{"id":9929,"date":"2020-05-08T13:53:59","date_gmt":"2020-05-08T13:53:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9929"},"modified":"2022-08-25T12:00:08","modified_gmt":"2022-08-25T12:00:08","slug":"5-cosas-que-dicen-los-narcisistas-ganan-bac","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-que-dicen-los-narcisistas-ganan-bac\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cosas que dicen los narcisistas para reconquistarte"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfConoces la sensaci\u00f3n de malestar en el est\u00f3mago y la forma de miedo que te consume pero decides ignorar?<\/p>\n

Bueno, eso es lo que alimenta a tu narcisista y lo mantiene vivo. Eso es lo que le da la fuerza para seguir us\u00e1ndote y abusando de ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Most empaths and deeply sensitive people feel those emotions of unease and fear\u2014it\u2019s their intuition telling them to get the fuck out.<\/p>\n

But because of their extremely sensitive personality type, they choose to ignore their intuition and they get sucked into a narcissist\u2019s web.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Mantienen pensando que pueden cambiar a su narcisista<\/a>. Siguen pensando que si se esfuerzan lo suficiente, si intentan comprenderlos, encontrar\u00e1n una soluci\u00f3n y los sacar\u00e1n del lado oscuro.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, things don\u2019t work that way. Once you get stuck in a relaci\u00f3n narcisista<\/a>, it\u2019s almost impossible to get out.<\/p>\n

Te vuelves adicto a tu narcisista. Sientes el miedo constante porque es \u00e9l quien lo provoca.<\/p>\n

Tienes miedo de irte porque \u00e9l se asegura de que te sientas incompetente para irte. Se asegura de que te sientas menos digna. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Se asegura de que pienses que no eres digno de ser amado. Se asegura de que pienses que el problema eres t\u00fa.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

But when you find the courage to walk away from him, when you realize there\u2019s no other way and that you don\u2019t even care what is going to happen to you if you leave, he will do anything in his power to get you back.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Se pondr\u00e1 esa m\u00e1scara que llevaba la primera vez que lo conociste. Te cuidar\u00e1. Te convencer\u00e1 de que te cubre las espaldas pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n

He will even apologize for all the horrible things he has done to you. He will pretend he cares because he doesn\u2019t want to lose you.<\/p>\n

Sadly, he doesn\u2019t want to lose you for the sake of you. He doesn\u2019t want to lose you because he will lose his perfect little victim. He will lose the elixir that keeps him alive\u2014you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Cuando lo dejaste, pensaste que la pesadilla hab\u00eda terminado. Pero no, continu\u00f3.<\/p>\n

En primer lugar, hay una batalla que llevas dentro de tu mente y tu coraz\u00f3n. Hay que recoger los pedazos rotos e intentar recomponerlos.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 el asegurarte a ti mismo que eres digno y que mereces algo mejor. Hay que intentar recuperar la confianza y la autoestima.<\/p>\n

Te quit\u00f3 todo eso. Te dej\u00f3 vac\u00edo y roto y sabes que tu lucha por la supervivencia acaba de empezar.<\/p>\n

No s\u00f3lo tienes que tratar contigo misma y curarte, sino que tambi\u00e9n tienes que tratar con \u00e9l. Se aprovechar\u00e1 de ti y te atrapar\u00e1 cuando bajes la guardia.<\/p>\n

Te atacar\u00e1 cuando est\u00e9s m\u00e1s vulnerable. Intentar\u00e1 apelar a ti sentimentalmente en tu momento m\u00e1s d\u00e9bil.<\/p>\n

Nunca lo ver\u00e1s venir. Jugar\u00e1 con tus emociones e intentar\u00e1 reconciliarse contigo. Intentar\u00e1 que vuelvas.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Eso se llama aspirar.<\/em><\/p>\n

El Hoovering es una t\u00e9cnica que los psic\u00f3patas emocionales, soci\u00f3patas y narcisistas utilizan para chuparte la vida y volver a meterte en la relaci\u00f3n de la que apenas saliste mostrando un comportamiento deseable.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

He aqu\u00ed algunas de las m\u00e1s comunes frases manipuladoras que dicen los narcisistas<\/a> a las mujeres que quieren volver a tener una relaci\u00f3n:<\/p>\n

\u201cI really want us to be friends\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Esto ocurre en caso de infidelidad, si les pillas enga\u00f1\u00e1ndote o lo admiten ellos mismos.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry, they will leave and make up thousands of reasons why the thing between the two of you didn\u2019t work out.<\/p>\n

They will assure you that you weren\u2019t for each other and that you couldn\u2019t give them the love he needed. You probably won\u2019t feel guilty because this was their tactic all along.<\/p>\n

After some time passes, they will come back and say that they can\u2019t live without you, that they\u2019ve made a huge mistake, but they\u2019ll pause because of the things they said before about not loving you.<\/p>\n

However, they will assure you they can\u2019t live without you and that they want to have you in their life, at least as friends.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

What really happens is that they are scared of someone else coming into your life and winning over your heart which makes them look like losers, and that\u2019s not supposed to happen.<\/p>\n

So, they hook you with the line, \u201cLet\u2019s stay friends,\u201d which is never true.<\/p>\n

You will end up being friends with benefits and in that way, he will be constantly involved in your life and you won\u2019t be able to move on.<\/p>\n

O hay otro escenario en el que le dir\u00e1n a todo el mundo que siguieron siendo amigos tuyos porque sent\u00edan pena por ti, aunque t\u00fa vayas por ah\u00ed diciendo que es un idiota maltratador.<\/p>\n

But, it\u2019s not their fault, absolutely not. They are the ones who make out they are taking the high road. That is how they want to present themselves.<\/p>\n

\u201cI want to do couples therapy\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

After you\u2019ve had enough and you are on the verge of leaving him, after all the silent treatments you gave him, he will perform yet another trick from his endless sneaky collection.<\/p>\n

Fingir\u00e1 estar triste y destrozado y admitir\u00e1 que necesita ayuda, que ir\u00e1 a terapia.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, esto es s\u00f3lo una farsa para manipularte<\/a>\u2014a carefully constructed mind game to mess with you.<\/p>\n

No, he doesn\u2019t want to make things work, he doesn\u2019t want to become a better person because he doesn\u2019t think there\u2019s anything wrong with himself in the first place.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo lo hace para ganar tiempo. Incluso ir\u00e1 a terapia contigo y se har\u00e1 ver bien all\u00ed.<\/p>\n

De alguna manera te convertir\u00e1 en la persona a la que culpar. Se convertir\u00e1 a s\u00ed mismo en el que estaba dispuesto a quedarse contigo a pesar de todos los problemas que le estabas causando.<\/p>\n

\u201cI ran into her the last time we broke up\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He will make excuses when you catch him cheating on you. He will try to convince you that he met a girl when you broke up and now she won\u2019t leave him alone.<\/p>\n

He will tell you he tried everything and she still won\u2019t give up.<\/p>\n

Or, he will blame you once again and say that he was with that person because you weren\u2019t investing in him, so he felt alone and hurt.<\/p>\n

This is only an excuse for when you catch him in infidelity. He will appear as a helpless human being who just needed someone to love him because you didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Aprovechar\u00e1 estas oportunidades para gasearte, hacerte creer en cosas que no son reales y destruir tu autoestima.<\/p>\n

Quiere que dudes de ti mismo.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

His aim is to make you feel you aren\u2019t trying enough and that you are undesirable, and that\u2019s why he is cheating on you.<\/p>\n

He will make you believe it\u2019s not his fault.<\/p>\n

Te cuestionar\u00e1s a ti mismo. Te molestar\u00e1 el hecho de que ella estuviera con \u00e9l y t\u00fa no. Eso probablemente significa que hay algo mal en ti.<\/p>\n

Realmente creer\u00e1s que este narcisista no es as\u00ed y que est\u00e1s perdiendo tu \u00fanica y verdadera oportunidad de ser feliz.<\/p>\n

Es una t\u00e1ctica que utilizar\u00e1 una y otra vez. Te lavar\u00e1 el cerebro tantas veces como le convenga.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m an idiot for hurting you\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

A todo tipo de narcisistas les encanta este juego mental. Aparecer\u00e1 en tu puerta con flores en las manos, rog\u00e1ndote que le perdones.<\/p>\n

Admitir\u00e1 que fue lo peor para ti y que te mereces algo mucho mejor.<\/p>\n

Te asegurar\u00e1 que nunca jam\u00e1s se permitir\u00e1 tratarte menos de lo que te mereces. Incluso llorar\u00e1 si es necesario.<\/p>\n

Entonces t\u00fa, como su compasiva compa\u00f1era, te tragas sus gilipolleces y nadie te culpa por ello. Es un actor perfecto<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Nadie puede fingir las emociones como los narcisistas. Mienten tan bien que quiz\u00e1 se crean sus propias mentiras por un momento.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Olvida todo lo que te ha hecho y dale otra oportunidad porque est\u00e1s segura de que envejecer\u00e9is juntos.<\/p>\n

Crees de verdad que todo lo que ha pasado ha quedado atr\u00e1s. Crees que ha cambiado.<\/p>\n

En realidad, los narcisistas ven esto desde una perspectiva totalmente diferente.<\/p>\n

En cuanto les exijas un poco de respeto, intentar\u00e1n arreglar las cosas comport\u00e1ndose humanamente contigo durante unos d\u00edas, lo suficiente para que olvides lo que estaba pasando.<\/p>\n

En cuanto consigan que vuelvas al buen camino (su camino), volver\u00e1n a ser ellos mismos.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019ve finally realized you\u2019re the only one\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Mentir\u00e1n diciendo que han tenido una epifan\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Te dir\u00e1n que, de repente, mientras volv\u00edan a casa del trabajo, se han dado cuenta de que quieren pasar el resto de su vida contigo.<\/p>\n

Se han dado cuenta de que est\u00e1is hechos el uno para el otro. De hecho, quieren casarse contigo, cuanto antes mejor.<\/p>\n

This is just ridiculous. It\u2019s just one of the many tactics to force you not to see what\u2019s actually going on.<\/p>\n

They will try everything that\u2019s in their power to make you believe in things that are not there.<\/p>\n

Te cegar\u00e1n cuando se trate de su comportamiento. Te har\u00e1n creer que todo es culpa tuya.<\/p>\n

\"5<\/p>\n

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