giocatori<\/a>. Invece, la maggior parte dei suoi ex fidanzati sembrava essere gentile all'inizio.<\/p>\nMentre vi corteggiavano, vi hanno fatto un sacco di promesse e vi siete considerati fortunati per averli trovati.<\/p>\n
Tuttavia, con il progredire di ogni relazione, le cose iniziarono lentamente a cambiare. Questi uomini gentili si sono trasformati in mostri.<\/p>\n
La cosa peggiore \u00e8 che ti hanno trattato ancora peggio nel momento in cui hai mostrato loro il tuo lato vulnerabile. Pi\u00f9 li amavi, pi\u00f9 diventavano degli idioti.<\/p>\n
Qual \u00e8 stato il problema? Il fatto \u00e8 che probabilmente avete iniziato con il piede sbagliato.<\/p>\n
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Vedete, ognuno di questi uomini \u00e8 riuscito a incantarvi cos\u00ec tanto da subito che avete dimenticato di stabilire alcune regole di base. In effetti, sembra che una volta innamorati ci si dimentichi completamente dei propri punti deboli.<\/b><\/p>\n
I get your point of view. You think that compromise is everything and you don\u2019t want to ask for too much from the man you care about.<\/p>\n
Dopo tutto, se l'amore \u00e8 reale, non c'\u00e8 assolutamente bisogno di giocare. Non avete problemi ad ammettere le vostre emozioni al vostro partner, n\u00e9 a pretendere da lui l'impossibile.<\/p>\n
Beh, purtroppo per voi, la maggior parte degli uomini vede questo comportamento come un'occasione per ferirvi. Cominciano a darvi per scontate e smettono di impegnarsi nella vostra relazione.<\/b><\/p>\n
Don\u2019t misunderstand me; I\u2019m not advising you to become hard to get. I\u2019m not telling you to suddenly become a bitch just to get your boyfriend\u2019s attention.<\/p>\n
However, don\u2019t lower your standards for him either. Don\u2019t settle for the things that shouldn\u2019t be acceptable just because you love him.<\/b><\/p>\n
Remember one thing: you\u2019re training men how to treat you.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n
Every time you put your man\u2019s needs in front of your own, without expecting him to return the favor when you are in need, you\u2019re showing him that you don\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n
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You\u2019re indirectly telling him that he is more important than you and that you\u2019re perfectly okay with your well-being coming last.<\/p>\n
Every time he insults you and you keep quiet, you\u2019re telling him that you don\u2019t mind his behavior. You\u2019re showing him that you really do believe him that you\u2019re not good enough.<\/p>\n
Every time he cancels plans without you saying anything about it, you show him that your time isn\u2019t valuable. You\u2019re actually telling him that you can put your life on hold and wait until he has the decency to see you.<\/p>\n
Every time you double or triple text him, despite him not answering your messages for hours without a valid reason, you\u2019re telling him that he has your undivided attention, no matter what.<\/p>\n
You\u2019re showing him that he doesn\u2019t have to lift a finger to win it and that he doesn\u2019t have to fight for your love. You\u2019re indirectly saying that you\u2019re not going anywhere, despite his treatment.<\/p>\n
Every time you catch him flirting with other girls but stay by his side, you\u2019re showing him that you wouldn\u2019t have a problem sharing him with someone else. You\u2019re telling him that you would even accept his infidelity.<\/p>\n
The list can go on forever but I\u2019m sure you see where I\u2019m going. It\u2019s up to you how you will set rules in your relationship and your partner will just follow your example.<\/p>\n
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Whenever you accept this man\u2019s lack of respect, you\u2019re showing him that you don\u2019t respect yourself either.<\/b><\/p>\n
Whenever you settle for crumbs of his love and attention, you\u2019re telling him that even you think you don\u2019t deserve more.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n
Whenever you complain about him not treating you right but don\u2019t actually do anything about it, you\u2019re applauding him for his behavior.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n
Ogni volta che gli si d\u00e0 un seconda possibilit\u00e0<\/a> for something he shouldn\u2019t have done, you\u2019re showing him that your capacity to forgive is endless.<\/p>\nWhenever you tolerate your boyfriend\u2019s misbehavior, you\u2019re giving him the green light to keep up the good work.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n
You\u2019re telling him that everything he does is perfectly acceptable and that you don\u2019t have a problem with his actions. <\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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