{"id":98215,"date":"2020-09-15T11:56:56","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T11:56:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=98215"},"modified":"2022-02-22T12:11:13","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T12:11:13","slug":"volver-con-alguien-tras-una-ruptura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/volver-con-alguien-tras-una-ruptura\/","title":{"rendered":"13 consejos para volver con \u00e9xito tras una ruptura"},"content":{"rendered":"

We have all said so many times that it’s over and that we’re done with our ex but we get back together with them in most cases. <\/p>\n

Volver con un ex parece s\u00faper f\u00e1cil.<\/em> One of you sends a message or invites the other person out and that’s it.<\/p>\n

Pero la verdadera pregunta es qu\u00e9 pasa despu\u00e9s y c\u00f3mo volver con \u00e9xito tras una ruptura. <\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo resolver los problemas que provocaron la ruptura?<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo no dejar que la carga emocional del pasado te frene y empezar de nuevo con tu ex pareja? <\/p>\n

S\u00ed, cuando lo piensas, puede parecer f\u00e1cil, pero reavivar la relaci\u00f3n con tu ex nunca es tan sencillo.<\/p>\n

Giving someone a second chance, especially if that person has hurt or betrayed you, is risky and you can never be sure that it’s the right decision for you. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, si realmente amas a tu ex novio y quieres resolver tus problemas y reavivar con \u00e9l, estos consejos pueden ayudarle a conseguirlo. <\/em><\/p>\n

Volver a estar juntos despu\u00e9s de una mala ruptura es posible.<\/p>\n

Puedes empezar desde el principio y tener una nueva relaci\u00f3n mucho mejor con tu ex pareja.<\/em><\/p>\n

Y estos consejos de nuestra coach de relaciones te ayudar\u00e1n seguro. <\/p>\n

Deja espacio tanto a ti como a tu ex pareja<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Antes de acordar volver a estar juntos o hablar de ello, deber\u00edais daros un poco de espacio.<\/p>\n

Tienes que decidir si volver a estar juntos es realmente la mejor decisi\u00f3n para ambos. <\/p>\n

Tienes que estar solo y pensar en tus sentimientos. Piensa en la raz\u00f3n por la que rompisteis.<\/p>\n

Piensa en los recuerdos que compart\u00eds y en la primera vez que os conocisteis. <\/p>\n

Tienes que aclarar tus sentimientos y algunas cosas que tienes en la cabeza antes de hablar con tu ex pareja para darle una segunda oportunidad a vuestra relaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n

Piensa tambi\u00e9n en el tiempo que pasasteis separados. \u00bfDisfrutaste de la solter\u00eda? \u00bfO echabas mucho de menos a tu ex pareja? <\/p>\n

After you’ve re-examined yourself and you’re sure of your feelings and how much you love him, you should wait for your ex-partner to be ready to rekindle your relationship. <\/p>\n

Dale tambi\u00e9n espacio, porque \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n necesita pensarlo todo y tomar una decisi\u00f3n que sea la mejor para los dos. <\/p>\n

Debes ser consciente de que hay mucha presi\u00f3n para los dos y quiz\u00e1 \u00e9l necesite algo m\u00e1s de tiempo.<\/em><\/p>\n

However, waiting shouldn’t be a problem if your love is true.  <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

If you get back together too soon, without even thinking about your break-up and your relationship, you won’t be able to make things work again and the break-up is going to happen again for sure. <\/p>\n

Respetar la norma de no contacto <\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Hay algunas cosas que debes respetar durante la ruptura y norma de no contacto<\/em><\/a> es uno de ellos.<\/p>\n

It’s absolutely some of the best relationship advice you’ll ever get from anyone.  <\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 es la norma de no contacto?<\/em> y por qu\u00e9 es tan importante cuando se trata de c\u00f3mo volver juntos<\/a> \u00bfdespu\u00e9s de una ruptura? <\/p>\n

Well, the answer is very simple. The rule orders that for a period of time after the break-up, you shouldn’t text, call or see your ex.<\/p>\n

Esto se debe a que tienes que darles tiempo y espacio, un poco de espacio para respirar o simplemente para darse cuenta de si se preocupan por ti en absoluto. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

En ese periodo, puedes centrarte en ti mismo. Trabaja en ti mismo. Haz cosas que te gusten.<\/p>\n

Do whatever will keep you occupied so you won’t even think about calling or texting your ex. <\/p>\n

If you want to get your ex back, it’s really important to fully respect this rule.<\/p>\n

Te har\u00e1 darte cuenta de algunas cosas y si todo va como deber\u00eda, si tu ex incluso quiere reavivar contigo, esta regla permitir\u00e1 un nuevo comienzo para vosotros dos. <\/p>\n

Decide whether it’s really worth it<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Mientras despejas tus sentimientos, deber\u00edas pensar en tu relaci\u00f3n anterior. Piensa en esos momentos no tan buenos. <\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1les fueron los motivos reales de vuestra ruptura?<\/p>\n

\u00bfTu ex pareja te hizo algo horrible y alguna vez podr\u00e1s perdonarlo y olvidarlo por completo? <\/p>\n

\u00bfSon tus sentimientos realmente m\u00e1s fuertes que tus problemas de pareja? \u00bfReunirte con tu ex novio es realmente la mejor opci\u00f3n para ti?<\/p>\n

Si ya te han hecho pasar por un desamor, \u00bfmerece realmente la pena volver a pasar por todo eso una vez m\u00e1s o est\u00e1s seguro de que esta segunda vez ser\u00e1 mejor? <\/p>\n

Hay tantas preguntas sin respuesta en las que tienes que pensar.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, tienes que pensar en ti mismo y en tus problemas personales y resolverlos primero. <\/p>\n

Comun\u00edquese con m\u00e1s eficacia <\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Tienes que ser capaz de hablar con tu ex pareja de todas las cosas que te molestaban mientras erais novios.<\/p>\n

It’s the only way you’ll be able to solve those things and make your relationship work again. <\/p>\n

Your ex-partner can’t read your mind, so you’ll tienen que comunicar<\/a> con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

You won’t agree on some things but you have to find a way to solve those without fighting over them or raising your voices. <\/p>\n

There is nothing that can’t be solved by talking.<\/p>\n

You both should change some things, especially those that your ex-partner doesn’t like about you and vice versa. <\/p>\n

Si quieres algo de tu pareja o crees que mereces una disculpa por su parte, debes dec\u00edrselo y explicarle tus motivos. <\/p>\n

Una relaci\u00f3n amorosa est\u00e1 formada por dos personas que se respetan, se quieren y se hablan con sinceridad.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Those are the main foundations of every healthy relationship and until you fulfill each one of them, your relationship won’t work the way you would want it to. <\/p>\n

Be honest and tell your significant other how you feel…<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Vamos. Deja salir todos tus sentimientos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You two broke up and it’s perfectly normal that you’ve been dealing with some negative feelings too so let them out. <\/p>\n

Tu ex pareja necesita o\u00edr c\u00f3mo te sientes realmente.<\/p>\n

Don’t lie about it or try to sugar-coat it because sooner or later, your true feelings will come out and you’ll have an even bigger problem then. <\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, nunca debes reprimir tus sentimientos.<\/p>\n

Even if you can’t talk to your ex-partner about them, you should open up to your best friend or a family member who you trust with those things. <\/p>\n

Bottling up your emotions will only make things worse for you because you won’t be able to fool yourself.<\/p>\n

When you’re in a loving relationship, you have to be able to tell your partner how you truly feel and if they really love you, they’ll try to understand you. <\/p>\n

Diles lo que sientes por ellos, lo fuertes que son realmente tus sentimientos hacia ellos.<\/p>\n

Tell them when the last time was that you were truly happy and why you don’t feel like that anymore.<\/p>\n

If you don’t love them the way you used to, they deserve to also know that. <\/p>\n

\u2026 but at the same time, be ready to listen to what your ex-partner has to say<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Si tu ex pareja te escucha y empieza a hablar de sus propios sentimientos hacia ti y vuestra relaci\u00f3n, deber\u00edas escuche atentamente<\/a> lo que tiene que decir. <\/p>\n

Tienes que saber c\u00f3mo se sienten porque los sentimientos de ambos son igual de importantes.<\/p>\n

Don’t interrupt him, just listen to him while he\u2019s talking and you can say your opinion once he finishes. <\/p>\n

It’s probably not easy for him, just like it’s not easy for you.<\/p>\n

Hay tantas emociones mezcladas y ninguno de los dos puede pensar con claridad. <\/p>\n

Preg\u00fantale a tu ex pareja cu\u00e1l fue el motivo de su ruptura.<\/p>\n

Preg\u00fantale qu\u00e9 siente realmente por ti y si est\u00e1 seguro de que la reconciliaci\u00f3n es la mejor soluci\u00f3n para vosotros. <\/p>\n

Dile que, pase lo que pase, siempre puede confiar en ti y abrirse a ti.<\/p>\n

You’ll always be there for him, to listen to him and advise him the best way you can. <\/p>\n

You aren’t only ex-lovers or two people who are trying to get back together, you’re also friends and people who know each other the best and who want nothing but the best for each other. <\/p>\n

Ask him to talk with you about his \u2018post-break-up life\u2019.<\/p>\n

Did he enjoy the single life or was it that he couldn’t stop thinking about you?<\/p>\n

\u00bfSe sent\u00eda bien y aliviado o estaba deprimido por la ruptura? <\/p>\n

If your ex-partner wants to reunite with you, he’ll be honest with his answers too.<\/p>\n

Ambos deben saber que la \u00fanica forma de restablecer su relaci\u00f3n sentimental es mediante una comunicaci\u00f3n eficaz. <\/p>\n

Identifique sus problemas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Once you’ve had an honest talk, where both of you talked about your feelings and thoughts about your relationship, you’ll be able to work on solving those issues you had while you were together. <\/p>\n

Ambas ex parejas deben sacar a relucir sus problemas y las razones por las que se distanciaron en primer lugar.<\/p>\n

Entonces ambas partes deber\u00edan estar abiertas a compromisos. <\/p>\n

If your ex-partner wants you to change something about you that was bothering him (and I’m not saying that you should change who you are just to get back together with him but there are some little things we’re allowed to change for our loved ones), you should work on it and change it. <\/p>\n

If your ex-partner has some habits that you weren’t okay with, you should also ask him to change them and explain why they were bothering you. <\/p>\n

What were some obstacles in your relationship and why didn’t it succeed? Was it a long-distance relationship?<\/p>\n

Or maybe one of you wasn’t ready to engage in a relationship? <\/p>\n

Whatever it is, you have to talk about it because the problems won’t disappear if you don’t talk about them.<\/p>\n

On the contrary, they’ll only become bigger and more difficult to solve. <\/p>\n

Conc\u00e9ntrese en su relaci\u00f3n <\/h2>\n

\"escapada<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 es lo m\u00e1s importante para ti? Salvar tu relaci\u00f3n, \u00bfverdad? \u00bfVolver con \u00e9xito con tu ex?<\/p>\n

Entonces ambos deber\u00edais centraros s\u00f3lo en vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Don’t think about other people or your old relationship or anything else. Think about solutions for your relationship issues. <\/p>\n

Think about how difficult that period was for both of you while you weren’t together. Do you really want to feel like that again? <\/p>\n

Te aconsejo que hagas una desintoxicaci\u00f3n de las redes sociales. Mantenga su relaci\u00f3n en privado<\/a>, at least until you’re both completely sure that you want to rekindle and start over again.<\/p>\n

So, stop sharing your photographs on Snapchat, Instagram or any other social media that you use. You’ve more important issues to solve right now. <\/p>\n

Pasar alg\u00fan tiempo juntos, lejos de todo el mundo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

When you decide that it’s time to have \u2018the talk\u2019 about your relationship, you should do it in some place that is away from all other people from your lives.<\/p>\n

Let’s call it a \u2018neutral territory\u2019, so it shouldn’t be at your or your ex-partner’s place. <\/p>\n

Justo despu\u00e9s de decidir volver a intentarlo, pero esta vez para esforzaros de verdad en que vuestra relaci\u00f3n funcione, deber\u00edais planear un viaje a alg\u00fan lugar s\u00f3lo para vosotros dos.<\/p>\n

Pasa alg\u00fan tiempo<\/a> juntos y hablar de todo lo que sientas la necesidad de hacerlo. <\/p>\n

Don’t call your friends immediately to celebrate your reconciliation with them as first, you should celebrate it with your ex-partner and try to make up for all the time you’ve lost. <\/p>\n

Recuerda que t\u00fa y tu relaci\u00f3n sois lo m\u00e1s importante en este momento.<\/p>\n

All other people who care about you will understand you and why you don’t have time to hang out with them. <\/p>\n

Reavivar la llama entre vosotros dos<\/h2>\n

\"couple<\/p>\n

Piensa en algunas formas de reavivar la llama entre vosotros.<\/p>\n

Hay muchas formas de hacerlo y planear un viaje rom\u00e1ntico s\u00f3lo para los dos es una buena opci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n

Necesitas conseguir que tu ex pareja vuelva a enamorarse de ti.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

He does love you, as if he didn\u2019t, he wouldn’t want to rekindle your relationship but maybe he just isn\u2019t in love with you anymore. <\/p>\n

Tienes que ser s\u00faper rom\u00e1ntico y demostrarle a tu ex pareja lo mucho que realmente te importan \u00e9l y vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Piensa en alg\u00fan lugar que os recuerde a ambos tiempos mejores y m\u00e1s felices o en un lugar que siempre hay\u00e1is querido visitar juntos.<\/p>\n

Esta es una gran oportunidad para hacerlo por fin. <\/p>\n

O puedes recrear tu primera cita.<\/em> That’s always a great way to rekindle the flame that has gone in your relationship.<\/p>\n

It’s also a great way to remind yourselves how far you’ve come from the moment you started dating. <\/p>\n

Mima a tu ex pareja.<\/strong> <\/em>C\u00f3mprale un regalo o sorpr\u00e9ndele con algo que siempre quiso tener.<\/p>\n

Puedes recopilar todas vuestras fotos y d\u00e1rselas en una caja junto con todos los dem\u00e1s recuerdos que guardasteis mientras erais novios. <\/p>\n

It’s just like I said already, you’ll have to be more romantic and work hard to make things work again.<\/p>\n

Dar una segunda oportunidad a tu relaci\u00f3n y a tu ex novio requiere mucho trabajo y paciencia. <\/p>\n

Si has decidido perdonar a tu ex pareja y seguir adelante, tienes que hacerlo de verdad<\/h2>\n

\"dulce<\/p>\n

No importa qui\u00e9n cometi\u00f3 un error o qui\u00e9n fue el culpable de la ruptura, si la otra parte decide perdonar y seguir adelante con la relaci\u00f3n, tiene que estar dispuesta a hacerlo.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, it\u2019s easier to say than to do; trust me. <\/p>\n

Si tu ex pareja ha perdido tu confianza, debes ser sincera con \u00e9l y decirle que necesitas un tiempo para reflexionar sobre vuestra relaci\u00f3n y que intentar\u00e1s ganarte de nuevo su confianza. <\/p>\n

You need to be sure that you’re ready to perd\u00f3nalo<\/a> y olv\u00eddate de su traici\u00f3n y de tus penas para poder continuar con vuestra relaci\u00f3n. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Don’t look back<\/a> y c\u00e9ntrate siempre en el futuro.<\/p>\n

Si est\u00e1s seguro de que quieres a tu ex pareja y tus sentimientos son rec\u00edprocos, entonces podr\u00e9is atravesar juntos todos los obst\u00e1culos y resolver todos vuestros problemas. <\/p>\n

Don’t involve your friends and family too much in your relationship<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

It’s good to listen to other people’s advice, especially if it comes from the people close to you. Your friends and family love you and they want the best for you. <\/p>\n

Sin embargo, nunca debe permitir que nadie interfiera en su relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Puedes escuchar lo que tienen que decir sobre tu relaci\u00f3n, pero you shouldn\u2019t blindly follow their advice<\/a>.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo vosotros conoc\u00e9is toda la verdad sobre vuestra relaci\u00f3n y s\u00f3lo vosotros dos pod\u00e9is tomar decisiones al respecto. <\/p>\n

Even if it turns out that it was a mistake to give your relationship a second chance, you won’t feel bad about it because you’ll know that it was only your choice. <\/p>\n

Nunca puedes estar completamente seguro de en qui\u00e9n puedes confiar y de si tus amistades son realmente sinceras. Siempre hay que tener mucho cuidado con la confianza en los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Hay algunas personas que s\u00f3lo fingir\u00e1n que se preocupan por ti, pero al mismo tiempo intentar\u00e1n hacerte da\u00f1o y tratar\u00e1n de interferir en tu relaci\u00f3n para arruinar tus posibilidades de ser feliz con tu media naranja. <\/p>\n

Recuerda, todos los problemas pueden resolverse si ambos quer\u00e9is trabajar en vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Don’t listen too much to other people’s advice, even if it comes from your friends and family because only you and your ex-partner should make decisions about your relationship. <\/p>\n

Piensa si reanudar la relaci\u00f3n con tu ex es realmente bueno para tu propio bienestar.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, no matter how hard we want something, we have to accept the fact that it’s not good for us and we have to let it go. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

It’s exactly like many people would tell you that 13 is an unlucky number and you shouldn’t trust them because I’m sure these 13 tips will be lucky for you and all these tips on how to successfully get back together after a break-up can help you for sure. <\/p>\n

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