{"id":99394,"date":"2020-09-21T16:07:52","date_gmt":"2020-09-21T16:07:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=99394"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:10:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:10:27","slug":"los-mejores-movimientos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/los-mejores-movimientos\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfTe han dejado? Los 9 mejores movimientos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A todos nos ha pasado. Sin ninguna raz\u00f3n ni aviso, tu pareja te deja como si nunca hubieras significado nada para ella. Es un asco.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s easy for other people to tell you things like \u201cYou&#8217;ll heal fast, you&#8217;ll move on sooner than you think,\u201d or \u201cYou&#8217;re better off without them anyway, don&#8217;t feel bad about it,\u201d but it doesn&#8217;t help.<\/p>\n<p><b>We feel hurt, disappointed, and confused anyway. And no matter how hard we try, we just can\u2019t stop thinking about it and why it happened.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, <b>la verdad es que no importa cu\u00e1nto duela, el tiempo curar\u00e1.<\/b> Pero hasta que ocurra, esto es lo que debes hacer para que duela menos.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">En primer lugar, llora<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99404 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-floor.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada en suelo rosa apoyando la frente en la rodilla\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-floor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-floor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-floor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-floor-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re allowed to let out your feelings and do whatever you think is going to help you. Cry, break some plates, eat as much chocolate as you want, or anything else that could ease your pain.<\/p>\n<p><b>Que te deje alguien a quien quieres duele y lo peor para ti ser\u00eda reprimir esos sentimientos.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Llama a la persona en la que m\u00e1s conf\u00edes, cu\u00e9ntale c\u00f3mo te sientes y p\u00eddele que sea tu hombro sobre el que llorar.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Si crees que mereces una explicaci\u00f3n, llama a tu ex y p\u00eddele que hablen de ello.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99405 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-talking-on-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con top amarillo hablando por tel\u00e9fono al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-talking-on-the-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-talking-on-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-talking-on-the-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-talking-on-the-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-talking-on-the-phone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you feel like you won&#8217;t be able to move on without proper closure, call your new ex-partner and ask him to meet and talk.<\/p>\n<p>As much as it hurts \u2013 and I know that it really does \u2013 just don\u2019t show him that you&#8217;re suffering.<\/p>\n<p>Ask him only to explain his reasons for the breakup, but don&#8217;t beg for another chance or be pathetic. Don&#8217;t humiliate yourself for someone who doesn&#8217;t deserve you at all.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ded\u00edquese m\u00e1s tiempo a s\u00ed mismo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99406 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-meditate.jpg\" alt=\"mujer en ba\u00f1ador negro medita cerca del agua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-meditate.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-meditate-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-meditate-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-meditate-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-meditate-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Dedicate yourself to self-care. Don&#8217;t lock yourself in your bedroom, consoling yourself with sweets and wearing pajamas all day long. Don\u2019t do that to yourself.<\/p>\n<p><b>Dar prioridad a <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/aumentar-el-amor-propio-y-dejar-de-sentirse-indeseado\/\"><b>amor propio<\/b><\/a><b> otra vez.<\/b> Don&#8217;t neglect the relationship you have with yourself. Now would be the worst time to do that.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Recuerda: La \u00fanica persona que puede ayudarte a seguir adelante eres t\u00fa y s\u00f3lo t\u00fa.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Re\u00fane a tus amigos y salid<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99407 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-drinking-wine.jpg\" alt=\"mujer bebiendo vino mientras se sienta cerca de una mujer en un restaurante\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-drinking-wine.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-drinking-wine-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-drinking-wine-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-drinking-wine-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-drinking-wine-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Call your friends and ask them to hang out. Hit the club or, if you aren&#8217;t still ready for that just yet, you can keep it low key and have dinner at your favorite restaurant.<\/p>\n<p>Talk with them about the breakup. If some of them are your mutual friends, though, then you might want to avoid that topic in front of them \u2013 you never know if they will tell it to your ex.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t badmouth your ex, you&#8217;re better than that<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99408 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/women-sitting-on-ground.jpg\" alt=\"tres mujeres sentadas en el suelo cerca de flores\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/women-sitting-on-ground.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/women-sitting-on-ground-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/women-sitting-on-ground-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/women-sitting-on-ground-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/women-sitting-on-ground-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Por mucho que alguien te haga da\u00f1o, intenta siempre ser la mejor persona al final. <\/b>Because that&#8217;s all that matters.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t talk trash about your ex; you&#8217;ll probably regret it later. Maybe things have ended badly between you guys, but that person was a part of your life for some time and you should respect it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Los mensajes de texto en estado de embriaguez son un gran NO<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99409 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-drinking-wine-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer bebiendo vino sentada a la mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-drinking-wine-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-drinking-wine-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-drinking-wine-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-drinking-wine-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-drinking-wine-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>While you&#8217;re out with your friends, of course, you can have a few drinks, if you really think that drowning your sorrows will help.<\/p>\n<p>However, before you go out and get drunk, leave your phone at home or give it to your bestie and tell her that she shouldn&#8217;t give it to you, no matter what.<\/p>\n<p>Enviarle a tu ex un mensaje borracho ser\u00eda definitivamente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-errores-de-ruptura\/\">un error<\/a> that you&#8217;ll regret the next day.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t try to make your ex jealous and hope it&#8217;ll bring him back<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99410 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con sombrero negro sentada en un banco mirando el agua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you think that flirting with another guy in front of your ex or dating someone new will make your ex jealous and want to reconcile, I hate to break it to you, but it won&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll just end up even more disappointed and hurt after it fails. Dedicate this post-breakup time to yourself only.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Haz algo que te alegre<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99411 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/women-sitting-near-fountain.jpg\" alt=\"cuatro mujeres sentadas cerca de una fuente\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/women-sitting-near-fountain.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/women-sitting-near-fountain-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/women-sitting-near-fountain-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/women-sitting-near-fountain-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/women-sitting-near-fountain-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I bet there\u2019s something or someone that can make you happy every time. Then hang out with those people or do those things. Let it help you heal and forget your ex and the breakup.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">S\u00f3lo respira y vuelve a disfrutar de tu solter\u00eda lo mejor que puedas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99412 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-walking-along-pathway.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con sudadera gris caminando por un sendero\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-walking-along-pathway.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-walking-along-pathway-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-walking-along-pathway-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-walking-along-pathway-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-walking-along-pathway-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Just remember that you enjoyed life and were happy before you even met your ex \u2013 and trust me, you&#8217;ll be happy again. The right one will come into your life, but until then, embrace and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/todas-las-chicas-que-luchan-por-abrazar-la-vida-de-soltera\/\">disfruta de tu solter\u00eda<\/a>.<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/todas-las-chicas-que-luchan-por-abrazar-la-vida-de-soltera\/\">&nbsp;<\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>Give yourself some time and you&#8217;ll see. You&#8217;ll fall in love with yourself and life again. This will all be just a part of your past, a scar on your heart, and nothing more.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We\u2019ve all been there. Without any proper reason or warning, your partner dumps you like you never meant anything to them. It just sucks.&nbsp; It&#8217;s easy for other people to tell you things like \u201cYou&#8217;ll heal fast, you&#8217;ll move on sooner than you think,\u201d or \u201cYou&#8217;re better off without them anyway, don&#8217;t feel bad about&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":99403,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-99394","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Got-Dumped-Here-Are-9-Best-Moves-To-Make.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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