{"id":101039,"date":"2020-09-29T19:44:32","date_gmt":"2020-09-29T19:44:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=101039"},"modified":"2022-03-07T16:08:53","modified_gmt":"2022-03-07T16:08:53","slug":"uscire-con-un-medico-o-uno-studente-di-medicina","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/uscire-con-un-medico-o-uno-studente-di-medicina\/","title":{"rendered":"26 I pi\u00f9 grandi pro e contro dell'uscire con un medico (o uno studente di medicina)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Uscire con un medico o uno studente di medicina pu\u00f2 essere una vera sfida.<\/p>\n

They have very little free time for date nights, and if Grey’s Anatomy has taught us anything, it’s that work-life balance can be abbastanza <\/em>disordinato.<\/em><\/p>\n

If you’re planning to enter into a romantic relationship with someone in the medical field, I highly suggest that you keep reading.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In this article, I reveal what dating doctors and med students is really like, and whether there’s hope to make the relationship work.<\/p>\n

Ultimately, you’re going to be the judge if the relationship is ne vale la pena<\/a> or not. Just know that dating a doctor has its perks as well \u2013 it’s not all night shifts, long hours, and life-or-death situations.<\/p>\n

Di seguito, discuto i pro e i contro dell'avere un'altra persona in campo medico. Scoprite se avete le carte in regola per far funzionare le cose!<\/em><\/p>\n

Quali sono i vantaggi di uscire con un medico?<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

First, let’s start with the good stuff. As I said, it’s not all long shifts, med school and not having enough time for you.<\/p>\n

L\u00ec sono<\/em> alcuni grandi vantaggi nell'uscire con un medico! Scopriteli.<\/p>\n

Avete a disposizione il vostro medico di guardia personale<\/h2>\n

\"ritratto<\/p>\n

Vi siete fatti male alla mano? Avete calpestato qualcosa di molto appuntito? Avete mangiato qualcosa che vi ha dato fastidio allo stomaco? Nessun problema. Il vostro medico \u00e8 qui!<\/p>\n

How cool is that? You don’t have to run to the E.R. for every single thing as your partner will be able to help you in an instant.<\/p>\n

You basically have your own personal on-call physician. There’s a reason there aren’t many single doctors out there.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re probably a davvero<\/em> buon ascoltatore (un grande vantaggio nelle relazioni!)<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

One of the major perks of doctors\u2019 jobs is the fact that they are most probably great listeners.<\/p>\n

They hear about people’s issues for a living, for crying out loud.<\/p>\n

You won’t have to deal with someone who can’t listen \u2013 quite the contrary. Isn’t that one of the biggest relationship deal-breakers anyway?<\/p>\n

La vostra tolleranza per le cose disgustose sale improvvisamente alle stelle<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Un tempo svenivo alla vista del sangue. Ma da quando ho fatto amicizia con alcuni medici, la mia tolleranza \u00e8 davvero migliorata.<\/p>\n

You’ll be surprised at all the stuff that used to gross you out that now you’re totally fine with. Funny how being with a doctor can change you.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 20 cose da tenere a mente quando si esce con un ragazzo timido<\/a><\/p>\n

It\u2019s in your partner’s nature to take care of you (yes, please)<\/h2>\n

\"Fidanzato<\/p>\n

L'intera natura del loro lavoro consiste nel prendersi cura delle persone. Potete quindi immaginare quanto sia importante per voi.<\/p>\n

Regardless of whether you’re dating a female doctor or male.<\/p>\n

La maggior parte delle ragazze ha in borsa trucchi e cose carine, mentre i medici hanno tutto ci\u00f2 che pu\u00f2 servire in caso di emergenza.<\/p>\n

Taking care of people is their job. And if you’re in una relazione a lungo termine<\/a>Probabilmente sapete gi\u00e0 quanto possano essere utili i medici per gli appuntamenti.<\/p>\n

D\u00e0 un senso di crescita personale e di altruismo.<\/h2>\n

\"Immagine<\/p>\n

Stare con una persona che fa un lavoro cos\u00ec altruista per vivere vi influenzer\u00e0 sicuramente in modo positivo.<\/p>\n

Vedere ci\u00f2 che il vostro partner affronta regolarmente vi umilier\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Questo permetter\u00e0 sicuramente una crescita personale che, a sua volta, migliorer\u00e0 l'intera relazione.<\/p>\n

Si impara molto sulla medicina<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Be prepared to understand what medical shows are talking about. To me, it’s all alien language. But to you, it all starts making sense.<\/p>\n

And I’m guessing it feels pretty fantastic knowing what all those weird medical terms actually mean and if they’re being used appropriately in the shows.<\/p>\n

You don’t need WebMD anymore because you have an IRL version<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Dite addio a WebMD e date il benvenuto alla vostra versione reale.<\/p>\n

Who needs to Google random symptoms anymore when you’ve got the real deal?<\/p>\n

And most probably, you’ll be reassured that you’re solo<\/em> bene (e di fatto crederci e stare tranquilli).<\/p>\n

Le serate spontanee quando hanno un giorno libero a caso vanno benissimo.<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Doctors have the weirdest hours, which makes it rather challenging to organize date nights. But when you DO manage to make it work, it’s the absolute best.<\/p>\n

Il vostro partner ha un mercoled\u00ec libero a caso e nel momento in cui ve lo comunica, pianificate la giornata (e la serata) perfetta.<\/p>\n

And to me, those spontaneous date nights are truly the most priceless ones because they’re so rare and so, so special.<\/p>\n

Il vostro partner ha una grande prospettiva, che si ripercuote su di voi.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Doctors have a good head on their shoulders, which means they don’t easily get annoyed.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 davvero necessario per le relazioni sentimentali, soprattutto se l'altro partner pu\u00f2 agitarsi rapidamente.<\/p>\n

This way, you have someone to calm you down and rationally explain that things aren’t that bad.<\/p>\n

In turn, you’re going to start seeing things more clearly and stop losing your perspective on the littlest things.<\/p>\n

Imparate alcuni trucchi per rimuovere con successo le macchie di sangue.<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

I don’t know about you, but I dal vivo<\/em> for life hacks. And since your doc is kind of an expert on blood (weird to say, right?), you’ll pick up on some really cool hacks.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Come superare la paura di perdere qualcuno che si ama in 7 passi<\/a><\/p>\n

Vi d\u00e0 un senso di orgoglio sapere che fanno la differenza ogni singolo giorno.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ogni volta il vostro partner<\/a> esce di casa, soprattutto durante questa pandemia di COVID-19, si prova un grande orgoglio.<\/p>\n

Anche i controlli di routine sono un grosso problema, per non parlare dell'esecuzione di procedure e operazioni su organi importanti.<\/p>\n

Il fatto che vite umane siano nelle loro mani \u00e8 in una parola: indescrivibile.<\/p>\n

You’ve done online dating and gone through a bunch of silly dating sites, but not until you met loro<\/em> ha capito veramente il significato di orgoglio.<\/p>\n

Finalmente si smette di preoccuparsi delle piccole cose<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Oh yeah. Things that truly aren’t important stop bugging you.<\/p>\n

Persone stupide<\/a>, harsh comments, and all those things that pale in comparison to your partner’s job start feeling so silly.<\/p>\n

It’s going to take a lot to upset you now. And that is one of the coolest things about a doctor being your bae.<\/p>\n

Vedete in prima persona che cos'\u00e8 la vita. E la vostra visione cambia in meglio.<\/p>\n

Il vostro medico conosce ogni parte della vostra anatomia (\u00e8 una cosa che fa parte del territorio!).<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 probabilmente il vostro vantaggio preferito del lavoro, giusto?<\/p>\n

Il vostro medico conosce molto bene l'anatomia maschile e femminile e sappiamo tutti cosa significa.<\/p>\n

I’ll leave your imagination to run wild, but it must be mentioned that medical school can be super<\/em> utile anche per le cose non mediche (si fa per dire).<\/p>\n

Tutti devono seguire un corso di formazione per ginecologi, quindi la loro vasta conoscenza fa parte del territorio. Che vantaggio!<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 18 tipi di amanti: Quale sei?<\/a><\/p>\n

Now, Let’s Look At Some Of The More Challenging Aspects<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

By now you’ve realized that dating a doctor isn’t all that bad, right?<\/p>\n

So this is the perfect time to familiarize yourself with some of the cons that you’ll simply have to deal with. Here’s what you should expect.<\/p>\n

Uscire con un medico significa avere a che fare con orari assurdi e prolungati.<\/h2>\n

\"moglie<\/p>\n

Especially if this is the first time you’re dating a doctor. Be prepared for a lot of unexpectedly long hours, night shifts, and time away.<\/p>\n

They won’t always have enough time to explain it, so you’re just going to have to be okay with it.<\/p>\n

It seems tough, I know, so let’s put it this way. They’re off potentially saving a life. Is anything davvero<\/em> pi\u00f9 importante di questo?<\/p>\n

Eleva l'essere occupati a un livello completamente diverso.<\/h2>\n

\"personale<\/p>\n

If you believed YOUR job was hectic, wait until you start seeing a doctor. You’ll realize that you never really knew the meaning of busy.<\/p>\n

But at the same time, it’s going to put things into perspective as well.<\/p>\n

You’ll start seeing that as much as they want to spend time with you, they are fully dedicated to their job.<\/p>\n

And that is a truly commendable thing. It’s not like they desiderare<\/em> di essere follemente occupati. \u00c8 solo la natura del loro lavoro impegnativo.<\/p>\n

I medici e gli studenti di medicina sono spesso troppo stanchi per funzionare<\/h2>\n

\"medico<\/p>\n

Can you blame them? Seeing your doctor or med student tired will make you wonder if you’re actually tired in the first place.<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto, si lavora dalle nove alle cinque ore in ufficio, per lo pi\u00f9 seduti e con poche interruzioni.<\/p>\n

Se lo si confronta con il loro programma, sembra una passeggiata.<\/p>\n

I am in no way saying that your job isn’t tiring. But compared to what doctors and medical professionals go through daily, it’s a whole other level of tiredness.<\/p>\n

It’s really difficult to plan anything around their schedule<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Gi\u00e0. Una volta sono uscita con un ragazzo che frequentava la facolt\u00e0 di medicina (non era ancora un vero medico) e lasciatemi dire una cosa.<\/p>\n

La quantit\u00e0 di lavoro pratico che svolgono \u00e8 sorprendente. Tentare di pianificare i suoi impegni era quasi impossibile.<\/p>\n

Le lezioni sono lunghe e faticose, per non parlare della quantit\u00e0 di studio che comportano.<\/p>\n

So basically, consider yourself lucky if you plan something and actually manage to go through with it. It’s a rare occasion.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Identificare e comprendere una persona che evita l'amore<\/a><\/p>\n

Lo stress del lavoro pu\u00f2 influire sul loro umore generale<\/h2>\n

\"Medico<\/p>\n

I medici hanno a che fare ogni giorno con molte cose serie. Di tanto in tanto hanno a che fare con la morte, e questo \u00e8 no<\/em> scherzo.<\/p>\n

Riuscite a immaginare di avere un paziente la cui vita dipende dal vostro prossimo passo? E ora, immaginate perdere<\/em> detto paziente?<\/p>\n

You cannot possibly tell me that it wouldn’t mess with your head.<\/p>\n

Date al vostro partner tutta la pazienza e la comprensione del mondo. Sono loro a fare alcune delle cose pi\u00f9 difficili.<\/p>\n

Doctors are known to have to abruptly leave the minute they’re called away<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Don’t be surprised if you’re mid-date and your doctor gets called away. It happens a lot (not just on TV). Nothing trumps medical emergencies.<\/p>\n

La maggior parte dei vostri appuntamenti sar\u00e0 trascorsa davanti alla TV.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

And you’ll most likely be watching reruns of Scrubs, Grey’s Anatomy, and other med shows. You’ll probably LOL at all the stuff they get wrong.<\/p>\n

Plus, your partner will most likely frequently fall asleep mid-show (no judging). It’s what the job does to them.<\/p>\n

Their work is really important and you’ll have to learn to live with that<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Yes, their work trumps your needs. It sucks to say, even more to admit it, but it’s the reality.<\/p>\n

They’ll make an effort to spend quality time with you, but their patients need them too.<\/p>\n

Riuscite a gestire la condivisione dell'altro per la maggior parte dei giorni?<\/p>\n

I medici portano il lavoro a casa (per quanto cerchino di non farlo)<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

It’s not intentional. But having to deal with what they deal with, it’s really not that surprising. They deal with human lives, deaths, and emergencies all day long.<\/p>\n

You have to expect them to bring work home on some days. Talk to them, let them vent. It’ll be easier for your partner and it’ll help you understand their day better.<\/p>\n

You won’t always understand what they’re talking about with their work friends<\/h2>\n

\"gruppo<\/p>\n

Quando si scontrano con amici di lavoro<\/a>, you’ll find yourself baffled at times. But it’s really not that big of a deal.<\/p>\n

Lavorano in un settore specifico e i loro amici di lavoro sono praticamente gli unici che capiscono veramente alcune delle cose che passano. Lasciateli parlare.<\/p>\n

They’ll get it all out of their system when they get home, and be ready to focus on you and your happy life together.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Citazioni d'amore: 200+ esempi per lui e per lei<\/a><\/p>\n

A volte, la mancanza di tempo di qualit\u00e0 insieme vi influenzer\u00e0 mentalmente<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Tutti noi amiamo trascorrere pi\u00f9 tempo possibile con i nostri cari.<\/p>\n

That’s totally normal. But the fact that they don’t have lots of free time will sometimes be a bit much.<\/p>\n

You won’t want to make a big deal, but you’re going to feel a certain type of way. You’ll get moody, annoyed, and upset, even though you understand that it’s not their fault.<\/p>\n

All I can say is that it’s totally okay to lose it sometimes. You’ll miss your person. Just know that they probably miss you just as much!<\/p>\n

Some people might think you’re only dating a doctor for their money<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

There are going to be people out there (maybe even friends and acquaintances) who’ll make really tasteless assumptions.<\/p>\n

There’s this belief that all doctors are loaded. But nobody considers the medical school debt that they’re left with upon graduating.<\/p>\n

So some folks will feel free to assume the money is what drew you to them because you couldn’t possibly actually be in love!<\/p>\n

Nevermind those ignorant individuals. Let them assume. You can’t tell people what to think, but you pu\u00f2<\/em> prendere le distanze da loro.<\/p>\n

I commenti negativi occasionali sul fatto che la vostra relazione \u00e8 destinata a fallire succhiare<\/em><\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

People talk. They shouldn’t, and they really have no place discussing your private life, but trust me, they will.<\/p>\n

Tutti pensano di conoscere la vostra attivit\u00e0 e a volte i commenti negativi sono troppo difficili da gestire.<\/p>\n

As if you don’t already know how stressful dating a doctor can be!<\/p>\n

It’s only doomed if you let it be. So don’t! Let irrelevant people say what they want and focus on who matters:<\/p>\n

Tu e il tuo partner!<\/p>\n

As long as you make an effort every single day to make it work, that’s all that matters. It’s you and them against the world.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, What’s The Verdict?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Uscire con un medico non \u00e8 un compito da poco. Gli orari assurdi, le uscite nel cuore della notte e la stanchezza costante sono inevitabili.<\/p>\n

BUT, when you bring all the positives into the equation, it’s really not that bad. After all, it’s all about effort and understanding.<\/p>\n

If you can make peace with the fact that your partner has a really important job that people’s lives letteralmente<\/em> dipendere, mette tutto in prospettiva.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Se c'\u00e8 amore, rispetto e fiducia, \u00e8 possibile farlo funzionare<\/a> without a shadow of a doubt. Just don’t make them choose, there’s honestly no need for that.<\/p>\n

Ogni singolo momento trascorso insieme sar\u00e0 ancora pi\u00f9 prezioso e per me vale la pena di lottare.<\/p>\n

I medici sono gli eroi non celebrati di oggi e si meritano qualcuno che comprende e accetta pienamente<\/strong> la natura del loro lavoro altruistico e impegnativo.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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