{"id":99162,"date":"2020-09-16T11:07:11","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T11:07:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=99162"},"modified":"2022-02-22T15:42:44","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T15:42:44","slug":"romper-la-ilusion-de-que-es-un-hombre-perfecto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/romper-la-ilusion-de-que-es-un-hombre-perfecto\/","title":{"rendered":"Rompe la ilusi\u00f3n de que es un chico perfecto, porque est\u00e1 lejos de serlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Te conozco.<\/em><\/p>\n

Actualmente est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n en la que lo das todo para que esa relaci\u00f3n funcione.<\/p>\n

You think you love your man and that you wouldn’t be able to live without him.<\/p>\n

Yes, I know, I wrote that you think you love him because that’s actually true.<\/p>\n

You only think you love him because you created an illusion of him and you’re actually in love with that illusion, not the real him.<\/p>\n

You can’t tell me that you honestly love someone who never showed you that he really does care for you and that you mean to him as much as he does to you.<\/p>\n

You can’t tell me that you love a man who has done nothing but hurt you the entire time you\u2019ve been dating.<\/p>\n

A man who has never respected you or showed that he’s afraid to lose you. Because that’s the only real truth.<\/p>\n

Por favor, deja de enga\u00f1arte.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La \u00fanica verdad es que lo \u00fanico que ha hecho ese hombre ha sido utilizarte y fingir que te quer\u00eda para conseguir lo que quer\u00eda de ti. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Todo lo dem\u00e1s es algo que has creado en tu mente.<\/strong> <\/em>It’s how you tried to comfort yourself.<\/p>\n

He’s far from the perfect guy<\/em> y tienes que admitirlo ante ti mismo. Cuanto antes lo hagas, mejor ser\u00e1 para ti.<\/p>\n

You’ll feel pain and anger. You’ll feel pain because understanding all of this suddenly, understanding that he never really loved you, will break your heart.<\/p>\n

You’ll be angry at yourself<\/a> m\u00e1s por creer que alguna vez te am\u00f3.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que duele y deber\u00eda. S\u00e9 que quieres llorar y deber\u00edas.<\/p>\n

Hay muchos de sentimientos honestos<\/a>...s\u00f3lo de tu lado, por desgracia, y tienes que lidiar con todos ellos.<\/p>\n

You’ll start feeling overwhelmed because you won\u2019t know how to leave a man who you love but at the same time, you know is not good for you.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Then, you’ll feel nothing. Your heart will be completely empty. You’ll be left only with the memories. You’ll be free.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

That’s when you’ll start living again because you have been a prisoner of that man and your own mind for so long.<\/p>\n

One day, you’ll realize that I’m telling you the truth.<\/p>\n

One day, you’ll understand that he doesn’t deserve you, that the love he gives you, those tiny bits of love, isn\u2019t the kind of love you deserve.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You deserve a man who’ll love you with his whole heart and his whole being. Someone whose heart will beat faster every time he sees you.<\/p>\n

You deserve the most honest, pure and unique kind of love and don’t you dare settle for anything less than that.<\/p>\n

When the right man comes and starts loving you this way, the right way, you’ll see how ‘wrongly loved’ you were.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, te conozco porque yo fui t\u00fa una vez. Aprend\u00ed la lecci\u00f3n y t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n lo har\u00e1s. Las personas aprenden mejor de sus propios errores<\/a><\/strong><\/em> and that’s a fact.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

At least you will know that you are safe from letting someone use you or letting someone who doesn’t deserve you to enter your life and stay there for a long time.<\/p>\n

Al menos ahora sabes que, por muy doloroso que sea, tienes que ser siempre sincera contigo misma y aceptar las cosas como son.<\/p>\n

You’ve learned that you are worth so much and that one day someone will come who’ll know how to appreciate you and give you everything you deserve.<\/p>\n

You now know that you have to separate your mind and your heart when you’re in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Y que en la lucha entre tu mente y tu coraz\u00f3n, tienes que dejar que gane la mente. Necesitas tu mente para proteger tu fr\u00e1gil coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Ten paciencia. Rompe la ilusi\u00f3n de que es un chico perfecto porque nunca lo fue. Rompe con \u00e9l. Luego tienes que curarte.<\/p>\n

Date tiempo y c\u00farate adecuadamente. Entonces espera.<\/p>\n

Espere a que el hombre adecuado<\/a>. He’s on his way, I’m sure of that and your paths will cross sooner than you think. Just wait patiently.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"Rompe<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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