{"id":102051,"date":"2020-10-05T13:00:58","date_gmt":"2020-10-05T13:00:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=102051"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:13:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:13:45","slug":"il-mio-mai-piu-felici-e-contenti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-mio-mai-piu-felici-e-contenti\/","title":{"rendered":"Per il mio \"Mai pi\u00f9 felici e contenti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Per anni ho visto noi due come i protagonisti di una favola.<\/strong> Pensavo che quello che avevamo fosse unico e che si potesse sperimentare solo una volta nella vita.<\/p>\n<p>Our love had its ups and downs but this is how every true romance works, isn\u2019t it? You overcome obstacles and you go through different phases.<\/p>\n<p>However, despite the entire roller coaster, if you\u2019re meant to end up together, eventually, you find your way to each other.<\/p>\n<p>Dopo tutto,<strong> il principe e la principessa riescono sempre a sconfiggere la strega cattiva e tutte le altre forze che si oppongono al loro amore.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, la differenza \u00e8 che <strong>we didn\u2019t have anyone casting spells to break us apart.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Non c'erano sorellastre gelose con i loro metodi subdoli, il cui unico obiettivo era quello di interferire tra noi due.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, <strong>sei sempre stato l'unico cattivo della nostra storia.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You see, I had the strength to fight everyone as long as I had you by my side. However, I couldn\u2019t fight against YOU to keep YOU by my side.<\/p>\n<p>Oltre a essere assolutamente impossibile, sarebbe stato anche del tutto inutile.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102054\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-with-a-crown.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa con corona \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-with-a-crown.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-with-a-crown-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-with-a-crown-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-with-a-crown-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-with-a-crown-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>For years, deep down, I was perfectly aware that we\u2019d never been compatible. We never got along properly and our entire <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/ha-smesso-di-impegnarsi-in-una-relazione-che-e-destinata-a-fallire\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">relazione era destinata a fallire<\/a> fin dal primo giorno.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, volevamo cose diverse nella vita. Io volevo te e tu volevi tutte le altre ragazze in circolazione.<\/p>\n<p>Io volevo un futuro tranquillo accanto a te e tu volevi qualcuno che aspettasse pazientemente che tu ti rimettessi in sesto.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I wanted a fairy tale and you turned my life into a nightmare. I wanted you to be my happy ending and now you\u2019ve become my happily never after.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You see, no matter what happens and no matter how much time passes, I\u2019ll never let you back into my life.<\/p>\n<p>Nemmeno se la mia vita dipendesse da questo e nemmeno se tu fossi l'ultimo uomo sulla terra.<\/p>\n<p><strong>La parola mai: l'unica finitudine.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No, I\u2019m not saying this because I\u2019m angry. I\u2019m not saying it because I want to get even and break your heart as well.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not using any reverse psychology techniques here, where you\u2019re supposed to come running back to me as soon you hear that I don\u2019t want you anymore.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102055\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna riflessiva che guarda attraverso la finestra di vetro con le gocce di pioggia\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-young-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-young-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-young-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-young-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-young-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying this because I\u2019m trying to deceive myself. I\u2019m not comforting myself while deep down, I still miss you like hell.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Per la prima volta, queste parole escono dalla mia bocca perch\u00e9 le penso davvero. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I don\u2019t want you back and I\u2019m not giving you access to my life ever again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>E sapete qual \u00e8 la parte migliore? Che io <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/essere-felici-senza-di-lui-e-la-miglior-vendetta\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">essere felice senza di te<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In effetti, questo \u00e8 l'unico modo in cui posso essere veramente felice e soddisfatto.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, pensavo che tu fossi la fonte della mia felicit\u00e0, ma ti sei rivelato la mia pi\u00f9 grande infelicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t believe I\u2019m saying this but I really am relieved that I got rid of you. Relieved for finally leaving you in the past, where you belong.<\/p>\n<p>After all, I\u2019m not the one who lost anything when you left.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-the-waters.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa nelle acque con un panno bagnato che la copre e le tiene i capelli\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-the-waters.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-the-waters-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-the-waters-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-the-waters-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-the-waters-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In realt\u00e0, ho perso un uomo che non mi ha mai trattato bene, un uomo che non \u00e8 mai stato pronto a muovere un dito per il mio bene e un uomo che non mi ha mai amato come io amavo lui.<\/p>\n<p>In realt\u00e0, ho guadagnato molto una volta che ti ho voltato le spalle. Prima di tutto, ho ripreso in mano la mia vita.<\/p>\n<p>You see, a miracle happened; I\u2019m no longer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/cose-la-dipendenza-emotiva-10-modi-per-superarla-con-successo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">emotivamente dipendente<\/a> su di te.<\/p>\n<p>My existence doesn\u2019t revolve around you anymore and you\u2019ve stopped being the center of my world.<\/p>\n<p>Soprattutto, ho recuperato il rispetto e l'amore per me stessa. Dopo tutto questo tempo, ho imparato che devo mettere me stessa al primo posto, indipendentemente da quanto amo l'altra persona.<\/p>\n<p>I learned never to settle for less than I deserve and I learned that I\u2019m worthy of someone\u2019s efforts and undivided attention.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So, I guess our story didn\u2019t have a happy ending after all. However, I don\u2019t care because mine will and that\u2019s all that matters.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Addio, mia amante. Ti auguro davvero il meglio perch\u00e9 mi hai insegnato molto. Stai lontano da me il pi\u00f9 possibile.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For years, I saw the two of us as the main protagonists of a fairy tale. I thought that what we had was unique and something you experience only once in a lifetime. Our love had its ups and downs but this is how every true romance works, isn\u2019t it? 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