{"id":10025,"date":"2017-12-11T12:09:13","date_gmt":"2017-12-11T12:09:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10025"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:46:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:46:50","slug":"lo-stato-delle-relazioni-non-definisce-la-felicita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lo-stato-delle-relazioni-non-definisce-la-felicita\/","title":{"rendered":"Lo stato della vostra relazione non definisce la vostra felicit\u00e0"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tendiamo a cercare la felicit\u00e0 nei posti sbagliati. Una relazione di coppia \u00e8 uno dei pi\u00f9 comuni. E chi pu\u00f2 biasimarci? L'amore \u00e8 la cosa migliore che ci possa accadere<\/a>. It\u2019s also one of the most powerful emotions we can experience. It can fly us over the moon and back. But it can break us and crush us so badly that we forget how to fly.<\/p>\n

Abbiamo bisogno di una felicit\u00e0 interiore che ci faccia volare anche quando l'amore ci spezza le ali.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dobbiamo solo smettere di cercare la felicit\u00e0 nei posti sbagliati. Dobbiamo smettere di cercare la felicit\u00e0 nelle persone sbagliate. Dobbiamo scoprire cosa significa felicit\u00e0 e da dove viene.<\/p>\n

Se qualcuno ce lo chiedesse, la prima cosa che diremmo \u00e8 che la felicit\u00e0 viene da dentro di noi. E sebbene questa sia la risposta corretta e l'unica verit\u00e0, non riusciamo a metterla in pratica nella realt\u00e0.<\/em><\/p>\n

Spesso mettiamo la nostra felicit\u00e0 nelle mani di altre persone, le nostre persone significative, aspettandoci che siano loro a renderci felici. Continuiamo a mettere il nostro lavoro nelle mani di qualcun altro.
\nAnd that\u2019s where it all goes wrong.<\/p>\n

In primo luogo, mettiamo molta pressione sull'altra persona. Se si sente che il suo compito \u00e8 quello di renderci felici, si crea un senso di responsabilit\u00e0 che nessuno \u00e8 pronto ad assumersi. Questo li spaventa e di solito li fa scappare a gambe levate.<\/p>\n

Secondly, your happiness is your own responsibility. Your job is to make yourself happy. Everything comes from within. And how we feel and what we feel determines our relationships. We can\u2019t expect anybody to make us happy if we don\u2019t do it for ourselves.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Il pi\u00f9 delle volte, le persone entrano in una relazione pensando di aver bisogno dell'altra met\u00e0 per essere complete. In questo modo non capiscono che sono gi\u00e0 completi da soli o almeno dovrebbero esserlo.<\/p>\n

Le relazioni non sono tutte arcobaleni e farfalle; hanno momenti difficili, sono disordinate e complicate. Diventano difficili da gestire. E se non siete a posto con ci\u00f2 che siete, ci vorr\u00e0 molto di pi\u00f9 per superare tutto questo.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, there are people who believe that the only way they feel happy is when they are with someone. So they stay in bad relationships. They suffer and they put up with all the toxicity and selfishness of their partners. They long for those brief moments of joy their significant other provides, thinking that is love, thinking that\u2019s the key to happiness, when it\u2019s far from it.<\/p>\n

\"Lo<\/p>\n

Felicit\u00e0 significa rendere felici se stessi. Concentratevi sull'amore per voi stessi e siate soddisfatti della vostra vita. Nessuno pu\u00f2 farlo per voi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Felicit\u00e0 significa scegliere se stessi e lasciando dietro di s\u00e9 tutte le persone sbagliate.<\/a> It means leaving all the toxicity, having a healthy relationship with yourself and putting yourself as a priority. It means respecting yourself enough to walk away from anything that doesn\u2019t help your growth.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean staying with the wrong people, catching glimpses of happiness. It doesn\u2019t mean having happiness as a distant memory and giving endless chances to somebody who puts you down, someone who only makes himself a priority, while you are always the one who comes last. Don\u2019t be scared of loneliness, be scared of spending your life on somebody worthless.<\/p>\n

Make yourself happy when you are all by yourself surrounded by silence and with nothing but your thoughts as company. Your thoughts create your world. Create that place inside of yourself where you feel worthy of everything, where you have nothing but love and respect for yourself. Where you are your own hero and you don\u2019t need anybody else to save you.<\/p>\n

Your relationship should add to your bliss, not take away from it. Don\u2019t you ever think otherwise. Don\u2019t confuse sacrifice and compromise. Relationships demand compromise, empathy and having someone\u2019s best interests in your hand. Sacrifice has no place in love. You should never sacrifice your hopes, dreams, and dignity for someone. That\u2019s no way to happiness, self-love or love toward another person.<\/p>\n

Quando si \u00e8 felici di ci\u00f2 che si \u00e8, si affronta pi\u00f9 facilmente il dolore. Lo si accetta come una parte inevitabile della vita. Avete una mentalit\u00e0 positiva e sapete che questo \u00e8 solo un periodo di tempo e che, per quanto lungo, deve passare. Sapete di essere pi\u00f9 forti, sapete che guarirete come avete fatto tante volte in passato. E ne uscirete vincitori, orgogliosi di voi stessi per essere riusciti a superarlo.<\/p>\n

La felicit\u00e0 arriva sempre dopo un'immensa tristezza, proprio come il sole \u00e8 pi\u00f9 luminoso dopo la peggiore tempesta.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Never think there is a person in this world who is constantly happy. That\u2019s impossible because life isn\u2019t like that. Don\u2019t believe all the fake happiness people post about on social media. Instagram photos don\u2019t show the reality, they just show a moment in time when somebody was happy (or pretended to be).<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all fictional and everybody shows what they want to be seen. All of those happy couples popping up in your Facebook news feed were maybe happy at that moment. They will never post pictures of when they fought or when things got bad. Nobody wants to look at somebody\u2019s messy reality and people sometimes don\u2019t even want to face their own.<\/p>\n

All this social media talk here is just to show that you never know the background of every post or picture, so don\u2019t believe everything you see. Not comparing yourself is also one of the right paths that lead to happiness.<\/p>\n

La vita arriva una volta sola, quindi dovremmo cercare di renderla il pi\u00f9 meravigliosa possibile finch\u00e9 dura. Per farlo, la felicit\u00e0 \u00e8 una scelta. Dobbiamo svegliarci ogni giorno e avere come obiettivo principale quello di essere felici dentro di noi. Solo quando si \u00e8 felici da soli si pu\u00f2 essere felici con qualcun altro.<\/p>\n

So, don’t think that your relationship status defines your happiness. You are the one who decides it. Your happiness is not something that will come to you\u2014it\u2019s something you have to find and work on. It\u2019s something that starts with you and only you.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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