{"id":100890,"date":"2020-09-24T12:13:07","date_gmt":"2020-09-24T12:13:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=100890"},"modified":"2022-11-26T11:02:52","modified_gmt":"2022-11-26T11:02:52","slug":"segni-evidenti-di-una-fidanzata-traditrice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-evidenti-di-una-fidanzata-traditrice\/","title":{"rendered":"28 segni evidenti di una fidanzata traditrice e i modi migliori per gestirli"},"content":{"rendered":"

Alla ricerca di segni di un fidanzata traditrice<\/a>? I’m sorry it has come to this, but if your partner is indeed a cheater, you deserve to know!<\/p>\n

Lately, you’ve noticed her taking phone calls at weird hours, a sudden change in her busy schedule, unknown guys commenting on her social media posts, and her buying new clothes.<\/p>\n

She’s been spending less time with you and more time with new friends. And now, you’re worried that there are even more warning signs that you’ve been oblivious to.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That’s where I come in<\/strong>. As a self-proclaimed relationship expert, I’m thoroughly familiar with all the subtle signs that some might miss.<\/p>\n

I just need to warn you of a few things. Don’t let this control your life and don\u2019t get too tangled up in her lies and deceit. I am going to help you figure out the next course of action.<\/p>\n

However, you need to be smart about this. Things could turn sour really quickly if you don’t play it smart. Pay attention and follow my lead.<\/p>\n

I’m going to present to you the telltale signs your girlfriend is cheating, help you cope with it, and list things to AVOID doing. So bear with me.<\/em><\/p>\n

Bandiere rosse che dimostrano che la vostra ragazza vi \u00e8 infedele<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Continua a fare cose senza coinvolgerti nei suoi piani.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Negli ultimi tempi eravate inseparabili. Se c'era un piano, entrambi ne facevate parte e non c'era bisogno di dirlo.<\/p>\n

But in the past few weeks, or even months, she’s been making various plans with one notable difference; she’s stopped including you.<\/p>\n

It’s either little road trips with friends, nights out with co-workers or a family night with her siblings. And even though you always used to be her plus one, lately, there’s no room for you.<\/p>\n

If you’re being honest, it has started to really gnaw at you. What the hell is going on all of a sudden?<\/p>\n

Ha iniziato a cancellare la cronologia del browser ogni giorno.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

This is something she never used to care about. She’d Google the most random stuff and just leave it there knowing you’d probably tease her (which she secretly loved).<\/p>\n

Ma ora, nel momento in cui si alza dal portatile, sapete che la cronologia delle ricerche sar\u00e0 vuota.<\/p>\n

Sure, people do this and it’s not that weird but for someone who never gave a damn about this a few weeks ago, it sure seems suspicious.<\/p>\n

You don’t want to seem paranoid but you know her too well to think it was for no reason.<\/p>\n

Passa la maggior parte del tempo incollata al telefono a mandare messaggi a qualcuno.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I messaggi di testo sono sempre stati il suo modo preferito di comunicare, ma il fatto \u00e8 che tu sei stato il destinatario per tanto tempo.<\/p>\n

But now, even when she’s with you, she is glued to her phone and kind of secretive about who she’s texting. If it was a friend, wouldn’t she just tell you because it’s honestly no big deal?<\/p>\n

This is easily a good sign that she’s hiding something. When you’re constantly on your phone but unwilling to tell your partner who you’re texting, there’s definitely something fishy going on there.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Come scusarsi per il tradimento: 10 modi per farsi perdonare dal partner<\/p>\n

Evita di parlare del vostro futuro comune (grande segnale di allarme!)<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Prima avevate tanti progetti ed eravate entrambi entusiasti. Ma ora, ogni volta che accenni a uno di questi progetti, lei cambia argomento.<\/p>\n

It’s like she feels uncomfortable discussing it but you can’t figure out why. Could she be having second thoughts?<\/p>\n

Tra tutti i segnali di una fidanzata traditrice, evitare argomenti riguardanti il vostro futuro comune sembra proprio qualcosa di cui preoccuparsi.<\/p>\n

Ha intrapreso un nuovo hobby per il quale non si lascia mai accompagnare da voi.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

And frankly, you’re really suspicious. Why would she keep refusing to let you give her a ride, not to mention keep her company there?<\/p>\n

\u00c8 davvero appassionata di equitazione o la sta usando come copertura per le sue attivit\u00e0 di tradimento?<\/p>\n

Cambia rapidamente argomento quando si parla di una persona in particolare.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

There’s this guy you’ve always had your doubts about. Maybe this is an old friend who clearly has a thing for her or a co-worker she seems too cozy with.<\/p>\n

For whatever reason, you’ve always felt a weird vibe around him and now, whenever you mention this guy’s name, she blushes.<\/p>\n

No matter how hard she tries not to, it’s all over her face. She feels deeply uncomfortable discussing him, and what reason could she possibly have for that?<\/p>\n

Raramente ha tempo per uscire, ma le sue scuse non sono esattamente convincenti.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It’s okay if you don’t always have time to hang out but at least give a good excuse, right? Well, not according to her.<\/p>\n

She has stopped caring about being convincing. She just blurts something out half-heartedly or says she’s too busy and that’s it.<\/p>\n

You can see her apathy from miles away, but you keep convincing yourself that it’s all in your head (knowing very well that it’s a lie).<\/p>\n

Improvvisamente vuole sempre sapere dove sei e ogni tua mossa.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ci sono ovviamente molti segnali di una fidanzata traditrice, ma il voler sapere dove vi trovate esattamente rimane nella top ten.<\/p>\n

You’re not a paranoid person but it totally makes sense that she’d want to know this so as not to get caught with her new partner.<\/p>\n

You can’t even believe that you’re even saying it, but what’s the point in deluding yourself anymore?<\/p>\n

D\u00e0 la colpa di ogni singolo problema al suo lavoro<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Whatever fight you have or whatever complaint you have about her, it’s all work. It’s either the reason for her strange behavior or it’s what’s been keeping her on edge.<\/p>\n

However, that’s just too convenient. We could all easily be blaming stuff on our hectic schedules but at some point, that just becomes absurd.<\/p>\n

She clearly doesn’t even know what the hell she’s doing and she’s desperately grasping at straws, hoping you’d go for the BS. But you know better than that.<\/p>\n

She frequently has to leave abruptly, citing a \u2018friend emergency\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

It’s kind of like those scenes in the movies when an on-call doctor gets paged for an ER emergency. Only she’s not a doctor and there is obviously no emergency.<\/p>\n

Solo un'amica che asseconda la sua menzogna, aiutandola a non passare del tempo con te.<\/p>\n

Once, you may have even believed her but does she honestly expect you to believe that her bestie keeps having meltdowns every other day? Yeah, I didn\u2019t think so.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 15 cose che dovreste mettere nella vostra lista dei bisogni relazionali<\/p>\n

Ha iniziato a vestirsi in modo diverso, completamente all'improvviso.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Not that she didn’t care about how she looked before, but now, it’s a whole new her. She’s been buying clothes that she normally doesn’t wear and splurging more than usual.<\/p>\n

The worst thing is, she doesn’t even think that you notice these things, but how could you not? You know her better than anyone.<\/p>\n

And naturally, you’d be the first to notice all these sure signs of something being off about her.
\nPer quanto tempo continuer\u00e0 a farlo e a che punto dovreste fare qualcosa?<\/p>\n

Ogni singola cosa che fai ha iniziato a infastidirla.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 uno dei segnali pi\u00f9 dolorosi di una fidanzata traditrice. Ogni singola cosa che fate ha iniziato a darle fastidio.<\/p>\n

Il modo in cui masticate, come vi sedete, la vostra vicinanza e le vostre stranezze che lei trovava adorabili.
\nNow, she’s always snapping at you about the littlest things.<\/p>\n

And you have to be honest with yourself. These things don’t just happen for no reason. Something has to be causing them.<\/p>\n

She doesn’t want to introduce you to her new friends<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

She has this new crew that she’s always going on about, but so far, not even a mention of meeting them. What gives?<\/p>\n

Could it be because she has another guy and she plans on getting rid of you? Or maybe, she just hasn’t gotten round to it yet?<\/p>\n

It would be awesome if it was the latter, but something tells you that it’s the former.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 sempre distratta e raramente ha un contatto visivo.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Your previously extremely attentive girlfriend has become so distracted. You’ll ask her something, and she’ll just blurt out yes, even though it wasn’t a yes or no question.<\/p>\n

She rarely offers eye contact and she never really seems to know where her head is at. It feels like she’s juggling a little too much and it’s really starting to affect her behavior.<\/p>\n

You’ve found new sultry lingerie that she’s never worn for you<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

All'inizio, la cosa ti stuzzicava molto. Hai trovato la lingerie e hai creduto che la conservasse per un'occasione speciale, cos\u00ec hai aspettato pazientemente.<\/p>\n

But weeks have gone by, and she still hasn’t worn them for you. I mean, what’s the point of buying lingerie that you won’t wear?<\/p>\n

Unless she is wearing it\u2026 only not for you. You’re not really sure whether you should be heartbroken or mad or confront her about it.<\/p>\n

She doesn’t care about being physical with you anymore<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Le piaceva un bel po' di sesso bollente sotto le lenzuola. Eravate cos\u00ec in sintonia e raramente passavate pi\u00f9 di qualche giorno senza farlo.<\/p>\n

But now, she’s never in the mood. It’s like those clich\u00e9s in movies. She’s either got a headache, she has to get up early or she has extra work to catch up on.<\/p>\n

Dove sono finiti i suoi bisogni? Li sta soddisfacendo altrove? Volete almeno saperlo?<\/em><\/p>\n

Si mette eccessivamente sulla difensiva ogni volta che le si fa una domanda.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Le ragazze che tradiscono imparano a mettersi sulla difensiva, tanto che anche la domanda pi\u00f9 semplice sembra un attacco. Fate attenzione a questo.<\/p>\n

Let’s say you ask her what she was thinking of doing after work. An innocent question, right? To her (if she’s cheating<\/a>), it feels like an interrogation into her whereabouts and she’s not having it.<\/p>\n

That’s how you know that something’s going on. A girl with nothing to hide would simply say: Non molto, ma dopo si vuole prendere un caff\u00e8<\/em>? Ma una ragazza che tradisce ha un sistema di difesa attivo.<\/p>\n

See also: 10 Things To Do If You’re Feeling Disrespected In A Relationship<\/p>\n

Vuole rimandare la vostra tanto attesa fuga romantica<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You’ve been looking forward to this for months! FINALLY, a whole week of just you and her spending quality time together away from the world but suddenly, she can’t go and she doesn’t even seem broken up about it.<\/p>\n

Sai che se lei davvero<\/em> wanted to go, she’d make it work but she wants to postpone it, despite it taking you months to get it all arranged. Why would she do that unless there was someone else?<\/p>\n

Le sue migliori amiche si comportano in modo strano con voi<\/h2>\n

\"quattro<\/p>\n

You can tell a lot about this situation by simply observing her best friends. They likely know everything, so if they’re being weird, cold, or distant around you, something’s up.<\/p>\n

Soprattutto se andate d'accordo. Vogliono solo mantenere le distanze, perch\u00e9, sapendo quello che sanno, \u00e8 strano stare vicino a voi.<\/p>\n

Ha iniziato a trascorrere molto tempo in palestra.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

She never used to care about going to the gym but now, it’s her sanctuary. You’ve been together so long (you may even have survived a long-distance relationship) that you don’t care about her looking perfect.<\/p>\n

Sa che la amate a prescindere dall'aspetto del suo corpo, quindi perch\u00e9 dovrebbe essere cos\u00ec determinata ad apparire al meglio dopo essersene fregata per cos\u00ec tanto tempo?<\/p>\n

Sure, girls like to look good and feel healthy, but it seems like there’s a reason behind this transformation that she’s just not sharing.<\/p>\n

She keeps saying, “I,” instead of, “We”<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Every single, “We,” has now magically turned into, “I”… and it’s probably the most heartbreaking thing to hear.<\/p>\n

Non vi porta pi\u00f9 a visitare la sua famiglia.<\/h2>\n

\"madre<\/p>\n

Andavi sempre a trovare i suoi genitori! Era sempre una fuga incantevole e deliziosa e tu avevi la migliore
\ntempo. Ti preoccupi davvero dei suoi cari, ma anche questo si \u00e8 fermato.<\/p>\n

She goes to visit them by herself so as not to \u2018”inconvenience you\u2019 but” she knows all too well that it’s no bother at all.<\/p>\n

Now, you feel like a burden and that everyone knows what’s up but you.
\nProbabilmente va l\u00ec e discute della situazione, facendovi sentire ancora peggio di quanto gi\u00e0 non vi sentiate.<\/p>\n

23. Tutti i suoi gadget sono bloccati<\/p>\n

You’re not sure if she ever locked her phone and gadgets before but she sure is doing it now. It’s like deleting her browser history isn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n

She is making sure to not get caught and she’s covering all fronts.<\/p>\n

When she’s upset, she doesn’t turn to you to console her (like she always used to do)<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

When she’s upset or sad, you were her shoulder to cry on. You always know what to say and you always manage to make her laugh.<\/p>\n

That was one of your favorite things about your relationship but ever since you got the impression that she is a cheater, you’ve stopped being her go-to person.<\/p>\n

O non ha pi\u00f9 giornate storte (altamente improbabile) o c'\u00e8 qualcuno di nuovo che la sorregge nei momenti peggiori.<\/p>\n

Il vostro istinto vi dice che lei vuole rompere<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

You know your gut has never failed you before. Whenever you get a feeling about something, it turns out to be right. And no matter how much you want to ignore it, you can’t.<\/p>\n

You have to believe that your gut feeling knows what’s up. It’s heartbreaking to think your girl is fooling around, but you have to be real.<\/p>\n

Isn’t it better to face the music and give yourself a chance for something real? The sooner you do it, the sooner the pain will stop.<\/p>\n

Combatte per il gusto di combattere<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Lei \u00e8 sempre pronta ad attaccare briga. Questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che fanno i partner traditori per rendere voi<\/em> rompere con loro<\/em>. Intelligente, eh? In questo modo, hanno la via d'uscita pi\u00f9 facile.<\/p>\n

However, my advice is, don’t fall for it. Don’t give her the satisfaction of ending it for her. If she really wants to break up, she might as well do it the right way.<\/p>\n

You deserve to hear the whole truth; after all, you’re the one hurting here. The least she can do is be honest and apologize for things.<\/p>\n

Nothing can change what she did, but it’s going to help you heal after hearing her it from the horse’s mouth.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Il ciclo delle relazioni push-pull e come superare questa dinamica<\/p>\n

She doesn’t laugh at your corny jokes anymore<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

You know you’re no Dave Chappelle, but you do have your own special comedic charm. And your girlfriend was your biggest fan before.<\/p>\n

So what if your comedic timing wasn’t the best? That’s what made you so funny. At least that’s what she always thought, fino a poco tempo fa<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Now, you can’t get a glimpse of a smile from her, not even when you genuinely try to make her laugh; she barely forces herself to react.<\/p>\n

And if you can’t laugh together anymore, what do you really have?<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 stato la tua cosa<\/em> and now, you’re afraid that there’s someone else making her laugh.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 diventata fredda, distante e disinteressata alla vostra relazione.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Ultimately, her entire demeanor has become cold and distant. She’s no longer invested. She simply goes with the flow.<\/p>\n

It’s like she’s there but her passion and adoration are long gone. The thing that made your relationship so special has withered.<\/p>\n

She is now someone you merely spend time with but things have changed significantly. Now, it seems like she’d rather be ovunque<\/em> ma qui.<\/p>\n

Cosa fare in futuro?<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Permettete a voi stessi di sentire ci\u00f2 che state provando in questo momento<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

First and foremost, feel your feelings. Don’t pretend to be above it all. If you feel like crying, cry. If you feel like shouting, shout.<\/p>\n

But whatever you do, don’t keep your feelings bottled up. Believe me, eventually, you’re going to explode and the worst thing for you is pretending that you’re okay.<\/p>\n

Learning that your significant other is a cheater is a big blow. A few months back, you were planning on moving in together, and now, you’re figuring out why you’re no longer enough.<\/p>\n

Si dia il tempo di percepire tutto questo prima di decidere di attaccarla. Il tempo \u00e8 dalla sua parte.<\/p>\n

Astenersi dal prendere decisioni importanti quando ci si trova in un luogo cos\u00ec vulnerabile.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

One of the worst things people in pain can do is make life-changing decisions. Think about it. Right now, you’re at an all-time low.<\/p>\n

You’re clearly not in the right frame of mind to be making qualsiasi<\/em> Le decisioni e qualsiasi cosa facciate mentre soffrite vi si ritorcer\u00e0 contro. Perci\u00f2, datevi una calmata.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you want to break up, throw her stuff out the window or talk shit about her, don’t. I promise you’ll regret it.<\/p>\n

Wait it out until you’re sure that you can live with that decision and be okay with it in the long run.<\/p>\n

Don’t even think about blaming yourself<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

It’s not your fault. If you were struggling or having any issues, the only right thing to do was talk about it. Cheating is never the way.<\/p>\n

So if she tries to blame you for being the cheating partner, nip it in the bud. You are both adults and you should’ve had the tough conversation if she wanted to break up.<\/p>\n

Ma dal momento che ha deciso di seguire la strada del tradimento, la colpa \u00e8 tutta sua.
\nNobody forced her to sleep with someone else so don’t you dare blame yourself for her lousy actions.<\/p>\n

Considerate tutte le opzioni prima di affrontarla<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Vuoi rompere<\/em>? Vuoi parlarne<\/em>? Avete bisogno di tempo per capire tutto<\/em>? Assicuratevi di saperlo prima di affrontarla.<\/p>\n

La cosa migliore da fare \u00e8 capire dove volete arrivare prima che lei abbia la possibilit\u00e0 di riempirvi la testa di sciocchezze.<\/p>\n

Prepare yourself mentally before the conversation, so you find it easier to stay true to what you really need. Don’t let her sway you.<\/p>\n

Circondatevi di buoni amici che possano aiutarvi a dare un senso a questa situazione.<\/h2>\n

\"tre<\/p>\n

Sapete qual \u00e8 la migliore medicina per un cuore spezzato? Una buona cerchia di amici intimi.<\/p>\n

After all, they are the ones who’ll be there when your partner leaves. They are the ones who’ll pick up the pieces and make you breakfast when you don’t want to get up in the morning.<\/p>\n

Those people will be the ones helping you find a way out of this mess. Remember, they want only the best for you. So be sure to listen to their advice. They know what they’re talking about.<\/p>\n

Si veda anche: Una relazione disfunzionale: Cos'\u00e8 e come riconoscerne i segni<\/p>\n

Parlate con la vostra fidanzata traditrice e vedete cosa ha da dire<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Once you’ve done some soul-searching, talked to your best friends, and got your bearings, you may proceed to talk to your partner.<\/p>\n

First, let her know how this whole thing has made you feel. Do not let her lead the conversation. She is the one in the wrong and she should be happy that you’re willing to have a calm discussion.<\/p>\n

Ask her whatever you want to know and don’t let her leave out any details. You deserve to know how much of a fool she has made out of you.<\/p>\n

Only after the conversation should you start making a final decision regarding your relationship. Find out all the facts and do what’s best for voi<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Rivolgersi al proprio medico e sottoporsi a un controllo per le IST<\/h2>\n

Si tratta di un passo sfortunato, ma \u00e8 davvero necessario fare il test. Non importa quello che dice (era solo un ragazzo e lei giura che indossava le protezioni.<\/em>), non si pu\u00f2 mai scherzare con la salute.<\/p>\n

Go do what you need to do and be sure that you haven’t contracted any diseases.<\/p>\n

Trust me, it’ll give you a peace of mind knowing at least one honest thing came out of her mouth about her cheating escapades.<\/p>\n

Non permettete mai che questo cambi la percezione che avete di voi stessi.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Questo non si riflette in alcun modo su di voi. Il modo in cui gli altri scelgono di comportarsi dipende da loro e da nessun altro. Ripetetelo a voi stessi.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t mean that you’re not enough. Her cheating on you doesn’t make you any less of a man. And it definitely doesn’t mean that some other girl won’t cherish you.<\/p>\n

L'unica persona su cui questo si riflette negativamente \u00e8 la tua ragazza e qualsiasi cosa lei cerchi di dirti, ricordalo sempre.<\/p>\n

Lasciare l'altra persona se non \u00e8 sincera<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

If your cheater of a girlfriend doesn’t seem extremely apologetic and with really good reasoning (not that there is any), just leave.<\/p>\n

Tornare con un traditore \u00e8 raramente la mossa giusta.<\/p>\n

Ci sono casi specifici in cui potreste prenderlo in considerazione (si \u00e8 trattato di una sola volta, era pi\u00f9 che ubriaca ed \u00e8 sventrato<\/em> about what she did) but if it happened on a regular basis and she is only sorry because she got caught, I’m sorry but what are you still doing with her?<\/p>\n

I know that love can really mess with your head but don’t let it blind you to the point of letting her treat you unfairly twice.<\/p>\n

Smettere di permettere a chiunque di trattarvi male (che sia lei o un nuovo partner)<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

After deciding what your next move is, turn over a new leaf and let this be the start of something better. If you’ve decided to stay with her, I hope that you thought it through.<\/p>\n

No matter what, from now on, don’t let anyone treat you badly. No more shady stuff, lousy excuses or secretive behavior.<\/p>\n

It’s all cards on the table or you’re out.<\/p>\n

Once, it was a mistake but the second time, it is a choice. Complete transparency is the only way to go from here, and it’s non negoziabile<\/em>.<\/p>\n

10 cose da evitare dopo il tradimento del partner<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t publicly trash-talk your cheating partner<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Even though these signs of a cheating girlfriend can be overwhelming, you should under no circumstances stoop to her level. You’re better than that.<\/p>\n

Comprendete che parlare male di lei pubblicamente o sui social media non far\u00e0 altro che dipingervi come il cattivo e aiutarla a guadagnare simpatia.<\/p>\n

My mom always told me to keep all issues between our four walls and when you feel like shouting it from the rooftops the most, that’s precisely when you should remain quiet.<\/p>\n

Within a few weeks, once this initial fury and frustration withers, you’ll be extremely thankful you were able to keep it private.<\/p>\n

Don’t allow yourself to fall into a downward spiral<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Okay, so right now, after having confirmed that your girlfriend has betrayed you and trying to figure out where to place your anger, you’re probably at your wit’s end.<\/p>\n

That’s totally expected. How else could a person feel upon finding out that their life partner is fooling around? But here’s the thing…<\/p>\n

Permettete a voi stessi di sentire tutto questo, ma nel momento in cui iniziate a percepire che le cose stanno andando fuori controllo, chiamate il vostro migliore amico. Andate a trovare i vostri genitori. Portate a spasso il vostro cane (se ne avete uno).<\/p>\n

These things will help you regain your perspective and prevent you from being a victim of your own emotions. Find your safe haven and don’t let yourself fall too deep.<\/p>\n

If you have children, don’t get them involved in your mess<\/h2>\n

\"padre<\/p>\n

Your kids (provided you have any) are innocent in all of this. Don’t make them feel your mutual anger and don\u2019t make them pick sides.<\/p>\n

Children are sacred and they should never sense a father’s wrath toward their mother or vice versa. When it comes to them, be sure to never yell or scream at each other when they’re near.<\/p>\n

One day, they’ll remember it all and have really ugly memories of their parents being at each other’s throats.<\/p>\n

Don’t taint their memories. Keep it civil and let them know that they are not to blame for anything. Let them feel your love now more than ever.<\/p>\n

Don’t negate what happened and just hope things will magically be okay<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

La negazione \u00e8 il vostro nemico. Quello che \u00e8 successo tra voi due era molto reale e non ha senso negarlo. Tutte quelle ore piccole e quegli strani comportamenti avevano un motivo.<\/p>\n

According to renowned psychologist Dr. Paul Coleman, PsyD, \u201cSomeone who must \u2018work late\u2019 all of a sudden at times that go beyond a reasonable explanation may be cheating.”<\/p>\n

So don’t do yourself a disservice and deny the obvious. Things are kind of messed up right now but they will pick up eventually. Just be honest with yourself.<\/p>\n

Don’t overplay the victim card<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

This might sound rather harsh but it’s for your own good.<\/p>\n

If you acquire a victim mentality, it’s going to be hard to snap out of it so instead, pick yourself up, brush it all off and keep your head high. Your girlfriend is the one who did something bad, not you.<\/p>\n

Don’t let her make you feel overly victimized, as she’s not worthy of such a substantial effect on you. You know that you’ll get over this.<\/p>\n

It won’t happen overnight, but one morning, you’ll wake up and realize that you’re finally starting to be okay. And that is going to feel priceless.<\/p>\n

Don’t let anyone but you decide your next course of action<\/h2>\n

Nobody but you gets to tell you how you’re going to move forward. Whether you break up, decide to forgive her, or take some time to think it through, it’s all up to you.<\/p>\n

This is your relationship and your life. Don’t let anyone affect your decision because you’re the one who’s going to have to live with it.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Riconoscere e rompere lo schema dell'inseguitore e del distanziatore in una relazione<\/p>\n

Don’t refuse to see a therapist right off the bat<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Seeing a clinical psychologist or anyone with a Ph.D. in mental health might prove to be the best decision you’ve ever made for yourself. They can help you resolve your issues in the healthiest ways.<\/p>\n

Per qualsiasi problema, fidatevi, sono attrezzati per gestirlo. Ne ho visitato uno qualche anno fa e mi ha aiutato a rimettermi in piedi.<\/p>\n

There is no shame in deciding to help yourself and whoever makes you feel that way doesn’t have your best interests at heart.<\/p>\n

Don’t forget about the importance of taking care of yourself<\/h2>\n

\"gruppo<\/p>\n

While you’re hurting, don’t forget that you deserve some tender love and care. You deserve to feel loved and appreciated so don\u2019t deny yourself an opportunity to do something that can help your well-being.<\/p>\n

Surround yourself with close friends and don’t do anything that drags you down.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 il vostro momento di brillare. Lasciate che questa esperienza vi trasformi nella persona che volete essere.
\nI’m fairly certain that you are craving some much-deserved love and warmth.<\/p>\n

Don’t rush things, not everyone heals the same way<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Non tutti reagiscono allo stesso modo a questi segnali di una fidanzata traditrice. Alcuni potrebbero perdere la testa, altri potrebbero diventare insensibili e altri ancora impiegheranno mesi per venirne a capo.<\/p>\n

But guess what? There’s no time limit on how long it takes to get over heartbreak. However long it takes, that’s how it should be.<\/p>\n

Take your time and don’t worry about what anyone might think. You deserve to feel like yourself again, no matter when that is.<\/p>\n

Le persone sono tutte molto diverse e sarebbe molto insolito se tutti guarissero allo stesso modo e allo stesso ritmo.<\/p>\n

Don’t be too hard on yourself, your partner’s actions don’t define you<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Lastly, take it easy on yourself. Don’t be too harsh on yourself because there truly wasn’t anything you could’ve done differently.<\/p>\n

Those who want to cheat will do so regardless of how attentive or caring you are. Please understand that her behavior doesn’t define you in any way.<\/p>\n

She made a conscious decision to play with your heart and that’s entirely on her. Don’t take part in her blame because it doesn’t belong to you.<\/p>\n

Tutto ci\u00f2 che potete fare \u00e8 continuare a essere voi stessi e trattare gli altri con gentilezza e rispetto. Credo fermamente che il karma si prender\u00e0 cura del resto.<\/p>\n

In conclusione<\/h2>\n

If you’ve realized that these signs of a cheating girlfriend hit too close to home, it’s time for a really difficult decision.<\/p>\n

Your next steps depend on your partner’s (lack of) apology, her reasoning and your gut feeling. Is this person worth a second chance or has she crossed the line?<\/p>\n

Spero sinceramente che la mia approfondita ricerca sull'argomento abbia reso un po' pi\u00f9 facile questa straziante decisione. Ricordate solo che nessuno<\/em> pu\u00f2 farlo, tranne che per voi.<\/p>\n

Reevaluate your situation and see where your heart is, but don’t let yourself fall for the same tricks again. Let this experience be your guiding light from now on.<\/p>\n

L'ultima cosa che volete \u00e8 essere ingannati ancora una volta. Vi meritate una relazione a lungo termine e impegnata con qualcuno che vi rispetta troppo per potervi prendere in giro.<\/p>\n

Quindi chiedetevi questo: After everything you’ve been through, can your girlfriend really give you that?<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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