the way you know they should regardless of your personal preferences.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 Letting go of your toxic habit to react instinctively. It&#8217;s always preferable to count to 10 before making any judgments.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 By finally knowing not to expect anything positive out of a negative experience. Some things aren&#8217;t meant to go your way.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 Choosing to remain calm amidst it all. You are the one who decides how you let it affect you. Choose wisely.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 By not agreeing with it but at the same time not being against it. Simply let it be the way that it is.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>De este modo, est\u00e1s aprendiendo el poder del autocontrol que te ayudar\u00e1 a vivir en paz.<\/p>\n<p>La clave est\u00e1 en no dejar que tus emociones negativas controlen tu vida.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La aceptaci\u00f3n puede deparar sorpresas inesperadas pero positivas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97147\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/portrait-of-a-smiling-lady.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de una dama sonriente sentada cerca del agua con la mano en el pelo \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/portrait-of-a-smiling-lady.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/portrait-of-a-smiling-lady-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/portrait-of-a-smiling-lady-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/portrait-of-a-smiling-lady-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/portrait-of-a-smiling-lady-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfHas pensado alguna vez qu\u00e9 podr\u00eda ocurrir si decides dejar de luchar contra algo que no puedes afectar?<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que puede parecer una tonter\u00eda, pero hay muchas bendiciones ocultas incluso en las situaciones m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles.<\/p>\n<p>And when you stop fighting it and start accepting it, you&#8217;ll see what I mean.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que aprenda un par de cosas sobre c\u00f3mo funciona algo en particular o, mejor a\u00fan, que mejore sus propias habilidades, lo que le permitir\u00e1 reaccionar adecuadamente.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve heard the inspiring saying: <strong><em>\u201cEvery cloud has a silver lining\u201d<\/em>. \u00a1Y realmente lo hace!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s my personal example that I feel fits perfectly here. A few years ago, I broke up with my then-fiance.<\/p>\n<p>Needless to say &#8211;<em> era malo.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>At the time, it was truly a devastating period that I couldn&#8217;t imagine yielding any positivity.<\/p>\n<p>And for a while, it didn&#8217;t. I was lonely, sad, depressed, and hopeless.<\/p>\n<p>Acababa de perder al amor de mi vida, a la \u00fanica persona junto a la que esperaba envejecer de todo coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>What was I supposed to do now? How was I ever going to meet someone who&#8217;d understand me so deeply?<\/p>\n<p>Pero como en las pel\u00edculas, conoc\u00ed a alguien cuando menos lo esperaba.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97149\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/couple-standing-at-wooden-bridge.jpg\" alt=\"pareja en un puente de madera mirandose en su primer encuentro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/couple-standing-at-wooden-bridge.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/couple-standing-at-wooden-bridge-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/couple-standing-at-wooden-bridge-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/couple-standing-at-wooden-bridge-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/couple-standing-at-wooden-bridge-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todav\u00eda estaba conmocionada por la ruptura, completamente incapacitada para estar con alguien en ese momento.<\/p>\n<p>Pero por cosas de la vida, me persigui\u00f3 hasta que acept\u00e9 tener una cita, y vaya si me alegro de haberlo hecho.<\/p>\n<p>Este tipo era todo lo que nunca pens\u00e9 que necesitaba y m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Me ayud\u00f3 a salir de mi pozo sin fondo, esperando pacientemente a que llegara a un punto en el que pudiera corresponder a sus sentimientos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Y as\u00ed como as\u00ed, una de las peores experiencias de mi vida me trajo a la mejor persona <\/strong><strong>I&#8217;ve ever known.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Things will seem dark for a while. Then one day, you&#8217;ll start seeing a glimmer of light.<\/p>\n<p>Te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que lo que haya pasado ten\u00eda que pasar para traerte algo mejor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Puede que no siempre sea as\u00ed. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>But doesn&#8217;t the mere fact that it is an actual possibility make the current situation at least a bit more manageable?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/como-dejar-de-buscar-la-validacion-de-los-demas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">C\u00f3mo dejar de buscar la validaci\u00f3n de los dem\u00e1s para empezar a prosperar<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Flaws and weaknesses are a part of everyone&#8217;s nature<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97151\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/person-standing-with-a-dog.jpg\" alt=\"persona de pie con un perro cerca de una masa de agua y hierba\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/person-standing-with-a-dog.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/person-standing-with-a-dog-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/person-standing-with-a-dog-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/person-standing-with-a-dog-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/person-standing-with-a-dog-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a scenario. You&#8217;re walking down the street, minding your own business, and you see a dog with its owner approaching you.<\/p>\n<p>You think to yourself: &#8220;Oh what a sweet doggo, I have to pet it!&#8221; which you do with a smile on your face the minute they pass you by.<\/p>\n<p>But instead of the cuddle that you expected in return, the dog bites your fingers (just barely), barks, and crawls back between its owner&#8217;s legs.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora bien, est\u00e1 claro que el perro no quer\u00eda ser acariciado (como es su derecho).<\/p>\n<p>But in this situation, you don&#8217;t go off on the sweet furry creature, because you get it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You understand that you probably should&#8217;ve asked if it was okay <em>de antemano<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So you say that you&#8217;re sorry and give the dog a reassuring look, feeling really badly about assuming it would be okay with unsolicited attention.<\/p>\n<p>See where I&#8217;m going with this? People are oddly similar to dogs in this particular sense.<\/p>\n<p>You know that it&#8217;s in a dog&#8217;s nature to react (by barking or biting) if it feels threatened in any way.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pero s\u00f3lo te causa angustia o te molesta si te niegas a aceptarlo como una parte normal (y bastante esperable) de su comportamiento.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97152\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-near-grasses.jpg\" alt=\"mujer de pie cerca de pastos y una masa de agua con chaqueta\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-near-grasses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-near-grasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-near-grasses-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-near-grasses-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-near-grasses-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>En este escenario, puedes aceptar plenamente las cosas como son. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Aplique esto a su relaci\u00f3n con los seres humanos en su vida cotidiana y observe c\u00f3mo las cosas empiezan a mejorar de repente.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s face it. Accepting that people are all flawed is much easier than constantly being flabbergasted by their actions.<\/p>\n<p>Puedes conseguirlo f\u00e1cilmente simplemente observando a los que te rodean para averiguar su naturaleza.<\/p>\n<p>Once you do, it&#8217;ll become increasingly easier to accept them as they are and stop wasting time on being annoyed and mad.<\/p>\n<p>Y lo mismo ocurre con las circunstancias.<\/p>\n<p>Depending on the particular situation you\u2019re in, you learn to embrace things that you cannot control quite quickly.<\/p>\n<p>You know what can be expected, therefore, you don&#8217;t allow yourself to lose sleep over it. Why?<\/p>\n<p>Because you&#8217;ve trained yourself to see it coming, which makes life that much easier.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Whenever you&#8217;re in doubt remember that this too shall pass.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97154\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-ignoring-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer ignorando hombre en foco de pie en el campo de hierba con la gente en el fondo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-ignoring-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-ignoring-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-ignoring-man-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-ignoring-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-ignoring-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u201cPain is your friend; it is your ally. Pain reminds you to finish the job and get the hell home. Pain tells you when you have been seriously wounded. And you know what the best thing about pain is? It tells you you\u2019re not dead yet!\u201d<\/strong> <\/em>\u2013 G.I Jane<\/p>\n<p>Piense en ello. Has sobrevivido a todos los sinsabores, a todos los obst\u00e1culos insuperables y a todos los retos que te ha puesto la vida.<\/p>\n<p>Every single time you thought that you couldn&#8217;t pick yourself up, you did.<\/p>\n<p>Cada vez que estabas seguro de que la vida nunca volver\u00eda a ser igual, te demostrabas a ti mismo que estabas equivocado.<\/p>\n<p>Cada vez que alguien te romp\u00eda el coraz\u00f3n y sent\u00edas que el mundo se hab\u00eda parado, eras capaz de seguir adelante. <em>\u00bfQu\u00e9 te dice eso?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re a survivor. You go through hard times and you don&#8217;t let them chip away at your hope.<\/p>\n<p>You hold your head high and manage to crack a smile even when it&#8217;s the last thing you feel like doing.<\/p>\n<p>Sabes que la procrastinaci\u00f3n no conduce a nada bueno. Sabes que compadecerte de ti mismo es contraproducente para tu bienestar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And every single time you feel like life has defeated you, you prove it wrong. Doesn&#8217;t that make you feel strong and badass?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>All the pain you feel is temporary. However lost you feel right now, it&#8217;s going to be okay within weeks.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97436\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mature-woman-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"mujer madura pensando y sonriendo mientras descansa en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mature-woman-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mature-woman-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mature-woman-thinking-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mature-woman-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mature-woman-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It might be hard to accept it now, but your whole life you&#8217;ve been proving this to be a fact.<\/p>\n<p>And now, for your own peace of mind, pick yourself up, remind yourself that there isn&#8217;t a challenge you cannot overcome and move forward.<\/p>\n<p>One day, you&#8217;ll be laughing about this. <em>Scout&#8217;s honor<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/8-senales-de-que-te-gusta-agradar-a-la-gente\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">8 se\u00f1ales de que te gusta agradar a la gente y c\u00f3mo dejar de serlo<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>10 maneras en que tu vida empezar\u00e1 a cambiar a mejor<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>En la vida hay muchas cosas que escapan a tu control.<\/p>\n<p>La gente se va, ocurren cosas desafortunadas todo el tiempo y te encuentras con obst\u00e1culos que a veces parecen mayores de lo que puedes manejar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pero cuando aprendes a aceptar las cosas como son con la ayuda de los pasos antes mencionados, <em>este<\/em> is how it&#8217;ll change your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"reset numbered-headline\">Empezar\u00e1s a creer m\u00e1s en ti mismo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97437\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"encantadora mujer joven con el pelo rubio sonriendo en el estudio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-young-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-young-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-young-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-young-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-young-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If we&#8217;re being honest, the only person in your way is none other than you. You choose how you let things affect you.<\/p>\n<p>So when you train your mind to accept things and embrace the uncomfortable facts, you&#8217;ll start having more faith in yourself.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll see that you are capable of taking on problems of all magnitudes and live your life peacefully, regardless of them.<\/p>\n<p>Y todo esto har\u00e1 que disfrutar del momento presente sea mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Entrenar\u00e1s tu mente para reaccionar ante las cosas desde una perspectiva racional<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97441\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mid-adult-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mujer adulta sonriendo al aire libre durante un d\u00eda soleado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mid-adult-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mid-adult-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mid-adult-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mid-adult-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mid-adult-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We are all guilty of reacting passionately instead of rationally sometimes. That&#8217;s just in our nature.<\/p>\n<p>But how much easier would your life be if you found a way to react in a way that doesn&#8217;t relieve you of your peace of mind?<\/p>\n<p>Siguiendo los pasos anteriores, esto puede hacerse realidad. Este es tu billete para una vida sin estr\u00e9s (con excepciones ocasionales) y una navegaci\u00f3n bastante tranquila.<\/p>\n<p>Give it a shot and see how good things can be for a change. Not being fazed by things is the dream, and it&#8217;s well within your reach.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll finally replace that fake smile with a genuine one<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97442\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-in-low-angle.jpg\" alt=\"imagen en angulo bajo sobre una mujer sonriendo con las manos en la cintura\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-in-low-angle.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-in-low-angle-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-in-low-angle-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-in-low-angle-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-in-low-angle-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it feels like we have to force ourselves to be happy every day, doesn&#8217;t it?<\/p>\n<p>For work, for our parents, for our friends going through their own thing&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Pero se vuelve realmente agotador. En alg\u00fan momento, s\u00f3lo quieres ser realmente feliz. Y \u00e9sta es tu manera de conseguirlo. Acepta las cosas que no puedes cambiar.<\/p>\n<p>Haz las paces con las circunstancias que escapan a tu control y vive la vida que quieres vivir.<\/p>\n<p>Once you do, you&#8217;ll notice that fake smile disappearing and a real one forming.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/regla-de-no-contacto-el-poder-del-silencio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">La regla del no contacto: El poder del silencio tras una ruptura<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Seguir adelante dejar\u00e1 de parecer una tarea imposible<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97444\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/defocused-figure-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"figura desenfocada de una mujer de espaldas mirando al mar y p\u00e1jaros volando\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/defocused-figure-of-a-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/defocused-figure-of-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/defocused-figure-of-a-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/defocused-figure-of-a-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/defocused-figure-of-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And isn&#8217;t that kind of the entire goal here? Moving on unaffected?<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve probably fooled yourself that you were okay more than once. But this mantra will help you actually<em> sea<\/em> bien y seguir adelante.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll realize that you should&#8217;ve done this a long time ago&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97446\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-woman-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"encantadora mujer al aire libre manteniendo el pelo lejos de su cara\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-woman-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-woman-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-woman-outdoor-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-woman-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-woman-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But you&#8217;ll be okay with the fact that you didn&#8217;t! You will understand that this is your moment and the timing couldn&#8217;t have been better.<\/p>\n<p>Now you&#8217;re much stronger and more resilient, therefore, you&#8217;re able to accept it all and let it go just like that.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll start oozing confidence<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97447\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-white-tank-top.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con camiseta blanca de tirantes y grandes auriculares sonriendo y sentada en los asientos\/sillas al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-white-tank-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-white-tank-top-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-white-tank-top-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-white-tank-top-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-white-tank-top-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And people will notice it too. You&#8217;ll be much more confident in yourself and it will show.<\/p>\n<p>There will be a new sense of pride within you that won&#8217;t go unnoticed.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s what usually happens once people get to this point.<\/p>\n<p>Unimportant things stop mattering, the big things don&#8217;t seem so big anymore, and the notion to enjoy the little things is no longer lost on you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll start being more goal-oriented<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97448\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/cropped-portrait-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"retrato recortado de una mujer sentada en la mesa de su despacho\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/cropped-portrait-of-a-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/cropped-portrait-of-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/cropped-portrait-of-a-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/cropped-portrait-of-a-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/cropped-portrait-of-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Su nueva perspectiva le ser\u00e1 de gran ayuda.<\/p>\n<p>Tu motivaci\u00f3n ir\u00e1 a la par. Tus objetivos parecer\u00e1n por fin m\u00e1s cercanos y tu actitud prosperar\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll understand that life is full of unexpected twists and turns, but that doesn&#8217;t mean you should lose your cool.<\/p>\n<p>The power of acceptance will lead you through life and you&#8217;ll be motivated to do things you used to fear. The sky will be your limit.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll be as close to healthy living as ever<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97449\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-eating-healthy.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven comiendo alimentos saludables en la cama en el hotel \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-eating-healthy.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-eating-healthy-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-eating-healthy-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-eating-healthy-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-eating-healthy-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The occasional drink you used to have after a draining day won&#8217;t seem so alluring anymore.<\/p>\n<p>La comida r\u00e1pida que era tu consuelo ser\u00e1 sustituida por una dieta m\u00e1s sana.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll start making small (but important) changes to your life that&#8217;ll jump-start a path to healthy living.<\/p>\n<p>Be it cigarettes, alcohol, unhealthy food&#8230;.you won&#8217;t find it so hard saying no anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Tu nueva perspectiva de la vida cambiar\u00e1 por completo tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/confia-en-el-tiempo-de-tu-vida\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Por eso debes confiar en el calendario de tu vida<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll find yourself sleeping better<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97450\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-sleeping.jpg\" alt=\"joven durmiendo profundamente en cama de lino blanco\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-sleeping.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-sleeping-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-sleeping-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-sleeping-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-sleeping-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se sabe que el estr\u00e9s afecta a nuestra vida y a nuestra capacidad para dormir por la noche.<\/p>\n<p>And if you used to have trouble sleeping, don&#8217;t be surprised if it all starts changing.<\/p>\n<p>Sleepless nights will be replaced with a night of full rest. And do you know why? Because you won&#8217;t go to bed anxiety-ridden.<\/p>\n<p>There won&#8217;t be a million issues rummaging through your mind.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll know what deserves your attention and when to accept things as they are. And life will be peachy again.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Y estar\u00e1s mucho mejor preparado para ayudar a un ser querido que lo necesite.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97451\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-helping-senior.jpg\" alt=\"mujer ayudando a hombre mayor a subir a un transporte publico\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-helping-senior.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-helping-senior-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-helping-senior-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-helping-senior-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-helping-senior-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfY hay algo mejor que saber que has podido ayudar a alguien a quien quieres?<\/p>\n<p>La gente a tu alrededor pasa por sus propias cosas, pero tu ansiedad a menudo te impide darte cuenta de verdad.<\/p>\n<p>So once you&#8217;ve got all your ducks in a row, your eyes will be more open to this.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The way you&#8217;ve managed to change <em>su<\/em> life will help you make a change in someone else&#8217;s.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And once you do, it&#8217;ll be ten times more gratifying than anything before.<\/p>\n<p>Cambiar tu propia vida es suficientemente importante.<\/p>\n<p>But once this encourages others to make necessary adjustments in their own lives, it&#8217;s on a whole other level.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre hay una forma de darle la vuelta a las cosas. Solo hay que estar dispuesto a abrir la mente y verlo.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u201cIf you\u2019re feeling low, don\u2019t despair. The sun has a sinking spell every night, but it comes back up every morning. The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain.\u201d<\/strong> <\/em>\u2013 Dolly Parton<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/30-dias-de-amor-propio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Reto de 30 d\u00edas de amor propio: convi\u00e9rtete en la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti mismo<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97455\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/How-To-Accept-Things-As-They-Are-10-Ways-Itll-Change-Your-Life-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"C\u00f3mo aceptar las cosas como son y 10 maneras en que cambiar\u00e1 tu vida\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/How-To-Accept-Things-As-They-Are-10-Ways-Itll-Change-Your-Life-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/How-To-Accept-Things-As-They-Are-10-Ways-Itll-Change-Your-Life-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/How-To-Accept-Things-As-They-Are-10-Ways-Itll-Change-Your-Life-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/How-To-Accept-Things-As-They-Are-10-Ways-Itll-Change-Your-Life-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/How-To-Accept-Things-As-They-Are-10-Ways-Itll-Change-Your-Life-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Being told to accept things as they are can be a confusing notion. After all, why should you? It is entirely up to you how you react to something, right? But hear me out. As &#8220;unacceptable&#8221; as some things may appear to be, when you learn to practice acceptance in difficult situations, you are actually&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":97453,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-97033","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/How-To-Accept-Things-As-They-Are-10-Ways-Itll-Change-Your-Life.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97033","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=97033"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97033\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97453"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=97033"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=97033"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=97033"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}