{"id":9873,"date":"2020-09-08T12:07:02","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T12:07:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9873"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:44:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:44:20","slug":"im-hecho-uno-tratando","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/im-hecho-uno-tratando\/","title":{"rendered":"Ya no soy el \u00fanico que lo intenta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>\u00a1Esta vez renuncio! Renuncio a ti y a todo lo que representas.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Estoy cansado de ser el que se preocupa m\u00e1s. Estoy cansada de ser la que ama m\u00e1s. Y sobre todo estoy cansada de que no hagas ning\u00fan esfuerzo.<\/p>\n<p>Estoy harto de palabras que significan una cosa y acciones que significan totalmente lo contrario.<\/p>\n<p>Estoy cansado de que seas deshonesto y no seas capaz de tomar una decisi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>I figured out that your indecision is a decision. And I don\u2019t want to live like that. I don\u2019t want to be the one who will fight for your attention.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to be the one who needs to tell you that I feel bad and that I need a hug and a kiss. I want you to see that by yourself.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Porque el amor es algo m\u00e1s que decir <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/7-frases-significan-amor-tres-palabras\/\">\u2018I love you\u2019.<\/a><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Es reconocer que algo no est\u00e1 bien y ser capaz de ayudar a esa persona. Y cari\u00f1o, nunca he recibido eso de ti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108580\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pensativa con camiseta roja sentada en un banco del parque\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Siempre era yo quien hac\u00eda todo el trabajo en nuestra relaci\u00f3n. Desde planificar las citas hasta organizar los viajes, todo corr\u00eda de mi cuenta.<\/p>\n<p>Apareciste cuando todo estaba terminado y me trataste como si fuera parte del trabajo.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca te diste cuenta de que el amor es una calle de doble sentido y nunca lo har\u00e1s. Yo era el \u00fanico que intentaba que todo esto funcionara.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Y estoy cansado de repetir las mismas cosas, de librar las mismas batallas y de jugar a juegos agotadores.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need that in my life and that\u2019s why I decided to let you go.<\/p>\n<p>So, in case you didn\u2019t realize yet\u2014today <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/lauren-jarvis-gibson\/2017\/09\/im-letting-you-go-not-because-i-want-to-but-because-i-have-to\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Te estoy dejando ir.<\/a> Once you\u2019ve lost me, you will probably realize what kind of woman you had next to you.<\/p>\n<p>This time, I quit on you. I am moving on. I want to find my happiness with someone else. With someone whom I won\u2019t have to leave so he could realize how perfect I am.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to wait for you anymore because by doing that I am doing harm to myself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108581\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-backpack.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con mochila\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-backpack.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-backpack-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-backpack-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-backpack-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-backpack-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-backpack-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-backpack-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-backpack-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si me hubieras querido, podr\u00edas haberme tenido. Pero decidiste desperdiciar esta oportunidad tambi\u00e9n<b><i>. &nbsp;<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>And I don\u2019t have any second chances for you. You had a lot of them and you blew every single one.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Soy una mujer enamorada que har\u00eda cualquier cosa por ti, pero no soy tonta. As\u00ed que, por favor, deja de hacer uno de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have any right to treat me that way. The only thing you can do now is to get far away from me and from all that we had.<\/p>\n<p>You need to know that I gave up on you not because I don\u2019t love you or because I don\u2019t need you but because instead of fighting for me, you decided to let me go.<\/p>\n<p>Y eso me desgarra el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You are not a man who is worth my love and even if you think you are, I don\u2019t need you to complete me.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo necesito a la persona que me acepte por completo. Y s\u00e9 que ese alguien vendr\u00e1. Tal vez no hoy o ma\u00f1ana, pero vendr\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>Y cuando lo haga conocer\u00e9 por fin a mi segunda mitad. Por fin estar\u00e9 con el hombre que me acepta con todos mis pros y mis contras y que est\u00e1 dispuesto a morir por m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>I know that we will also have some bumps in the road throughout our relationship but at least I\u2019ll know that I\u2019m not the only one trying!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108576\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Im-Done-Being-The-Only-One-Trying-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ya no soy el \u00fanico que lo intenta\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Im-Done-Being-The-Only-One-Trying-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Im-Done-Being-The-Only-One-Trying-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Im-Done-Being-The-Only-One-Trying-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Im-Done-Being-The-Only-One-Trying-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Im-Done-Being-The-Only-One-Trying-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This time I quit! I quit on you and everything that you represent. I am tired of being the one who cares more. I am tired of being the one who loves more. And most of all I am tired of you not making any effort. I am sick and tired of words that mean&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":108579,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9873","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Im-Done-Being-The-Only-One-Trying-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9873","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9873"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9873\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/108579"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9873"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9873"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9873"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}