{"id":102069,"date":"2020-10-05T13:31:01","date_gmt":"2020-10-05T13:31:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=102069"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:09:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:09:31","slug":"basare-la-propria-vita-sulla-propria-identita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/basare-la-propria-vita-sulla-propria-identita\/","title":{"rendered":"Basate la vostra vita sulla vostra identit\u00e0, perch\u00e9 una relazione pu\u00f2 saltare da un momento all'altro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Most of us make one fatal mistake when we’re in a relationship. Diamo troppo di noi stessi nella nostra relazione e, a un certo punto del percorso, perdiamo completamente la nostra identit\u00e0.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

We let our partner control our whole life because we think that’s the way it should be. We think that’s love. We do it in the name of love.<\/p>\n

Trust me, that has nothing to do with love. It’s actually unhealthy and toxic behavior.<\/strong><\/em> Once that relationship ends, you’ll be crushed and you won’t know how to move on.<\/p>\n

Perdere la propria identit\u00e0 significa perdere se stessi, cosa che non si deve mai fare, per nessuno, per quanto si pensi di amare quella persona.<\/p>\n

Yes, I said \u2018think\u2019 because that’s definitely not true love; it\u2019s infatuation or maybe it’s even lust but it’s never true love.<\/p>\n

A person who asks you to change, one who’s trying to change who you are, is never the right person, is never your soulmate.<\/p>\n

True love from the right person will never ask you to change. It’ll accept you just the way you are. Quella persona si innamorer\u00e0 di tutti i pezzi di voi.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

They’ll fall in love with your good sides as much as with your flaws and imperfections. They’ll honestly love you for who you are.<\/em><\/p>\n

Non si pu\u00f2 mai essere sicuri di quando la propria relazione finir\u00e0 o se \u00e8 davvero destinata a durare per sempre.<\/strong><\/em> Si pu\u00f2 amare qualcuno con ogni parte del proprio essere e tuttavia perdere quella persona.<\/p>\n

I do believe that we all have that one person who is meant for us, our soulmate, but still, I really don’t believe that you’ll immediately know they’re the one when you meet them.<\/p>\n

Don’t think that I’m writing all of this just like that, as I’m writing this from my own experience. I lost my identity once in a relationship and I was very damaged once it ended.<\/p>\n

I gave my all to a man who decided to leave me as if we never even existed, as if our love was never real. I really thought that I\u2019d spend my life with that person and it took me a long time to realize that it was all over.<\/p>\n

Mi ci \u00e8 voluto molto, molto tempo per accettare il fatto che dovevo andare avanti e continuare a vivere senza di lui, da sola.<\/p>\n

Ed ero davvero sola perch\u00e9 anche i miei amici mi avevano lasciato molto prima, quando avevano capito quanto ero cambiata in quella relazione.<\/p>\n

Ero una persona completamente diversa e avevano tutto il diritto di smettere di frequentarmi.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Yes, accepting all of that was very difficult but the worst part was recovering. I didn’t want to go back to the person I was before and I didn’t like the person who I became because of my ex.<\/p>\n

Ho capito che dovevo cambiare ancora una volta. Dovevo lavorare per realizzare il mio valore e migliorare la mia autostima.<\/p>\n

That’s when I promised myself that I\u2019d never again allow anyone to change me and that I\u2019d never change for another person ever again, no matter how much I loved or cared for them.<\/p>\n

Le priorit\u00e0 devono sempre essere conosciute e la vostra priorit\u00e0 principale deve essere sempre voi stessi, altrimenti permetterete a un'altra persona di ferirvi e di spezzarvi il cuore.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente \u00e8 necessario scendere a compromessi con il partner, ma \u00e8 necessario che ci siano dei limiti. Ci sono cose su cui non si dovrebbe mai scendere a compromessi e i vostri valori e ideali, ad esempio, sono due di queste.<\/p>\n

Dovete rimanere fedeli a voi stessi, qualunque cosa accada.<\/strong><\/em> Don’t allow anyone to affect your thinking or your perspectives on life.<\/p>\n

Don’t think that you should change yourself to get someone to like you and never think that you’re unworthy of love or that you aren’t good enough for someone. Because you are and you must always be aware of that.<\/p>\n

Never be a meek mouse and always let your voice be heard loud. Never lose yourself for anyone else because your identity is what makes you different from all the others. It’s a gift that makes you unique, so don’t discard it.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Most of us make one fatal mistake when we’re in a relationship. We give too much of ourself in our relationship and somewhere along the way, we totally lose our identity. We let our partner control our whole life because we think that’s the way it should be. We think that’s love. We do it…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":102071,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-102069","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Base-Your-Life-On-Your-Own-Identity-As-A-Relationship-Can-Blow-Up-Any-Minute.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/102069","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=102069"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/102069\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/102071"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=102069"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=102069"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=102069"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}