{"id":99776,"date":"2020-09-21T16:07:58","date_gmt":"2020-09-21T16:07:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=99776"},"modified":"2022-07-15T09:11:54","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T09:11:54","slug":"proceso-de-sanacion-de-la-llama-gemela","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/proceso-de-sanacion-de-la-llama-gemela\/","title":{"rendered":"Comprender y dominar el proceso de curaci\u00f3n de la llama gemela"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Curaci\u00f3n de la llama gemela<\/b><b> es un proceso dif\u00edcil en el que <\/b><b>llamas gemelas<\/b><b> afrontar y superar sus miedos y traumas para convertirse en lo que realmente son y experimentar la dicha de la uni\u00f3n.<\/b>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 se habla tanto de ello en la comunidad espiritual?<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re reading this, I suppose you no longer ask yourself whether twin flames are real and you already know what a twin flame is; your perfect half.<\/p>\n<p>Son tu reflejo. Son alguien que te hace sentir como en casa y te completa.<\/p>\n<p><b>Now, there&#8217;s a catch.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>It&#8217;s a magical and beautiful thing to find someone who completes you and understands you but the thing is, if your <\/b><b>llama gemela<\/b><b> es un reflejo de ti, eso s\u00f3lo significa que reflejan todas las cosas bonitas Y feas de ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>S\u00ed, todas tus debilidades, todos tus miedos m\u00e1s profundos, todos tus mecanismos de defensa, todas las mentiras que te dices a ti mismo, todas las cosas de las que quieres huir.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99779 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-dock-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con vestido blanco sentada en el muelle\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-dock-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-dock-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-dock-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-dock-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-dock-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why everyone&#8217;s interested in twin flame healing because that&#8217;s where the struggle begins.<\/p>\n<p>Twin flame journeys can be extremely confusing, depending on what twin flame healing stage you&#8217;re at.<\/p>\n<p>In one period of your journey, you experience nothing but bliss, while in another, you\u2019ll experience enormous pain.<\/p>\n<p><b>La dicha proviene de la unidad y el dolor de la separaci\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The bliss means to accept and see beyond someone&#8217;s current mind programming and the pain comes from allowing to be trapped in another <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/15-senales-de-que-tienes-una-relacion-karmica\/\">patr\u00f3n k\u00e1rmico.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Por programaci\u00f3n mental me refiero a procesos de pensamiento aprendidos que tienen su origen en el trauma infantil m\u00e1s temprano, cuando encontramos mecanismos de afrontamiento para evitar el dolor.<\/p>\n<p>Por estar atrapado en otro patr\u00f3n k\u00e1rmico, me refiero a negarse a aprender de la repetici\u00f3n de experiencias de vida y elegir volver al miedo en lugar de dar un paso hacia el crecimiento.<\/p>\n<p>So, if it wasn&#8217;t clear by now, let&#8217;s answer this question once again:<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfPara qu\u00e9 sirve una llama gemela?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99780 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-near-fence.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer abrazados cerca de una valla\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-near-fence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-near-fence-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-near-fence-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-near-fence-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-near-fence-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The purpose of a twin flame connection definitely isn\u2019t to roll around on cloud nine with your twin.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/proposito-de-la-llama-gemela\/\"><b>El verdadero objetivo de un <\/b><\/a><b>conexi\u00f3n twin flame<\/b><b> is to pull out all the things you&#8217;ve buried deep inside which don&#8217;t belong there; it&#8217;s a fight to become your <\/b><b>verdadero yo<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tu llama est\u00e1 aqu\u00ed para ayudarte a eliminar todas tus m\u00e1scaras y todas las mentiras que te has dicho sobre ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re here to help you recognize what&#8217;s stopping you from being yourself; the ways you keep yourself away from what you deserve and all the walls you build to protect yourself.<\/p>\n<p><b>Afrontar nuestro mayor miedo, nuestra mayor verg\u00fcenza o nuestras heridas m\u00e1s profundas es una experiencia extremadamente vulnerable y aterradora a la que nadie se apunta alegremente.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>In fact, we&#8217;re so set on avoiding all of that once it gets to breaking point and we have no choice but to face it.<\/p>\n<p>Our life turns upside down and that&#8217;s the moment when one twin flame becomes the runner and the other one becomes the chaser.<\/p>\n<p>For some people, it&#8217;s enough to just feel the strong <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/9-senales-de-que-tienes-una-profunda-conexion-espiritual-con-tu-pareja\/\">conexi\u00f3n espiritual <\/a>sentirse abrumado y huir. Para entender mejor por qu\u00e9 ocurre esto, debemos mirar bajo la superficie.<\/p>\n<p>Tanto la llama gemela corredora como la perseguidora tienen sus propias heridas que necesitan un enfoque diferente para curarse.<\/p>\n<p>However, there&#8217;s a pretty accurate and frequent pattern among chaser and runner wounds that can be explained in five different types of wounds and their masks.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><b>La llama gemela<\/b> <b>perseguidor<\/b><b> y <\/b><b>corredor twin flame<\/b><b> din\u00e1mico<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Heridas del perseguidor<\/h2>\n<h2>La herida del rechazo es igual a la m\u00e1scara de la retirada<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99781 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water.jpg\" alt=\"mujer apoyada en un \u00e1rbol cerca del agua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The wound of rejection creates a deep and persistent belief that one&#8217;s existence has no meaning; or in other words, that he or she shouldn&#8217;t exist or doesn&#8217;t have a right to exist.<\/p>\n<p>No es de extra\u00f1ar, ya que una de las necesidades humanas m\u00e1s importantes y b\u00e1sicas es pertenecer a algo. Pertenecer significa encontrar un prop\u00f3sito y un lugar en el mundo.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>If a person experiences rejection early in life, they&#8217;re likely to avoid situations where they could be rejected again.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>That&#8217;s why they tend to withdraw and pull away in a situation where they should stand their ground.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tienen unos l\u00edmites muy d\u00e9biles e inconscientemente se muestran indefensos o demasiado complacientes. A veces este comportamiento les hace perder mucha energ\u00eda porque literalmente se pierden en otras personas.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not surprising that they also have a tendency to daydream, which is another way of escaping reality. Overall, they have low self-esteem and attract people who are controlling and abusive.<\/p>\n<p>Tras curar esta herida, el perseguidor aprende a poner l\u00edmites, a confiar en s\u00ed mismo y a aceptar y comprender su importancia en el mundo.<\/p>\n<h2>La herida del abandono es igual a la m\u00e1scara de la dependencia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99782 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-window-of-camper.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con top de rayas amarillas apoyada en la ventanilla de una caravana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-window-of-camper.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-window-of-camper-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-window-of-camper-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-window-of-camper-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-window-of-camper-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La herida del abandono tiene su origen en la experiencia de haber sido abandonado y dejado de ni\u00f1o en un sentido f\u00edsico o emocional.<\/p>\n<p>Para evitar el dolor del abandono, el perseguidor crea una m\u00e1scara de dependencia y necesidad.<\/p>\n<p>Esto se manifiesta como una necesidad de complacer a los dem\u00e1s, una necesidad de aprobaci\u00f3n y de hacer todo lo posible por los dem\u00e1s por miedo a volver a ser abandonado.<\/p>\n<p>Same as the wound of rejection, they don&#8217;t have boundaries and get manipulated easily.<\/p>\n<p>Tambi\u00e9n tienden a perderse en los dem\u00e1s y en las necesidades de los dem\u00e1s, lo que es un escenario perfecto para que un corredor ejerza su m\u00e1scara de control.<\/p>\n<p>Por desgracia, inconscientemente pueden llegar a aceptar la humillaci\u00f3n en lugar de defenderse.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando la herida est\u00e1 curada, los antiguos perseguidores desarrollan l\u00edmites firmes y asumen su poder.<\/p>\n<h2>Heridas del corredor<\/h2>\n<h2>La herida de la traici\u00f3n es igual a la m\u00e1scara del control<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99783 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-floor-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pelirroja con top negro sentada en el suelo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-floor-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-floor-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-floor-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-floor-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-floor-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La traici\u00f3n es una herida que crea una falta de confianza que luego conduce a una necesidad de control en todo momento o simplemente a una m\u00e1scara de control.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando una persona experimenta una traici\u00f3n, le aterroriza volver a depositar su confianza en alguien, por lo que busca la forma de controlar el resultado y a las personas que le rodean.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why this wound creates a mask of control. Not only do they try to control others and the situations they&#8217;re in but also their own feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Por eso tienen altos muros alrededor de su coraz\u00f3n y les cuesta dejar entrar a la gente, y por eso huyen cuando alguien se acerca a conseguir que se abran.<\/p>\n<p>Neither runner nor chaser will voluntarily face their wounds; in fact, they&#8217;re rarely fully conscious of them but once they find the person they truly love, they will have no choice but to bring their walls down and stop running away.<\/p>\n<p>Tendr\u00e1 que soltar el control y eso acabar\u00e1 salv\u00e1ndole. El corredor tendr\u00e1 que enfrentarse a sus miedos.<\/p>\n<h2>La herida de la humillaci\u00f3n es igual a la m\u00e1scara de la conformidad<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99784 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-fence.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con camisa blanca apoyada en una valla\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-fence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-fence-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-fence-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-fence-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-fence-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una persona con una herida de humillaci\u00f3n ha sido humillada y degradada una vez y, por tanto, evita a toda costa que se repita una experiencia similar.<\/p>\n<p>En este caso, el dolor se evita mediante el cumplimiento.<\/p>\n<p>La conformidad es otra forma de comportamiento controlador, pero de una manera en la que la persona con esta herida hace todo lo que est\u00e1 en su mano para hacerse y presentarse como valiosa para los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>The things they do don&#8217;t always come from love but a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/9-signos-le-gusta-el-rechazo-miedo\/\">temen ser rechazados<\/a> o avergonzado.<\/p>\n<p>These types tend to play parents for other people and go above and beyond for things and people they don&#8217;t really care about just to preserve and protect their image and avoid shame.<\/p>\n<p>However, they can&#8217;t hide indefinitely and that&#8217;s why at one point, they will run. These kinds of runners don&#8217;t allow themselves to truly be who they are.<\/p>\n<h2>La herida de la injusticia es igual a la m\u00e1scara de la rigidez<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99785 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-window.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con pulsera de cuentas blancas sentada cerca de una ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The wound of injustice originates from an experience when a person was mistreated and didn&#8217;t get what he or she deserved.<\/p>\n<p>People with this emotional wound are very demanding with themselves and they can&#8217;t easily connect with their emotions.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re sometimes difficult to talk to and tend to be perfectionists and they often find themselves getting into situations where they feel they are treated unfairly.<\/p>\n<p>Para curar la herida, necesitan dejarse sentir libres y espont\u00e1neos y expresar libremente sus emociones.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Errores comunes: Evitar la codependencia espiritual<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99801 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con pa\u00f1uelo de colores sentada cerca del agua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Too often, we think that our happiness depends on other people, especially our partner. That&#8217;s a lot of pressure for one person.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>We expect them to be there when we&#8217;re happy, sad, angry or lost and when we have to make big decisions. We also expect them to help us, to solve our problems, to inspire us and heal us.<\/p>\n<p>De hecho, muchas personas culpan o alaban a su pareja como la que les ha arruinado o salvado.<\/p>\n<p>Toda relaci\u00f3n comienza cuando reconocemos algo que necesitamos en otra persona y ese sentimiento es especialmente intenso cuando conocemos a nuestra llama gemela.<\/p>\n<p><b>The problem is, we often become obsessed with the idea they can somehow magically heal us, when in reality we&#8217;re both stuck in this 3D reality, in our earthly lives, experiencing everything that karma prepared for us.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Nadie puede curarnos salvo nosotros mismos. Tenemos nuestro propio camino, nuestros propios retos y esencialmente, s\u00ed, navegamos solos por esta vida.<\/p>\n<p>However scary that sounds, it&#8217;s true. We need to follow our inner guidance and trust ourselves. We are our own energy healer and everything else is a bonus.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99802 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con top a rayas mirando la monta\u00f1a\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>I&#8217;m not saying that our twin flame isn&#8217;t a big part of our life path, I&#8217;m just saying they are a <\/b><b><i>pieza<\/i><\/b><b> y no el camino en s\u00ed.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>In a culture where people worship other people as gods and put responsibility in everyone&#8217;s hands but their own, it&#8217;s important to realize, accept and own our shortcomings, mistakes and responsibilities.<\/p>\n<p>Another thing that happens is that we think we can save them. We think we know what&#8217;s best for them and we constantly try to make them listen to us.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s the complete opposite of what we should be doing because we don&#8217;t know their personal path to well-being. We don&#8217;t get to decide for them.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Assuming that you know what&#8217;s better for another person is a trap. Giving unsolicited advice is one of the most irritating things someone can do.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Think about the times when there was some \u2018enlightened\u2019 person in your life who always had answers and solutions for everything and gave unsolicited advice. Now, you don&#8217;t want to be them, do you?<\/p>\n<p>You also don&#8217;t want to shower them with \u2018positivity\u2019, especially when they&#8217;re going through a troublesome time. Both happiness and sadness are valid emotions and they don&#8217;t add or take value from our worth.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99803 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-3.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con top floral negro de pie al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-3-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-3-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s no point in pushing certain narratives or feelings on other people. It&#8217;s an inauthentic approach to life and that means it won&#8217;t last.<\/p>\n<p>We don&#8217;t get to fully create the narrative, we only get to change the way we look at things when they happen.<\/p>\n<p>One thing we can do, however, is offer help if it&#8217;s wanted. Help comes in different forms. Sometimes a person just needs a shoulder to cry on and isn&#8217;t asking you for solutions.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it&#8217;s hard to understand why someone struggles with certain things but the truth is that there&#8217;s a pain in them that needs to be healed.<\/p>\n<p><b>Un <\/b><b>llama gemela<\/b><b>&#8216;s pain usually hides their life lessons and that pain along with those life lessons are compatible with the pain and lessons of the other twin flame.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why twin flame relationships can be so complicated. Ultimately, it&#8217;s beneficial and needed but there&#8217;s a lot of really difficult stuff to go through in-between.<\/p>\n<p>One thing you have to remember is that you can&#8217;t take away the pain from your twin. They need to experience it. It&#8217;s part of their path.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99804 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-in-the-field-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con vestido de flores de pie en el campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-in-the-field-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-in-the-field-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-in-the-field-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-in-the-field-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-in-the-field-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todo el mundo necesita pasar por la noche oscura del alma, todo el mundo necesita aprender el arte de dejar ir y todas las dolorosas lecciones que encontramos en nuestro viaje divino.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don&#8217;t lose yourself to another person, even if it&#8217;s your <\/b><b>llama gemela<\/b><b>.<\/b> Don&#8217;t give them more than what you have because that&#8217;s not going to do anything but make both of you miserable.<\/p>\n<p>Confianza en la<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/gracias-universo\/\"> universo<\/a>Conf\u00eden en el proceso, conf\u00eden en su yo superior y dejen de preocuparse y estresarse por algo que est\u00e1 destinado a suceder.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, our wounds are reflected in a way where we need to be needed by the other person. Don&#8217;t fall for that.<\/p>\n<p>We try our best to be happy, helpful, optimistic, positive and soothing and that&#8217;s the only version of ourselves we accept and we immediately feel weak when we fail to meet our own standards.<\/p>\n<p>In other words, we&#8217;re dependent on others to need us, which makes us feel validated the same way a \u2018&#8217;needy\u2019 person is dependent on our positive energy.<\/p>\n<p>This circle needs to stop and will stop because burnout will occur sooner or later; that\u2019s what codependency does.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99805 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-at-table.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con top rojo sentada en una mesa al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-at-table.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-at-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-at-table-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-at-table-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-at-table-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Codependency implies that we can&#8217;t be successful and happy without the other person and that&#8217;s simply not true if we&#8217;re living in accordance with our higher self and our divine path.<\/p>\n<p><b>Una verdad <\/b><b>llama gemela amor<\/b><b> te ense\u00f1a a quererte por todo lo que eres.<\/b> It teaches you that you&#8217;re enough as you are.<\/p>\n<p>Las parejas de llamas gemelas existen para aprender unos de otros y disfrutar del proceso de uni\u00f3n que viene despu\u00e9s de la sanaci\u00f3n de la llama gemela.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re here to essentially teach us that soulmates, twin flames, karmic relationships, soul connections, the divine feminine and<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/sintomas-del-despertar-divino-masculino\/\"> el divino masculino<\/a> are just words we use to describe different expressions of the same thing and that&#8217;s <i>unidad<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>However, let&#8217;s get back to the problem of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-signos-evidentes-de-que-eres-codependiente-relacion-superar\/\">codependencia<\/a>especialmente la codependencia espiritual.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1l es la diferencia? La codependencia tradicional o habilitaci\u00f3n significa hacer por esa persona cosas que puede hacer por s\u00ed misma.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>For example, that includes sending financial help, paying things for them, resolving problems they caused, etc. It is also common for dependent people to blame others for the situation they&#8217;re in, e.g. their ex-partner, their parents and so on.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99806 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-beach.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con camisa vaquera de pie en la playa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-beach-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La codependencia espiritual consiste en pensar en tu alma gemela m\u00e1s que en ti mismo, estar obsesionado con buscar la manera de curarla para poder estar en <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/senales-de-que-estas-experimentando-una-union-de-llamas-gemelas-2\/\">uni\u00f3n de llamas gemelas<\/a>Permitir comportamientos malsanos por su parte, culparte a ti mismo, hacer da\u00f1o a otras personas por su culpa, etc. y viceversa.<\/p>\n<p>Resumiendo, <b>when we notice that we are trying to control and change someone else or we let someone else do that to us, we&#8217;re acting codependent.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Lo que tenemos que hacer es actuar por amor y no por miedo, y eso casi siempre significa darnos amor incondicional a nosotros mismos.<\/p>\n<p>That is the main goal; to be who we are, to be whole. That sometimes means putting up boundaries, breaking up with our twin and loving them from afar and that&#8217;s okay too.<\/p>\n<p>You won&#8217;t stop loving them but you&#8217;ll let them find their own way because you can&#8217;t do the things they&#8217;re not ready for. They have to do it themselves, the same as you.<\/p>\n<p><b>En <\/b><b>proceso de llama gemela<\/b><b> almost never looks the way we imagined it to be. It&#8217;s a lot messier and sometimes it takes years.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Conf\u00eda en el viaje de tu llama gemela y conc\u00e9ntrate en el trabajo de sanaci\u00f3n que haces contigo mismo.<\/p>\n<p><b>S\u00e9 lo suficientemente valiente como para reconocer las m\u00e1scaras y los miedos que hay en ti y que te alejan de lo aut\u00e9ntico. <\/b><b>amor propio<\/b><b> y la verdad universal.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>\u00bfQu\u00e9 puede ayudarle en su viaje de curaci\u00f3n?<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Existen varios m\u00e9todos y campos de sanaci\u00f3n que pueden ayudarle en su viaje de sanaci\u00f3n personal.<\/p>\n<p>Resolving old traumas, getting to know them and understanding them and practicing energy healing will help you in your day-to-day life and eventually with your twin flame path and your twin flame healing\u2014but that shouldn&#8217;t be your biggest problem.<\/p>\n<h2>Curaci\u00f3n de las heridas del ni\u00f1o interior<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99807 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-grass.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada en la hierba mirando al oceano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-grass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-grass-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-grass-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-grass-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Al crecer, hubo muchas cosas que nos formaron como somos ahora. Algunas fueron buenas y otras malas.<\/p>\n<p>The bad ones made us feel unsafe and that&#8217;s the feeling we subconsciously carried into our adult life and that&#8217;s why you need to heal them.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s important to understand that we shouldn&#8217;t blame our parents or caretakers for everything because they did the best they could.<\/p>\n<p>Estas son algunas de las formas habituales en que te hicieron sentir inseguro:&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Se le neg\u00f3 el derecho a tener su opini\u00f3n<\/p>\n<p>Te castigaban cuando te comportabas de forma distinta a la esperada<\/p>\n<p>Le faltaba diversi\u00f3n y juego despreocupado o estaba agobiado por demasiadas responsabilidades para ser un ni\u00f1o<\/p>\n<p>No hab\u00eda lugar para la espontaneidad&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Fuiste privado de afecto f\u00edsico<\/p>\n<p>Se desaconsejaba mostrar emociones fuertes.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Te avergonzaron<\/p>\n<p>Le han criticado o castigado f\u00edsicamente<\/p>\n<h2>Curaci\u00f3n de heridas de vidas pasadas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99808 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-4.jpg\" alt=\"mujer de pie al aire libre durante la puesta de sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por la ley del karma, arrastramos nuestros problemas y traumas no resueltos de vidas pasadas a nuestra vida actual.<\/p>\n<p>We don&#8217;t necessarily need to know everything and anything about our past life to understand trauma and how it affects our present psyche.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 efectos tienen los traumas en nuestra psique? El trauma es una experiencia impactante y abrumadora en m\u00e1s de un sentido. Puede ser abrumadora en un sentido f\u00edsico, emocional o espiritual.<\/p>\n<p>During a traumatic moment, our psyche is unable to process what&#8217;s happening and therefore can&#8217;t go back to function the same way it did before.<\/p>\n<p>A lo largo de la vida, las consecuencias de estas experiencias pueden manifestarse en forma de fobias, paranoia, ansiedad, confusi\u00f3n, depresi\u00f3n, enfermedades, etc.<\/p>\n<p>Tambi\u00e9n explica por qu\u00e9 en determinadas situaciones reaccionamos como si huy\u00e9ramos o luch\u00e1ramos sin motivo aparente.<\/p>\n<h2>Sanaci\u00f3n del karma ancestral<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99809 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rubia sentada cerca del agua durante el d\u00eda\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se cree que nuestros antepasados se llevan al mundo de los esp\u00edritus las heridas no cicatrizadas una vez que abandonan el nuestro.<\/p>\n<p>Por suerte, el karma ancestral puede liberarse y cambiarse con un esfuerzo continuo por nuestra parte.<\/p>\n<h2>Cambiar el viejo sistema de creencias<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99810 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-boat.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con reloj sentada en barco rojo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-boat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-boat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-boat-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-boat-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-boat-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A belief system consists of accepted rules by which we determine what&#8217;s wrong or right, true or false. A belief means that we believe something exists and therefore that it is true.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>That of course doesn&#8217;t mean that what we think exists in objective reality; as long as we believe it does and accept that idea as true, it exists for us and we base the rest of our thoughts, actions and beliefs on it.<\/p>\n<p>El problema empieza cuando nuestras creencias son muy fuertes, muy err\u00f3neas o afectan a la calidad de nuestra vida.<\/p>\n<h2>Cord-cutting<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99811 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con chaqueta vaquera cerca del agua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cortar el cord\u00f3n es una pr\u00e1ctica que nos ayuda a recuperar energ\u00eda y a volver a unos l\u00edmites energ\u00e9ticos saludables.<\/p>\n<p>Every time we enter into a relationship with someone, we develop energetic cords and that&#8217;s not something bad but normal. Energetic cords help us understand other people and create genuine relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, en los casos en que las relaciones se vuelven t\u00f3xicas, es posible que queramos cortar las cuerdas y dejar marchar a las otras personas. Esta pr\u00e1ctica puede ayudarnos a dejar atr\u00e1s el pasado y a comprometernos con nosotros mismos y con nuestra propia vida.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><b>Signos de curaci\u00f3n<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere is a moment in our healing journey when our denial crumbles; we realize our experience and its continued effects on us won&#8217;t \u2018just go away\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s our breakthrough moment. It&#8217;s the sun coming out to warm the seeds of hope so they can grow our personal garden of empowerment.\u201d \u2015 Jeanne McElvaney&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Twin flame healing only occurs when both of the flames heal individually. After problems in a relationship, especially after the lesson of separation and maturation, you&#8217;ll notice signs of healing on yourself.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Se acabar\u00e1 la obsesi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99812 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-shutter-door.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rubia con chaqueta negra de pie cerca de la puerta de la persiana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-shutter-door.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-shutter-door-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-shutter-door-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-shutter-door-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-shutter-door-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Obsession with your other half will stop. You&#8217;ll simply accept the fact that you love them and you will love them forever no matter what but they have their own path and sometimes you won&#8217;t be a part of it.<\/p>\n<p>Moreover, you&#8217;ll stop feeling sad and unfulfilled. Instead, you&#8217;ll get back to the things that make you happy and in touch with yourself.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You won&#8217;t be afraid anymore<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99813 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-seashore.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con top blanco de pie en la orilla del mar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-seashore.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-seashore-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-seashore-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-seashore-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-seashore-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La lecci\u00f3n de la separaci\u00f3n desencadena importantes dosis de ansiedad en ambos miembros de la pareja, lo que provoca miedos e incapacidad para vivir la vida con normalidad.<\/p>\n<p>It pulls you away from the present moment and makes you live in imagined scenarios. However, after the healing, you&#8217;ll let go of this fear and start living your life freely.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll finally understand what self-love is<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99864 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-surrounded-with-flowers.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con los ojos cerrados rodeada de flores blancas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-surrounded-with-flowers.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-surrounded-with-flowers-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-surrounded-with-flowers-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-surrounded-with-flowers-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-surrounded-with-flowers-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll start to treat yourself with respect, you will recognize your own <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/belleza-interior-lo-que-realmente-significa\/\">belleza interior<\/a> y te percibir\u00e1s como alguien digno de amor, afecto, atenci\u00f3n y todas las cosas que realmente deseas.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll finally feel at peace with yourself and enjoy your own company.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dejar\u00e1s de sentirte vac\u00edo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99873 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-5.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con abrigo marr\u00f3n de pie al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not unusual to feel numb and empty after we experience emotional abandonment by a partner.<\/p>\n<p>Una vez que sanes y aprendas a confiar en tu yo superior y en tu conexi\u00f3n divina, tu sentido del prop\u00f3sito volver\u00e1 a ti y volver\u00e1s a sentirte t\u00fa mismo.<\/p>\n<p>You will feel that your spirit has been lifted and you&#8217;ll have the strength to carry on and keep living your life to the fullest with or without them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll stop getting triggered by the same old things<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99875 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-flowers.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con pintalabios morado de pie cerca de unas flores\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-flowers.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-flowers-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-flowers-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-flowers-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-flowers-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Las cosas que te hicieron llorar y enfurecerte en el pasado te dejar\u00e1n sin reacci\u00f3n, lo cual es la mayor se\u00f1al de que has superado tu trauma.<\/p>\n<p>The more you explore yourself and detach from your old self-image and beliefs, the more you&#8217;ll find yourself in a state of contentment and spiritual bliss.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll start practicing mindfulness daily<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99876 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con poncho marr\u00f3n mirando a la monta\u00f1a\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mindfulness es simplemente ser consciente del momento presente y hacer las cosas con atenci\u00f3n. Ayuda a reducir la ansiedad, aumenta la atenci\u00f3n y la concentraci\u00f3n y contribuye a mejorar la comunicaci\u00f3n y el sue\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p>After experiencing great amounts of mental distress on your journey and healing yourself, you&#8217;ll find yourself making a habit out of mindfulness to keep yourself content.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><b>\u00bfCu\u00e1les son las etapas de la llama gemela?<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">B\u00fasqueda de <i>el<\/i><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99878 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-grass-field.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con jersey gris de pie cerca de un campo de hierba\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-grass-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-grass-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-grass-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-grass-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-grass-field-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In this early stage, you&#8217;re searching for your twin flame. You have this internal feeling that there&#8217;s a person you&#8217;ll meet who&#8217;s going to be your perfect match.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, you don&#8217;t know when or where will they show up but deep inside yourself, you know it will happen.<\/p>\n<p>At this time, it&#8217;s common for a person to start working on something new, something that will prepare them for their twin flame in some way, such as exploring their consciousness and subconsciousness, developing self-awareness or taking up a new hobby.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Encontrar <i>el<\/i><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99880 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-on-rooftop.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer de pie en la azotea durante la puesta de sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-on-rooftop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-on-rooftop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-on-rooftop-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-on-rooftop-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-on-rooftop-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s possible that before meeting the one, you&#8217;ll notice the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/22-senales-que-muestran-que-estas-experimentando-un-amor-de-llama-gemela\/\">firma tu alma espejo<\/a> se acerca.<\/p>\n<p>For example, you may have a premonition in your dreams, you may experience telepathy or get weirdly interested in something you didn&#8217;t know about before that will lead you to them.<\/p>\n<p>The first time you meet or get in contact with each other, you&#8217;ll know that something special has happened for real.<\/p>\n<p>Puede experimentar alegr\u00eda, asombro, ansiedad y toda una serie de emociones. Te sentir\u00e1s extremadamente curioso y atra\u00eddo por esa persona a la que apenas conoces.<\/p>\n<p>This person will immediately find a way to your heart and stay there. You&#8217;ll have an underlying feeling that they will change your life completely.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Enamorarse<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99883 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con sombrero negro y mujer sonriendo al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-smiling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-smiling-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-smiling-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-smiling-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The next step on the twin flame journey is falling in love. You&#8217;ll fall and you&#8217;ll fall hard. Your twin flame mirror will make you feel like nobody else before.<\/p>\n<p>The more you get closer, the deeper your love will go. You&#8217;ll feel very different and will probably ask yourself what&#8217;s happening to you but you won&#8217;t be too concerned as long as they&#8217;re with you.<\/p>\n<p>La atracci\u00f3n entre vosotros se disparar\u00e1 y os sentir\u00e9is bendecidos por haber encontrado a alguien que os comprende tanto.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La relaci\u00f3n perfecta<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99885 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-man-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente mirando a un hombre sentado cerca de un \u00e1rbol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-man-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-man-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-man-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-man-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-man-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After the initial craziness, hopefully, you&#8217;ll start a relationship. In the beginning, everything will be fairy-tale-like.<\/p>\n<p>Sentir\u00e1s que has encontrado a tu pareja perfecta, que comprende tus necesidades y que puede darte todo lo que necesitas. Ser\u00e1 tu mejor amigo y tu amante.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll feel safe and inspired by them. You&#8217;ll probably be inspired to engage more in spirituality and learn about new things from them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Problemas en el para\u00edso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99886 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer enfadada sentada en un sof\u00e1 cerca de un hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Now, this is the problematic phase. After the initial infatuation starts to wear off, you&#8217;ll find yourself acting weirdly sensitive around them.<\/p>\n<p>Surgir\u00e1n todas vuestras diferencias y luchar\u00e9is por mantener vuestro ego bajo control.<\/p>\n<p>Apart from mirroring everything that&#8217;s good in you, your partner will mirror painful things too.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, they will probably do it by acting opposite to how you do, so you&#8217;re passive, your twin will be aggressive, if you&#8217;re quiet, your twin will be loud and so on.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Esto acabar\u00e1 creando un ambiente extremadamente irritante y uno de los dos empezar\u00e1 a pensar en romper.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is that in this stage, you&#8217;re both living in illusion and are blind to see how you can grow from your experiences. You can&#8217;t recognize the lesson even when it&#8217;s painfully obvious.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Esta etapa desencadenar\u00e1 el proceso de sanaci\u00f3n de tu llama gemela.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La din\u00e1mica del corredor y el perseguidor<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99887 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-mountain.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rubia con sudadera gris de pie cerca de la monta\u00f1a\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-mountain.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-mountain-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-mountain-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-mountain-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-mountain-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A medida que aumente la tensi\u00f3n, vuestras diferencias se har\u00e1n cada vez mayores hasta que uno de vosotros empiece a huir y el otro intente por todos los medios quedarse.<\/p>\n<p>In other words, here&#8217;s where the runner\/chaser dynamic begins.<\/p>\n<p>En esta etapa puede pasar de todo. A veces, el corredor desaparece literalmente o corta todo contacto, dejando al perseguidor sumido en la confusi\u00f3n, sin ninguna explicaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, la mayor parte depende de la madurez de ambos. A veces, esta separaci\u00f3n dura a\u00f1os y otras se resuelve en cuesti\u00f3n de d\u00edas.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">R\u00edndase<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99888 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-hugging-3.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer abrazados cerca del agua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-hugging-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-hugging-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-hugging-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-hugging-3-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-hugging-3-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de los momentos turbulentos llega la rendici\u00f3n. Despu\u00e9s de conocer tus inseguridades y tus debilidades, empiezas a abrirte al otro a un nivel m\u00e1s profundo.<\/p>\n<p>In this stage, you recognize the ego and its games and let yourself relax and don&#8217;t get offended or hurt so easily.<\/p>\n<p>Empiezas a aprender a no identificarte con tus creencias pasadas y tu dolor.<\/p>\n<p>This stage of a relationship isn&#8217;t a one-time thing. It will happen again and again as you learn and accept different parts of yourself and each other.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">El sindicato<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99889 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-holding-hands-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer cogidos de la mano durante la puesta de sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-holding-hands-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-holding-hands-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-holding-hands-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-holding-hands-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-holding-hands-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>En este, el final <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/etapas-de-llama-gemela\/\">etapa de llama gemela<\/a>, you&#8217;ll both find peace and mutual interest that will bring you a sense of joy and fulfillment.<\/p>\n<p>A medida que el ego se va debilitando, rasgos como el perd\u00f3n, la empat\u00eda y la paciencia pasan a formar parte de tu vida cotidiana y de tus relaciones.<\/p>\n<p>Ambos trabaj\u00e1is por la uni\u00f3n y la dicha.<\/p>\n<h2>To wrap up&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p>El proceso de curaci\u00f3n de la llama gemela es un camino pedregoso y cualquiera que espere un cuento de hadas se sentir\u00e1 profundamente decepcionado.<\/p>\n<p>However, it&#8217;s worth it and sooner or later, it will happen. All you need to do is have patience and love for your partner.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Las relaciones de llamas gemelas son iguales que cualquier otra relaci\u00f3n en el sentido de que requerir\u00e1n mucho sacrificio y acomodaci\u00f3n para que funcionen, pero lo que ocurre con estas relaciones es que te recordar\u00e1n constantemente el prop\u00f3sito de tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>Through your twin flame, you&#8217;ll be able to explore parts of yourself you never knew existed and they will trigger the growth you didn&#8217;t know was possible.<\/p>\n<p>As a reward for your bravery to face your fears, you\u2019ll get a deep understanding of life and the bliss that comes with it. Your fears will vanish and you\u2019ll start living your life authentically and freely.<\/p>\n<p>La autora Nikki Rowe resumi\u00f3 a la perfecci\u00f3n el viaje de las llamas gemelas con las siguientes palabras:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf you&#8217;re lucky enough you&#8217;ll come across a certain individual who will completely shake up your life. A spark so deep you feel it before meeting them, a soul preparation for a drastic change. Whether this chance meeting is fleeting or holds longevity, it&#8217;s a signpost you won&#8217;t be able to ignore and you&#8217;ll be a completely different person to whom you were before. This is magic, this is fate, this is purpose. And this is why we are alive, to experience a soul in human form and embrace the depth of life.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Twin flame healing is a challenging process where twin flames face and overcome their fears and traumas in order to become what they truly are and experience the bliss of the union.&nbsp; Why is it so talked about in the spiritual community? If you&#8217;re reading this, I suppose you no longer ask yourself whether twin&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":99778,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29615],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-99776","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-soulmate-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29615,"label":"soulmate"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Understanding-And-Mastering-Your-Twin-Flame-Healing-Process.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29615,"name":"soulmate","slug":"soulmate-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29615,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you believe in twin flames - a person you're meant to have in your life no matter what? 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