{"id":9780,"date":"2020-08-07T14:01:29","date_gmt":"2020-08-07T14:01:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9780"},"modified":"2022-02-23T10:51:43","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T10:51:43","slug":"13-razones-por-las-que-las-chicas-buenas-se-van","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/13-razones-por-las-que-las-chicas-buenas-se-van\/","title":{"rendered":"13 razones por las que las chicas buenas se alejan"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las chicas buenas son el mejor material para una relaci\u00f3n. Son las que todav\u00eda creen en el amor y el romance.<\/p>\n

They love the idea of love and they\u2019re world\u2019s biggest sticklers for love.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re talking about those chicas que se quedan con la gente que quieren pase lo que pase<\/a>, about those who don\u2019t leave when things get rough, who always put others in front of themselves and who stay and fight for those whom they love.<\/p>\n

Aquellos que encuentran esperanza en lugares donde nadie pens\u00f3 en buscar y que se quedan incluso cuando otros se habr\u00edan marchado hace mucho tiempo.<\/p>\n

The catch with good girls is that they have limits, too. Sometimes, even if it’s something they don\u2019t want to do, they also walk away.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, no matter how much they want to stay, they have to leave. Even though they hate giving up, in order to save themselves, sometimes they have to do what nobody would expect them to do\u2014sometimes buenas chicas<\/a> alejarse tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

Good girls walk away when they\u2019re taken for granted.<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

They\u2019re expected to always be available and to always put their lives on hold for someone. But this may be tiring at times. Especially when everything they do gets taken for granted.<\/p>\n

When nobody appreciates them for what they do but still gets mad when they try to say \u2018no\u2019, then it becomes hard to be good.<\/p>\n

Since they hate fighting and can\u2019t really walk away as a winner from a fight with toxic people, they simply walk away and show how it feels to be left without them.<\/p>\n

Good girls walk away when they realize they\u2019re only being used.<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

When they are taken for granted constantly, when they do all these things for others and nobody is there for them when they need someone, the light bulbs above their heads light up and it finally gets to them that they\u2019re just being used for other people\u2019s needs.<\/p>\n

Esto es algo que les duele mucho y en lugar de dejar que otros les hagan m\u00e1s da\u00f1o y les utilicen a\u00fan m\u00e1s, optan por alejarse.<\/p>\n

Good girls walk away when then notice they\u2019re being manipulated.<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

There are people who\u2019re just waiting for the prey to fall into their arms and once they get it, they\u2019re not letting go. Once good girls stray into the lives of toxic people, those toxic people will use them as much as they can.<\/p>\n

But the worst part is that they\u2019re going to manipulate them in order to get what they want.<\/p>\n

And even though good girls may need some time to figure out that they\u2019re ser manipulado<\/a> and used for fulfilling other people\u2019s needs, they\u2019ll pack up their things and leave.<\/p>\n

Good girls walk away when they notice they\u2019re last on the list of someone who\u2019s their priority.<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

It\u2019s true that good girls stay longer than anyone else would and that they fight for love till the last atom of their strength, but once they realize they\u2019re fighting for the wrong person, they too will leave.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t continuously put someone on the top of their priority list if they\u2019re always at the bottom of the other person\u2019s.<\/p>\n

When they see the difference in the priorities, the only thing you\u2019ll be seeing is them walking away with their backs turned to you.<\/p>\n

Las buenas chicas se alejan cuando odian luchar constantemente por la atenci\u00f3n.<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

They\u2019re not those who\u2019ll want to be in the center of your attention all the time. They won\u2019t throw temper tantrums and they will never be so selfish as to ask you to forget about the world and focus only on them.<\/p>\n

But they\u2019ll get tired eventually if they have to constantly fight for your attention. If they need to beg you to notice them, then it\u2019s you who isn\u2019t worth it and once they figure this out, they\u2019re out as well.<\/p>\n

Good girls walk away when they feel like they don\u2019t matter.<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

If you show them with your actions that they don\u2019t matter but keep talking how they\u2019re important to you, eventually they\u2019ll start looking what you do not what you say.<\/p>\n

When good girls feel like they don\u2019t matter, they won\u2019t fight to prove you wrong, they\u2019ll leave and give their time to someone who thinks they matter. As simple as that.<\/p>\n

Good girls walk away when they realize they\u2019re the only one trying.<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

What\u2019s the point of giving all of you to someone who doesn’t care to lift their finger for you? Well, mildly speaking\u2014there is none.<\/p>\n

If good girls see that they\u2019re only trying, it won\u2019t take much until they figure out it\u2019s better to leave and try with someone who\u2019ll actually want to help them in the process of building a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n

Las buenas chicas se van cuando ven que no tienen futuro.<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Any normal person would leave when they see that what you two have isn\u2019t really working out or that there is no future.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t make a spot for them in your life, if they have to constantly wonder where they stand with you, it means you have no plans to share your future with them.<\/p>\n

And why should they fight for a spot in your future when there is someone who\u2019ll be more than thrilled to make a spot for them without needing to be asked previously?<\/p>\n

Las buenas chicas se marchan cuando sus esfuerzos no son apreciados.<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll try too hard and they\u2019ll try for too long. Even when others would probably be a long time gone, good girls stay and fight.<\/p>\n

They double their efforts and they try even harder, but once they see that their efforts are not appreciated, when they see that all that they\u2019ve been doing is gone unnoticed and underappreciated, that\u2019s their red flag telling them it\u2019s time for them to leave.<\/p>\n

Y se van sabiendo que hicieron todo lo que pudieron, pero simplemente no estaba destinado a ser.<\/p>\n

Good girls walk away when they don\u2019t get the love they deserve.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The biggest battles they fight is whether to walk away from those who they love. Because sometimes people they love don\u2019t love them back. And sometimes they don\u2019t get the love they deserve.<\/p>\n

People who\u2019re loved by good girls often just take their love without ever giving back and once good girls have given every atom of their love and still haven\u2019t gotten anything in return, the only thing is to walk away.<\/p>\n

Good girls walk away when they\u2019re hurt too much.<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

A veces dan todo su amor a las personas equivocadas. A veces todas sus esperanzas y sue\u00f1os se hacen a\u00f1icos cuando ven que todo el amor que dan s\u00f3lo consigue un billete de ida.<\/p>\n

When this happens, they’re bound to get broken.<\/p>\n

When the person they love causes only pain, when they\u2019re constantly being stabbed in their heart, when the love they\u2019re feeling hurts too much, they\u2019ll pack their things, take their love with them and they\u2019ll leave.<\/p>\n

Good girls walk away when they feel like they\u2019re not good enough.<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

In most cases, good girls are aware of their worth. They know what they deserve and they know that they\u2019re good to others.<\/p>\n

But oftentimes, it happens that people treat them like they don\u2019t deserve to be loved.<\/p>\n

Oftentimes people make them feel like they\u2019re not good enough and that they don\u2019t deserve to be either loved or treated right.<\/p>\n

And when their mind screams one thing and you keep telling them how they\u2019re not good enough, they\u2019ll walk away to save their sanity.<\/p>\n

Good girls walk away when they\u2019ve had enough.<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

It\u2019s true that good girls fight the hardest. It\u2019s true that they stay the longest and that they defy all the norms and standards on how much pain someone can put up with.<\/p>\n

But they\u2019re also the ones to see the red flags loud and clear and act accordingly.<\/p>\n

Regardless of their love, if they\u2019re used, manipulated, mistreated, taken for granted or underappreciated, they\u2019ll walk away.<\/p>\n

And even though walking away might hurt like hell, they will never regret it because they\u2019ll know they did all that they could\u2014but for wrong people, even the best of the good girls simply isn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n

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