{"id":102741,"date":"2020-10-08T17:10:14","date_gmt":"2020-10-08T17:10:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=102741"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:54:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:54:47","slug":"errori-delle-persone-quando-si-rendono-conto-che-la-relazione-e-sbagliata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/errori-delle-persone-quando-si-rendono-conto-che-la-relazione-e-sbagliata\/","title":{"rendered":"8 errori che le persone fanno quando si rendono conto che la loro relazione \u00e8 sbagliata, invece di chiuderla e basta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tutti noi dovremmo essere consapevoli del fatto che <em><strong>Non tutte le relazioni sono destinate a durare per sempre<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you&#8217;ll realize that your relationship isn&#8217;t going the way you wanted it to and the only thing to do, <em>l'unica scelta ragionevole per voi<\/em>sarebbe quello di porre subito fine alla situazione.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, that might hurt your partner but trust me, if you drag it out some more and pretend that everything&#8217;s okay, you&#8217;ll hurt them even more.<\/p>\n<p><em>Here are some things, some very wrong things, that people do when they realize that their relationship isn&#8217;t the real deal.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>L'unica cosa che ottengono in questo modo \u00e8 ferire profondamente il partner.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Iniziano a evitare il partner<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102743\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/indifferent-couple-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"coppia indifferente seduta sul divano lontana l&#039;una dall&#039;altra in silenzio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/indifferent-couple-sitting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/indifferent-couple-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/indifferent-couple-sitting-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/indifferent-couple-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/indifferent-couple-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They don&#8217;t want to open up to their partner and speak directly about their problems, so they don&#8217;t know how to behave around them.<\/p>\n<p>Pensano che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-sorprendenti-motivi-per-cui-vi-sta-evitando\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">evitare il proprio partner<\/a> \u00e8 la loro unica scelta.<\/p>\n<p>They want to seem distant to their partner as they think that is going to make them break up with them first and that they&#8217;ll be less hurt.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s so wrong. <em><strong>Una comunicazione onesta \u00e8 sempre la scelta migliore per chiunque.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il gioco delle colpe \u00e8 in corso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102744\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-arguing-and-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che discute e si siede sul divano in salotto \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-arguing-and-sitting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-arguing-and-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-arguing-and-sitting-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-arguing-and-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-arguing-and-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Iniziano un gioco di colpevolizzazione con il partner e, in qualche modo, vincono sempre. Ad ogni disaccordo o problema nella loro relazione, iniziano a incolpare il partner.<\/p>\n<p>They never want to admit when they have made a mistake or seek their partner&#8217;s forgiveness; instead, they always want them to apologize first.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vogliono solo mettere l'altro sotto pressione e lasciargli un'unica opzione, ovvero quella di lasciarlo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">They tell other people they\u2019re single<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102745\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/business-man-and-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna d&#039;affari che parlano all&#039;interno dell&#039;ufficio seduti sulla sedia con angolazione dall&#039;alto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/business-man-and-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/business-man-and-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/business-man-and-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/business-man-and-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/business-man-and-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They start behaving like they&#8217;re single and they tell their friends and family that they&#8217;re no longer in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>They probably think that it\u2019s going to be less painful for their partner to find it out from other people but the fact is, it&#8217;s going to hurt them even more.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Creano continuamente drammi inutili<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102746\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-having-problems.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia che ha problemi a litigare in camera da letto mentre \u00e8 seduta sul letto con testiera nera \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-having-problems.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-having-problems-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-having-problems-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-having-problems-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-having-problems-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;ll start arguing with their partner over some stupid little things.<\/p>\n<p>Their partner won&#8217;t be able to please them anymore and no matter what they do or say, it won&#8217;t be good enough for their other half, who\u2019s using these sneaky ways to put an end to their romantic relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Con tutti questi drammi inutili, vogliono solo creare un ambiente emotivo tossico e far s\u00ec che le loro persone significative mettano fine alla loro relazione.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Far ingelosire il partner \u00e8 il loro compito principale.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102747\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/young-woman-jealous.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna gelosa del suo partner che si sdraia e nasconde il suo telefono sorridendo \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/young-woman-jealous.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/young-woman-jealous-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/young-woman-jealous-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/young-woman-jealous-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/young-woman-jealous-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If they\u2019ve been in a relationship for some time, then they know their partner and the things that bother them the most.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>If their partner has always been a little bit jealous, that&#8217;s the first thing they&#8217;ll use.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;ll <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/gli-uomini-fanno-di-tutto-per-far-ingelosire-le-donne\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">cercare di farli ingelosire<\/a> first with some small things, like hiding their phone or going out every night but then if that doesn&#8217;t work, they&#8217;ll start flirting with other people in front of them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Hanno interrotto la comunicazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102749\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/silent-couple-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"coppia silenziosa seduta sul letto con l&#039;uomo mezzo nudo che guarda il suo gadget\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/silent-couple-sitting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/silent-couple-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/silent-couple-sitting-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/silent-couple-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/silent-couple-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;ll start avoiding them as much as they can. They&#8217;ll start canceling plans or stop going to the places where they go.<\/p>\n<p>But the thing that&#8217;s going to bother their partner the most is that they&#8217;ll try to cut off all communication they had.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ll stop replying to their calls and messages, even though they&#8217;ll be active on their social media, and we all know that can make us all crazy.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00c8 coinvolto qualsiasi tipo di abuso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102750\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/violent-husbands-fist.jpg\" alt=\"la sagoma del pugno del marito violento e una donna in lacrime seduta sul pavimento\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/violent-husbands-fist.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/violent-husbands-fist-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/violent-husbands-fist-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/violent-husbands-fist-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/violent-husbands-fist-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 il peggiore. Come pu\u00f2 essere pi\u00f9 facile abusare di qualcuno emotivamente o in qualsiasi altro modo che parlargli e dirgli direttamente che si vuole rompere?<\/p>\n<p>If you ever even cared for that person, you won&#8217;t allow them to go through that.<\/p>\n<p>Sopravviveranno alla rottura e ne guariranno prima o poi, ma la <em><strong>L'abuso emotivo lascer\u00e0 conseguenze sul loro cuore e sulla loro mente per il resto della loro vita.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cominciano a vedere altre persone<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102751\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-husbands-phone.jpg\" alt=\"Il telefono del marito traditore chiamato dalla moglie e un&#039;amante che fanno l&#039;amore a letto in una foto ritagliata\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-husbands-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-husbands-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-husbands-phone-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-husbands-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-husbands-phone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Break up with your other half, leave them via a message or any other way you can but don&#8217;t ever cheat on them and start seeing other people while you&#8217;re still in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s easier to be direct with someone even though it&#8217;s going to hurt them than to live with knowing that you broke someone&#8217;s heart just because you weren&#8217;t man enough to tell them the truth.<\/p>\n<p>Quando si tratta di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/si-sta-allontanando-o-sta-rompendo-con-te\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">rottura con<\/a> Se non si vuole lasciare qualcuno, soprattutto se si sa che quella persona ci ama ancora, non ci sono bugie bianche o modi facili per lasciarlo.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s only one way; to be honest with them and tell them how you really feel and that the best thing for both of you would be ending your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, someone will be hurt but that&#8217;s the only way neither one of you will be left with a broken heart.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all should be aware of the fact that not all relationships are meant to last forever. Sometimes you&#8217;ll realize that your relationship isn&#8217;t going the way you wanted it to and the only thing to do, the only reasonable choice for you, would be to end it right away. Yes, that might hurt your&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":102752,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-102741","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/8-Mistakes-People-Make-When-They-Realize-Their-Relationship-Is-Wrong-Instead-Of-Just-Ending-It.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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