{"id":100038,"date":"2020-09-16T14:24:32","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T14:24:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=100038"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:29:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:29:31","slug":"tutte-le-donne-vogliono","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/tutte-le-donne-vogliono\/","title":{"rendered":"Tutto ci\u00f2 che le donne vogliono \u00e8 rassicurazione e comunicazione"},"content":{"rendered":"

Le donne non sono complicate, sono solo diverse dagli uomini.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mi ci \u00e8 voluto molto tempo prima di capire quale fosse la differenza tra l'approccio maschile e quello femminile, ma poi mi \u00e8 venuto in mente.<\/p>\n

Quando gli uomini parlano, parlano soprattutto di fatti. La maggior parte degli uomini si limita a comunicare informazioni ovvie, senza un forte legame emotivo.<\/p>\n

Al contrario, le donne comunicano con parole cariche di emozioni.<\/p>\n

For instance, if a man makes a comment on something he sees, like, \u201cThat dress is off-shoulder,\u201d there\u2019s a strong possibility that he thinks nothing but what he literally said.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s just making an observation.<\/p>\n

D'altro canto, una donna penser\u00e0 che lui sta cercando di implicitamente<\/em> something by saying that information because that\u2019s how they communicate.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s where the mess begins.<\/p>\n

So here\u2019s my message for men: Think before you speak. If you care for the woman you love, think about how your words will affect her.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let her worry about unimportant things when you can reassure her with one simple sentence.<\/p>\n

Spiegate il vostro punto di vista sulla situazione prima di scatenarvi per piccole cose e finire in un litigio.<\/p>\n

Tell her how you feel about things, don\u2019t just casually stir up a hornets\u2019 nest and then stay silent.<\/p>\n

Gli ingredienti pi\u00f9 importanti di una buona relazione sono la comprensione e la compassione. <\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s almost scary how quickly we lose patience and compassion with those who are closest to us.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t fall into the trap of resenting your partner before even asking what\u2019s wrong and trying to find a solution.<\/p>\n

Il risentimento \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che uccide lentamente la relazione. Siate aperti e onesti. Comunicate.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Almost every problem has a solution, even when it\u2019s hard to see it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Viviamo in una societ\u00e0 che fa di tutto per far sentire le donne insicure e mai all'altezza. <\/strong><\/p>\n

\"ritratto<\/p>\n

It\u2019s no surprise they need occasional reassurance and clear communication.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Molte donne sono troppo dure con se stesse e sentono di dover essere perfette in ogni ambito della vita.<\/p>\n

Sentono di dover essere brave nel loro lavoro, ma anche una madre perfetta, una grande amica, una grande fidanzata o moglie e, soprattutto, di dover essere sempre desiderabili.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s a lot of pressure and with that much pressure, it\u2019s sometimes hard to get your priorities straight.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why there\u2019s nothing wrong with moments when you need reassurance about the things you think about a lot and asking for it.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s great when someone compliments you and reassures you about something on their own but it\u2019s even better when they do it the moment you need it.<\/p>\n

Le relazioni sono spesso difficili perch\u00e9 richiedono molti compromessi, ma quando facciamo le cose con amore, niente \u00e8 davvero difficile.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get irritated because of your partner\u2019s need for reassurance because that\u2019s obviously what worries them daily. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Siate gentili e premurosi e cercate di capirne le ragioni.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Tutti hanno bisogno di essere rassicurati e la rassicurazione \u00e8 solo un modo per essere convalidati. <\/strong><\/p>\n

As human beings, we seek and want validation because that\u2019s our nature and there\u2019s nothing wrong with that.<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, we should work toward making ourself feel better in our own skin and that means accepting all parts of ourself, especially the ones we\u2019re insecure about.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing more freeing than making peace with yourself and, especially for a woman, finding your unique path and your inner passion that doesn\u2019t involve anyone but you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid to ask for reassurance when you need it but also don\u2019t be afraid to speak your own truth.<\/p>\n

Nessuno vi conosce meglio di voi stessi e nessuno pu\u00f2 darvi pi\u00f9 convalida di quanta ne possiate dare voi stessi accettandovi.<\/p>\n

Tu desiderare<\/em> validation but you don\u2019t need it.<\/strong> That\u2019s the difference.<\/p>\n

Be brave enough to give yourself what you want others to give you. That\u2019s the ultimate act of compassion.<\/strong><\/p>\n

To heal our own wounds means finding our own medicine. Once we have our own medicine, we\u2019re free.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Tutto<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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