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<\/p>\nOgni persona \u00e8 unica e ha le proprie qualit\u00e0 e i propri difetti. Tuttavia, tutti coloro che soffrono di disturbo narcisistico di personalit\u00e0 hanno alcuni elementi in comune.<\/p>\n
Each narcissist has one primary goal: To humiliate and put down his victim. After all, it\u2019s the only way they can feel better about themselves.<\/p>\n
Invalidating his victims pumps a narcissist\u2019s ego. It gives him control and incredible satisfaction.<\/p>\n
Questo \u00e8 esattamente il modo in cui lo fanno:<\/p>\n
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Tutti i narcisisti si auto-illudono, senza eccezioni. O almeno, questo \u00e8 il modo in cui vogliono essere visti dagli altri, soprattutto da coloro che vogliono invalidare.<\/p>\n
Esagerano quando si tratta dei loro risultati. Tutto ci\u00f2 che ottengono \u00e8 grande e importante.<\/p>\n
When a narcissist talks about himself, he\u2019ll always use superlative only. He\u2019ll present himself as flawless and almost perfect.<\/p>\n
At first, you\u2019ll probably admire this man\u2019s high level of self-confidence. You\u2019ll be knocked off your feet by the faith he has in himself.<\/p>\n
Tuttavia, questa \u00e8 solo una maschera. Infatti, sta facendo tutto questo solo per dimostrare a entrambi che \u00e8 migliore di voi.<\/b><\/p>\n
Senza che ve ne rendiate conto, quest'uomo \u00e8 in realt\u00e0 in competizione con voi. Sta paragonando i vostri successi e vi sta dicendo sottilmente che \u00e8 superiore a voi in tutti i campi della vita. <\/b>In altre parole, he’s trying to destroy your self-esteem<\/a>. <\/p>\n When he does this, he doesn\u2019t have to tell you directly that you\u2019re non abbastanza buono<\/a>. Invece, il suo vantarsi ti mette indirettamente in difficolt\u00e0.<\/p>\n I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve heard about the term, \u201cgaslighting\u201d. It\u2019s a common tactic almost all narcissists use in an attempt to brainwash their victims.<\/p>\n In pratica, gaslighting<\/b><\/a> isn\u2019t typical lying. Instead, it\u2019s more about twisting the truth. <\/b><\/p>\n For example, after your fight with a narcissist is over, he\u2019ll do his best to convince you that things didn\u2019t go the way you remember them.<\/p>\n Even though you know very well what you said or heard, he\u2019ll work at changing your memory and making you believe what he wants you to believe.<\/p>\n If you have never experienced something like this, you\u2019ll probably think it\u2019s utterly impossible. However, trust me, this works more often than you might think.<\/p>\n This way, your abuser places a tiny voice at the back of your mind. A voice that keeps on telling you that you\u2019re the crazy one.<\/b><\/p>\n Obviously, you can\u2019t be trusted; you misinterpret things and your brain is playing with you.<\/p>\n Questo \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 che il manipolatore vuole farvi credere. Vuole che vi fidiate di lui pi\u00f9 di quanto vi fidiate di voi stessi.<\/p>\n Consequently, you\u2019ll start thinking poorly about yourself. You\u2019ll have doubts about your judgment making skills and you\u2019ll fall into this trap.<\/p>\n When someone does nice things for you, you assume that they do it because they\u2019re kind, or you see it as proof of their love for you.<\/p>\n However, in the case of a narcissistic person, things are never what they seem. In fact, whenever a narcissist treats you well, it\u2019s all a part of his emotional bribery.<\/p>\nIlluminazione a gas<\/h2>\n
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