{"id":9910,"date":"2020-06-08T13:48:10","date_gmt":"2020-06-08T13:48:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9910"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:44:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:44:11","slug":"5-signos-ex-tratando-de-arruinar-la-nueva-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-signos-ex-tratando-de-arruinar-la-nueva-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"5 se\u00f1ales de que tu ex est\u00e1 intentando arruinar tu nueva relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Una vez terminada la relaci\u00f3n, ser\u00eda aconsejable cortar toda relaci\u00f3n con tu ex.<\/p>\n<p>Algunas personas acaban siendo s\u00f3lo amigos, pero son casos raros. Se construyen sobre un entendimiento mutuo de ambas partes implicadas de que la relaci\u00f3n que tienen ahora es estrictamente plat\u00f3nica.<\/p>\n<p>Lo m\u00e1s frecuente es que una de las partes implicadas a\u00fan no est\u00e9 dispuesta a dejarlo del todo.<\/p>\n<p>So the friendship is faked. It&#8217;s just a means to an end to try and get back with somebody.<\/p>\n<p>Un hombre tiene esa retorcida manera de pensar que eras adecuada para \u00e9l s\u00f3lo cuando te pierde por completo.<\/p>\n<p>He probably can&#8217;t handle you being happy without him and moving on with somebody else. He regrets his actions and tries to get you back.<\/p>\n<p>Esta forma de pensar puede poner en serio peligro tu relaci\u00f3n actual.<\/p>\n<p>La mayor\u00eda de las veces, tu ex tiene intenciones m\u00e1s profundas que simplemente querer inocentemente ser tu amigo.<\/p>\n<p>Estas son algunas se\u00f1ales a las que debes prestar atenci\u00f3n si tu ex sigue formando parte de tu vida de alguna manera:<\/p>\n<h2>1. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/keep-texting-youre-not\/\">Escribe<\/a> a menudo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93302\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Man-in-black-jacket-with-black-cap-talking-on-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"Hombre con chaqueta negra y gorra negra hablando por tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Man-in-black-jacket-with-black-cap-talking-on-the-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Man-in-black-jacket-with-black-cap-talking-on-the-phone-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Man-in-black-jacket-with-black-cap-talking-on-the-phone-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Siempre encuentra alg\u00fan motivo para seguir en contacto y ser\u00e1 m\u00e1s imaginativo que nunca.<\/p>\n<p>Acudir\u00e1 a ti en busca de consejo. Te enviar\u00e1 fotos de algo que le haya recordado a ti o a alg\u00fan lugar que hay\u00e1is visitado.<\/p>\n<p>Esto puede hacer que tu novio actual sospeche y se ponga celoso, sobre todo si le contestas con un mensaje de texto y luego los mensajes son cada vez m\u00e1s frecuentes, independientemente de la hora del d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Podr\u00eda pensar que a\u00fan sientes algo por tu ex porque es obvio que quieres mantener el contacto. O que est\u00e1s manteniendo a tu ex como un plan de respaldo.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Aparece sin avisar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93303\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-argues-with-a-woman-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre discute con una mujer en casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-argues-with-a-woman-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-argues-with-a-woman-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-argues-with-a-woman-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Puede que aparezca en tu puerta de la nada porque a\u00fan cree que puede o que invente alguna excusa poco convincente para verte.<\/p>\n<p>El verdadero asunto aqu\u00ed es que quiere causarte problemas con tu novio actual, para hacerle saber que sigue aqu\u00ed y que es f\u00e1cil para \u00e9l estar cerca de ti.<\/p>\n<p>Tu novio actual tambi\u00e9n podr\u00eda pensar que esto ocurre cuando \u00e9l no est\u00e1 cerca.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Te acosa en las redes sociales<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93304\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-typing-on-his-phone-while-leaning-on-bike.jpg\" alt=\"hombre escribiendo en su tel\u00e9fono mientras se apoya en la bicicleta\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-typing-on-his-phone-while-leaning-on-bike.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-typing-on-his-phone-while-leaning-on-bike-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-typing-on-his-phone-while-leaning-on-bike-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 al tanto de todos tus movimientos. Le gusta toda tu actividad en las redes sociales porque quiere demostraros a los dos que sigue estando omnipresente.<\/p>\n<p>Pone comentarios dulces debajo de tus fotos para que tu novio actual sepa que sigue formando parte de tu vida.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Te hace llamadas urgentes a altas horas de la noche<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93305\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-during-night-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada mirando su tel\u00e9fono durante la noche en su casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-during-night-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-during-night-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-during-night-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Porque ha pasado algo y no tiene a nadie m\u00e1s que a ti para compartirlo.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo t\u00fa puedes entender de d\u00f3nde viene y comprender la dificultad de la situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t buy into it; he is just making a victim out of himself and provoking empathy from you.<\/p>\n<p>Estas llamadas de emergencia pueden hacer que tu nuevo novio se sienta inseguro y dude de la intensidad de vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Utiliza a tus amigos para llegar a ti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93306\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/two-female-talking-fake-friends.jpg\" alt=\"dos mujeres hablando, falsas amigas\" width=\"800\" height=\"539\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/two-female-talking-fake-friends.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/two-female-talking-fake-friends-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/two-female-talking-fake-friends-768x517.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Juega la carta de la l\u00e1stima. Hace que tus amigas sientan l\u00e1stima por \u00e9l y les cuenta historias de lo feliz que eras hasta que apareci\u00f3 tu novio actual.<\/p>\n<p>He is good at making up stories and convincing people in something that&#8217;s not true. As he gets to your friends, he will get to your current boyfriend, too, and fill his head with all sorts of ideas.<\/p>\n<p>Los signos enumerados anteriormente son s\u00f3lo algunos de los m\u00e1s comunes, aunque existen muchos otros.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que sus intenciones no sean volver contigo, puede que lo est\u00e9 haciendo todo s\u00f3lo para fastidiarte. Si \u00e9l no es feliz, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 deber\u00edas serlo t\u00fa?<\/p>\n<p>Ten cuidado con las intenciones de tu ex. Si es posible, lo mejor ser\u00eda apartarle completamente de tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>Si no, siempre puedes cambiar tu n\u00famero de tel\u00e9fono y bloquearle en las redes sociales.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, if you feel the necessity to prevent him from meddling in your life, there\u2019s always a way.<\/p>\n<p>Cualquier tipo de contacto que sigas teniendo con tu ex podr\u00eda indicar a tu nueva pareja que no est\u00e1s preparado para pasar p\u00e1gina, que sigues aferrado al pasado y que eres incapaz de dejarlo ir.<\/p>\n<p>A sus ojos, podr\u00eda significar que a\u00fan no est\u00e1s preparada para dar el 100% en tu nueva relaci\u00f3n porque sigues invirtiendo tiempo y energ\u00eda en la anterior.<\/p>\n<p>The past should be left where it belongs and you should concentrate on the here and now. Don&#8217;t let your ex-boyfriend prevent you from having a great new relationship.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-93308 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/5-Signs-Your-Ex-Is-Trying-To-Ruin-Your-New-Relationship-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"5 se\u00f1ales de que tu ex est\u00e1 intentando arruinar tu nueva relaci\u00f3n\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/5-Signs-Your-Ex-Is-Trying-To-Ruin-Your-New-Relationship-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/5-Signs-Your-Ex-Is-Trying-To-Ruin-Your-New-Relationship-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/5-Signs-Your-Ex-Is-Trying-To-Ruin-Your-New-Relationship-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/5-Signs-Your-Ex-Is-Trying-To-Ruin-Your-New-Relationship-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/5-Signs-Your-Ex-Is-Trying-To-Ruin-Your-New-Relationship-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/5-Signs-Your-Ex-Is-Trying-To-Ruin-Your-New-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Once the relationship is over, it would be kind of advisable to cut all connections with your ex. Some people do end up staying just friends but those are rare cases. They are built on a mutual understanding of both parties involved that the relationship they have now is strictly platonic. More often, the scenario&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":93307,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9910","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/5-Signs-Your-Ex-Is-Trying-To-Ruin-Your-New-Relationship.jpg",800,548,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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