{"id":98654,"date":"2020-09-15T12:53:57","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T12:53:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=98654"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:52:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:52:18","slug":"ex-novios-te-recuerdan-que-has-evolucionado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ex-novios-te-recuerdan-que-has-evolucionado\/","title":{"rendered":"Los ex novios est\u00e1n ah\u00ed para recordarte cu\u00e1nto has evolucionado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sometimes it\u2019s hard to accept the fact that every experience in our life has a place and meaning, especially when it comes to rompecorazones<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Romantic feelings are a very sensitive subject and there\u2019s no denying that they affect our life significantly.<\/p>\n

Cuando se trata de relaciones rom\u00e1nticas, los altos pueden ser muy altos, pero eso tambi\u00e9n significa que los bajos tambi\u00e9n lo son.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pueden hacer o deshacer tu vida en cuesti\u00f3n de segundos.<\/p>\n

However, it\u2019s true that every cloud has a silver lining but we need time to see it.<\/p>\n

The same goes for your ex. You might think of him with anger and bitterness in your heart but as time goes by, you\u2019ll realize the lesson he brought into your life and you\u2019ll be thankful in some way.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to be thankful to him as a person per se but for an experience that made you a stronger and better person.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, puedes seguir tu propio progreso personal bas\u00e1ndote en las lecciones que te ense\u00f1\u00f3 tu ex, intencionadamente o no.<\/p>\n

Tal vez te cueste ver las cosas buenas en experiencias tan dolorosas y confusas.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I want to share what I have learned and hope you\u2019ll recognize some of these things in your own experience.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Lo primero que aprend\u00ed de mi ex es que a veces la gente te hace da\u00f1o sin propon\u00e9rselo<\/strong>. Yes, that\u2019s possible and very frequent.<\/p>\n

Now, that doesn\u2019t mean they shouldn\u2019t face any consequences but it\u2019s easier to understand what they\u2019ve done when you think of it from another perspective.<\/p>\n

Every one of us has a different understanding of the same things and sometimes that means that one person will end up hurt over something that another person doesn\u2019t find important at all.<\/p>\n

Esto me ayud\u00f3 a convertirme en una persona m\u00e1s comprensiva y persona madura<\/a> que da un paso atr\u00e1s y piensa antes de tomarse todo como algo personal.<\/strong><\/p>\n

La segunda cosa muy importante que aprend\u00ed es a reconocer el abuso en todas sus formas.<\/p>\n

When we think of abuse, we usually have a mental picture of physical abuse but that\u2019s not the only way las personas t\u00f3xicas da\u00f1an a los dem\u00e1s<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Hay formas m\u00e1s sutiles de abuso, como el abuso mental, que tambi\u00e9n se da en todas las variedades: insultos, comportamiento pasivo-agresivo, comportamiento restrictivo, gaslighting y m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Por terrible que fuera mi experiencia, me ense\u00f1\u00f3 a defenderme y a darme cuenta de mi propio poder.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I learned not to sacrifice my own well-being to mend something that\u2019s not worth it. Nothing that constantly brings you down is worth it.<\/p>\n

As soon as I implemented that simple formula in my life, it got better. I would never have realized that so clearly if it wasn\u2019t for my unfortunate ex.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La tercera cosa que aprend\u00ed es que siempre tienes que ser t\u00fa mismo y vivir tu propia vida, tener tus propias aficiones y amigos<\/strong>no importa el estado de tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Lo peor que puedes hacer es perderte en una relaci\u00f3n y al final volverte desgraciado en ella por la misma raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

No man has a right to restrict your needs or expression because of his own fears and no love is love if you can\u2019t be who you are in it.<\/p>\n

Ir\u00f3nicamente, entregarme a otra persona acab\u00f3 ense\u00f1\u00e1ndome que necesito volver a m\u00ed misma y abrazarme primero.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo t\u00fa puedes curarte de verdad y a trav\u00e9s de la curaci\u00f3n viene el crecimiento y la evoluci\u00f3n personal.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Finalmente, comprend\u00ed que todas mis relaciones eran un reflejo de c\u00f3mo me ve\u00eda a m\u00ed misma en ese periodo de la vida y eso dice mucho.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There\u2019s a quote by Stephen Chbosky saying that aceptamos el amor que creemos merecer<\/strong> y estoy de acuerdo con ello.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what made me revisit my relationship with myself and realize that every relationship is a chance to learn about myself because all the things we miss in ourself become exaggerated once we\u2019re in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Echa la vista atr\u00e1s a todas tus relaciones y comprueba lo lejos que has llegado, c\u00f3mo las cosas te provocan menos y lo feliz que te sientes en tu propia piel.<\/p>\n

The more you become aware of your own growth, the more you\u2019ll realize how strangely thankful you are for your life and all the people you met along the way, no matter the pain, because pain is something that can transform and evolve just like you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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