{"id":99339,"date":"2020-09-16T11:32:37","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T11:32:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=99339"},"modified":"2022-07-05T09:44:54","modified_gmt":"2022-07-05T09:44:54","slug":"signos-de-una-esposa-irrespetuosa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/signos-de-una-esposa-irrespetuosa\/","title":{"rendered":"23 se\u00f1ales de una esposa irrespetuosa (y qu\u00e9 hacer al respecto)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Enfocarse (y lidiar) con una esposa irrespetuosa puede ser una verdadera lucha para cualquier hombre.<\/p>\n

En la mayor\u00eda de los casos, un c\u00f3nyuge irrespetado siente que es \u00e9l quien est\u00e1 haciendo algo mal y as\u00ed es como acaba viviendo en un matrimonio infeliz durante a\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

Before diving deeper into matters, here’s a quick test.<\/p>\n

Si alguno de los siguientes pensamientos resuena contigo, entonces sabes que podr\u00edas estar tratando con una esposa irrespetuosa de fiar:<\/p>\n

“She gets angry at me for no reason. I’m scared that I’ll say something wrong which will be a trigger for her. With her, I never know what will happen next and that level of uncertainty is so tiring. She’s constantly giving me the silent treatment, etc.”<\/em><\/p>\n

If you’ve ever felt that way or similar, you’re not alone on this one.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que esto no es realmente reconfortante pero un La falta de respeto es uno de los problemas matrimoniales<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hay muchas razones posibles por las que esto ocurre en un matrimonio. Puede ser involuntario, debido a alg\u00fan motivo oculto o podr\u00eda estar relacionado con el narcisismo o el comportamiento controlador.<\/p>\n

This might sound confusing but I can assure you that you shouldn’t worry much about it, my friend. Instead, let’s do some work together!<\/p>\n

Here’s an extensive list of signs that you might be living with a disrespectful wife, after which we’ll learn how to deal with it!<\/p>\n

\u00bfLe falta el respeto su mujer?<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Rara vez (o nunca) saca tiempo para ti<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Una de las mayores se\u00f1ales de que tu mujer te falta al respeto es que rara vez o nunca inicie actividades de pareja o pasen tiempo juntos.<\/p>\n

La forma m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil de averiguar si \u00e9ste es su caso es hacerse las siguientes preguntas:<\/p>\n

\u00bfSiempre pone excusas cuando le propones una actividad o simplemente salir? <\/em><\/p>\n

\u00bfSientes que otras personas y cosas en su vida son sus prioridades y m\u00e1s importantes que t\u00fa? <\/em><\/p>\n

Do you feel like she’s never there when you ask for her assistance to help you with something important?<\/em><\/p>\n

It’s really hard to accept the fact that your spouse disrespects you but if your answer to the above questions is yes, then you know your wife doesn’t respect you enough to make time for you.<\/p>\n

Significa que las dem\u00e1s cosas de su vida son m\u00e1s importantes para ella que pasar tiempo de calidad con su pareja de vez en cuando, que es la clave de toda vida. relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Humillarte es su pasatiempo favorito<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

“He spent three days fixing the TV and he still hasn’t figured it out. I’m sure every other guy would have fixed it in no time.” <\/em><\/p>\n

“You look totally immature in that outfit.”<\/em><\/p>\n

If your wife has made similar statements in front of others or to you, know that this is not only a sign of a disrespectful wife but also a form of emotional abuse and it’s called humiliation.<\/p>\n

Esto es algo en lo que destacan los narcisistas, porque al restar importancia a los dem\u00e1s, se hacen sentir superiores a ellos. Adem\u00e1s, est\u00e1 relacionado con la falta de autoestima.<\/p>\n

Al burlarse de ti, est\u00e1 aumentando su propia confianza, que es una de las herramientas para establecer la dominaci\u00f3n tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

In a healthy relationships, a couple’s favorite thing is making each other feel loved and respected.<\/p>\n

If your marriage lacks that, then you know \u2018Algo huele a podrido en Dinamarca<\/em>\u2019 as Shakespeare claims in his play Hamlet<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Just replace \u2018the state of Denmark\u2019 with \u2018my marriage\u2019 and there you have it.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s always nagging and complaining (usually for no apparent reason)<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Por experiencia propia, puedo afirmar que la peor clase de gente es la que siempre se queja sin motivo.<\/p>\n

Por otra parte, si lo miras desde otra perspectiva, te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que la raz\u00f3n por la que lo hacen es porque algo les molesta (algo que tienen enterrado en lo m\u00e1s profundo de su ser).<\/p>\n

Si tu mujer te rega\u00f1a constantemente para que trabajes en ti mismo y seas mejor persona, para que cambies de estilo de vida (o de estilo) o hagas otras cosas, me imagino perfectamente c\u00f3mo te sientes cada segundo de tu vida.<\/p>\n

(I know you didn’t expect me to write that, which is good).<\/p>\n

Ser incapaz de decir abierta y honestamente lo que est\u00e1 pasando por su mente es un gran problema y la fuente de su falta de respeto final hacia usted como su pareja.<\/p>\n

However, as always, it’s not something that can’t be fixed (of course, that\u2019s assuming she’s willing to work on herself and your marriage).<\/p>\n

Evita escucharte y hablar contigo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

When you try to talk to her about something important, does she pretend that she’s extra busy with some random thing (when in reality she’s actually playing games on her cell phone)?<\/p>\n

Avoiding listening to you is bad in itself but do you know what’s even worse?<\/p>\n

Evita hablar contigo. Este es uno de los problemas matrimoniales m\u00e1s graves.<\/p>\n

Una comunicaci\u00f3n sana es el n\u00facleo de toda sociedad sana y relaci\u00f3n feliz<\/a>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Of course, there will be times when the two of you will have an argument but if you have established healthy communication patterns, then this won’t be an issue.<\/p>\n

Donde no hay comunicaci\u00f3n, tampoco hay acuerdo ni respeto.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 13 Warning Signs Of A Disrespectful Husband You Shouldn’t Ignore<\/a><\/p>\n

Sus redes sociales abundan en cosas inapropiadas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

In times of social media and other modern culprits (yes, that’s what I like to call them), it’s so easy for anyone to end up disrespecting their partner.<\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, una forma de faltar al respeto a tu pareja es publicar fotos provocativas en tus perfiles de las redes sociales (fotos en bragas y similares).<\/p>\n

Otra forma es mantener conversaciones provocadoras con otras personas en las redes sociales.<\/p>\n

Many people think that writing something inappropriate to others doesn’t mean cheating if you haven’t done anything in person.<\/p>\n

Let me tell you one thing. It DOES mean cheating because it belongs to the group called \u2018mental cheating\u2019.<\/p>\n

Pensar en hacer algo con otra persona es casi lo mismo que hacerlo f\u00edsicamente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Now that we got all that straight, if you notice that your wife is guilty of doing those (or similar) things, then you know she’s being disrespectful to you. (And that she might be mentally enga\u00f1\u00e1ndote<\/a>.)<\/p>\n

Se niega a compartir las responsabilidades de la vida familiar<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs usted el \u00fanico que se ocupa de todo, desde sacar la basura hasta fregar los platos o llevar a los ni\u00f1os al colegio (si los tiene)?<\/p>\n

Do you feel like she’s not even trying to share responsibilities with you, as every couple should do?<\/p>\n

Si tu respuesta es s\u00ed, entonces s\u00ed, tu mujer te est\u00e1 faltando al respeto.<\/p>\n

I mean, it’s okay if she’s not feeling well sometimes and she refuses to do some tasks because she’s unable to but if she constantly refuses to do anything, then this is a problem.<\/p>\n

La vida familiar se basa en el trabajo en equipo y el esfuerzo mutuo. Si todo recae en uno de los miembros de la pareja, se crea un enorme desequilibrio entre ellos.<\/p>\n

No es normal ni deseable que un miembro de la pareja lo haga todo.<\/p>\n

Compartir responsabilidades, tareas y otros cometidos son signos de vencimiento<\/a> y el m\u00e1ximo respeto que los socios se tienen mutuamente.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: 14 se\u00f1ales de una novia irrespetuosa y 12 formas de afrontarlo<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Te oculta cosas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00c9sta tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1 estrechamente relacionada con las redes sociales. Hay muchas formas en las que una pareja puede ocultar cosas a la otra y una de las m\u00e1s famosas es de forma virtual, por supuesto.<\/p>\n

Here are some ‘phone signs’ that she might be hiding something from you:<\/p>\n

\u2022 She’s overprotective of her phone<\/p>\n

\u2022 She hides when talking on the phone to someone (\u2018her friends\u2019)<\/p>\n

\u2022 She carries her phone everywhere with her (including to the bathroom).<\/p>\n

Otras se\u00f1ales son que no te diga ad\u00f3nde va (y te acuse de ser un mani\u00e1tico del control si le preguntas), que mienta, manipule, etc.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s how you can know for sure whether something fishy is going on in your marriage:<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you notice that the majority of your time is spent, or better said wasted, on finding clues about something you suspect she’s hiding from you, this is the answer to your question.<\/p>\n

No reconoce tus logros<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

\u00bfHas terminado la universidad, has aprendido a hablar cuatro idiomas, has corrido una marat\u00f3n, has trabajado como voluntario y ella ni siquiera se ha molestado en reconocer nada de eso?<\/p>\n

\u00bfSientes que todo lo que hace es fastidiarte y hacerte sentir menos digno?<\/p>\n

Now, I don’t mean that she should boast around and scream so that everyone can hear about all your life accomplishments but simply acknowledging them from time to time is a sign of ultimate respect toward a partner.<\/p>\n

Una de las razones por las que ella podr\u00eda estar evitando voluntariamente prestar atenci\u00f3n a tus logros es porque piensa que esto har\u00e1 que su sentirse menos digno<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Mucha gente piensa que al elogiar a los dem\u00e1s se est\u00e1 menospreciando a s\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n

Por el contrario, al decir algo amable a alguien, est\u00e1s demostrando lo maduro y gran persona que eres.<\/p>\n

T\u00e9ngalo en cuenta porque puede resultarle muy \u00fatil en todas las situaciones de la vida.<\/p>\n

Coquetea con otros delante de ti<\/h2>\n

\"exnovio<\/p>\n

Faltar sutilmente al respeto a tu pareja es una cosa, pero flirtear abiertamente con otras personas delante de tu pareja es un nivel totalmente nuevo de falta de respeto. No hace falta decirlo.<\/p>\n

I’m sure you’re already familiar with all those flirty signs from your partner (if you ever witnessed them), so I won’t be listing them.<\/p>\n

I’ll only say one thing and that is: If this is not happening for the first time, then you know she’s being totally disrespectful of you and your marriage.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Entiendo que el exceso de alcohol puede hacer que la gente haga estupideces, pero si algo ocurre de forma repetida, no hay excusa que valga.<\/p>\n

Todo lo que puedes hacer es aceptar el hecho y repetirte a ti mismo \u2018My wife is disrespectful\u2019<\/em> y luego ignorarla por el resto de tu vida.<\/p>\n

Bromas aparte, ignorar ese comportamiento es lo peor que se puede hacer, pero hablar de ello abierta y honestamente es el mejor remedio para un matrimonio roto<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Vale y esta cita tambi\u00e9n puede ayudar:<\/p>\n

\u201cHer husband can trust her, and she will greatly enrich his life.\u201d<\/em> (Proverbios 31:11)<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo ser mejor esposa: 20 consejos eficaces para mejorar su matrimonio<\/a><\/p>\n

Te hace sentir menos digno<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Basically, disrespect is one way of making someone feel less worthy. So, how do you know if your spouse doesn’t respect you? It’s very simple indeed.<\/p>\n

Si constantemente te hacen sentir menos digno y te obligan a luchar por su atenci\u00f3n, es la m\u00e1xima se\u00f1al de falta de respeto.<\/p>\n

Al no escucharte, al no iniciar la comunicaci\u00f3n o las actividades de pareja, tu mujer te est\u00e1 haciendo sentir menos digno mientras espera un resultado diferente.<\/p>\n

Una de las citas m\u00e1s impactantes de Courtney Joseph sobre la esposa irrespetuosa resume este fen\u00f3meno: “Disrespect rarely motivates a man.”<\/em><\/p>\n

Si pusi\u00e9ramos todos los signos de esta lista en \u00e9sta, todo estar\u00eda interconectado.<\/p>\n

So, if you feel in your gut like you’re not the same man as you used to be before because you’re being humiliated and taken for granted, then you know that disrespect has taken its toll on your marriage.<\/p>\n

Ya no te ayuda ni te apoya<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When one partner doesn’t care about their partner’s feelings, they basically no longer care about whether they can manage on their own or not.<\/p>\n

Si ya no est\u00e1 dispuesta a ayudarte con las cosas con las que sol\u00eda ayudarte antes, esto es una se\u00f1al de alarma.<\/p>\n

Also, if she’s no longer supportive, this is a sign that she’s only focused on meeting her own needs.<\/p>\n

Sin apoyo mutuo, uno de los miembros de la pareja siempre se sentir\u00e1 desatendido, lo que crea una enorme brecha en la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

It’s really hard to be with someone who doesn’t see you for who you are and who doesn’t bother supporting your wishes, goals and dreams.<\/p>\n

Being together is about always believing in each other even when the rest of the world doesn’t.<\/p>\n

Su mujer mantiene una distancia f\u00edsica con usted<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Okay, this might sound confusing. No, I don\u2019t mean keeping a physical distance as prevention from coronavirus (even though it is not excluded).<\/p>\n

Lo que quiero decir con mantener una distancia f\u00edsica es no estar dispuesto a intimar contigo.<\/p>\n

Si notas que se niega a pasar tiempo contigo abraz\u00e1ndote o hacer el amor<\/a>Esto es un signo de problemas subyacentes mucho mayores.<\/p>\n

It is not really a matter of disrespect because we’re not living in ancient times when a woman was forced to make love to her husband because it was her obligation and not something she enjoyed.<\/p>\n

Si tu mujer se est\u00e1 distanciando de ti, puede haber otra raz\u00f3n para ello y es la infidelidad o guardar rencores y similares.<\/p>\n

Se mire por donde se mire, al final todo acaba relacionado con la falta de respeto.<\/p>\n

Nunca se pone de tu parte en nada<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Personalmente soy muy partidario de contradecir pero tambi\u00e9n de llegar a acuerdos. Esto demuestra que ambas personas tienen sus propias opiniones sobre un determinado tema, lo cual es sano y deseable.<\/p>\n

However, constantly contradicting and refusing to take your partner’s side in anything is a different thing.<\/p>\n

You don’t need to agree on everything but there are times when you can apoyarse mutuamente<\/a> como forma de conectar y crear un v\u00ednculo m\u00e1s fuerte.<\/p>\n

La forma m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil de comprobar si esto est\u00e1 ocurriendo en tu matrimonio es pregunt\u00e1ndote lo siguiente: Do I feel like I’m alone in marriage?<\/em><\/p>\n

Many people confuse feeling lonely with the absence of someone’s presence. It is possible to feel lonely even when you’re with someone.<\/p>\n

It’s when their physical presence cannot compensate for what’s lacking in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Nunca te presenta a la gente que conoce<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Let’s say that you two go for a walk and you stumble upon her best friends or a family member.<\/p>\n

What does she do? Does she introduce you to them or pretend like you’re no one important (except that you’re HER HUSBAND)?<\/p>\n

Si nunca te presenta a las dem\u00e1s personas que conoce (especialmente a sus seres queridos), se trata realmente de una falta de respeto en todos los sentidos.<\/p>\n

If this happened to you, I want you to know that I’m truly sorry that you had to experience it. I can totally imagine how I would feel if I was in your shoes.<\/p>\n

By doing this, she’s literally telling you that you’re not important and therefore, not worthy of meeting her people.<\/p>\n

Si siempre te aseguras de presentarla a tu gente, deber\u00edas exigir el mismo trato a cambio.<\/p>\n

Otherwise, it’s a silly game where no one wins but everyone gets hurt (assuming you both still have feelings for each other).<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: \u00bfEsposa loca? 8 maneras eficaces de tratarla con \u00e9xito<\/a><\/p>\n

She doesn’t respect your friends or family<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

“You don’t need to love other people but you will respect them.” This is a sentence that has been repeated by my father so many times that I couldn’t forget it even if I wanted to.<\/p>\n

It’s one of the most valuable things my parents taught me and for that, I’m really grateful.<\/p>\n

If your wife doesn’t live by the same principles, chances are she won’t respect your friends and family.<\/p>\n

It’s when she refuses to invite them for dinner even though her parents are regular guests at your house.<\/p>\n

Or when she’s not even trying to establish a healthy relationship with your mejores amigos<\/a> y miembros de la familia y constantemente hablando mal de ellos sin ninguna raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

This is not only a matter of being disrespectful but it’s overly toxic as well for all of you.<\/p>\n

Hace comentarios negativos sobre su aspecto<\/h2>\n

\"gordo<\/p>\n

“You look fat! When will you start exercising? I don’t like your hair. Do you seriously think you look good in this T-shirt?”<\/em><\/p>\n

Si alguna vez te ha dicho alguna de las cosas anteriores o algo parecido, tu mujer te ha faltado al respeto.<\/p>\n

It’s important to note that this one is mostly about the way in which she expresses her opinions.<\/p>\n

She doesn’t need to like your every outfit or tell you that you’ve never looked hotter if you yourself know that you gained some weight in the meantime but expressing her dissatisfaction in such disrespectful ways is really rude.<\/p>\n

Hay versiones m\u00e1s educadas de las afirmaciones anteriores que dicen lo mismo pero de forma respetuosa.<\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, puede decir: \u201cI’m really concerned about your health. I think you should start exercising.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

The fact that she doesn\u2019t even bother to make it sound respectful is what makes it disrespectful.<\/p>\n

Se niega a comprometerse contigo<\/h2>\n

\"toma<\/p>\n

En mi opini\u00f3n, el compromiso es lo mejor desde el pan de molde. Da a la pareja la oportunidad de expresarse y encontrar juntos una soluci\u00f3n que beneficie a ambos.<\/p>\n

Ahora bien, \u00bfqu\u00e9 ocurre si uno de los miembros de la pareja no est\u00e1 dispuesto a ceder?<\/p>\n

Disrespect happens and not only that; being unwilling to compromise is a sign of the ultimate selfishness because you only worry about your wishes and your needs instead of paying attention to your partner’s needs as well.<\/p>\n

If your wife wants everything to be as she imagined and she doesn’t care about your opinions on certain matters, then you know she’s being disrespectful.<\/p>\n

Si crees que la \u00fanica soluci\u00f3n es hacer todo lo que a ella le plazca, pi\u00e9nsalo otra vez. As\u00ed no llegar\u00e1s a ninguna parte.<\/p>\n

Instead, she will demand more and more from you and if you don’t act as she pleases, she will blame you for being a lame husband even though the reality is somewhat different.<\/p>\n

Su mujer no est\u00e1 dispuesta a compartir cosas con usted<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Compartir todos y cada uno de los pensamientos con tu pareja no es realmente saludable, pero compartir algunas cosas de tu vida personal es deseable.<\/p>\n

If your wife is constantly keeping everything to herself, it means she’s deliberately giving you a passive role in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Both partners should always be active participants (to a certain degree) in each other’s lives.<\/p>\n

That means sharing some things from your work (especially if you’re feeling off for some reason), talking about your hobbies, friends, etc.<\/p>\n

Sharing things also includes sharing physical things like food, your car (in case you don’t have two), sharing responsibilities, contributing to different expenses and so on.<\/p>\n

Ya sabes lo que dicen: Compartir es cuidar. Por lo tanto, no compartir significa no preocuparse, lo que equivale a DESPRECIO.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 9 Warning Signs You’re A Nagging Wife (And How To Stop Being One)<\/a><\/p>\n

A menudo te da el tratamiento del silencio<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

El tratamiento silencioso<\/a> es una de las cosas m\u00e1s cancer\u00edgenas del mundo.<\/p>\n

A m\u00ed me gusta llamarlo un trato pasivo-agresivo en el que una persona se niega a actuar con respeto y a comunicarse con su pareja.<\/p>\n

En cambio, esa persona elige borrar toda tu existencia y, como resultado, deja que la ira y los sentimientos t\u00f3xicos se acumulen.<\/p>\n

If your wife is that person, then you know what I’m talking about.<\/p>\n

If she ignores you for days after a fight or an argument (or for no reason), she’s putting you in a position where you will gradually lose your mind if she doesn’t say something.<\/p>\n

No hay nada en el mundo que no pueda discutirse con palabras.<\/p>\n

El tratamiento silencioso ni siquiera es un m\u00e9todo, sino una herramienta ego\u00edsta para victimizar y controlar a otras personas. Y eso, amigo m\u00edo, es una falta de respeto.<\/p>\n

Ignora tus l\u00edmites<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Aunque toda pareja debe esforzarse por crear un v\u00ednculo m\u00e1s fuerte en su relaci\u00f3n, tambi\u00e9n es importante establecer y respetar unos l\u00edmites.<\/p>\n

If you’ve said to her that something is bothering you and she is still doing it on purpose, she’s ignoring your boundaries.<\/p>\n

If you need to spend some time alone but she keeps nagging you that you’re taking her for granted because of that, she’s ignoring your boundaries.<\/p>\n

Knowing and respecting your partner’s needs is the only way to make things work.<\/p>\n

If she’s being ignorant of all of that, it means she doesn’t really care about either you or your relationship.<\/p>\n

Si respetas sus l\u00edmites y nunca la haces sentir inc\u00f3moda, tienes todo el derecho a exigir el mismo trato a cambio.<\/p>\n

She doesn’t think she’s lucky to have you<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Una de las formas m\u00e1s sencillas de saber si tu c\u00f3nyuge te ha dado por sentado es a trav\u00e9s de su percepci\u00f3n de ti como pareja en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

If your wife doesn’t think she’s lucky to have you in her life, this is an act of subtle undermining and making you feel less worthy.<\/p>\n

Perhaps she’s suffering from el s\u00edndrome de la hierba m\u00e1s verde<\/a> where she’s convinced there is someone better out there for her.<\/p>\n

By thinking this, she’s letting you know that you’re not good enough.<\/p>\n

I’ll tell you only one thing. A perfect marriage doesn’t exist.<\/p>\n

Cada matrimonio tiene sus altibajos y cada d\u00eda es un reto en el que los c\u00f3nyuges se esfuerzan por mantener viva la chispa y superar distintos problemas.<\/p>\n

If she’s ever told you or someone else that she’s not lucky to have you, you know that disrespect has taken its toll and she has forgotten what companionship of marriage really is about.<\/p>\n

Nunca deja el tel\u00e9fono<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If you really want to piss me off, just stare at your phone for half an hour while I’m talking to you.<\/p>\n

If you feel the same way and your wife never puts her phone down (not even when you’re trying to talk to her), she’s being disrespectful to you.<\/p>\n

I mean, you cannot show respect to your partner if you’re going to spend half of your day staring at your cell phone.<\/p>\n

El respeto consiste en mirarse a los ojos, escucharse atentamente y dejar de lado otras cosas triviales durante una conversaci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Entiendo que las parejas pueden volverse demasiado informales con el tiempo y dejan de prestar atenci\u00f3n a esas cosas aparentemente peque\u00f1as, pero son las que m\u00e1s significan en una relaci\u00f3n y en la vida en general.<\/p>\n

A kind and open smile while looking the other person in the eye is a true token of love and appreciation that doesn’t cost you a dime.<\/p>\n

Habla constantemente de ti a tus espaldas<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

Una de las mayores se\u00f1ales de falta de respeto es cotillear.<\/p>\n

It’s one thing to vent to a close friend from time to time about your relationship but constantly talking about your partner behind your back is a different thing.<\/p>\n

If your wife has no self-control over what she does behind your back, this is a huge red flag. By doing this, she’s making you her enemy instead of an ally.<\/p>\n

Uno de mis vecinos vivi\u00f3 con una esposa irrespetuosa durante a\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

Recuerdo que iba a la tienda y dec\u00eda cosas malas de su marido, a la cajera y a cualquiera que estuviera en la tienda en ese momento.<\/p>\n

Needless to say, we all knew that she was overreacting and talking behind her husband’s back had literally become her hobby.<\/p>\n

If gossiping is your wife’s hobby as well and it makes you feel totally disrespected, you should definitely talk to her about it.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Cuando hay amor pero no respeto en la relaci\u00f3n<\/a><\/p>\n

5 maneras de tratar a una esposa irrespetuosa<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Now that we’re done with all the signs that your wife disrespects you, it’s time to switch to another important question and that is: \u00bfC\u00f3mo tratar a una esposa irrespetuosa?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, here’s how:<\/p>\n

Don’t take it personally<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

En primer lugar, me urge acentuar una cosa: una esposa que falta al respeto a su marido no es una bruja.<\/p>\n

I understand that the first thing that comes to your mind is thinking that she’s doing it on purpose to hurt you and make you feel bad about yourself.<\/p>\n

A veces es cierto, pero la mayor\u00eda de las veces no lo es.<\/p>\n

One of the main reasons why a wife would choose to be disrespectful is because she’s having some issues with herself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I’m not saying this in order to defend such behavior, but I’m just pointing out that you shouldn’t take it personally.<\/p>\n

Hay muchos factores que pueden influir en que de repente cambie su comportamiento y act\u00fae de forma irrespetuosa.<\/p>\n

La \u00fanica forma de averiguar la verdadera raz\u00f3n es haciendo lo siguiente:<\/p>\n

Comunicar<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

S\u00ed. Inicien una conversaci\u00f3n cuando sea el momento adecuado. M\u00edrense a los ojos y sean sinceros sobre c\u00f3mo se sienten.<\/p>\n

Recuerde que todos comunicaci\u00f3n eficaz<\/a> consta de los siguientes aspectos:<\/p>\n

Listening \u2013 Talking \u2013 Finding a Solution \u2013 Compromising.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trabajar para establecer el respeto mutuo debe ser el objetivo principal de ambos. No es algo que solo pueda decidir hacer una persona.<\/p>\n

Disrespectful people are often unaware of their doings and that is why it’s important to point them out to them.<\/p>\n

What’s more important is the way in which you’ll do it.<\/p>\n

Evita culpar a tu mujer por ello y hacerla sentir mal por ello, simplemente expl\u00edcale c\u00f3mo te est\u00e1 haciendo sentir su comportamiento.<\/p>\n

Don’t overreact and do it in a polite and calm manner.<\/p>\n

Dale algo de espacio y tiempo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

After you’ve talked about it, remember to give her some space and time to think about your conversation and what she’s going to do next.<\/p>\n

Keep in mind that change doesn’t happen overnight.<\/p>\n

If she’s been acting disrespectful for some time now, she will need more time to absorb all that and decide to alter her behavior toward you.<\/p>\n

La raz\u00f3n principal por la que necesitas darle algo de espacio y tiempo es porque ELLA es la que tiene que DECIDIR cambiar.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Porque el cambio viene de dentro.<\/p>\n

You could nag her and force her for months to treat you the way you deserve but if she wasn’t the one who decided that she should do it, all your efforts will be in vain.<\/p>\n

Your task is to let her know that something’s wrong in your marriage and you’re not feeling happy.<\/p>\n

Su tarea consiste en reconocerlo y decidir empezar a trabajar en ello.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 10 Things To Do If You’re Being Disrespected In Your Relationship<\/a><\/p>\n

Habla con tus amigos\/familiares\/con un consejero sentimental<\/h2>\n

\"sesi\u00f3n<\/p>\n

Another good idea is to seek another opinion. You can seek advice from your friends (especially if they’ve been through the same) or your family members.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n puedes pedir ayuda profesional a un consejero sentimental o a un terapeuta.<\/p>\n

Couple’s therapy is one of the most effective ways for overcoming marriage problems.<\/p>\n

Also, if you find some extra time for reading, there’s a book called Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs.<\/p>\n

El libro se basa en Efesios 5:33, que afirma, \u201cLet each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

En caso de que nada funcione, prep\u00e1rate para seguir adelante.<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Si, por alguna raz\u00f3n, nada de lo anterior funciona, prep\u00e1rate siempre para suelta<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t think there’s any need to explain why you should be ready for such a move but I\u2019ll still do so.<\/p>\n

Decidir permanecer en un matrimonio que se basa en la falta de respeto es como permanecer en una habitaci\u00f3n llena de lava y esperar que no te queme.<\/p>\n

If both partners are not willing to work on the marriage, there’s nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n

Si decidieras permanecer en un matrimonio as\u00ed, sacrificar\u00edas tu propia felicidad y bienestar, y todos sabemos que la vida es demasiado corta para eso.<\/p>\n

La vida es demasiado corta para estar con alguien que no est\u00e1 en la misma p\u00e1gina que t\u00fa y que ni siquiera intenta mejorar las cosas.<\/p>\n

Mereces a alguien que corresponda a tus sentimientos y a tu esfuerzo desinteresado.<\/p>\n

El respeto mutuo es el ingrediente principal de todo matrimonio feliz.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You could go out of your way for them, dance to your partner’s tune and do whatnot and you will still be stuck in a dead-end street if the respect is not mutual.<\/p>\n

Donde no hay respeto, no hay amor verdadero y viceversa.<\/p>\n

Everything stems from the decision to respect each other’s differences, opinions, existence and flaws.<\/p>\n

Respecting means compromising and doing what’s best, not for you or your partner but for your relationship.<\/em><\/p>\n

Se trata del trabajo en equipo y siempre ha sido as\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A veces, es dif\u00edcil dejar ir a la otra persona, especialmente si todav\u00eda la amas pero a veces dejar ir a una esposa irrespetuosa es inevitable porque: “Love is not a reason to tolerate disrespect.”<\/em> \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 14 se\u00f1ales inequ\u00edvocas de que tu mujer quiere dejarte<\/a><\/p>\n

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