{"id":9748,"date":"2020-10-07T09:35:31","date_gmt":"2020-10-07T09:35:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9748"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:04:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:04:55","slug":"hombre-amante-del-maltrato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hombre-amante-del-maltrato\/","title":{"rendered":"Al hombre que me ama despu\u00e9s de mis abusos"},"content":{"rendered":"

S\u00e9 que es dif\u00edcil amar a alguien roto. S\u00e9 que es dif\u00edcil amar a alguien que todav\u00eda est\u00e1 atascado en su pasado abusivo.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to love someone who is afraid of your love and touch<\/b> . Amar alguien que cree que no es adorable.<\/a> But you still love me, you\u2019re still here.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re still waiting for me.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, gracias. Gracias por creer en m\u00ed. Gracias por creer que puedo mejorar. Por creer que puedo volver a amar, por creer que puedo superar mi miedo.<\/p>\n

Thank you for being my biggest fan and support. For holding my hand even when I didn\u2019t know I needed you to hold it. Gracias por ser mi fuerza cuando no ten\u00eda ninguna<\/b> . Por ser mis alas mientras las m\u00edas estaban rotas.<\/p>\n

Gracias por su paciencia. S\u00e9 que todav\u00eda hay momentos en los que vuelvo a ese estado mental.<\/p>\n

There are still times when I\u2019m waiting for your approval because I learned to wait for his. <\/b><\/p>\n

There are still times when I\u2019m afraid you\u2019ll be unhappy because he made me believe that his happiness was my only goal in life.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

And I know how hard it is to love a broken soul, to wait for someone who doesn\u2019t even know what true love looks like.<\/p>\n

Gracias por recordarme qui\u00e9n soy. Gracias por mostrarme lo fuerte que puedo ser, lo incre\u00edble y feroz que soy. Thank you for showing me that I\u2019m lovable.<\/b><\/p>\n

Every single day you make sure I hear \u2018I love you\u2019. Every day you make sure that I know my worth. Thank you for that.<\/p>\n

After being constantly broken and abused, it\u2019s hard to remember who you once were. It\u2019s hard to believe you are lovable, when the person you loved the most told you you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

Gracias por hacerme re\u00edr.<\/b><\/p>\n

Honestly, I hadn\u2019t laughed for so long that I forgot how to do it. My laugh was rusty, so it was weird when I first heard it after all that time. You know, I never thought I\u2019d smile again. I never thought I\u2019d be happy again.<\/p>\n

Cre\u00eda seriamente que era incapaz de ser feliz. Atrapada en ese pozo sin fondo de desesperaci\u00f3n y emociones y sue\u00f1os rotos. Atrapada en esa \u00e9poca en la que \u00e9l ten\u00eda un poder absoluto sobre m\u00ed. Atrapada en ese infierno m\u00edo.<\/p>\n

Pero, de alguna manera, encontraste la forma de sacarme de ella. Encontraste la manera de poner una sonrisa en mi cara.<\/p>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Descubriste c\u00f3mo amarme, c\u00f3mo hacerme sentir tu amor<\/b> .<\/p>\n

With every kiss, every feather-like touch and every \u2018I love you\u2019 I hear. You make me feel loved when you share your silence with me.<\/p>\n

Me haces sentir querida cuando compartes conmigo tus miedos y tus pensamientos m\u00e1s profundos. Me haces sentir amada cada minuto del d\u00eda y te doy las gracias por ello.<\/p>\n

Gracias por amarme en mi momento menos amable.<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

Thank you for wanting me when I didn\u2019t want myself when I didn\u2019t want this life. Thank you for showing me how amazing it can be.<\/p>\n

Gracias por darme algo por lo que merece la pena vivir y luchar. Y gracias por hacerme ver que nunca fue culpa m\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Se necesita un tipo especial de hombre para amar a una mujer rota, para amar a una mujer maltratada. Y t\u00fa eres m\u00eda.<\/p>\n

\"Al<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know it\u2019s hard loving someone broken. I know it\u2019s hard loving someone who is still stuck in their abusive past. I know it\u2019s hard to love someone who is afraid of your love and touch . To love someone who believes she is unlovable. But you still love me, you\u2019re still here. You\u2019re still…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":119748,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9748","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/To-The-Man-Loving-Me-After-My-Abuse-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9748","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9748"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9748\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/119748"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9748"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9748"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9748"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}