{"id":98711,"date":"2020-09-15T23:29:52","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T23:29:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=98711"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:50:02","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:50:02","slug":"principios-sobre-los-que-debe-construirse-toda-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/principios-sobre-los-que-debe-construirse-toda-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"4 principios cruciales en los que debe basarse toda relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A pesar de la creencia popular y el pesimismo, existen numerosos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/list-of-couple-goals\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">parejas felices<\/a> a nuestro alrededor.<\/p>\n<p>Parejas que han sabido construir su romance de la forma correcta y que disfrutan de su vida junto a la persona que aman.<\/p>\n<p>Parejas que duran, a pesar de la \u00e9poca en que viven.<\/p>\n<p>Aunque cada persona es diferente y, por tanto, cada una tiene una din\u00e1mica de relaci\u00f3n establecida distinta, hay algunas cosas comunes a cada una de estas asociaciones.<\/p>\n<p>Se adhieren a unos principios cruciales sobre los que se asienta su relaci\u00f3n desde el principio.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Presencia incondicional<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98715\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shot-of-a-couple.jpg\" alt=\"plano de una pareja cogida de la mano mientras habla seriamente\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shot-of-a-couple.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shot-of-a-couple-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shot-of-a-couple-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shot-of-a-couple-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shot-of-a-couple-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re no magician and in fact, nobody expects you to be.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, you don\u2019t have a magic wand to solve all of your partner\u2019s problems, as much as you try to do so.<\/p>\n<p>You can give your best but there are simply some situations in which you don\u2019t have the capacity to help them.<\/p>\n<p>Tienen que liderar y ganar algunas batallas por s\u00ed solos, sin que t\u00fa les ayudes en nada.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, a veces, <strong>being there and holding one another\u2019s hand is more than enough<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Precisamente por eso, uno de los primeros principios sobre los que debe construirse toda relaci\u00f3n es la presencia incondicional.<\/p>\n<p>It means that you will never abandon one another, no matter what happens, that you\u2019ll remain next to each other and just say that everything will be okay.<\/p>\n<p>Ver\u00e1s, <strong>lo peor que puedes hacer a tu ser querido es que experimente tu ausencia durante las dificultades. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s to make them feel alone when they need you the most.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Imperativo categ\u00f3rico<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98716\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-of-a-relaxed-woman.jpg\" alt=\"imagen de una mujer relajada mirando por la ventana del pasillo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-of-a-relaxed-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-of-a-relaxed-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-of-a-relaxed-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-of-a-relaxed-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-of-a-relaxed-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Immanuel Kant said: \u201cAct according to the maxim that you would wish all other rational people to follow, as if it were a universal law.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>En pocas palabras, esto significa que <strong>you should never treat anyone else the way you wouldn\u2019t like to be treated. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>En lugar de eso, act\u00faa con los dem\u00e1s como lo har\u00edas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/top-18-reasons-to-be-happy-right-now-no-matter-what\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">s\u00e9 feliz<\/a> que act\u00faan contigo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Aunque \u00e9ste es el principio que debes seguir en todas tus relaciones, es especialmente crucial como valor de una relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00e1sicamente, <strong>Cada vez que quieras decir o hacer algo a tu pareja, ponte en su lugar. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Preg\u00fantate c\u00f3mo te sentir\u00edas si la situaci\u00f3n fuera diferente y si cambiaras de lugar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cuando sigues este principio, desarrollas un incre\u00edble nivel de compasi\u00f3n hacia tu ser querido.<\/p>\n<p>Les comprendes mejor y, en consecuencia, conviertes tu relaci\u00f3n en un lugar mucho mejor.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Amor propio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98721\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-shopping-clothes.jpg\" alt=\"mujer comprando ropa mirandose al espejo con la chaqueta puesta\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-shopping-clothes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-shopping-clothes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-shopping-clothes-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-shopping-clothes-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-shopping-clothes-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todos los consejos sobre relaciones te dir\u00e1n que el amor incondicional entre la pareja es imprescindible si quieres que tu relaci\u00f3n funcione.<\/p>\n<p>Even though this is completely true, there is one type of love more important than this\u2014the one you feel toward yourself.<\/p>\n<p>When you first read something like this, you assume it\u2019s quite selfish.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, <strong>you can\u2019t make anyone happy unless you make yourself happy, can you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bueno, nunca podr\u00e1s ser feliz hasta que llegues a quererte primero a ti mismo, sin poner en peligro a nadie m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t build a healthy relationship with someone else until you have a healthy relationship with yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that it\u2019s not your duty to make the other person happy.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, you both have one task only\u2014to achieve inner peace and inner happiness that doesn\u2019t depend on your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>A fin de cuentas,<strong> cuando tienes a dos personas realizadas, felices y que se quieren a s\u00ed mismas, \u00bfcu\u00e1l es el resultado m\u00e1s probable? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00bfEs posible que este tipo de pareja tenga una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica?<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Libertad total<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98722\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/beautiful-woman-in-golden-field.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa mujer en campo dorado al atardecer\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/beautiful-woman-in-golden-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/beautiful-woman-in-golden-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/beautiful-woman-in-golden-field-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/beautiful-woman-in-golden-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/beautiful-woman-in-golden-field-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>El error n\u00famero uno que suele cometer la gente cuando se trata de relaciones rom\u00e1nticas es que intentan mantener a la otra parte a su lado, cueste lo que cueste.<\/p>\n<p>Bueno, d\u00e9jame decirte una cosa: <strong>Nunca se puede <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/no-puedes-perder-al-hombre-que-esta-destinado-a-ser-tuyo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">lose someone who\u2019s really yours.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Therefore, what\u2019s the point of this approach? What\u2019s the point of fears, jealousy or possessive behavior?<\/p>\n<p>Un principio importante que toda relaci\u00f3n debe tener es la libertad ilimitada.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s a notion in which both partners have complete freedom to basically do whatever they want.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No, I\u2019m not saying that you should have an open relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you should come up with a mutual agreement regarding the things that are acceptable in the relationship and about those you won\u2019t tolerate.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, aqu\u00ed es donde termina tu trabajo. Lo \u00faltimo que deber\u00edas hacer es malgastar tu energ\u00eda en intentar controlar a tu otra mitad.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that <strong>you can\u2019t prevent anyone from leaving you or being unfaithful. If they want to do it, they\u2019ll find a way.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, si los mete en una jaula, se sentir\u00e1n atrapados y asfixiados. En consecuencia, aumentan las posibilidades de perderlos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As\u00ed que, por favor, dejaos llevar. Vuestra conciencia determinar\u00e1 lo que est\u00e1 bien o mal.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Instead of forcing one another to stay in this relationship, wouldn\u2019t you be happier knowing that they choose to stay even though nobody is forcing them to?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98725\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"4 principios cruciales en los que debe basarse toda relaci\u00f3n\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Despite popular belief and pessimism, there are numerous happy couples all around us. Couples who have succeeded in building their romance the right way and who enjoy their life next to the person they love. Couples that last, despite the period they live in. 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