{"id":102063,"date":"2020-10-05T13:02:06","date_gmt":"2020-10-05T13:02:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=102063"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:13:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:13:22","slug":"segni-che-sei-la-sua-fidanzata-adottiva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-sei-la-sua-fidanzata-adottiva\/","title":{"rendered":"3 segnali allarmanti del fatto che non sei altro che la sua fidanzata adottiva"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ultimamente sta spuntando il termine \"fidanzata adottiva\". Anche se \u00e8 stato reso popolare dai TikTokers solo di recente, il fenomeno esiste da sempre.<\/p>\n

In pratica, una fidanzata adottiva \u00e8 quella con cui gli uomini escono finch\u00e9 non trovano la loro persona per sempre.<\/p>\n

Quella che i ragazzi usano come trampolino di lancio per la loro destinazione finale: la donna con cui vogliono passare il resto della loro vita.<\/p>\n

So, how can you tell if you\u2019re someone\u2019s foster girlfriend? Just go through these red flags and if most of them are relatable, everything is crystal clear.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re more his parent than his romantic partner<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When you come to think about it, if it weren\u2019t for your intimate moments, someone would characterize you as this guy\u2019s mother more than his girlfriend.<\/p>\n

Per la maggior parte del tempo, si comporta come un monello immaturo<\/a> who doesn\u2019t know what he wants from life.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, you\u2019re the one who takes the lead. The one who takes care of him and raises him.<\/p>\n

You might think this is how a healthy relationship should work. Well, it would be perfect if all of it wasn\u2019t one-sided.<\/p>\n

I hate to be the one to break it to you but you\u2019re just preparing this man for the woman who will come after you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re teaching him everything he needs to know about relationships and life in general.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re teaching him good manners, advising him regarding literally everything and you\u2019re pushing him forward to become the best possible version of himself.<\/p>\n

Yes, you\u2019ll turn a boy into a man. You\u2019ll spend years watering a plant that will eventually bloom.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, the problem is that you won\u2019t reap the fruits of your labor. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Invece, basta fare tutto il lavoro duro e la ragazza che viene dopo di te le avr\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Rifiuta di impegnarsi con voi<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Another sign that you\u2019re your boyfriend\u2019s foster girlfriend lies in his inability to commit.<\/p>\n

Even though you two have been together for ages, he still acts as if your relationship isn\u2019t serious enough.<\/p>\n

Non \u00e8 devoto a voi, n\u00e9 lo \u00e8 si \u00e8 impegnato a fondo<\/a> di qualsiasi tipo nella vostra storia d'amore. Inoltre, si rifiuta di parlare del futuro.<\/p>\n

He makes plans without you and doesn\u2019t include you in his life the way he should. He doesn\u2019t see you two as partners in crime.<\/p>\n

Beh, lasciatemi dire una cosa; you\u2019re not his final destination. Instead, he just sees you as one of the stops along the way.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Please, stop fooling yourself. He is not a commitment-phobe, he just doesn\u2019t want to commit TO YOU.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Actually, this is the entire point. YOU are not the girl he takes seriously, he doesn\u2019t plan his future with YOU and he doesn\u2019t see YOU as his real partner.<\/p>\n

Non \u00e8 emotivamente disponibile<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Quando l'uomo che frequentate e di cui vi prendete cura non vi riserva il trattamento che meritate, invece di vedere la verit\u00e0, trovate delle scuse per lui.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry; almost all women do this.<\/p>\n

Ebbene, una delle giustificazioni pi\u00f9 comuni nella vostra situazione \u00e8 il presunto indisponibilit\u00e0 emotiva<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a smart girl so it didn\u2019t take you long to realize that your guy doesn\u2019t see you as his forever person.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, invece di allontanarvi, avete concluso che ha bisogno di tempo per abbattere i muri intorno al suo cuore.<\/p>\n

You think he does love you but he doesn\u2019t know how to show it the right way.<\/p>\n

Forse \u00e8 stato danneggiato in passato e ora ha paura di aprirsi. Non \u00e8 in grado di amare nessuno nel modo giusto e questo \u00e8 il suo massimo.<\/p>\n

Suona familiare, vero? Ebbene, tutto questo \u00e8 una favola.<\/p>\n

He is not emotionally unavailable. In fact, you\u2019ll see that for yourself once he gives his wholehearted love to her.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

All of a sudden, he\u2019ll become everything you wanted him to be.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t have trouble expressing his true feelings, he\u2019ll be romantic and attentive and will go out of his way for the sake of that relationship.<\/p>\n

Quindi, per favore, toglietevi gli occhiali rosa e smettetela di trovare scuse per qualcosa che \u00e8 destinato a fallire.<\/p>\n

Hey, nobody likes being a foster girlfriend. Let\u2019s be real, this is not something you\u2019ve dreamed about or how you saw your romantic future.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, I\u2019m begging you not to see this as the end of the world. At least, now you know where you stand and you can do something about it.<\/p>\n

Ci\u00f2 che non si deve mai fare in queste circostanze \u00e8 rimproverarsi di essere una fidanzata adottiva.<\/p>\n

This is not your fault and it doesn\u2019t make you any less worthy.<\/p>\n

You two just didn\u2019t click enough. He\u2019s never seen you as \u2018the one\u2019 and your relationship has never been the \u2018real deal\u2019.<\/p>\n

However, trust me when I tell you that he isn\u2019t \u2018the one\u2019 for you either. You\u2019ll understand that once you find your forever person.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Lately, the term \u2018foster girlfriend\u2019 has been popping up. Even though it has been popularized by TikTokers just recently, the phenomenon has existed forever. Basically, a foster girlfriend is one that men date until they find their forever person. The one that guys use as a stepping stone for their final destination; the woman they…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":102086,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-102063","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/3-Alarming-Signs-That-Youre-Nothing-But-His-Foster-Girlfriend.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/102063","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=102063"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/102063\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/102086"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=102063"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=102063"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=102063"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}