Se trata de un atajo que muchos de nosotros hemos optado por seguir debido a la falta de razones para solucionar las cosas en su lugar.<\/p>\n
But don’t get me wrong; in some situations, getting out (breaking up) is the only right thing to do, such as when we\u2019re in an abusive relationship.<\/p>\n
Las mejores relaciones no son las que son perfectas por defecto, sino aquellas en las que la pareja hace un esfuerzo continuo a pesar de todas las dificultades y obst\u00e1culos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n If you both know that you’ve done everything in your power and still nothing has changed, then you know the best option is to go your separate ways.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, si las siguientes se\u00f1ales son ciertas en tu relaci\u00f3n, entonces deber\u00edas considerar arreglar las cosas con tu pareja en lugar de romper porque las cosas DEFINITIVAMENTE mejorar\u00e1n:<\/p>\n Antes de hacer nada, p\u00e1rate un momento a pensar si te gustabas m\u00e1s antes de esta relaci\u00f3n o te gustas m\u00e1s ahora.<\/p>\n Si la respuesta es esta \u00faltima, es una buena se\u00f1al.<\/p>\n Usually, when a relationship is toxic and bad for you, there’s not a chance of you flourishing and becoming a better person.<\/p>\n A m\u00ed me pas\u00f3 lo mismo hace poco.<\/p>\n Estuve en una relaci\u00f3n durante alg\u00fan tiempo y antes de que estuviera a punto de romper<\/a> con ellos, me di cuenta de que ya no era la misma persona de antes.<\/p>\n En lugar de convertirme en una persona mejor, me hab\u00eda transformado totalmente en alguien a quien ya no reconoc\u00eda.<\/p>\n Despu\u00e9s de un tiempo de estar soltera de nuevo, me recargu\u00e9 y me sent\u00ed diez veces mejor que antes.<\/p>\n People around me confirmed that I was glowing once again and that’s exactly how I felt inside out.<\/p>\n En la mayor\u00eda de los casos, las relaciones se ven amenazadas por conflictos externos, como problemas de dinero o de pareja y otras circunstancias.<\/p>\n Perhaps you’re living under the same roof with your parents and you have no privacy or you are currently unemployed.<\/p>\n Debido a todo este estr\u00e9s, es posible que evites hacer el amor con tu pareja, los abrazos y otras actividades rom\u00e1nticas.<\/p>\n Es entonces cuando las cosas empiezan a torcerse en una relaci\u00f3n y uno de los miembros de la pareja (o ambos) empieza a sentirse desatendido.<\/p>\n Still, it’s important to understand that these problems can be SOLVED and you shouldn’t break up with your partner.<\/p>\n Instead, you should both understand that the problem is not your relationship and instead something you can’t really influence but you can work on making things better.<\/p>\n No, I don’t mean apoyarse mutuamente<\/a> en las redes sociales, sino en situaciones de la vida real (especialmente en tiempos dif\u00edciles).<\/p>\n If you’re still supportive and respectful of each other, it means you are probably still in love.<\/p>\n Lo que ocurre es que, cuando las parejas se desenamoran, dejan de respetarse y la relaci\u00f3n empieza a desmoronarse. La falta de respeto es uno de los mayores signs your partner doesn’t love you anymore<\/a>.<\/p>\n Si no hay apoyo ni respeto en una relaci\u00f3n, es una enorme se\u00f1al de alarma, porque esas situaciones suelen ser irreparables.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, la falta de pasi\u00f3n o la lucha por decir Te quiero<\/a><\/em> por el momento son cosas que pueden resolverse con un esfuerzo mutuo.<\/p>\n Cuando se trata de relaciones, nuestros amigos y familiares suelen ser mejores jueces que nosotros mismos.<\/p>\n Siempre se dan cuenta de si somos m\u00e1s felices en una relaci\u00f3n o si \u00e9sta se ha convertido en una carga para nosotros.<\/p>\n So, if your best friends or family members are telling you that you shouldn’t break up with your partner, it is because they know that you are still a good match and you can work things out.<\/p>\n Desde su punto de vista, segu\u00eds enamorados, pero s\u00f3lo ten\u00e9is que trabajar para mejorar las cosas (sea cual sea el problema) y, si sois pacientes y constantes, seguro que lo conseguir\u00e9is.<\/p>\n V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo arreglar una relaci\u00f3n rota: 10 maneras de arreglar las cosas<\/a><\/p>\n If you said, “I do,” then you know the true difficulty and the meaning of the statement \u2018for better or worse\u2019.<\/p>\n Regardless of whether you’re married or in a relationship, I want you to ask yourself the following: “Do I still feel good with my partner when I’m both at my worst and at my best?”<\/p>\n \u00bfSigues queriendo estar con ellos tanto cuando las cosas se tuercen como cuando todo va sobre ruedas?<\/p>\n Si la respuesta es s\u00ed, entonces deber\u00edas solucionar las cosas en lugar de romper con ellos.<\/p>\n \u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Porque significa que vuestra relaci\u00f3n sigue teniendo una base sana. Pod\u00e9is seguir confiando el uno en el otro independientemente de la situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n It’s easy to be with someone when everything works perfectly but wanting to be with someone even when everything is falling apart is a sign of true love and devotion.<\/p>\n One sure-fire way to figure out if you’re in an abusive and relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica<\/a> que no tiene futuro es comparando los momentos felices con los malos de tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Do you notice that the happy moments are the ones prevailing in your mind? If yes, then you know there’s nothing you should worry about.<\/p>\n Vive la vida al m\u00e1ximo, no te arrepientas, rel\u00e1jate y disfruta de cada segundo que pases con tu pareja.<\/p>\n Work on improving those little things that are causing you trouble at the moment and you’ll be just fine.<\/p>\n Por \u00faltimo, pero no por ello menos importante, si tienes un presentimiento (esa vocecita en tu cabeza) que te dice que deber\u00edais solucionar las cosas y seguir juntos, entonces deber\u00edas confiar en ti mismo.<\/p>\n Tu instinto es tu alma dici\u00e9ndote lo que debes hacer, as\u00ed que nunca debes cuestionarlo.<\/p>\n En lugar de eso, debes mantener una actitud positiva y repetirte a ti mismo: \u00a1Podemos solucionarlo!<\/p>\n If you believe that you can, then you’re already halfway there.<\/p>\n Para ayudarte con el compartimento de la motivaci\u00f3n, aqu\u00ed tienes una lista de citas inspiradoras sobre c\u00f3mo solucionar las cosas.<\/p>\n 39 frases inspiradoras que te ayudar\u00e1n a superar tus problemas de pareja<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n 1. \u201cWhatever problems arise in a romantic relationship, it\u2019s important to face them together as a couple. If an aspect of the relationship stops working, don\u2019t simply ignore it, but instead address it with your partner. Things change, so respond to them together as they do.\u201d \u2013 Anne Nwakama<\/p>\n 2. \u201cBehind every happy couple lies two people who have fought hard to overcome all obstacles and interferences to be that way. Why? Because it\u2019s what they wanted.\u201d \u2013 Kim George<\/p>\n 3. \u201cRelationships last long not because they\u2019re destined to last long. Relationships last long because two brave people made a choice. To keep it, fight for it and to work for it.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 4. \u201cYou can\u2019t just give up on someone just because the situation is not ideal. Great relationships aren\u2019t great because they have no problems. They\u2019re great because both people care about the other person to find a way to make it work.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 5. \u201cWe are told that people stay in love because of qu\u00edmica<\/a>, or because they remain intrigued with each other, because of many kindnesses, because of luck. But part of it has got to be forgiveness and gratefulness.\u201d \u2013 Ellen Goodman<\/p>\n 6. \u201cForget all the reasons why it won\u2019t work and believe the one reason why it will.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 7. \u201cEvery relationship needs an argument every now and then. Just to prove that it is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.\u201d \u2013 Melchor Lim<\/p>\n 8. \u201cA beautiful relationship does not depend on how well we understand someone but it depends on how well we avoid misunderstanding.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Citas de amor que conmueven el coraz\u00f3n; 100 + Citas que derriten el coraz\u00f3n para tu ser querido<\/a><\/p>\n 9. \u201cEvery relationship has its problems but what makes it perfect is when you still want to be there when everything goes wrong.\u201d \u2013 Ritu Ghatourey<\/p>\n 10. \u201cThe couples that are meant to be are the ones who go through everything that is meant to tear them apart and come out even stronger.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 11. \u201cWhen you find someone you can truly love, you will fight to keep that relationship. No matter what obstacles you both will face, you will never give up on each other. You may get lost along the way, but one of you always keeps catching the other. Soon one day both of you will have each other\u2019s backs.\u201d \u2013 Jenna Bognar<\/p>\n 12. \u201cYou can\u2019t have a relationship without any fights but you can make your relationship worth the fight.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 13. \u201cLove isn\u2019t when there are no fights in the relationship. Love is when once the fight ends, love is still there.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 14. \u201cRelationships include: fights, celos<\/a>, arguments, and tears. But a real relationship fights through all of those with love.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 15. \u201cA relationship is like a house. When a light bulb burns out you do not go and buy a new house, you fix the light bulb.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 16. \u201cAll relationships have one law. Never make the one you love feel alone, especially when you\u2019re there.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 17. \u201cA true relationship is two imperfect people refusing to let go of each other.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 18. \u201cLove is the remedy of all problems, misunderstandings become jokes, insults become humor, a perfect relationship.\u201d \u2013 Dielnov Muchati<\/p>\n 19. \u201cGreat couples still get angry with each other, but they continue to discuss until there is a solution even if it takes several days.\u201d \u2013 Bob Grant<\/p>\n 20. \u201cThe emotion that can break your heart is sometimes the very one that heals it.\u201d \u2013 Nicholas Sparks<\/p>\n V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Los 6 problemas de pareja m\u00e1s comunes que no tienen arreglo<\/a><\/p>\n 21. \u201cTrouble is part of your life, and if you don\u2019t share it, you don\u2019t give the person who loves you enough chance to love you enough.\u201d \u2013 Dinah Shore<\/p>\n 22. \u201cI think a relationship is like a shark. It has to constantly move forward or it dies.\u201d \u2013 Woody Allen<\/p>\n 23. \u201cThere is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love.\u201d \u2013 Bryant H. McGill<\/p>\n 24. \u201cProblems should be like speed bumps. You slow down just to get over it, but you don\u2019t let it stop you from heading to your destination.\u201d \u2013 Sonya Parker<\/p>\n 25. \u201cAll relationships go through bad times, but real relationships get through bad times.\u201d \u2013 Anurag Prakash Ray<\/p>\n 26. \u201cHold no grudges and practice forgiveness. This is the key to having peace in all your relationships.\u201d \u2013 Wayne Dyer<\/p>\n 27. \u201cProblemas en las relaciones<\/a> occur because each person is concentrating on what is missing in the other person.\u201d \u2013 Wayne Dyer<\/p>\n 28. \u201cWe don\u2019t develop courage by being happy every day. We develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity.\u201d \u2013 Barbara de Angelis<\/p>\n 29. \u201cBoth people need to care deeply about the other person, to put the other\u2019s needs before their own, and to make a daily commitment to that person to stick it out.\u201d \u2013 Alessandra Torre<\/p>\n 30. \u201cIn any serious relationship, if you don\u2019t gather your partner\u2019s opinion before making a decision that impacts you both, you\u2019re just storing up trouble for the future.\u201d \u2013 Cindy Woodsmall<\/p>\n 31. \u201cThe truth is, everybody is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.\u201d \u2013 Bob Marley<\/p>\n 32. \u201cGood communication is less about saying what you mean, and more about defining what you say.\u201d \u2013 Kelli Jae Baeli<\/p>\n V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: T\u00fa Eres Mi Vida Citas: Dichos profundos y hermosos para \u00e9l y para ella<\/a><\/p>\n 33. \u201cExplain your anger, don\u2019t express it and you will immediately open the door to solutions instead of arguments.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 34. \u201cShared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow.\u201d \u2013 Swedish proverb<\/p>\n 35. \u201cSome of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they\u2019re trying to find someone who\u2019s going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way una relaci\u00f3n durar\u00e1<\/a> is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.\u201d \u2013 Anthony Robbins<\/p>\n 36. \u201cSometimes you put walls up not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to break them down.\u201d \u2013 Socrates<\/p>\n 37. \u201cTo solve the problem you have to recognize your share of responsibility. If you only blame the other person, you will never solve it.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 38. \u201cNobody likes conflict, but sweeping issues under the rug ultimately causes more damage than addressing things directly.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 39. \u201cThe extent to which two people in a relationship can bring up and resolve issues is a critical marker of the soundness of a relationship.\u201d \u2013 Henry Cloud<\/p>\n Reflexiones finales<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Espero que estas citas sobre relaciones te hayan inspirado para arreglar las cosas con tu pareja.<\/p>\n Remember that you can achieve anything together and overcome any obstacle only if you want to and if you’re still in love with each other.<\/p>\n El amor es la fuerza m\u00e1s poderosa del mundo y lo puede todo. Te deseo mucha suerte y mucho amor.<\/p>\nLa relaci\u00f3n a\u00fan te hace (querer ser) mejor persona<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nLos conflictos externos te hacen infeliz (no los conflictos internos de personalidad)<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nOs segu\u00eds apoyando y respetando<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nTus amigos y familiares siguen apoyando la relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nSigues queriendo estar con tu pareja en las buenas y en las malas<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nLos momentos felices eclipsan a los malos<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nTienes el presentimiento de que deber\u00edais seguir juntos.<\/h2>\n
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