{"id":98670,"date":"2020-09-15T13:05:47","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T13:05:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=98670"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:51:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:51:39","slug":"una-conexion-genuina-y-un-apego-toxico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-conexion-genuina-y-un-apego-toxico\/","title":{"rendered":"4 diferencias entre una conexi\u00f3n genuina y un apego t\u00f3xico"},"content":{"rendered":"

No importa la edad que tengas o la experiencia que tengas en relaciones, lo cierto es que mucha gente tiene problemas para determinar qu\u00e9 es el verdadero amor.<\/p>\n

Nuestros corazones y nuestras mentes juegan con nosotros y nos convencen de que nuestra elecci\u00f3n equivocada es en realidad la verdadera.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry, this is nothing unusual. However, it doesn\u2019t mean that you shouldn\u2019t learn to differentiate between a accesorio t\u00f3xico<\/a> y una conexi\u00f3n genuina con otra persona.<\/p>\n

A primera vista, podr\u00eda pensarse que estos dos conceptos no tienen nada en com\u00fan.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, sadly, it\u2019s incredibly easy to mistake one for the other.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why we\u2019re here to give you 4 crucial things that make all the difference in the world.<\/p>\n

Desinteresado frente a egoc\u00e9ntrico<\/h2>\n

\"agradable<\/p>\n

Cuando se tiene un v\u00ednculo sano con alguien, no hay lugar para el ego\u00edsmo.<\/p>\n

No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you have to love this person more than you love yourself. However, his needs also matter.<\/p>\n

Quieres que sea feliz y nunca podr\u00edas tener una sonrisa en la cara mientras \u00e9l est\u00e1 llorando.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sois un equipo y lo compart\u00eds todo.<\/p>\n

There are compromises involved and you\u2019re both ready to make some sacrifices for the sake of the other person\u2019s well-being.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, when we\u2019re talking about a toxic attachment, you\u2019re self-centered. The only thing that matters to both of you is your own needs.<\/p>\n

A toxic partner couldn\u2019t care less about the consequences of his actions.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t give a damn whether his behavior will hurt you, as long as he is okay and happy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He only puts himself first while you\u2019re nowhere to be found on his priority list.<\/p>\n

En lugar de empujarte hacia adelante, este hombre compite contra ti. En lugar de disfrutar de tus logros, le intimidan.<\/p>\n

Calma frente a mariposas<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

\u201cThe Buddhists say if you meet somebody and your heart pounds, your hands shake, your knees go weak, that’s not the one. When you meet your ‘soul mate,’ you’ll feel calm. No anxiety, no agitation.” Monica Drake<\/em><\/p>\n

Bueno, esta cita resume bastante bien una de las principales diferencias entre una conexi\u00f3n genuina y un apego t\u00f3xico.<\/p>\n

Lamentablemente, aqu\u00ed es donde mucha gente se equivoca.<\/p>\n

You think that you\u2019ve encontr\u00f3 a su alma gemela<\/a> cuando te mareas cada vez que te mira y cuando sientes mariposas en el est\u00f3mago montando una aut\u00e9ntica fiesta.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You feel this unbearable excitement you can\u2019t control, as much as you try.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, esto es probablemente un signo de un apego t\u00f3xico.<\/p>\n

De hecho, todos estos sentimientos suelen ir seguidos de angustia, dudas y ausencia de tranquilidad en general.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, when you meet the love of your life, you\u2019ll feel peace. For the first time ever, you\u2019ll feel completely calm.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll know that you\u2019ve found your harbor and your home. You\u2019ll know that this is where you belong.<\/p>\n

Apoyo frente a codependencia<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Estar involucrada con un hombre t\u00f3xico conlleva dependencia emocional.<\/p>\n

You feel like you couldn\u2019t live without this person by your side and as if your life would be completely pointless if you happened to lose him.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, eso es lo que quiere tu pareja. Quiere que pienses que es \u00e9l quien da sentido a tu existencia y el \u00fanico prop\u00f3sito que tienes en este mundo.<\/p>\n

Al contrario, when it\u2019s the real deal, you won\u2019t need this man by your side.<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, you\u2019ll consciously choose him to be a part of your life and you\u2019ll want him there.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 tu mayor apoyo y el viento bajo tus alas.<\/p>\n

El que te inspirar\u00e1 para ser mejor y el que te empujar\u00e1 hacia la independencia.<\/p>\n

This man won\u2019t feel threatened once he sees that you\u2019re becoming self-sufficient. Instead, he will be proud of your strength and power.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t put all of his efforts into making you addicted to him, the way a toxic boyfriend will certainly try doing.<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, los dos crecer\u00e9is como dos individuos sanos que se completan el uno al otro sin ser mutuamente codependientes.<\/p>\n

Felicidad frente a tristeza<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Verdadero hay que luchar por el amor<\/a>\u2014there is no doubt about that. Whoever tells you that it doesn\u2019t take a lot of effort and energy is probably lying.<\/p>\n

The fact is that all the pieces of your puzzle can\u2019t magically fall into place without you lifting a finger.<\/p>\n

En el amor verdadero tampoco todo son rosas y mariposas. Toda relaci\u00f3n tiene sus altibajos.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you and your partner care for each other, you can\u2019t avoid having bad days from time to time.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, una conexi\u00f3n genuina con otro ser humano deber\u00eda hacerte feliz.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, un apego t\u00f3xico te hace sentir miserable la mayor parte del tiempo.<\/p>\n

Te intranquiliza, te entristece y te produce m\u00e1s sufrimiento que alegr\u00eda real.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, Si a\u00fan tienes dudas sobre en qu\u00e9 categor\u00eda entra tu relaci\u00f3n, hazte esta sencilla pregunta: \u00bfEstoy feliz o triste la mayor parte del tiempo?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Just like that, you\u2019ll get all the answers you need.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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It doesn\u2019t matter how old you are or how much relationship experience you have, the fact is that a lot of people have trouble determining what true love is. Our hearts and minds have a way of playing with us and convincing us that our wrong choice is actually the real deal. Don\u2019t worry, this…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":98708,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-98670","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Differences-Between-Genuine-Connection-And-Toxic-Attachment-e1600175101391.jpg",758,514,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98670","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=98670"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98670\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98708"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=98670"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=98670"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=98670"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}