{"id":10195,"date":"2020-03-13T09:56:40","date_gmt":"2020-03-13T09:56:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10195"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:28:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:28:38","slug":"6-segni-di-distruzione-del-ruolo-di-vittima","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-segni-di-distruzione-del-ruolo-di-vittima\/","title":{"rendered":"6 segni che sta giocando a fare la vittima per distruggerti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Il gioco delle vittime \u00e8 un tipo di manipolazione emotiva che gli uomini usano<\/a> per tenerti con s\u00e9, per farti cedere o semplicemente perch\u00e9 credono davvero di essere vittime.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the kind of manipulation we quite often brush off because they really have convincing stories and how could a victim be a manipulator?<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s manipulation, after all, so watch out for these signs and excuses that he might be using on you.<\/p>\n

Ogni sua ex era una stronza<\/h2>\n

\"Foto     <\/p>\n

Ognuna di loro lo ha spezzato, lo ha tradito o gli ha mentito. Non \u00e8 mai stata colpa sua, era solo un ragazzo ingenuo che si era innamorato perdutamente.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s using this to guilt-trip you into staying with him, making you believe that it\u2019s your job to fix him.<\/p>\n

But how can someone have such bad luck to date only bitches? His past relationships all have one thing in common, and it\u2019s not his bad luck. It\u2019s him.<\/p>\n

Lo attaccate sempre<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

No matter what you say, what you do or how you approach him, he always feels like he\u2019s being attacked.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re doing great at work\u2014you\u2019re doing it only so you can leave him, you\u2019re doing it only to show him how much better you are and he is only a stupid boy.<\/p>\n

You try to tell him something that\u2019s been bothering you\u2014you\u2019re only doing it to show him you\u2019re superior; he never meant to hurt you, how could he? After all, he\u2019s the one broken here.<\/p>\n

Scarica su di voi tutti i suoi problemi<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

He uses you as his trash bin. All of the universe has turned against him, he\u2019s doomed.<\/p>\n

If he gets a parking ticket, he\u2019ll say, \u201cA cop gave me a ticket.\u201d It\u2019s impossible for him to take responsibility for his actions<\/a>. It\u2019s NEVER his fault.<\/p>\n

Come ho detto, l'universo lo sta cercando. Su 7 miliardi di persone, deve essere cos\u00ec speciale da essere preso di mira.<\/p>\n

Quindi, naturalmente, ha bisogno di qualcuno con cui sfogarsi, che annuisca mentre racconta la sua triste, piccola, storia di vita.<\/p>\n

In this case, you\u2019re the one he uses for that, without even checking on you, without even thinking how this might affect your mood or state of mind.<\/p>\n

Listening to constant negativity is truly bad for anyone\u2019s health.<\/p>\n

Trasforma piccoli incidenti in discussioni<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier to play the victim if you\u2019re the one being yelled at. His way to get away with stupid, little things is to provoke you so much until you snap, and he gets to play the victim once more (whereas he could simply apologize, but that would mean he has to take responsibility for something he has done).<\/p>\n

Dopo qualche tempo, iniziate a chiedervi se siete voi ad avere problemi di gestione della rabbia e se avete sempre torto.<\/p>\n

Maybe he\u2019s really trying, and you\u2019re simply being a bitch? Honey, take a good look at your relationship. He could just be manipulating you to get away with his screw-ups.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t seem to understand why no one comes to his defense<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Povero piccolo, perch\u00e9 nessuno \u00e8 dalla sua parte? Perch\u00e9 i tuoi amici sono sempre dalla tua parte, ti sostengono sempre, e i suoi no?<\/p>\n

Maybe because they know him a little bit better than you had the chance to, maybe his friends know it\u2019s better to stay out of his \u2018problems\u2019.<\/p>\n

Forse i vostri amici vi amano e vi rispettano cos\u00ec come siete, invece di voltarvi le spalle.<\/p>\n

Cercher\u00e0 di usare questa situazione per farti sentire in colpa per non essere pi\u00f9 dalla sua parte, per sentirti in colpa perch\u00e9 lui non ha nessuno e tu hai tanti amici.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll start devoting all of your time to him until you\u2019re completely tagliati fuori dalla propria vita privata.<\/a><\/p>\n

Non sente MAI il bisogno di scusarsi.<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Because nothing is ever his fault (duh). Until he learns to take responsibility for the things he has done, you\u2019ll never be able to move forward in the relationship.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know about you, but if I don\u2019t get a sincere apology for something that truly upset me, I\u2019m not able to move on after that incident.<\/p>\n

And if you\u2019re constantly going round in circles, with him refusing to apologize and brainwashing you into believing it\u2019s you and not him, how long will it take until you completely lose yourself in his manipulation?<\/p>\n

Quanto tempo gli ci vorr\u00e0 per distruggerti completamente, fino a farti diventare solo un'altra delle sue ex stronze?<\/p>\n

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